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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I never knew how many people where bi until I joined fab

I have gay friends in the real world and a few girls from school days experimented but never have I had a male friend who is bi or bi curious , only straight or gay

Really was a surprise to see so many seems like almost all men on here are !!

Is it just me or has anyone else found this too ?

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By *NLOSMan
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

Even on dating sites like ok Cupid almost everyone is down as bi. I think it just lost it's stigma and people don't mind admitting they like a bit if both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But if they admit it to mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You probably did have a few male friends that were bi however they are unlikely to say. The stigma still hasn't gone away considering how straight profiles send messages to bi/trans.

A lot won't admit to being so as it might reduce their chances with females or couples. Best to be honest not just to others but with yourself if you ask me but then again I've moved pass that stage a long time ago lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You probably did have a few male friends that were bi however they are unlikely to say. The stigma still hasn't gone away considering how straight profiles send messages to bi/trans.

A lot won't admit to being so as it might reduce their chances with females or couples. Best to be honest not just to others but with yourself if you ask me but then again I've moved pass that stage a long time ago lol"

I find being yourself is the most attractive thing ever !!

But yes I thibk you are right they are not honest with themselves and other reasons too

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

A "straight" guy messaged us last night. But when we checked his veri's they were all sexual encounters with men. When we pointed this out to him we got instant abuse as if we were in the wrong.

As has been said many times, honesty goes a long way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't beat a bi guy. Nothing more horny then watching two men together.

In past had a guy who I reckon is secretly bi - we had 3sums and he'd be touching cock and both cocks touching while I suck them both off.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"Can't beat a bi guy. Nothing more horny then watching two men together.

In past had a guy who I reckon is secretly bi - we had 3sums and he'd be touching cock and both cocks touching while I suck them both off. "

He was curious to say the least

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By *essysteveCouple
over a year ago

ALICANTE AREA SPAIN

We are both bi and we are amazed at how many straight guys want to meet us (as they then admit to being bi) but are to shy to put it on to their profiles. For goodness sake this is a site for sexually liberated people and if they cannot be honest on here what else may they be hiding .....

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"We are both bi and we are amazed at how many straight guys want to meet us (as they then admit to being bi) but are to shy to put it on to their profiles. For goodness sake this is a site for sexually liberated people and if they cannot be honest on here what else may they be hiding ....."

Lol don't get duped into looking in their closet, there may Skeletons in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you over-estimate how liberated it is because it really isn't, you only have to read through some of the vitriol and judgemental comments on here to see that . 95%of female profiles say bi, 95% of mens profiles say straight. It's basically a pressure to conform as those stats are nonsense unless there is some genetic kink that only applies in the swinging world. I have no issue with someone saying straight when actually they're happy to suck cock. We all know a dead straight guy is not very likely to entertain a bi male in a threesome.

It's still quite a mysogynisti environment, males love to see their wives with women but seldom happy the other way around.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hate seeing on profiles women wanting to put on a show for their men

That's awful in my opinion should be doing it to enjoy it !!

Men don't put shows on for women of course lots of men are straight but amazed how many say they do actually suck men off on here well that's not straight in my opinion

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