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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is it about milfs that all us young guys buzz off! Share you're secrets lady's!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

as a woman when you reach a certain birthday you are given two things one is the key to Pandora's box and the other is an ability to take the mickey

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By *rinterestingMan
over a year ago

London


"as a woman when you reach a certain birthday you are given two things one is the key to Pandora's box and the other is an ability to take the mickey "

We got a MILF on our hands here guys dont scare her away

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"as a woman when you reach a certain birthday you are given two things one is the key to Pandora's box and the other is an ability to take the mickey

We got a MILF on our hands here guys dont scare her away

"

Trust me you haven't got me "on your hands" and I don't scare easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as a woman when you reach a certain birthday you are given two things one is the key to Pandora's box and the other is an ability to take the mickey

We got a MILF on our hands here guys dont scare her away

Trust me you haven't got me "on your hands" and I don't scare easily "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"as a woman when you reach a certain birthday you are given two things one is the key to Pandora's box and the other is an ability to take the mickey "

I'm guessing this is the Mickey here haha x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"as a woman when you reach a certain birthday you are given two things one is the key to Pandora's box and the other is an ability to take the mickey

I'm guessing this is the Mickey here haha x"

You got it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's the extra naughtiness factor. I'm not sure myself tbh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"as a woman when you reach a certain birthday you are given two things one is the key to Pandora's box and the other is an ability to take the mickey

I'm guessing this is the Mickey here haha x

You got it "

I'm just curious to what the desire is there's just something about the milf next door look or the teacher you always wanted!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"as a woman when you reach a certain birthday you are given two things one is the key to Pandora's box and the other is an ability to take the mickey

I'm guessing this is the Mickey here haha x

You got it

I'm just curious to what the desire is there's just something about the milf next door look or the teacher you always wanted!"

Seriously I don't think the object of your desire can explain to you what makes them desirable though. I know that my original answer was a joke but in some ways its true, almost anyone not just women learn as they grow older, gain in confidence etc and maybe that's what younger guys find attractive.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I think it may be partly because they know we wont fall head over heels and want their babies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find older women very sexy ,all ways have and all ways will ,I think a lot of older women these days can give any younger women a run for there money

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By *ickedxxxCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I often wonder myself as the female of this couple why younger men like us milf's !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe its because we are so much more experienced!..

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I always cringe a bit at these threads, not because I feel that the OP is wrong in any way but by insinuating that women not in their twenties (maybe their thirties?) are somehow better just because they've been alive longer, doesn't sit well with me.

We are all the sum of our experiences and knowledge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it funny when I get called a milf

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

We are all the sum of our experiences and knowledge."

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I find it funny when I get called a milf "

I cringe.......

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I think some if is that we know ourselves and what we like, in all contexts are mostly able to communicate and have confidence to accept ourselves.

We tend to not play games and can be honest with ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate milf or cougar, makes me feel so old, lol but i do love younger men, so if they want me that's even better

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


" so if they want me that's even better "

Never considered that....its always been If I want them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a milf though ? I mean how much older than you do they need to be to be classed as a milf ?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"What is a milf though ? I mean how much older than you do they need to be to be classed as a milf ? "

Someone old enough to be your own mother...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a milf though ? I mean how much older than you do they need to be to be classed as a milf ? "

Old enough to be their mother presumably?!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I always cringe a bit at these threads, not because I feel that the OP is wrong in any way but by insinuating that women not in their twenties (maybe their thirties?) are somehow better just because they've been alive longer, doesn't sit well with me.

We are all the sum of our experiences and knowledge."

I agree with your last sentence.

I'm not mad keen on the term milf myself but the question of attraction to ladies older than them is raised a lot by men on here and however they describe older women someone always objects. Personally I think someone is either attractive or they're not regardless of their age but that clearly isn't the case with lots of younger men where the age of the woman seems to be a significant factor.

I suspect the reasons for the attraction vary from guy to guy

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By *tarlight7365Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"I often wonder myself as the female of this couple why younger men like us milf's !!! "

it's a question only the men have the answer to,but it baffles me (Storm )too.... ...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"What is a milf though ? I mean how much older than you do they need to be to be classed as a milf ? "

They have to be a mother and older than them so in that respect I qualify for 98% of the men on this site. .

It's the ilf bit that's the variable

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I often wonder myself as the female of this couple why younger men like us milf's !!!

it's a question only the men have the answer to,but it baffles me (Storm )too.... ..."

It used to baffle me too but then I realised that I should pay attention to what I kept saying to other people. Attractiveness is not dependent on age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a milf though ? I mean how much older than you do they need to be to be classed as a milf ?

