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Should I be tempted to try out my curious bi-side? Hubby says Yes., yes, yes...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After many years of my hubby trying to turn me into a lesbian, I have admitted that I have a slight curiosity when it comes to having an encounter with somebody of the same sex....not sure whether it is for me or not, but I do like the thought of gentle caressing of the feminine type...if ya know what I mean

Do I try or do I deny?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why's he trying to turn you into a lesbian? has he had enough of you?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"why's he trying to turn you into a lesbian? has he had enough of you? "

if you want to, go for it and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do whatever makes you happy, i had exes that tried to encourage my curiosity but in the end i refused. It wasnt until i was single i decided to try it for myself... well that was a few years ago now and i enjoy being with a women as much as a man

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By *andyMooCouple
over a year ago

bedford

You'll never know unless you try.

If you like it do it again if not don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has long as you do it because you want to .. And not just do it to please your hubby then yes . Try anything once you never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm curious I have to satisfy my curiosity or it niggles at me. If it was me I'd want to try it on my own as I wouldn't want my feelings about it influenced by anyone else's feelings. That way if I like it I can choose to do it again. If not, no one would be trying to influence that decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to do whatever you feel comfortable with, otherwise you won't enjoy it.

If you want to give it a go then do, but if are unsure I would so don't xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nicki had kissed a few ladies before we started this lifestyle, I had never kissed a guy! so we started off with her as curious and me straight.....

Be careful what he wishes for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say if you decide to go for it , it will be one lucky lady that gets to satisfy that gorgeous body of yours. All I can say as much as I understand what your hubby is after, make your own mind up and do it for yourself and nobody else. Then there is nobody to blame if you don't enjoy it. Good luck

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By *IANnG1Couple
over a year ago

local

Don't knock til you've tried

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"why's he trying to turn you into a lesbian? has he had enough of you? "

maybe...!! Guess I should have said 'bi-sexual'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has long as you do it because you want to .. And not just do it to please your hubby then yes . Try anything once you never know "

Totally agree

My ex husband nagged me for years to explore and let him bring another woman into our bed, I never did as it did not feel right at the time.

It's only now I'm single I feel confident enough to explore for my own pleasure.

Try playing with a lady one on one first with husbands permission of course to see how you feel then join you all togethr. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do as your told

Hubby knows best

Suicide is painless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its fun to explore, lol.

I decided when i joined fab to try new things, and discovered my bi side.

You never know what you will enjoy till you try it, but only when you are ready.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just do as your told

Hubby knows best

Suicide is painless "

actually laughing out loud!

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"After many years of my hubby trying to turn me into a lesbian, I have admitted that I have a slight curiosity when it comes to having an encounter with somebody of the same sex....not sure whether it is for me or not, but I do like the thought of gentle caressing of the feminine type...if ya know what I mean

Do I try or do I deny? "

Try it if you wish. But do it for yourself and not for him.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

agree with other posters... do it if you want to... and with no pressure.

I enjoy playing with a woman but doesn't mean it's for all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After many years of my hubby trying to turn me into a lesbian, I have admitted that I have a slight curiosity when it comes to having an encounter with somebody of the same sex....not sure whether it is for me or not, but I do like the thought of gentle caressing of the feminine type...if ya know what I mean

Do I try or do I deny? "

only try it if you want to.

V had an interest (hence why we are here) and in all the encounters up until now, it has stopped at kissing and caressing, and tbh thats what she is happy with, and she finds it a real turn on.

however, playing with a lovely couple in xtasia the other week, and she went fully for it, and loved it.

she must have just been the one that made her think WOW!

will that happen again? who knows.

but you have to be happy and comfortable with what you are doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried it 8 years ago and found that I absolutely love it! What's the worst that can happen? I'd much rather try something and know, rather than always be wondering x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't mean this harshly but can't you make your own mind up?

I think that long term partners should be open to trying things that the other person would like just as long as it isn't abhorrent to them and it's safe. So the decision is yours really not ours or your husbands

I hope that whatever you decide it's good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only try it if that's what you want! I thought about it for years and met a couple on here a year ago. I enjoyed as they were a really nice couple.

I'm not saying I'll never try again but IF I did it would be with a single woman on her own

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I never really thought about it and seeing me with another woman isn't something Mr N is interested in but I went with the flow one evening and while I enjoyed it it isn't something I'll be doing again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only indulge in what YOU want, don't be pressured into doing something you're not 100% comfortable with.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

once you go fanny flaps

there is no going back....

you were warned

DIY,CND demos, Dungaress and DM's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the thread

only do it if YOU want it

although the hottest evening I ever had was watching the ex on her first time. An acquaintance of mine bought his sub gf along to outs and got her to show the wife what it was all about over the course of two horny sensual hours also making sure we all felt involved but really it was to enhance the evening for the mrs and WOW she was into women as much as blokes by the end.

Just do your thing and don't be preasurised.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the messages of support! I can definitely say that if I was explore my bi-side, it would ONLY be IF I wanted to! I am very head strong and no amount of persuasion would ever make me do something I don't want to do! I am just curious about other peoples experiences and opinions. put it this way, we have been together for 19years now....I'm always open to adding excitement to our sex life! thanks for the lovely inbox messages too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be a devil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone was going on and on at me to try something it would piss me off no end. Whether it was something I wanted to try or not.

Have fun whatever you decide.

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"After many years of my hubby trying to turn me into a lesbian, I have admitted that I have a slight curiosity when it comes to having an encounter with somebody of the same sex....not sure whether it is for me or not, but I do like the thought of gentle caressing of the feminine type...if ya know what I mean

Do I try or do I deny? "

Do it for yourelf , and not for him . maybe you should turn the tables and ask him to try his Bi side and see if he likes it

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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago

truro

Do what you want to do not what you are told to do. If you don't try it you will never know. This is the ideal site to satisfy any curiosity you may have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After many years of my hubby trying to turn me into a lesbian, I have admitted that I have a slight curiosity when it comes to having an encounter with somebody of the same sex....not sure whether it is for me or not, but I do like the thought of gentle caressing of the feminine type...if ya know what I mean

Do I try or do I deny?

Do it for yourelf , and not for him . maybe you should turn the tables and ask him to try his Bi side and see if he likes it "

He has and he loves it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew a couple like that once.....

Her husband wasn't so happy when as a result she left him and moved in with me.....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you can answer that one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I knew a couple like that once.....

Her husband wasn't so happy when as a result she left him and moved in with me.....!

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I like it!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After many years of my hubby trying to turn me into a lesbian, I have admitted that I have a slight curiosity when it comes to having an encounter with somebody of the same sex....not sure whether it is for me or not, but I do like the thought of gentle caressing of the feminine type...if ya know what I mean

Do I try or do I deny? "

Yes you should!!

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Find a nice couple explain and then see how u feel! You might have her touch and kiss you and think oh god no and they will understand or you might think ok this is hot and go with it! The mere fact this post exists makes me think you are looking for encouraging

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Try being bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do it because he wants you to. Do it because you want to.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Give it a go but only when you are comfy and ready and only on your terms

Better to have tried something and not liked it, than regretting a what-if?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always said no, but became more open to it when i became single.....def worth experiencing, give it a chance x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some very constructive advice on here guys! Thank you x

Just to reiterate, my hubby wouldnt force me to do anything i didnt want to do....he wouldnt dare!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some very constructive advice on here guys! Thank you x

Just to reiterate, my hubby wouldnt force me to do anything i didnt want to do....he wouldnt dare!! x "

Enjoy exploring carnal pleasures...support each other and have fun... You seem like a delightful couple x

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