FabSwingers.com forum: Rant: Why can't people read my profile?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm quite clear on my profile that if your profile says straight then don't message me...

Yet my delete and block list is quite long...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm quite clear on my profile that if your profile says straight then don't message me...

Yet my delete and block list is quite long...

Because unfortunately a lot of guys on here don't bother reading profiles and just send a copy and pasted message to any female within a 50 mile radius. And yes, that makes every others guys attempts that little bit harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm quite clear on my profile that if your profile says straight then don't message me...

Yet my delete and block list is quite long...

Same for us. Wish admin would put full bi filters in place to stop straight guys pestering us.

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By *ebsCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Orpington/london

"I'm quite clear on my profile that if your profile says straight then don't message me...

Yet my delete and block list is quite long...

Not just guys, couples do it as well.

Just block and move on.

They're wasting their own time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very few read them

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Same for us. Wish admin would put full bi filters in place to stop straight guys pestering us.

I would kill for that.

Also some sort of feature that shows you if they changed their sexuality from straight to bi 5 mins before messaging you...

"I'm bi, but never been with a guy"... don't waste my bloody time

(can't you tell I'm in a fowl mood?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get straight guys texting regularly can be a pain but guess it's flattering lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for us. Wish admin would put full bi filters in place to stop straight guys pestering us.

I would kill for that.

Also some sort of feature that shows you if they changed their sexuality from straight to bi 5 mins before messaging you...

"I'm bi, but never been with a guy"... don't waste my bloody time

(can't you tell I'm in a fowl mood?

Please don't leave the house today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so, are you not after straight men at all, even as part of a couple?

why would the male half of a couple need to be bi if they are meeting a single bi female?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Same for us. Wish admin would put full bi filters in place to stop straight guys pestering us.

I would kill for that.

Also some sort of feature that shows you if they changed their sexuality from straight to bi 5 mins before messaging you...

"I'm bi, but never been with a guy"... don't waste my bloody time

(can't you tell I'm in a fowl mood?

please yes a bi filter

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

can't you tell I'm in a fowl mood? "

Then go and have some

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Reported 2 today for abuse

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

They can read profiles but just don't want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so, are you not after straight men at all, even as part of a couple?

why would the male half of a couple need to be bi if they are meeting a single bi female?"

excuse me, miss (waves hand in the air, to ask a question)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"so, are you not after straight men at all, even as part of a couple?

why would the male half of a couple need to be bi if they are meeting a single bi female?

excuse me, miss (waves hand in the air, to ask a question)"

I like bi guys so i want bi guys... I don't meet halfs of couples.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

"I'm quite clear on my profile that if your profile says straight then don't message me...

Yet my delete and block list is quite long...

It is very frustrating we just keep blocking them.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

"I'm quite clear on my profile that if your profile says straight then don't message me...

Yet my delete and block list is quite long...

Same for us. Wish admin would put full bi filters in place to stop straight guys pestering us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so, are you not after straight men at all, even as part of a couple?

why would the male half of a couple need to be bi if they are meeting a single bi female?"

She wants bi guys because she has a bi FB who she would like to call to join in for fun on occasions. Not going to happen with a straight guy.

I read the profile.

But then why not invite said friend to join you here as a couple? You might enjoy more success.

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By *ingjayMan
over a year ago

exeter

"so, are you not after straight men at all, even as part of a couple?

why would the male half of a couple need to be bi if they are meeting a single bi female?

She wants bi guys because she has a bi FB who she would like to call to join in for fun on occasions. Not going to happen with a straight guy.

It is that whole thing of I'm a single female ..... But I have a friend you have to play with ,I haven't read the profile, but if a guy is messaging a single female to meet a single female what difference would it make if he was bi or not....

I read the profile.

But then why not invite said friend to join you here as a couple? You might enjoy more success.

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By *ingjayMan
over a year ago

exeter

"so, are you not after straight men at all, even as part of a couple?

why would the male half of a couple need to be bi if they are meeting a single bi female?

She wants bi guys because she has a bi FB who she would like to call to join in for fun on occasions. Not going to happen with a straight guy.

I read the profile.

But then why not invite said friend to join you here as a couple? You might enjoy more success.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because when a guys cock takes control the brain shuts down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first thing I learnt on here was that if you don't pay attention and read the profile, your wasting your own time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so, are you not after straight men at all, even as part of a couple?

why would the male half of a couple need to be bi if they are meeting a single bi female?

She wants bi guys because she has a bi FB who she would like to call to join in for fun on occasions. Not going to happen with a straight guy.

I read the profile.

But then why not invite said friend to join you here as a couple? You might enjoy more success.

well, you see, i read the same profile as you, and took it the same way, however, i cant understand why, if its a single woman, why she would stipulate that the male that is interested in her has to be bi, when it probably wouldnt make a difference to the way he would play with her, if that makes sense

and if the OP is only interested in meeting with her bi FB, then surely, its a couples profile and should be as such, not trading as a single to get meets then insist on this phantom partner joining in.

i wasnt asking if OP would meet half a couple, i was asking if the male half of a couple interested in meeting her, as a single female, would have to be bi.

(last bit aimed back at the OP, not you CL)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for us!! Yet because people dont read our profile we get called timewasters!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because when a guys cock takes control the brain shuts down

Funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never message anyone, or even wink at them, without reading their profile first. We all have preferences, and they should be respected.

