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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Iv lost my mojo

This is really strange for me and it's surprising/shocking me if I'm honest.

What causes this?

How do you get it back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A trip to London?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

usually find most people dont lose their mojo, its just been displaced and later on after whatever it pops up again..

could be for any number of reasons, physical/mental health or just your body saying lets have a rest..?

it will come back..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A trip to London?

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smooth

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"usually find most people dont lose their mojo, its just been displaced and later on after whatever it pops up again..

could be for any number of reasons, physical/mental health or just your body saying lets have a rest..?

it will come back..

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I hope so... I'm lost without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's behind you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You never lose it, it might hide for a little while but it will be back with a bang before you know it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have too

Enjoying my onesie and sofa time.

Can't imagine having a meet it's not a good feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A trip to London?

smooth

Did it work though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's down the back of the sofa !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a lot to do with the weather

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A trip to London?

smooth

Did it work though?

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nothing's working right now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have too

Enjoying my onesie and sofa time.

Can't imagine having a meet it's not a good feeling "
I imagine for a split second but, nothing comes of it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's down the back of the sofa !!!!

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wish it were minx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i lost mine too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You never lose it, it might hide for a little while but it will be back with a bang before you know it!"
it's way out of reach!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv lost my mojo

This is really strange for me and it's surprising/shocking me if I'm honest.

What causes this?

How do you get it back? "

its in my pants come get it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i lost mine too

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how are you dealing with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A trip to London?

smooth

Did it work though?

nothing's working right now"

Where's that butt plug when you need it. It might be all that searching your doing. It's not working.

Guess my free of charge rimming service would be useless too then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv lost my mojo

This is really strange for me and it's surprising/shocking me if I'm honest.

What causes this?

How do you get it back?

its in my pants come get it

Can i do that please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i lost mine too

how are you dealing with it?"

i have a few personal issues going on and i know and think thats why its gone

lack of sleep and no fun dont help either

so a long hot bubble bath will help me i think

((hugs)) it will come back c

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv lost my mojo

This is really strange for me and it's surprising/shocking me if I'm honest.

What causes this?

How do you get it back?

its in my pants come get it

Can i do that please?

anytime but im not wearing any x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i lost mine too

how are you dealing with it?

i have a few personal issues going on and i know and think thats why its gone

lack of sleep and no fun dont help either

so a long hot bubble bath will help me i think

((hugs)) it will come back c"
Iv just had the bath... It's been gone for a bit.... Could do with hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv lost my mojo

This is really strange for me and it's surprising/shocking me if I'm honest.

What causes this?

How do you get it back? "

I think there is a mojo stealing monster on fab... If you find it yours can you please check mine and Lees is not with it please x

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By *elsh n wildCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff area

Read a good filthy book and get it back honey x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do know why mine has gone.... But doesn't make it any easier to get back... Although some hugs from my good friend will help me feel less gloomy. I am thinking I should be called little miss grumpy knickers this week x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv lost my mojo

This is really strange for me and it's surprising/shocking me if I'm honest.

What causes this?

How do you get it back? "

Look behind the sofa things always end up there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Iv lost my mojo

This is really strange for me and it's surprising/shocking me if I'm honest.

What causes this?

How do you get it back?

I think there is a mojo stealing monster on fab... If you find it yours can you please check mine and Lees is not with it please x "
will do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Read a good filthy book and get it back honey x"
any suggestions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weather, lack of sunlight, oh and a birthday coming up all makes the subconscious go nuts.

Get a daylight lamp, or better still jet off to some where warm and sunny, lol.

or do something totally out of your normal routine, like come visit me,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"weather, lack of sunlight, oh and a birthday coming up all makes the subconscious go nuts.

