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By *litterbabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I think most people in here are looking to actually meet not just message so why do people send messages who are so far away?

Just in the last hour I have had Wales to Scotland, if I was looking for a meet I would be looking locally.... Can anyone explain to me.

It is in my profile where I am ( north Herts), I know they are rarely read but it does confuse me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not an isolated thing, we regularly get random winks, friend invites and messages from people 100's of miles away. We're happy to travel yes, but there's limits.

No problem meeting halfway etc or if we're in the area anyway or we're very interested in the person/s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because some people don't mind traveling, I've had men travel from as far as Newcastle and Plymouth to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We travel for clubs, and parties.

In fact lots do.. especially if your from wales.. place is shite for meets/clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes you think they want to meet? They might just want to chat and have a wank about the thought of it.

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By *litterbabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Fair enough, I didn't realise people travelled that far. I would not like someone to travel that far to see me as I always like a social first and would feel pressure for more I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to travel, next weekend we are going 130 miles for the Sussex Social, wake a weekend of it and if we meet people along the way it's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes you think they want to meet? They might just want to chat and have a wank about the thought of it."

Like us you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes you think they want to meet? They might just want to chat and have a wank about the thought of it.

Like us you mean? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair enough, I didn't realise people travelled that far. I would not like someone to travel that far to see me as I always like a social first and would feel pressure for more I think."

I prefer to meet local guys as I have in the past felt obligated to play with guys because they have travelled a long way, but if they really insist then its upto them if they want to travel a long way to meet me, I always make it 100% clear though nothing is guaranteed so they could be driving 2 hours just for a drink, then its upto them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hand on heart. And i'm just going to say it Everyone that i fancy the pants off and who i'd love to get my lips on are too far from me (don't know if they realised that i do). No one from London or close by has tickled my fancy and done things to me like those who are up North, in the Midlands or elsewhere.

But, i have to be realistic - no matter how genuine i may be; they'd all think i'm having a laugh.

So, i'm used to a lack of meets now. I'm looking for quality and that's where i think it is for me. Can't do anything about that...but, once i get rid of this illness. I need to have some fun and i'm going on the pull!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do "wink" at profile that may be miles away...just to say "nice profile"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do "wink" at profile that may be miles away...just to say "nice profile"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"because some people don't mind traveling, I've had men travel from as far as Newcastle and Plymouth to meet me "

Some guys say they're willing to travel to me so I say sure, let me know when you're on your way, and I never hear from them again. Seems a bit pointless to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really enjoy travelling for meets. For me it's all part of the fun and excitement. I wouldn't often go as far as Newcastle or Plymouth but having said that I wouldn't rule it out in all cases. As I live in London but regularly spend time in Norfolk and work in Thames Valley area, these places are always options but so are places like Birmingham and Portsmouth for example. Not too far for me.

If I'm the one travelling and I'm happy to do so there's no reason why I shouldn't. Getting replies is hard enough for single guys let alone meeting people and narrowing your criteria right down.

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By *ittlewinkerMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

it would be nice to get a meet, not many women like chatting in my freezer lorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do travel with my job too, but I am aware that "I'm in your area" messages are frowned upon so avoid using it

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By *ittlewinkerMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

i know what you mean, when used to be on paltalk, everyone in the uk rooms used to meet up in blackpool and it was great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot infact most of our friends and meets have been long distance so some people don't mind travelling if no one locally tickles there fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do travel with my job too, but I am aware that "I'm in your area" messages are frowned upon so avoid using it "

I actually prefer to meet guys working in my area, its handy as I don't accommodate so they have a room, plus if we meet and don't get along I don't feel like its a waste of room as they would be in it anyway

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By *ittlewinkerMan
over a year ago

Llandudno


"I do travel with my job too, but I am aware that "I'm in your area" messages are frowned upon so avoid using it

I actually prefer to meet guys working in my area, its handy as I don't accommodate so they have a room, plus if we meet and don't get along I don't feel like its a waste of room as they would be in it anyway

"

i'll have to msg you then when i'm delivering in your area hun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hand on heart. And i'm just going to say it Everyone that i fancy the pants off and who i'd love to get my lips on are too far from me (don't know if they realised that i do). No one from London or close by has tickled my fancy and done things to me like those who are up North, in the Midlands or elsewhere.

But, i have to be realistic - no matter how genuine i may be; they'd all think i'm having a laugh.

So, i'm used to a lack of meets now. I'm looking for quality and that's where i think it is for me. Can't do anything about that...but, once i get rid of this illness. I need to have some fun and i'm going on the pull!

"

like your thoughts Popeye, can I be your wingman lol?

