FabSwingers.com forum: age... in clubs should i, just the men no bitchy women please

By *ingjay OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

Been seeing a girl for a while we been to our local club a few times, met and network with a few couples, but now this 19 ur old has told me I 'have' to take her friend too, have in the context of her friend really wanting to go after they talked about it in college, but who ever shows up at a swingers club with a 19 yt Old and an 18 yr old, all my time swinging ivev taken an older gal, hell we young guys get in to it for the older ones!!! I really ain't sure! And to be fair r.these girls are amazingly good looking, like proper good looking, I can't see them fitting in with conversation, or going without being bitched about, (I dit mean not fitting in cause they young nubile and fit, just not the usual crowd and would be looked soon as immature little girls) so would you take em?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep!!

If they really want to go, without any coercion, take them.

They're old enough by law to do everything else in this country so why not go to a swinging club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been seeing a girl for a while we been to our local club a few times, met and network with a few couples, but now this 19 ur old has told me I 'have' to take her friend too, have in the context of her friend really wanting to go after they talked about it in college, but who ever shows up at a swingers club with a 19 yt Old and an 18 yr old, all my time swinging ivev taken an older gal, hell we young guys get in to it for the older ones!!! I really ain't sure! And to be fair r.these girls are amazingly good looking, like proper good looking, I can't see them fitting in with conversation, or going without being bitched about, (I dit mean not fitting in cause they young nubile and fit, just not the usual crowd and would be looked soon as immature little girls) so would you take em?"

Talk to people you know in the clubs about it and your fears on bitchiness and if they are genuine people with a good nature they will welcome you all without a problem. Ok you might get the hipobitchsaurus types who feel jealous looking down but why worry if others are going to be accepting and prepared to be welcoming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know u only wanted male comments.

However, un bitchy comment here,

if u do decide to take them, make sure its not an over 21's club b4 hand to save them any embsrsssement on the night

And maybe put a post up to see if anyone of similar age groups are going to the club on the same night

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

make sure they can get in the club first, as some are over 21 only. Enjoy and have fun

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

"I know u only wanted male comments.

However, un bitchy comment here,

if u do decide to take them, make sure its not an over 21's club b4 hand to save them any embsrsssement on the night

And maybe put a post up to see if anyone of similar age groups are going to the club on the same night "

you just beat me to it!

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By *heEwokMan
over a year ago

Dartford

I would take them and let them explore there boundary's, I think you will be surprised how some of the more pretty girls are not as sexually active as you might think! If they are social girls and not stuck up I'm sure they will settle and be welcomed into a house party or club. Good luck.

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By *iss_BehavingWoman
over a year ago

manchester

have taken a few friends myself who have loved it...

let em do what they want, youd be surprised how the night could end !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does OP think that older women like myself would be instantly jealous because there were younger women in the same club

I think you'll find that most of us are happy being our age and comfortable with who we are, so don't let that put you off taking younger girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean about preferring older ladies; though if you bring your friends and they seem comfortable talking to older men then who knows? You might end up following their lead and then you'll all have a great time.

But I don't see what the problem with taking them is... You have to start at some age, right?

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

If you are happy and they are happy, just do it and have fun.

I will resist any comments of 'lucky bugger' - well almost resist.

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By *ingjay OP Man
over a year ago

exeter

're: old enough, our local club is 18+, a d we have been a few times, no problems there, if you look deep in ny heart, it's nice to he v these girls, it's flattering, but one, Fuck knows what the 19 yr old sees in me, 2 I've/*we've played a few times together it's been great bit all in all ,swinging for me as a younger guy was always about meeting older women, Charming them and having fun, even though these girls are mentally mature, sexually mature, and know what they want, I still cannot picture them in a club, it feels like I'm actually sinning, and bringing the club down, I don't think (in my mentality) that's what swinging cpubs are for) you can go to a night club for that, although,, as stated they are sexually mature, think that comes with some sort of abuse - if I'm being honest! This Saturday was the weekend, but I will put it off, there are two couples we could meet, I think that a better option!

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Its like everything with swinging and beyond, if you like it and feel comfortable with it do it.

If there is something you are not sure about - don't do it.

It has to be fun, and this doesn't feel like something you think is fun !

as for the couples meet, again if everyone is happy go for it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does OP think that older women like myself would be instantly jealous because there were younger women in the same club

I think you'll find that most of us are happy being our age and comfortable with who we are, so don't let that put you off taking younger girls

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By *illdeeCouple
over a year ago

nr Edinburgh

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

as long as you don't wander around the club thinking they are your "prized possessions" then I don't see an issue...

it funny the amount of times I have seen the male of a couple who bring a single lady with them.... or a single guy who then couples up... walk around a club like they are "billy big bollocks"....

its the quickest way I have seen someone turn into a "Grade A Arse"

p.s... "Billy Big Bollocks" and "Grade A Arse" are both copyrighted by me.....

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Do what feels right

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