FabSwingers.com forum: painfull anal?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is anal sex allways painfull?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is anal sex allways painfull?"

Not if the person giving it to you is skillful enough...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it hurts it isnt being done right, it needs to be slow with lots of lube until the muscles relaxes.... I find its also easier if i control speed/depth ect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it also helps if the guys has a tiny cock lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube, patience and RELAX!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use lots of lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it also helps if the guys has a tiny cock lol"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

About 8inc spit only no lube :/

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By *issmekate xxxWoman
over a year ago

Non Vanilla Land

Nope !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use your own juices and with a semi then work up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About 8inc spit only no lube :/"

No, no, no, no, no.....you'll do yourself an injury, lube is a must!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About 8inc spit only no lube :/"

In this instance, yup will probably always hurt! With anal there is no such thing as too much lube and a slow entry is essential. Something that helps me is using a toy/plug before hand to release the muscles a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it also helps if the guys has a tiny cock lol"

Nice one!

I knew it'd come in handy somewhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About 8inc spit only no lube :/"

Then yes...that's always going to be painful...

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole

"About 8inc spit only no lube :/

Doc Johnson medium for a while beforehand, good preparation.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"it also helps if the guys has a tiny cock lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking from experience. The thing for me is to stretch the sphincter slowly. The more you do it the less chance of it hurting. A fatter cock will hurt more without sufficient stretching. Loads of lube doesn't make a difference to me if I'm not suitably stretched. A slim long cock cab slip in with no pain at all. If you can,get him to use fingers first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is anal sex allways painfull?"

No, not painful at all. My cock slides in quite easily

Martin x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I've had anal with spit and no lube or spit. Just my own natural lubricant from my vagina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Speaking from experience. The thing for me is to stretch the sphincter slowly. The more you do it the less chance of it hurting. A fatter cock will hurt more without sufficient stretching. Loads of lube doesn't make a difference to me if I'm not suitably stretched. A slim long cock cab slip in with no pain at all. If you can,get him to use fingers first"

i love my slim cock, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just the size of the willy, or the amount of lube, people's bottoms aren't all the same, some people will experience more pain than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything can hurt if it isn't done right - even drinking a cup of tea....

But if it is done right - oh, dear god, anal is heaven..!!!

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"About 8inc spit only no lube :/

No, no, no, no, no.....you'll do yourself an injury, lube is a must!!"

Av never used lube lol

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"And I've had anal with spit and no lube or spit. Just my own natural lubricant from my vagina"

Thats the only way ive done it too

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"And I've had anal with spit and no lube or spit. Just my own natural lubricant from my vagina

Thats the only way ive done it too

But the OP doesn't have a vagina to supply natural lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate anal, everytime ive had it its hurt like hell. Thats even with nearly a full bottle of lube been used and a couple of hours with fingers and different size butt plugs, the reason is i cant relax. No matter what i do it always hurts so i dont do it anymore, i get my partner an escort instead lol

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

should never be painful, with or without lube!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have had anal for years but first penetration still hurts,

i find if i am entered then pulled out and re-entered all is ok , i guess the muscles change position and relaxe,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buttplugs of varying sizes helps ...training brings results...

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Trust a big thing, then being able to fully relax and yeap, plenty of Lube ( what ever your preference lol) only do this with my Partner, aint no body eles going there!

deff his arse!

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Anal is very special and very wonderful.

But needs a skilful lover! It is about TRUST, LUBE, and MAXIMUM ENJOYMENT FOR THE GIRL!The girl needs to be very turned on, horny, and up for it. Loads of foreplay, lots of attention, and warm her up properly.......slowly!

Have loads of lube handy, I reccomend Astroglide gel, ideal for anal play.

Apply some lube to your fingertips, and play round her whole pussy and ring, gently teasing her and pleasing her, unhurried, and keep on applying lube.

After a while, try pressing your fingertip very gently round her ring, and it should hopefully just pop in....

STOP! keep still! Keep it there till your girl moves on your fingertip a little........gently does it

Then withdraw your fingertip, reapply lube, and play some more around her ring........

Then wait for her to relax, and it will pop back in again....... Dont move!

Your girl will rock her hips, move herself, and draw your finger gently inside..... Do not push, or try to thrust in and out! Let the girl dictate the pace........

Patience is the key! You are waiting for her muscles to relax, and if she clenches down, the game is over!

Stay still, let her enjoy the full sensations, get used to the feeling, and get to know that she trusts you........

Pull out again, pleasure here some more, reapply more lube. Dont be in any hurry!

Wait for her to want your fingers back in there, and reinsert your finger, and again let her rock and move herself....

When you feel her relax some more, very gently try two fingertips, very very very gently and S L O W L Y , and listen to her breathing, her body, and go at her pace, be prepared for a long wait....

After a while she will relax some more, and two fingers are drawn in, and all is going well.......

Draw out and reapply lube, and repeat the above when she wants your fingers back.......

She will know when she is ready for anal as both fingers are in there, relaxed, and her body is highly reponsive.....

Boys, you need to be REALLY hard! Lube up your cock really well.....

Get into position, with your cock just touching her ring. Don't try to go in yet, play round her clit, up and down her slit, in and out of her pussy a little, and then back to her ring.

Now stop! Dont move! Just leave it there! Let your girl move back against your cock, and adjust herself.....

Keep a gentle pressure, and resist the urge to push or thrust.

All of a sudden your cock head will pop inside.

S T O P ! Do not move!

Let her relax, gasp a breath or two, and get used to the fullness feeling.....

Then hopefully she will gently rock herself, and you will be gently drawn in, with no thrusting on your part.

Remember, the moment she clenches down or contracts, it is game over, so relaxation and trust is the key.

Just stay coupled together this way for what seems like an age.......

Then, hopefully, she will start to rock and roll, and this is the signal for you to VERY gently thrust a little, and remember to take it at HER pace.

Hopefully you will be rewarded by her having the most mind-blowing orgasm she has ever experienced.

So gently withdraw. Cuddle her, kiss her, and tell her how wonderful she is.

Then hopefully you will be enjoying anal again with her many times thereafter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pain no gain

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Failing all that, give her a stick to bite on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anal is very special and very wonderful.