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

lov to meet local couples..but we are moored lol,, connie x

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

Our profile says Moffat as we need to put somewhere and we have our main home there.but work takes us all over UK.we are currently in Cornwall.Wednesday we will be in Warrington.so maybe you are only assuming they are miles away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hand on heart. And i'm just going to say it Everyone that i fancy the pants off and who i'd love to get my lips on are too far from me (don't know if they realised that i do). No one from London or close by has tickled my fancy and done things to me like those who are up North, in the Midlands or elsewhere.

But, i have to be realistic - no matter how genuine i may be; they'd all think i'm having a laugh.

So, i'm used to a lack of meets now. I'm looking for quality and that's where i think it is for me. Can't do anything about that...but, once i get rid of this illness. I need to have some fun and i'm going on the pull!

like your thoughts Popeye, can I be your wingman lol?"

If you're suited and booted like that. You're going to be doing the pulling lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hand on heart. And i'm just going to say it Everyone that i fancy the pants off and who i'd love to get my lips on are too far from me (don't know if they realised that i do). No one from London or close by has tickled my fancy and done things to me like those who are up North, in the Midlands or elsewhere.

But, i have to be realistic - no matter how genuine i may be; they'd all think i'm having a laugh.

So, i'm used to a lack of meets now. I'm looking for quality and that's where i think it is for me. Can't do anything about that...but, once i get rid of this illness. I need to have some fun and i'm going on the pull!

like your thoughts Popeye, can I be your wingman lol?

If you're suited and booted like that. You're going to be doing the pulling lol

"

haha, we can try buddy, we can try!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hand on heart. And i'm just going to say it Everyone that i fancy the pants off and who i'd love to get my lips on are too far from me (don't know if they realised that i do). No one from London or close by has tickled my fancy and done things to me like those who are up North, in the Midlands or elsewhere.

But, i have to be realistic - no matter how genuine i may be; they'd all think i'm having a laugh.

So, i'm used to a lack of meets now. I'm looking for quality and that's where i think it is for me. Can't do anything about that...but, once i get rid of this illness. I need to have some fun and i'm going on the pull!

like your thoughts Popeye, can I be your wingman lol?

If you're suited and booted like that. You're going to be doing the pulling lol

haha, we can try buddy, we can try!"

Let's do this. We can be the antibiotic duo lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hand on heart. And i'm just going to say it Everyone that i fancy the pants off and who i'd love to get my lips on are too far from me (don't know if they realised that i do). No one from London or close by has tickled my fancy and done things to me like those who are up North, in the Midlands or elsewhere.

But, i have to be realistic - no matter how genuine i may be; they'd all think i'm having a laugh.

So, i'm used to a lack of meets now. I'm looking for quality and that's where i think it is for me. Can't do anything about that...but, once i get rid of this illness. I need to have some fun and i'm going on the pull!

like your thoughts Popeye, can I be your wingman lol?

If you're suited and booted like that. You're going to be doing the pulling lol

haha, we can try buddy, we can try!

Let's do this. We can be the antibiotic duo lol

"

Think the Symbiotic Duo has a better sound to it, where shall we strike first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hand on heart. And i'm just going to say it Everyone that i fancy the pants off and who i'd love to get my lips on are too far from me (don't know if they realised that i do). No one from London or close by has tickled my fancy and done things to me like those who are up North, in the Midlands or elsewhere.

But, i have to be realistic - no matter how genuine i may be; they'd all think i'm having a laugh.

So, i'm used to a lack of meets now. I'm looking for quality and that's where i think it is for me. Can't do anything about that...but, once i get rid of this illness. I need to have some fun and i'm going on the pull!

like your thoughts Popeye, can I be your wingman lol?"

Manchester and liverpool are fabtastic

;-)

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Several months ago I wrote in the forums how surprised I was that people would make a round trip of hundreds of miles "for a shag", as I put it.

Well I've since done a 180° turn on those thoughts. If weeks of communication, including verbal, has taken place before the journey then you should pretty much know what you're letting yourself in for.

Still wouldn't travel a great distance for less than a two night stay though

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Several months ago I wrote in the forums how surprised I was that people would make a round trip of hundreds of miles "for a shag", as I put it.

Well I've since done a 180° turn on those thoughts. If weeks of communication, including verbal, has taken place before the journey then you should pretty much know what you're letting yourself in for.

Still wouldn't travel a great distance for less than a two night stay though "
Yes. I wouldn't see distance as a barrier to meeting. It's easy for me to make it a weekend away in London or Manchester. I do understand though people who have kids getting messages looking to meet from someone who do not travel. That's where reading the full profile comes in handy. J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We live in Ireland and have met people in the uk ,

How's that for long distance.???

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"We live in Ireland and have met people in the uk ,

How's that for long distance.??? "
God bless Ryanair eh? J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not the plane ride that's the problem...its all the security at the airport that takes time...taking your shoes off 50 times is no fun

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I sometimes have to stay kings Lynn way to drop off my daughter for her contact with ex, usually a night or two. V boring alone, u guys saying I couldn't sort a meet in those circumstances?

