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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a bi-male I'm not at all phased by some couples requesting contact from straight guys only, though after browsing profiles I'm curious as to why some females refuse contact from bi guys...so, question for the floor (and aimed predominantly at females) would you welcome approaches from bisexual (including bi-curious) guys, and if not, is there any particular reason?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its there choice just accept it and worry about single girls that do meet bi guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I have played with bi guys but I'd always prefer straight. I don't like the idea of guys with guys and it doesn't fit with my image of manly either...

There is also for me the worry in my mind that the clinic always asks specifically about bi guy contact... So I think that plays on my mind.

I know I've met and played with a few lovely bi guys at group events but one on one I would not go there and after a few experiences I'd rather have two straight guys for mmf too...

These are just my preferences

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bi-male I'm not at all phased by some couples requesting contact from straight guys only, though after browsing profiles I'm curious as to why some females refuse contact from bi guys...so, question for the floor (and aimed predominantly at females) would you welcome approaches from bisexual (including bi-curious) guys, and if not, is there any particular reason?"

I read one profile yesterday, where the female stated she was bisexual (not bi curious), and was quite adamant that she wouldn't meet bi or bi curious guys. It's alright for her to have a dual sexuality, but not for men?

It is the worst case of double standards I have seen here in a while.

Mind you, with all the other restrictions and demands for perfection on her profile, I doubt she'll be meeting anyone until the second coming.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its there choice just accept it and worry about single girls that do meet bi guys."

Of course it is a choice, that's not the question. I'm merely curious as to what the reasons may be for that choice, regardless of decision.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

I read a fems profile once that said she would not meet bi men as she has children. not sure what her problem was I asked her politely why didn't reply I just got blocked oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I have played with bi guys but I'd always prefer straight. I don't like the idea of guys with guys and it doesn't fit with my image of manly either...

There is also for me the worry in my mind that the clinic always asks specifically about bi guy contact... So I think that plays on my mind.

I know I've met and played with a few lovely bi guys at group events but one on one I would not go there and after a few experiences I'd rather have two straight guys for mmf too...

These are just my preferences"

Pretty much my reasons also in a nut shell. I would never knowingly play with a bi or bi curious man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know I have played with bi guys but I'd always prefer straight. I don't like the idea of guys with guys and it doesn't fit with my image of manly either...

There is also for me the worry in my mind that the clinic always asks specifically about bi guy contact... So I think that plays on my mind.

I know I've met and played with a few lovely bi guys at group events but one on one I would not go there and after a few experiences I'd rather have two straight guys for mmf too...

These are just my preferences"

Thanks, Cali

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would refuse contact with certain females because of their lifestyle but I never feel the need to justify it.

That is why I never question their choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean no offence btw and as someone that has lots of friends that are tv's and ts's , it'd certainly not a personal thing to anyone else.. just a personal thing to me.

Rightly or wrongly I _iew some acts as something that I want no part of.... And my group play preferences are quiet loose compared to say more intimate.

I have also had a few bad experiences with guys helping themselves to the other guys which I know is bad form... But it did affect my _iews.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I read one profile yesterday, where the female stated she was bisexual (not bi curious), and was quite adamant that she wouldn't meet bi or bi curious guys. It's alright for her to have a dual sexuality, but not for men?

It is the worst case of double standards I have seen here in a while."

Of course it's alright for her to be bisexual but not wish to meet bisexual men - that's her prerogative. So are you of the belief that a straight woman should only welcome contact from straight men?

I think you may have missed the point of my OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would refuse contact with certain females because of their lifestyle but I never feel the need to justify it.

That is why I never question their choice.

"

And acceptance without question is your choice. Some of us are just a little more curious into the 'whys and wherefores'

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I would refuse contact with certain females because of their lifestyle but I never feel the need to justify it.

That is why I never question their choice.

And acceptance without question is your choice. Some of us are just a little more curious into the 'whys and wherefores'"

I know the answers.

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

V has a gay son.

she would rather not imagine what he does with other men

that is the reason

may sound silly, but unless you are in her shoes, and they probably wouldnt fit, you wouldnt know

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"I know I have played with bi guys but I'd always prefer straight. I don't like the idea of guys with guys and it doesn't fit with my image of manly either"

I'm the same. It may not be very pc but I can't help how I feel.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I mean no offence btw and as someone that has lots of friends that are tv's and ts's , it'd certainly not a personal thing to anyone else.. just a personal thing to me.

"

Waves and blows a kiss

I've long since given up being fussed about the whys and wherefores of peeps preferences. People are people and life's like a box of chocolates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will meet bisexual men. Everything they do with a man I have done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean no offence btw and as someone that has lots of friends that are tv's and ts's , it'd certainly not a personal thing to anyone else.. just a personal thing to me.

