FabSwingers.com forum: Meet me

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been on here a short while now but haven't actually met anyone yet, is anyone local and interested?

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

There are some men who have been on here far longer and had no meets. The ratio of men to women is very high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying your fussy could be off putting to women X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Saying your fussy could be off putting to women X "

Surely if I were to contact them then that would be taken as a compliment then? X

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By *arabeefWoman
over a year ago

otley

lol with men being 100-1 most women would just think you are being a prat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol with men being 100-1 most women would just think you are being a prat

Why?

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By *arabeefWoman
over a year ago

otley

because he is saying to take it as a compliment when he winks at you like your on a list ... but the proof is in the pudding no meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"because he is saying to take it as a compliment when he winks at you like your on a list ... but the proof is in the pudding no meets "

Why is being fussy a bad thing then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"because he is saying to take it as a compliment when he winks at you like your on a list ... but the proof is in the pudding no meets "

I think someone got out of the wrong side of the bed today.........alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"because he is saying to take it as a compliment when he winks at you like your on a list ... but the proof is in the pudding no meets

Why is being fussy a bad thing then?

You tell her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"because he is saying to take it as a compliment when he winks at you like your on a list ... but the proof is in the pudding no meets "

I dont quite get where your going with that but each to their own. I take winks as a compliment and assure you, I am on no list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you just haven't floated anyone's boat yet, I think fussy is a good thing just be patient and in sure someone will come your way

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Its just about time and patience - a lot of single men will see the 'Unread' or 'Deleted' against their sent mail. Despite the fact you are fussy, the women and couples have a wider selection of people to choose from, so your message might just get lost amongst the many others they have. Perservere, it will happen

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By *arabeefWoman
over a year ago

otley

ah right i see i think that he sounds condescending but thats just me

and no i always get out of the right side of the bed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move to london hun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"ah right i see i think that he sounds condescending but thats just me

and no i always get out of the right side of the bed lol "

I don't think I sound condescending at all, am just being honest and genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move up north ... from what I see on this site, seems to be a lot happening up there (something in the air seems to make them go wild)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Move to london hun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Move up north ... from what I see on this site, seems to be a lot happening up there (something in the air seems to make them go wild) "

Something seems to be going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got also problem with meet somebody in Sheffield lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Saying your fussy could be off putting to women X

Surely if I were to contact them then that would be taken as a compliment then? X"

Yeah I guess so. we are picky about who we meet but wouldn't put it on our profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried going to any clubs fella ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Saying your fussy could be off putting to women X

Surely if I were to contact them then that would be taken as a compliment then? X

Yeah I guess so. we are picky about who we meet but wouldn't put it on our profile x"

Point taken so I will take that bit out x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you tried going to any clubs fella ?"

No not yet as I would feel a bit of an idiot going on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Saying your fussy could be off putting to women X

Surely if I were to contact them then that would be taken as a compliment then? X

Yeah I guess so. we are picky about who we meet but wouldn't put it on our profile X

Point taken so I will take that bit out x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you tried going to any clubs fella ?

No not yet as I would feel a bit of an idiot going on my own."

Yeah that's my fear also.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Saying your fussy could be off putting to women X

Surely if I were to contact them then that would be taken as a compliment then? X

Yeah I guess so. we are picky about who we meet but wouldn't put it on our profile X

Point taken so I will take that bit out x

It's gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Saying your fussy could be off putting to women X

Surely if I were to contact them then that would be taken as a compliment then? X

Yeah I guess so. we are picky about who we meet but wouldn't put it on our profile x

Point taken so I will take that bit out x"

Why would you? I mean seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started as a profile and began to write with people a lot of people wanted to meet but as they found out that I am not British is no longer write so I wrote on the profile I'm Pole and now little what people write with me LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Saying your fussy could be off putting to women X

Surely if I were to contact them then that would be taken as a compliment then? X

Yeah I guess so. we are picky about who we meet but wouldn't put it on our profile x

Point taken so I will take that bit out x

Why would you? I mean seriously?"

I always do as I am told.........well sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Saying your fussy could be off putting to women X

Surely if I were to contact them then that would be taken as a compliment then? X

Yeah I guess so. we are picky about who we meet but wouldn't put it on our profile x

Point taken so I will take that bit out x

Why would you? I mean seriously?

I always do as I am told.........well sometimes

Oh I do hope so lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U just gotta be patient an somethin will happen but there is loads more women than men so gd luck an fussy is gd

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"U just gotta be patient an somethin will happen but there is loads more women than men so gd luck an fussy is gd "

Cheers mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all for the PM's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tried my first club alone...expensive entry for single males and a really poor turnout. Ended up just watching a horny couple...but I will go again, I deffo think it will open up the possibilities of regular meets, new friends and a little less conversion a little more action please...haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps use the word selective instead, but nothing wrong with being fussy either. Would prefer to meet men who were personally.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i tried my first club alone...expensive entry for single males and a really poor turnout. Ended up just watching a horny couple...but I will go again, I deffo think it will open up the possibilities of regular meets, new friends and a little less conversion a little more action please...haha"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"because he is saying to take it as a compliment when he winks at you like your on a list ... but the proof is in the pudding no meets

Why is being fussy a bad thing then?

