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when lying isnt lying ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just had a message from a guy . His profile age states 39, in his profile he says 42 and in the message he says he's 53. When I politely declined because of the lies (and wondering what else he was lying about ) he said he wasn't lying !

So when does lying not become lying ?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Maybe he has alien hand syndrome and his fingers press the wrong numbers when he types

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When he says No, you're bum does not look big in that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wondering similar. i had coffee with someone who's pic is either someone else.... or 20+years old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not lying if you don't get caught out

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

When it's a "single" male who thinks he's onto a winner ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

loads of people lie about their age on here and think nothing of it. I don't understand why because its usually immediately obvious and they give themselves away in conversation, our favourite was the man who would have been about 9 when he went on his first lads holiday to Ibiza if his claimed age was correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many of the 'single' can accomodate turn into married can't accomodate. I met a guy who.s profile said he was 42 he turned out to be 55 and his photo must have been 20 years out of date. no second meet for him. and what about the couples who are really single guys. need i say more

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Just had a message from a guy . His profile age states 39, in his profile he says 42 and in the message he says he's 53. When I politely declined because of the lies (and wondering what else he was lying about ) he said he wasn't lying !

So when does lying not become lying ? "

as a 39 yr old bloke.... its not my profile!!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm 43 but I can have meaningful conversations with people loads older cos I'm fond of social history, am extensively read and have watched lots of television for years so know a fair bit about things that happened donkeys years ago. See? I can even talk older I'd give ten bob to someone who thought I was younger though!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'm wondering similar. i had coffee with someone who's pic is either someone else.... or 20+years old "

Maye he couldn't make it so sent his dad instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thing is young people tell fibs, you get annoyed, but when old people tell lies you just think, grow up.

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By *ate_night_massageMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"So when does lying not become lying ? "

When it's yourself that's talking. In which case it's just "not selling yourself short"...

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Many forget they have to have good memories to Lie!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I'm 43 but I can have meaningful conversations with people loads older cos I'm fond of social history, am extensively read and have watched lots of television for years so know a fair bit about things that happened donkeys years ago. See? I can even talk older I'd give ten bob to someone who thought I was younger though! "
i will tell you you're 21 for sixpence!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a message from a guy . His profile age states 39, in his profile he says 42 and in the message he says he's 53."

Wow, that's weird. I guess technically, he's not lying...he is currently 53, but at one point he was 42, and before that, he was 39.

Seriously though, that's a horrible first impression.

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By *spot50Man
over a year ago

rochester

The greatest advantage of speaking the truth is you don't have to remember what you have said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some odd balls on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When he says it doesn't hurt, when he sticks his willy up your bum, because it doesn't hurt........ him !!!

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By *spot50Man
over a year ago

rochester


"When he says it doesn't hurt, when he sticks his willy up your bum, because it doesn't hurt........ him !!!"

Does it hurt then lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Everyone lies everyday, even to themselves, it is a human trait. Where it is wrong is where someone is being abusive. If someone skirts round an issue to prevent hurt, then that is a sensitive move. It is all about someone's objectives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best one I heard was a lady friend of mine agreed to meet a guy, when he turned up he wasn't even the same race as his picture. His response was that he couldn't get any meets if he put his actual face picture up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone lies everyday, even to themselves, it is a human trait. Where it is wrong is where someone is being abusive. If someone skirts round an issue to prevent hurt, then that is a sensitive move. It is all about someone's objectives. "

Lying about age on profile is probably due trying to get around age range filters. Ot is still an act of deception... Hate it!

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By *weet medicineWoman
over a year ago

Kesgrave

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By *weet medicineWoman
over a year ago

Kesgrave


"Maybe he has alien hand syndrome and his fingers press the wrong numbers when he types "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not lying if the person is in denial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody lies. Even the holier than though "I never lie" brigade.

Fact of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only lie to myself, lol.

honesty has cost me meets, but better that than getting slagged off in the forums.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Everybody lies. Even the holier than though "I never lie" brigade.

Fact of life. "

this line always makes me laugh

slight difference between "oh i haven't had a chocolate biscuit"... and "oh I am 15 years older than I said"..... or the one you always mention....

unless they all count the same now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im actually 7.....thats the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everybody lies. Even the holier than though "I never lie" brigade.

Fact of life.

this line always makes me laugh

slight difference between "oh i haven't had a chocolate biscuit"... and "oh I am 15 years older than I said"..... or the one you always mention....

unless they all count the same now?"

There is not a cut off point for when an untruth is not a lie. But yes, there are degrees of lying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When he says it doesn't hurt, when he sticks his willy up your bum, because it doesn't hurt........ him !!!

Does it hurt then lol"

Stick a cucumber up you bum and you tell me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not lying if the person is in denial

"

i went to egypt once too but never went in the river

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just had a message from a guy . His profile age states 39, in his profile he says 42 and in the message he says he's 53. When I politely declined because of the lies (and wondering what else he was lying about ) he said he wasn't lying !

So when does lying not become lying ?

as a 39 yr old bloke.... its not my profile!!!! "

I wasn't saying it was you ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just had a message from a guy . His profile age states 39, in his profile he says 42 and in the message he says he's 53.

Wow, that's weird. I guess technically, he's not lying...he is currently 53, but at one point he was 42, and before that, he was 39.

Seriously though, that's a horrible first impression. "

And got peeved when I wouldn't meet !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lying about your age, is one thing but some people on here lie about everything. pretending they have met me before, contacting me on another profile because i have blocked them.

and lots of other things, they must think i was born yesterday.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

There's some really amazing ones, when someone tells the same lie to themselves and sometimes others about some situation or something they did that they end up believing their own lies and thinking that's the truth.

Like a denial thing or way to justify themselves.

In the end they are convinced that they are speaking the truth.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"lying about your age, is one thing but some people on here lie about everything. pretending they have met me before, contacting me on another profile because i have blocked them.

and lots of other things, they must think i was born yesterday.

"

When were you born then? And don't lie! I liked Dora Bryan in a taste of honey. Good film.

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