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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we are both straight

men have no probs with rich being straight and dont tell him he doesnt know what he is missing etc

so please tell me why women keep trying to convince me to try it

i simply have no desire to play with a female but we constantly have females / couples with bi fem trying to convince me to try them

3 in the last 7 days

sorry for the rant but its now putting us off contacting couples or f with a bi f

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

As the kids from Grange Hill once said.......

Just say no!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've experienced the same in the past, and countless times in clubs. Some were almost shocked when I said I was straight.

We've come to the conclusion that, in the swinging world in general, when women play bi it's just what's expected and when men play bi it's something bordering on perversion.

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By *orn_To_PerformCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

It's horses for courses. We're both bi and wish that women who are clearly only 'doing it for the men' would be honest. It is obvious when a women is not enjoying contact with another woman and it makes the whole situation uncomfortable. Just do what makes you happy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's horses for courses. We're both bi and wish that women who are clearly only 'doing it for the men' would be honest. It is obvious when a women is not enjoying contact with another woman and it makes the whole situation uncomfortable. Just do what makes you happy!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazed that the male doesn't get pestered. 99% of the bi-males on here are quite insistent that there is no such thing as a "straight" man. They seem to think that men only put that to avoid dissaproval.

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater


"It's horses for courses. We're both bi and wish that women who are clearly only 'doing it for the men' would be honest. It is obvious when a women is not enjoying contact with another woman and it makes the whole situation uncomfortable. Just do what makes you happy!

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We have found this as well, several "bi-playful" women who where actually uncomfortable and evenings cut short.

Do they just do it to please their men?

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By *tryxxCouple
over a year ago

central


"It's horses for courses. We're both bi and wish that women who are clearly only 'doing it for the men' would be honest. It is obvious when a women is not enjoying contact with another woman and it makes the whole situation uncomfortable. Just do what makes you happy!"

100% agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its not socially acceptable for a man to be bi

while you see girls kissing in pubs and clubs round the country just for the attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

rich here for the record i would love to see kirst with another f

BUT she said no so its not a prob for me i wouldnt push her to do anything she didnt want to and vice versa

theres nothing worse than someone "going through the motions"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe put it in bold on your profile that neither of you are Bi???

MAY help if people read your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are both straight

men have no probs with rich being straight and dont tell him he doesnt know what he is missing etc

so please tell me why women keep trying to convince me to try it

i simply have no desire to play with a female but we constantly have females / couples with bi fem trying to convince me to try them

3 in the last 7 days

sorry for the rant but its now putting us off contacting couples or f with a bi f "

I don't know why they can't respect your wishes but as someone that is bi playful I can say that I know what you mean. I've found that at clubs sometimes women touch without asking. And before I was happy with it had more than a few ladies just help themselves...

Even now I'd never assume and always check before we meet a couple x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was followed round partners in bury by a couple who assumed I was bi without even asking, I felt like saying "take the hint and fuck off!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's horses for courses. We're both bi and wish that women who are clearly only 'doing it for the men' would be honest. It is obvious when a women is not enjoying contact with another woman and it makes the whole situation uncomfortable. Just do what makes you happy!"
spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was followed round partners in bury by a couple who assumed I was bi without even asking, I felt like saying "take the hint and fuck off!""

Makes a change to hear about predatory couples, but we're encountered them ourselves. The problem is that many couples assume a women at a swingers event must be bi. I'm thinking of getting a 'I'm not bi' T Shirt made.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was followed round partners in bury by a couple who assumed I was bi without even asking, I felt like saying "take the hint and fuck off!"

Makes a change to hear about predatory couples, but we're encountered them ourselves. The problem is that many couples assume a women at a swingers event must be bi. I'm thinking of getting a 'I'm not bi' T Shirt made. "

im sure my wife can turn you lol

and that was obv a joke people ty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was followed round partners in bury by a couple who assumed I was bi without even asking, I felt like saying "take the hint and fuck off!"