Someone old enough to be your own mother...

"

I thought it was a mother not necessarily old enough to be there mum and still that could be any age that's why I asked how much older x

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"I think it may be partly because they know we wont fall head over heels and want their babies!"

that so not true... I'm unable to write an answer that doesn't sound up my own arse.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I often wonder myself as the female of this couple why younger men like us milf's !!!

it's a question only the men have the answer to,but it baffles me (Storm )too.... ...

It used to baffle me too but then I realised that I should pay attention to what I kept saying to other people. Attractiveness is not dependent on age."

...and I absolutely agree with you on this one. it's all to do with attractiveness for me and nothing to do with age, which I probably why I don't understand why I'm attractive to some, just because I'm 53.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a milf though ? I mean how much older than you do they need to be to be classed as a milf ?

They have to be a mother and older than them so in that respect I qualify for 98% of the men on this site. .

It's the ilf bit that's the variable "

I object to being labelled as anything, I am an individual with a personality and I prefer that guys want to meet me based on that. If I have to have a label I would like it to be "ILFY" - I'd like to fuck you!!!

There are so many different labels bandied about on here when describing women but so few when it comes to men, I can't recall seeing any, other than BBC and VWE or variations thereof, maybe that says something about how we as women vie men and vice versa - just a thought?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a milf though ? I mean how much older than you do they need to be to be classed as a milf ?

They have to be a mother and older than them so in that respect I qualify for 98% of the men on this site. .

It's the ilf bit that's the variable

I object to being labelled as anything, I am an individual with a personality and I prefer that guys want to meet me based on that. If I have to have a label I would like it to be "ILFY" - I'd like to fuck you!!!

There are so many different labels bandied about on here when describing women but so few when it comes to men, I can't recall seeing any, other than BBC and VWE or variations thereof, maybe that says something about how we as women vie men and vice versa - just a thought? "

ooops that should have said view not vie

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By *olwaySonarMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"What is a milf though ? I mean how much older than you do they need to be to be classed as a milf ? "

Milfs in porn must be nearly knocking 23 That's why I like Gilfs better.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I dont mind all these young men lusting after me

BUT....when they coe out with "Im fitter and can go all night"!!!...I just think "Awww FFS go away"!!!

I like my sleep alot more than I like them

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"What is a milf though ? I mean how much older than you do they need to be to be classed as a milf ?

They have to be a mother and older than them so in that respect I qualify for 98% of the men on this site. .

It's the ilf bit that's the variable

I object to being labelled as anything, I am an individual with a personality and I prefer that guys want to meet me based on that. If I have to have a label I would like it to be "ILFY" - I'd like to fuck you!!!

There are so many different labels bandied about on here when describing women but so few when it comes to men, I can't recall seeing any, other than BBC and VWE or variations thereof, maybe that says something about how we as women vie men and vice versa - just a thought? "

Yes I agree but we have to work with what we've got and keep plugging away at changing opinions by constant repetition

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think it may be partly because they know we wont fall head over heels and want their babies!

that so not true... I'm unable to write an answer that doesn't sound up my own arse. "

I'm inclined to agree that it isn't true too. Age is no barrier to falling in love young or old.

I think in this society so obsessed with youth it is difficult to understand why at an age when you're told you're officially on the scrap heap as far as sex, attractiveness and fun is concerned men 20 and 30 years younger than you express an interest. You can see why a woman might suspect the motives behind it.

Mr N says I should just enjoy it and not question it but there's a devil on my shoulder telling me they're laughing about me with their mates in the pub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i just say hi?

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

My son's friend told me i was a milf the other day, i was shocked, a bit worrying, he is 23 though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some if is that we know ourselves and what we like, in all contexts are mostly able to communicate and have confidence to accept ourselves.

We tend to not play games and can be honest with ourselves.

"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Can i just say hi?

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You can. This is an inclusive zone, age is not a barrier

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"My son's friend told me i was a milf the other day, i was shocked, a bit worrying, he is 23 though "

did you give him a slap?

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

No, i said said "bless him"

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"No, i said said "bless him""

lol that probably made him feel really macho lolo

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I think it may be partly because they know we wont fall head over heels and want their babies!

that so not true... I'm unable to write an answer that doesn't sound up my own arse. "

Maybe not in your case, and I do write somewhat tongue in cheek - but I often ask, and some young guys do say they've just had enough of all the angst they often find they get with women their own age!

They nearly all cite 'confidence, knowing what you want, and being able to let go more' too.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"I think it may be partly because they know we wont fall head over heels and want their babies!

that so not true... I'm unable to write an answer that doesn't sound up my own arse.