Also I prefer not to meet too local as it's a very small town where everyone knows everyone n I have relatives here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair enough, I didn't realise people travelled that far. I would not like someone to travel that far to see me as I always like a social first and would feel pressure for more I think."

Same here as I was chatting to a guy in Scotland, when he said he would come down and meet me whilst he was off for a week, I reminded him that it was a social therefore 12 hrs out of his day for a coffee, needless to say, the 10 hrs on the road changed his mind

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we get loads of messages and winks from people in Scotland, Wales, Ireland, northern England and America, we just take it as a compliment and chat a bit. Everyone uses the site differently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes msg when in that area as I travel with work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this all the time, that they have read my profile??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most people in here are looking to actually meet not just message so why do people send messages who are so far away?

Just in the last hour I have had Wales to Scotland, if I was looking for a meet I would be looking locally.... Can anyone explain to me.

It is in my profile where I am ( north Herts), I know they are rarely read but it does confuse me."

I met someone off here we spoke got on well and we became good friends im from leeds she was in southend I drove a 500 mile round trip in a day to meet her and seen her after that too so I don't really see distance a issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my singles profile I have a 30 mile radius and still get messages from afar even America.

As for long distance meets thats how I met the lovely Jet 250 miles between us. It's hard sometimes but it works for us. If I am going to just have the one night with him and others I will meet him in West Brom, any more than one night then I will go to Liverpool or he will come to Essex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most people in here are looking to actually meet not just message so why do people send messages who are so far away?

Just in the last hour I have had Wales to Scotland, if I was looking for a meet I would be looking locally.... Can anyone explain to me.

It is in my profile where I am ( north Herts), I know they are rarely read but it does confuse me.

I met someone off here we spoke got on well and we became good friends im from leeds she was in southend I drove a 500 mile round trip in a day to meet her and seen her after that too so I don't really see distance a issue"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hand on heart. And i'm just going to say it Everyone that i fancy the pants off and who i'd love to get my lips on are too far from me (don't know if they realised that i do). No one from London or close by has tickled my fancy and done things to me like those who are up North, in the Midlands or elsewhere.

But, i have to be realistic - no matter how genuine i may be; they'd all think i'm having a laugh.

So, i'm used to a lack of meets now. I'm looking for quality and that's where i think it is for me. Can't do anything about that...but, once i get rid of this illness. I need to have some fun and i'm going on the pull!

like your thoughts Popeye, can I be your wingman lol?

If you're suited and booted like that. You're going to be doing the pulling lol

haha, we can try buddy, we can try!

Let's do this. We can be the antibiotic duo lol

Think the Symbiotic Duo has a better sound to it, where shall we strike first? "

If you need a filling for your sandwich??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hand on heart. And i'm just going to say it Everyone that i fancy the pants off and who i'd love to get my lips on are too far from me (don't know if they realised that i do). No one from London or close by has tickled my fancy and done things to me like those who are up North, in the Midlands or elsewhere.

But, i have to be realistic - no matter how genuine i may be; they'd all think i'm having a laugh.

So, i'm used to a lack of meets now. I'm looking for quality and that's where i think it is for me. Can't do anything about that...but, once i get rid of this illness. I need to have some fun and i'm going on the pull!

like your thoughts Popeye, can I be your wingman lol?

If you're suited and booted like that. You're going to be doing the pulling lol

haha, we can try buddy, we can try!

Let's do this. We can be the antibiotic duo lol

Think the Symbiotic Duo has a better sound to it, where shall we strike first?

If you need a filling for your sandwich?? "

I am a bit hungry.

I wonder where my new friend went?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He just pulled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He just pulled. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guy contacted me from 200 miles away, seemed a ridiculous distance but we so fancy one another he drives up here to see me. I guess sometimes people message you because they might be willing to travel for the right peeps

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I had on my profile in capitals LOCAL ONLY! and listed the areas (I'm thoughtful like that! ). Any message from men outside that were deleted.

Worked for me!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We do sometimes get messages from people a long way away who we eventually discover are hoping we'll put them up and provide sex while they enjoy a short holiday by the sea .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do sometimes get messages from people a long way away who we eventually discover are hoping we'll put them up and provide sex while they enjoy a short holiday by the sea . "

What a fab idea. Book me in for a weekend in May. Ta.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We do sometimes get messages from people a long way away who we eventually discover are hoping we'll put them up and provide sex while they enjoy a short holiday by the sea .

What a fab idea. Book me in for a weekend in May. Ta. "

Better send dates quickly we're getting booked up. Full English or continental?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do sometimes get messages from people a long way away who we eventually discover are hoping we'll put them up and provide sex while they enjoy a short holiday by the sea .

What a fab idea. Book me in for a weekend in May. Ta.

Better send dates quickly we're getting booked up. Full English or continental? "

Both.

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