Ignoring a profile is a bit like randomly shouting amidst a crowd of people "who will have sex with me?". That's not something I've ever tried, so I can't categorically say it wouldn't work, but I think there are smarter ways of attracting the right people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same for us!! Yet because people dont read our profile we get called timewasters!!!

your not asking for bi men instead of straight are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would never message anyone, or even wink at them, without reading their profile first. We all have preferences, and they should be respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same for us!! Yet because people dont read our profile we get called timewasters!!!

your not asking for bi men instead of straight are you?"
no but we do have very specific want on ours, i just share the frustration of the op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had some classics over the last few days ~ I just delete & move on whilst trying to maintain a 'it is what it is' attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so, are you not after straight men at all, even as part of a couple?

why would the male half of a couple need to be bi if they are meeting a single bi female?

She wants bi guys because she has a bi FB who she would like to call to join in for fun on occasions. Not going to happen with a straight guy.

I read the profile.

But then why not invite said friend to join you here as a couple? You might enjoy more success.

i wasnt asking if OP would meet half a couple, i was asking if the male half of a couple interested in meeting her, as a single female, would have to be bi.

(last bit aimed back at the OP, not you CL)"

It wouldn't make any difference whether he's straight or not. Unless sex with a dildo was the desire.

I'm thinking about this too much!

Maybe that's what the OP meant by "kinky." I think a little more detail about what you want is required, OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had some classics over the last few days ~ I just delete & move on whilst trying to maintain a 'it is what it is' attitude."

we should post some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm quite clear on my profile that if your profile says straight then don't message me...

Yet my delete and block list is quite long...

As a single female profile what difference does it make if single men who contact you are bi? is is it because you are really a couple??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't really make it clear in the post but if your reason for meeting men that must be bi is so that your male bi friend can join in then in my _iew you should have a couples profile with him. Just a bugbear of ours when you see profiles, mainly women, who add near the end, I also have a FB who may/will join in.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Most of us get messages from those that either haven't read the profile or from those who don't match our preferences. No point in letting it get to you...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I only put that i have a bi fb on there for any bi guy who my be tempted in a 3 sum. Its not mandatory that it happens or indeed as some assume because we are a couple.

Why do i want a bi guy? Simple i find them more confident, relaxed etc... They have less inhebitions and are willing to try a lot more fun things. Its my preffrence at the end of the day and I am going to stick with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You don't really make it clear in the post but if your reason for meeting men that must be bi is so that your male bi friend can join in then in my _iew you should have a couples profile with him. Just a bugbear of ours when you see profiles, mainly women, who add near the end, I also have a FB who may/will join in."

nope it becaues I perfer them... if in the future a guy wants a 3 sum then I can help it happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will have to see what he looks like, some calibre essential..

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Blind from wanking

Truth in old wives tales after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only put that i have a bi fb on there for any bi guy who my be tempted in a 3 sum. Its not mandatory that it happens or indeed as some assume because we are a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes its hard work on here. i put my likes and dislikes on here, but still i get people saying. Do you do bareback, anal, dp, what time etc etc. zzzz yawn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lots more today.... and 1 reported for abusive messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't like getting unsuitable mail, delete everything on your 'looking for' list and look for suitable people yourself. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people must have a 'god' complex - as if to say 'why wouldn't you want me?'.

How would they like it if - they ordered steak in a restaurant and got brought a burger?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#getoverit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It always saddens me that straight single guys get battered in the forums. But simply, it cuts all ways. My profile states I'm strictly women only - no guys, TV/TS or couples but the only 'looked at you....' Are - yep all of those!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It always saddens me that straight single guys get battered in the forums. But simply, it cuts all ways. My profile states I'm strictly women only - no guys, TV/TS or couples but the only 'looked at you....' Are - yep all of those! "

They don't know that you're only looking for women until they look at your profile.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if you have them blocked, they don't appear

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if you have them blocked, they don't appear"

so that will leave the couples TV's, not sure if blocking TV's will strip them off your looked at me list... it does guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't know that you're only looking for women until they look at your profile."

It's clearly written on my status.

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over a year ago

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am surprised that you are surprised they don't....

or they do but ignore all or some of it...

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

Nobody reads a profile on here, they just look at the pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would never message anyone, or even wink at them, without reading their profile first. We all have preferences, and they should be respected.

Same here. I always read before I instigate anything whatsoever.

Next time I'm in a crowd, I may start laughing to myself as I recall your post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get men attatching pics of their nobs ob a daily basis saying hi fancy this ???

And i'm gay!!!!

I have male mates on here so refuse to filter men out altogether.

Just stop replying to ones who do not read. Laugh, shrugg it off and move on x

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By *0hnnyBrav0Man
over a year ago

Great Wyrley

"I'm quite clear on my profile that if your profile says straight then don't message me...

Yet my delete and block list is quite long...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm quite clear on my profile that if your profile says straight then don't message me...

Yet my delete and block list is quite long...

Everyone gets messages they don't want. Everyone!

Moaning about it on the forum has never changed anything and never will.

Keep calm and press delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because when a guys cock takes control the brain shuts down

Speak for yourself.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Is it in Urdu?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm quite clear on my profile that if your profile says straight then don't message me...

Yet my delete and block list is quite long...

Everyone gets messages they don't want. Everyone!

Moaning about it on the forum has never changed anything and never will.

Keep calm and press delete. "

nice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Gotta love some of the messages I've had being told to 'get over myself' and 'was just teasing you I would't have tuned up anyway' Just as a responce to this thead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get bi or bi-curious looking at me, they dont message as my status says I'm straight. Doubt they read it either. no biggie

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