Makes a change to hear about predatory couples, but we're encountered them ourselves. The problem is that many couples assume a women at a swingers event must be bi. I'm thinking of getting a 'I'm not bi' T Shirt made. "

This happened on Tuesday night! I might get one too! Lol

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By *onnyforfunMan
over a year ago

Doncaster


"It's horses for courses. We're both bi and wish that women who are clearly only 'doing it for the men' would be honest. It is obvious when a women is not enjoying contact with another woman and it makes the whole situation uncomfortable. Just do what makes you happy!"
a lot of the time i find the opposite im bi and like to dress and play will play st8 or bi and have had more couples say we would love to play with a tv for them to back out when i say im up for it its so hard trying to find genuine bi couples or women to play with

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Amazed that the male doesn't get pestered. 99% of the bi-males on here are quite insistent that there is no such thing as a "straight" man. They seem to think that men only put that to avoid dissaproval."

Your views on bisexual men have been well documented on here. Your statistical analysis is nonsensical.

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford


"I was followed round partners in bury by a couple who assumed I was bi without even asking, I felt like saying "take the hint and fuck off!"

Makes a change to hear about predatory couples, but we're encountered them ourselves. The problem is that many couples assume a women at a swingers event must be bi. I'm thinking of getting a 'I'm not bi' T Shirt made.

This happened on Tuesday night! I might get one too! Lol"

Tuesday is bi night at Partners so it's hardly surprising that people would assume that you were bi since you were at a bi session.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was followed round partners in bury by a couple who assumed I was bi without even asking, I felt like saying "take the hint and fuck off!"

Makes a change to hear about predatory couples, but we're encountered them ourselves. The problem is that many couples assume a women at a swingers event must be bi. I'm thinking of getting a 'I'm not bi' T Shirt made.

This happened on Tuesday night! I might get one too! Lol

Tuesday is bi night at Partners so it's hardly surprising that people would assume that you were bi since you were at a bi session."

I went with a male friend who was bi, they still should've asked if I was bi instead of assuming I was

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford

You should have just told them you were straight then and there would have been no drama. If you go to a bi night then you must expect people of the same sex to approach you. A polite "I'm straight" does the trick, just as a no thanks does on any other club night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Amazed that the male doesn't get pestered. 99% of the bi-males on here are quite insistent that there is no such thing as a "straight" man. They seem to think that men only put that to avoid dissaproval."

What a load of crap.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

very rarely has hubby been approached by a m

or even a f for that matter

the poor old bugger lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know what you mean about ladies finding it hard to believe Nicki isn't interested in women. Been asked so many times if she'll play and in a group she's been touched or even gone down on without any asking at all.

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

It works the other way too....we don't meet straight couples and only go to clubs on bi nights but often get couples wanting to meet for straight swop!

It doesn't bother us as a polite 'sorry but we're not looking for straight couples' usually works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should have just told them you were straight then and there would have been no drama. If you go to a bi night then you must expect people of the same sex to approach you. A polite "I'm straight" does the trick, just as a no thanks does on any other club night."

They didn't even speak to me, the man was raising his eyebrows and nodding towards his partner who was sucking on his nipples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morrigan gets this all the time, statements like "oh I will turn her" and "obviously you haven't met the right woman" have come up and soured what had been a good conversation. Have to be honest I've never been bugged by a bi guy in any situation. Maybe I'm just ugly to both sexes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

please do not get u wrong

we will meet bi people not a prob its when they are laying it on us before we have met that we can and WILL be turned it puts us off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's horses for courses. We're both bi and wish that women who are clearly only 'doing it for the men' would be honest. It is obvious when a women is not enjoying contact with another woman and it makes the whole situation uncomfortable. Just do what makes you happy!"

Totally true the woman makes him happy by doing it sad realy and he must know she is only trying to please him too not all but a few for sure

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