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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When your looking for a meet, would you go for the safe, reliable meet that's not as appealing as the sexier riskier and possibly unreliable meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any meet you should have should, ultimately, be appealing and sexy.

why meet with someone just because they say they always turn up, but you arent interested?

so, neither.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"any meet you should have should, ultimately, be appealing and sexy.

why meet with someone just because they say they always turn up, but you arent interested?

so, neither."

That makes no sense, I didn't say either was appealing , just that one was more than the other

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"any meet you should have should, ultimately, be appealing and sexy.

why meet with someone just because they say they always turn up, but you arent interested?

so, neither.

That makes no sense, I didn't say either was appealing , just that one was more than the other "

I ment wasn't appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's swings and roundabouts, if you pardon the pun.

A first meet is exiting in the way that it is the unknown and the excitement of the first time.

But someone you know who is reliable is more likely to know you better and you them so it can be potentially better from knowledge of each others' bodies etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's swings and roundabouts, if you pardon the pun.

A first meet is exiting in the way that it is the unknown and the excitement of the first time.

But someone you know who is reliable is more likely to know you better and you them so it can be potentially better from knowledge of each others' bodies etc."

That's true, it's a difficult call though

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"When your looking for a meet, would you go for the safe, reliable meet that's not as appealing as the sexier riskier and possibly unreliable meet?"

I'm a risk taker, dammit!! That can occasionally bite you in the bum, but to be honest when I've acted on my gut instinct decisively I've had a much better time than when I have gone for 'the reasoned choice'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When your looking for a meet, would you go for the safe, reliable meet that's not as appealing as the sexier riskier and possibly unreliable meet?

I'm a risk taker, dammit!! That can occasionally bite you in the bum, but to be honest when I've acted on my gut instinct decisively I've had a much better time than when I have gone for 'the reasoned choice'."

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington


"When your looking for a meet, would you go for the safe, reliable meet that's not as appealing as the sexier riskier and possibly unreliable meet?

I'm a risk taker, dammit!! That can occasionally bite you in the bum, but to be honest when I've acted on my gut instinct decisively I've had a much better time than when I have gone for 'the reasoned choice'."

I would probably take the risk too to be honest, but a major factor would be how much I have been getting recently If it had been a while, I would probably opt for safe and reliable, but if I was getting plenty, then I would take a punt on the riskier one.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Mind you, it is a swingers site - so you should be able to try both!! I long for reliable, but you cannot rationalise yourself into chemistry, well I can't anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always the risky ...

more of a buzz and excitement , especially if it's a newbie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats a hard one. i have been tempted to meet the sexier ones, but prefer the safe reliable types.

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