Get a daylight lamp, or better still jet off to some where warm and sunny, lol.

or do something totally out of your normal routine, like come visit me,

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she could.come see me lol anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly I think this is going around and I'm glad I'm not the only one (fem) here. I feel like I'm in a rut of sorts, I'm thinking its the weather, or I'm becoming bored with the same everyday messages of the site, the lack of meets but the onslaught of messages making it seem as though I could have a meet at any moment... I could go on... But I'm not sweating it, just going with the flow, it's been a few weeks and I feel like on some days I'm coming out of it as weird as that sounds, and others where it'll never end....but hearing that its not just me makes me feel alittle better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will find you soon. Don't look for it. It's just valentines wave. Soon it will vanishe away and the need for speed will come to the surface x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a child, when I lost my Mojo I used to make do with Friut Salads, Black Jacks or, Refreshers (the chewy ones not the Swizzle-a-likes) 'til I could get back to the sweet shop!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sadly I think this is going around and I'm glad I'm not the only one (fem) here. I feel like I'm in a rut of sorts, I'm thinking its the weather, or I'm becoming bored with the same everyday messages of the site, the lack of meets but the onslaught of messages making it seem as though I could have a meet at any moment... I could go on... But I'm not sweating it, just going with the flow, it's been a few weeks and I feel like on some days I'm coming out of it as weird as that sounds, and others where it'll never end....but hearing that its not just me makes me feel alittle better!"
Hmmmm same...no one is floating my boat via pm at the moment either. I you get yours soon and also glad I'm not alone.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Read a good filthy book and get it back honey x"

hoooray for profile picS! ... and FYI, I am in total and complete support of everything you might ever, ever, ever say, ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sadly I think this is going around and I'm glad I'm not the only one (fem) here. I feel like I'm in a rut of sorts, I'm thinking its the weather, or I'm becoming bored with the same everyday messages of the site, the lack of meets but the onslaught of messages making it seem as though I could have a meet at any moment... I could go on... But I'm not sweating it, just going with the flow, it's been a few weeks and I feel like on some days I'm coming out of it as weird as that sounds, and others where it'll never end....but hearing that its not just me makes me feel alittle better! Hmmmm same...no one is floating my boat via pm at the moment either. I you get yours soon and also glad I'm not alone."

Thanx I hope you get yours back soon too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same, completely bored of this place. Genuinely can't be bothered and as soon as my site supporters thing is up I'm gone. Can't even be bothered going on cam any more. It's not that I've lost my mojo, it's just this place can really get to you as I realise now and then that this isn't me. I'm a hard working guy who lives on his own, I'm 30 in a couple of years and ponsing about on this. I don't want to have sex with everyone, I want to try and have a regular thing and that isn't gonna happen even if I still have an account here.

I wanted to explore another side of me by being on here but not sure I'm fully ready. Maybe in the future I'll come back as a couple but as I am now, nah, not for me. I've enjoyed the banter and the genuine nice people I've spoke to but even they have been driven away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try relaxing and doing something else you enjoy, usually stress and other things can effect it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try relaxing and doing something else you enjoy, usually stress and other things can effect it. "

Sammi

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By *haunMan
over a year ago

Halton

Big virtual hugs all round to everyone.

Sometimes you just need to switch off, take several days or weeks away for yourself.

Hopefully during that time it starts to work it's way back for you.

Nothing worse than it feeling like a chore.

Wishing you could all have one of those hugs that just holds like a blanket wrapped around you for ages.

Take care and look after yourselves.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv lost my mojo

This is really strange for me and it's surprising/shocking me if I'm honest.

What causes this?

How do you get it back? "

It will come back when the daffodils show their heads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv lost my mojo

This is really strange for me and it's surprising/shocking me if I'm honest.

What causes this?

How do you get it back?

It will come back when the daffodils show their heads "

That's what I think - the snowdrops are out & once Spring begins to emerge we will all feel better. I have one of those alarms that mirrors sunrise etc & it's probably psychological , but does help.

Just need the rain to stop & those mojo's might come sneaking back !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the weather and the site can get you down, but to be honest we hardly meet off here we use this site in another way mainly to keep in contact with people we have met. We attend parties and clubs to meet real people it's just so much easier x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess that I've lost mine as well..... just don't like admitting it..!!

I let somebody hold it for a while and I'm not sure that she wants to keep it - but I don't think that I can be bothered to ask for it back either.....

Maybe time to move on and find a new life for myself..!

As soon as the sun shines again, I'l know what to do..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hope we all get it back soon, mine is that bad Iv even wrote it on my profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So often the lost mojo can be down to a simple shift in perspective . Lack of confidence , or simply the time if the year .