Waves and blows a kiss

I've long since given up being fussed about the whys and wherefores of peeps preferences. People are people and life's like a box of chocolates. "

You know I'm just jealous of your boobs and you lovely ladies put me to Shame when it comes to heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will meet bisexual men. Everything they do with a man I have done "

Great comment shane your profiles hidden tho lol x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"As a bi-male I'm not at all phased by some couples requesting contact from straight guys only, though after browsing profiles I'm curious as to why some females refuse contact from bi guys...so, question for the floor (and aimed predominantly at females) would you welcome approaches from bisexual (including bi-curious) guys, and if not, is there any particular reason?"

No, and I don't have to justify my choices to anyone. Perhaps if people concentrated their efforts on those interested in them instead of those not, happier bunnies they'd be!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, and I don't have to justify my choices to anyone. Perhaps if people concentrated their efforts on those interested in them instead of those not, happier bunnies they'd be! "

My intention is not to force justification nor a defence. It's merely an open question directed at anyone who wishes to participate.

Had my OP been something along the lines of 'Woe is me, wimmin won't meet us bi lads, goodbye cruel world' then perhaps I could be better employed occupying myself with those who would welcome my attentions. However, my question was rhetorical, not a lament, rant, or seeking of attention on my part.

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"Its there choice just accept it and worry about single girls that do meet bi guys.

Of course it is a choice, that's not the question. I'm merely curious as to what the reasons may be for that choice, regardless of decision. "

Why stress over it ? People have their preferances as no doubt you do. If someone chooses not to meet someone for whatever reason why on Earth should they have to justify their own personal choices ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bi-male I'm not at all phased by some couples requesting contact from straight guys only, though after browsing profiles I'm curious as to why some females refuse contact from bi guys...so, question for the floor (and aimed predominantly at females) would you welcome approaches from bisexual (including bi-curious) guys, and if not, is there any particular reason?

I read one profile yesterday, where the female stated she was bisexual (not bi curious), and was quite adamant that she wouldn't meet bi or bi curious guys. It's alright for her to have a dual sexuality, but not for men?

It is the worst case of double standards I have seen here in a while.

Mind you, with all the other restrictions and demands for perfection on her profile, I doubt she'll be meeting anyone until the second coming."

Why is it double standards? Two women having sex and very different to two men having sex. It's not the same thing at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people don't like the thought of two men having sex. Some people don't like the thought of two women having sex.

...so they don't want to have sex with those people that do.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"No, and I don't have to justify my choices to anyone. Perhaps if people concentrated their efforts on those interested in them instead of those not, happier bunnies they'd be!

My intention is not to force justification nor a defence. It's merely an open question directed at anyone who wishes to participate.

Had my OP been something along the lines of 'Woe is me, wimmin won't meet us bi lads, goodbye cruel world' then perhaps I could be better employed occupying myself with those who would welcome my attentions. However, my question was rhetorical, not a lament, rant, or seeking of attention on my part."

You asked if women would meet bi men and their reasons if "no". Regardless of how you wish to spin it you are asking people to justify their preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have met and still do meet bi and bi curious guys and don't have any issues with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP may consider this.......

I am a Bi-sexual woman and I won't meet bi men. I find it physically sickening to think of two men together. It's a reflex, not something I control. I do in fact have several gay and bi friends, it's just sexual contact with a bi male I can't stomach.

Now, it makes no difference, as it seems a peculiarity of male site members to ignore ANY preferences a woman puts on her site profile BUT when I reject a chancer, I don't give a flying fuck what that chancer thinks! I have stated my preferences clearly so the way I look at it, ignoring them invites rejection.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

love bi guy threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have nothing against bi or bi-sexual men or women, just my preference not to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read one profile yesterday, where the female stated she was bisexual (not bi curious), and was quite adamant that she wouldn't meet bi or bi curious guys. It's alright for her to have a dual sexuality, but not for men?

It is the worst case of double standards I have seen here in a while.

Of course it's alright for her to be bisexual but not wish to meet bisexual men - that's her prerogative. So are you of the belief that a straight woman should only welcome contact from straight men?

I think you may have missed the point of my OP."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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love bi guy threads "

Lol me too. Still won't be wasting anytime trying to agree with folk that cannot read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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love bi guy threads "

I can't stomach them.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


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love bi guy threads

Lol me too. Still won't be wasting anytime trying to agree with folk that cannot read "

there are times that I just chuckle at the thought of the straight man ramming his bi cock in....

and I am totally against dishonesty

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


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love bi guy threads

I can't stomach them.

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