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I'M not fussy just picky..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been on here a short while now but haven't actually met anyone yet, is anyone local and interested?"

Socials, clubs, patience, less expectation. The keys to happiness here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Saying your fussy could be off putting to women X

Surely if I were to contact them then that would be taken as a compliment then? X

Yeah I guess so. we are picky about who we meet but wouldn't put it on our profile X

Point taken so I will take that bit out x

It's gone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does the song desperado spring to mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why does the song desperado spring to mind

You have weird taste in music

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

"ah right i see i think that he sounds condescending but thats just me

and no i always get out of the right side of the bed lol "

A little bit arrogant too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also your profile says your straight but you want to meet TV/TS, that will put some off as your obviously bi not straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move to Manchester

and you have every right to be picky, we're exactly the same and don't contact everyone we see x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh dear here come the insults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm waiting lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Move to Manchester

and you have every right to be picky, we're exactly the same and don't contact everyone we see x"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been back for 8 weeks and I've not met anyone yet either. You be as fussy / picky / selective as you want OP. I certainly am. Good luck

oh and if you ever find yourself in wildest west Wales .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been on here a short while now but haven't actually met anyone yet, is anyone local and interested?"
Try going to a club, sure you will get plenty of offers. S

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been back for 8 weeks and I've not met anyone yet either. You be as fussy / picky / selective as you want OP. I certainly am. Good luck

oh and if you ever find yourself in wildest west Wales .......

Why thank you kind lady x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been back for 8 weeks and I've not met anyone yet either. You be as fussy / picky / selective as you want OP. I certainly am. Good luck

oh and if you ever find yourself in wildest west Wales .......

Why thank you kind lady x"

You're welcome x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have been on here a short while now but haven't actually met anyone yet, is anyone local and interested? Try going to a club, sure you will get plenty of offers. S

I think I should probably give that a go x

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By *harma and GregCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We sadly don't play at home and we know a fair few couples that don't play at home as well we do like clubs and we go jaydees often and again know a few guys that go there too and get a lot of "play time" however you have to be confident but not conceited when your there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been on here a short while now but haven't actually met anyone yet, is anyone local and interested? Try going to a club, sure you will get plenty of offers. S

I think I should probably give that a go x"
Most of The clubs are really friendly, and the single guys that go seem to strike up friendships and meet up each weekk so you wont be alone, and im sure you will have plenty of fun lol. S

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We sadly don't play at home and we know a fair few couples that don't play at home as well we do like clubs and we go jaydees often and again know a few guys that go there too and get a lot of "play time" however you have to be confident but not conceited when your there!

Conceited? Why would you say that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some good advice given.

All I would say is I am more likely to respond to a good 1st message & a well written profile, make it stand out from the crowd.

The forums are a good way of interacting and getting to know people too, there's a fair few forumites on my hotlist

You look like a nice guy so hopefully it's only a matter of time before you meet someone ~ good luck x

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By *harma and GregCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Because have known men who go to clubs who act arrogant and conceited and they don't get on well you have to have a big smile be approachable and be able to approach people you find attractive not just look at them that won't get you very far! Not meaning to be offensive just trying to help!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some good advice given.

All I would say is I am more likely to respond to a good 1st message & a well written profile, make it stand out from the crowd.

The forums are a good way of interacting and getting to know people too, there's a fair few forumites on my hotlist

You look like a nice guy so hopefully it's only a matter of time before you meet someone ~ good luck x

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As I have already stated I am a little nervous about going to a club in my own the first time round so would anyone like to accompany me or meet me at one?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because have known men who go to clubs who act arrogant and conceited and they don't get on well you have to have a big smile be approachable and be able to approach people you find attractive not just look at them that won't get you very far! Not meaning to be offensive just trying to help!

Ok sorry and thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you do go to a club, go to one that has restrictions on number of single men attending, otherwise you will be one of many many men...that's tougher for a newbie..

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By *harma and GregCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"As I have already stated I am a little nervous about going to a club in my own the first time round so would anyone like to accompany me or meet me at one?"

We would meet you at jaydees but from what I see I don't think we are you cup of tea however we can meet you there and introduce you to some of our friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you do go to a club, go to one that has restrictions on number of single men attending, otherwise you will be one of many many men...that's tougher for a newbie.."

Cheers mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because you've signed up to a site doesn't mean you're entitled to a meet, it takes months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I have already stated I am a little nervous about going to a club in my own the first time round so would anyone like to accompany me or meet me at one?"

Do you need babysitting when you go to a pub? If the answer is no then you won't need company to a club. People might think you're trying to get in cheaper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not new on here? You have been on here before haven't you?

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Since when have high standards been interpreted as condescending, keep at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think saying ya fussy is a good thing. Atleast u are showing u have standards and not a any hole is a goal kinda guy. Stick with it mate.meets will come your way. I have been on here a while and only had one meet from this site.try other sites too. Had most of my meets from outside fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think saying ya fussy is a good thing. Atleast u are showing u have standards and not a any hole is a goal kinda guy. Stick with it mate.meets will come your way. I have been on here a while and only had one meet from this site.try other sites too. Had most of my meets from outside fab."

Cheers mate

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