Maybe not in your case, and I do write somewhat tongue in cheek - but I often ask, and some young guys do say they've just had enough of all the angst they often find they get with women their own age!

They nearly all cite 'confidence, knowing what you want, and being able to let go more' too."

yeah agree, older women are usually more relaxed in themselves. As you know ability, like both sexes is negotiable. For me, it because they have a look they they arent going to be snapped in 1/2 lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My son's friend told me i was a milf the other day, i was shocked, a bit worrying, he is 23 though "

Great taste!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Women do in my limited experience tend to get to a point in life about 40 ish (though recognise for each one it may be a different age) and they accept whom they are, comfortable in their own skin, size etc..

sort of 'this is me, deal with it'..

and with that comes confidence..

not keen on lables etc but they're here to stay, i blame porn..

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

I'm happy being a milf, better than being not a milf lol

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

It bugs older kids if J referred to as a MILF.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm happy being a milf, better than being not a milf lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women do in my limited experience tend to get to a point in life about 40 ish (though recognise for each one it may be a different age) and they accept whom they are, comfortable in their own skin, size etc..

sort of 'this is me, deal with it'..

and with that comes confidence..

not keen on lables etc but they're here to stay, i blame porn.. "

thats exactly my perception of it.

hence why the vast majority of young women dress in the fashion of the time, as they are told thats what looks good, whereas older women tend to know what looks good on them and go with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok do is there any particular age range to qualify as a milf, or can i be one? :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok do is there any particular age range to qualify as a milf, or can i be one? :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I qualify to be a milf x

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"as a woman when you reach a certain birthday you are given two things one is the key to Pandora's box and the other is an ability to take the mickey "

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Women do in my limited experience tend to get to a point in life about 40 ish (though recognise for each one it may be a different age) and they accept whom they are, comfortable in their own skin, size etc..

sort of 'this is me, deal with it'..

and with that comes confidence..

not keen on lables etc but they're here to stay, i blame porn..

thats exactly my perception of it.

hence why the vast majority of young women dress in the fashion of the time, as they are told thats what looks good, whereas older women tend to know what looks good on them and go with that.

"

agree..

peer pressure with obliging the 'fashion and beauty' industries is all part n parcel of something which has a sinister side to it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as a woman when you reach a certain birthday you are given two things one is the key to Pandora's box and the other is an ability to take the mickey

We got a MILF on our hands here guys dont scare her away

ooouch x

Trust me you haven't got me "on your hands" and I don't scare easily "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In regards to "Milfs" I believe there is some sexual psychodynamic theory at work here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it may be partly because they know we wont fall head over heels and want their babies!

that so not true... I'm unable to write an answer that doesn't sound up my own arse.

I'm inclined to agree that it isn't true too. Age is no barrier to falling in love young or old.

I think in this society so obsessed with youth it is difficult to understand why at an age when you're told you're officially on the scrap heap as far as sex, attractiveness and fun is concerned men 20 and 30 years younger than you express an interest. You can see why a woman might suspect the motives behind it.

Mr N says I should just enjoy it and not question it but there's a devil on my shoulder telling me they're laughing about me with their mates in the pub."

or be jealous it isn't them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So am I a Filf????

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

At what age do you qualify to become a Gilf ?

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

I'm a gilf eeeeek!

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"So am I a Filf????"

??? What's a filf?

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks


"I'm a gilf eeeeek! "
me too lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's the extra naughtiness factor. I'm not sure myself tbh. "

I'd love to find out what you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you just want a mother....a little like a child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So am I a Filf????

??? What's a filf? "

Father.I.L.F?

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"So am I a Filf????

??? What's a filf?

Father.I.L.F?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sean Connery, Gerard Butler, Denzel Washington, Jamie Foxx & Anthony Hopkins are all MILFs too to my mind (not that I do labels!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as a woman when you reach a certain birthday you are given two things one is the key to Pandora's box and the other is an ability to take the mickey "

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"I'm just curious to what the desire is there's just something about the milf next door look or the teacher you always wanted!"

Good point, I guess as a schoolboy it was always the older more mature girls or youger sexy teachers who seemed more interesting, also the fact they had bigger boobs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its Not just young guys that Love milfs

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"Its Not just young guys that Love milfs "

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness


"Its Not just young guys that Love milfs "

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By *randMrsHorny24Couple
over a year ago

South wales

Chloe here, how can you determine a milf it shouldn't be about age or experience it should be about the fact that if ure a mum and ure hot then ure classed as a milf because then if your classing the older woman as milfs what about the young mums I'm a mum myself and only 24

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