Invariably we each have a different way if dealing with it , some take a break and others get out there to try even harder to find it .

And here is the problem - in the pursuit of finding the missing mojo , one finds the dynamic changing .

The social side takes over , it massages your confidence and you spend a whole evening chatting and trying to cover up the fact that you are actually looking for a hot sexy meet !

Before you know it you have affirmation that you are a lovely person who everyone loves chatting and laughing with .

But in the cold light of day , is that what you want ? Are you no longer sexually attractive ? Why don't these hunky guys want to seductively help you get that sexually charged mojo back ?

The mindset of being at a busy club with no mojo inevitably means you will be on the back foot when a sexual encounter is staring you in the face . The pheromones are dormant , the vibe is social and not sexual .

The answer lies within you being able to recognise this and to not let yourself socialise beyond the point of losing the sexual energy .

Flirt a little , don't spend too long with the same crowd of ' safe ' buddies , clear your mind of the negative thoughts and just see what happens .

Good luck and hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not lost mine, but I'm full of a cold right now ............ so if you want to loan it I'll send it too you for a week.

sniff, sneeze, cough - repeat repeat repeat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the update on everyone's mojo?

...anything i can do to help? I've hidden the socks pictures - that may have contributed a bit lol

All you need to do i think. Is make a day, just for you. Go shopping; lingerie or shoes (whatever makes you feel sexy). Go to a spa, relax or maybe even the gym.

Just distance yourself from everything else and have some 'me' time. I'm in need of that too. Lately received some bad news, so that's been on my mind.

Fingers crossed and legs wide that it doesn't last for long. Or i may have to drag you all to London.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's the update on everyone's mojo?

...anything i can do to help? I've hidden the socks pictures - that may have contributed a bit lol

All you need to do i think. Is make a day, just for you. Go shopping; lingerie or shoes (whatever makes you feel sexy). Go to a spa, relax or maybe even the gym.

Just distance yourself from everything else and have some 'me' time. I'm in need of that too. Lately received some bad news, so that's been on my mind.

Fingers crossed and legs wide that it doesn't last for long. Or i may have to drag you all to London.

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what bad news pops (((hugs)))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the update on everyone's mojo?

...anything i can do to help? I've hidden the socks pictures - that may have contributed a bit lol

All you need to do i think. Is make a day, just for you. Go shopping; lingerie or shoes (whatever makes you feel sexy). Go to a spa, relax or maybe even the gym.

Just distance yourself from everything else and have some 'me' time. I'm in need of that too. Lately received some bad news, so that's been on my mind.

Fingers crossed and legs wide that it doesn't last for long. Or i may have to drag you all to London.

what bad news pops (((hugs)))"

It's just something i'm going to have to get used to. And it should be me giving the hugs! Not the other way round!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think mines even more depleted today. So I'm concentrating on other things.

I'm hosting an event too tonight and hoping no one notices im a grumpy cow... I'm grumpy with everything right now though.. and if I didn't enjoy the forums and have such good friends I'd have deleted my account this week.. going to hide it after tonight though..

I think the post about trying to hard to find it is very true. Hence l went out with my son last night to see a movie.. not done that in ages...

I think though mines gone because im genuinely just not feeling good in myself and am gloomy about everything.

I'm tired today too which never helps. I've dyed my hair, got my eyebrows done.. booked for a facial.. ( normal one lol ) and nope .. still grumpy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You guys just need to go with the flow - you'd find it in the most unexpected places.

You may not be in the mood for anything but the urge may suddenly appear and that's when you know you're back.

When i'm ill i act a bit weird (as you can tell). So, i'm waiting for my illness to fuck off so i can be myself again and go for it..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think mines even more depleted today. So I'm concentrating on other things.

I think the post about trying to hard to find it is very true. Hence l went out with my son last night to see a movie.. not done that in ages...

I think though mines gone because im genuinely just not feeling good in myself and am gloomy about everything.

I'm tired today too which never helps. I've dyed my hair, got my eyebrows done.. booked for a facial.. ( normal one lol ) and nope .. still grumpy x "
Cali Iv hide my account today I think I need a break... I like to come on the forums though and if it wasn't for the forums I would have a complete break! Not delete but, a break.

I'm going get more me time and get organised in personal life and at home... Think I may talk to doctor about my pill too! (((Hugs)))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big virtual hugs all round to everyone.

Sometimes you just need to switch off, take several days or weeks away for yourself.

Hopefully during that time it starts to work it's way back for you.

Nothing worse than it feeling like a chore.

Wishing you could all have one of those hugs that just holds like a blanket wrapped around you for ages.

Take care and look after yourselves.

xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed if it weren't for the forums I'd be out of my mind! Makes me feel some what normal... What ever that is lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You guys just need to go with the flow - you'd find it in the most unexpected places.

You may not be in the mood for anything but the urge may suddenly appear and that's when you know you're back.

When i'm ill i act a bit weird (as you can tell). So, i'm waiting for my illness to fuck off so i can be myself again and go for it..

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pops... If I'm not in the mood how can I get it back?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

OP, you might have left it in your room in West Brom or someone else packed it into their luggage.

They usually find their way home if you leave a light in the window.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You guys just need to go with the flow - you'd find it in the most unexpected places.

You may not be in the mood for anything but the urge may suddenly appear and that's when you know you're back.

When i'm ill i act a bit weird (as you can tell). So, i'm waiting for my illness to fuck off so i can be myself again and go for it..

pops... If I'm not in the mood how can I get it back?"

I told you Aphro. You need some me time for yourself.

...you need to stop stressing over your search for a butt plug and chill lol. Go shopping for shoes or some nice new bedsheets. Treat yourself and take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or come up to Manchester for a no pressure night out. Drinkin. Dancing. Flirting and see if ur mojo reappear s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or come up to Manchester for a no pressure night out. Drinkin. Dancing. Flirting and see if ur mojo reappear s"

Or you all should pop down to London. And i'd show you the doggers automobile that i drive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry girls, I have the solution for returning your lost mojo's.

It's quite a simply procedure, just involves an injection but don't worry it's only a little prick.

Any girl wanting more details just give me a shout

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

Ask GP for a hormone level check ,and a gynae check if you are worried . Other wise eat well , drink plenty fluids , walk everyday and it will return .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry girls, I have the solution for returning your lost mojo's.

It's quite a simply procedure, just involves an injection but don't worry it's only a little prick.

Any girl wanting more details just give me a shout

Does it work for men too?

Try and forget about and concentrate on another part of your life would be my advice. Stressing and having negative thoughts is somewhat counterproductive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry girls, I have the solution for returning your lost mojo's.

It's quite a simply procedure, just involves an injection but don't worry it's only a little prick.

Any girl wanting more details just give me a shout

Does it work for men too?

Try and forget about and concentrate on another part of your life would be my advice. Stressing and having negative thoughts is somewhat counterproductive. "

I once tried the finger up the arse treatment. She must have been looking for my mojo in the wrong place. I didn't walk straight for a few days.

Cor blimey!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry girls, I have the solution for returning your lost mojo's.

It's quite a simply procedure, just involves an injection but don't worry it's only a little prick.

Any girl wanting more details just give me a shout

Does it work for men too?

What did you go and say that for?

I think my mojo has just got up and fucked off now... thanks

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

Mine has gone away again, it's been gone before, I don't know where it goes but it always comes home eventually.

I say don't worry about it, do something else with your energies and enjoy the time unchained from "the lunatic"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv lost mine too

I think there us a mijo theif on fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, you might have left it in your room in West Brom or someone else packed it into their luggage.

They usually find their way home if you leave a light in the window.

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I didn't even have at west brom.. It's been missing a few weeks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine has gone away again, it's been gone before, I don't know where it goes but it always comes home eventually.

I say don't worry about it, do something else with your energies and enjoy the time unchained from "the lunatic"

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By *spot50Man
over a year ago

rochester

Probably stress, & not feeling comfitably with a partner, or just had boring sex, try spicing up your next encounter with some thing new, and most importantly feel comfitably with a partner to let all innerbitions go

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