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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone lost the buzz for swinging been on here 2 years and had an amazing ride and met some wonderful people and friends for life but lately I've lost that spark .... anyone else had this happen ???

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By *stwoforfun2Couple
over a year ago

South Suffolk Area

I think there are probably loads that have, most probably having left. We have felt like that two or three times over the years, gone away, then come back after a break. It's usual been that we were not finding what we were looking for. Look inside yourself

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

often, I take breaks every few months. It recharges the battery and keeps it fresh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Have had 5 good years but it's time to call it a day now.

Think I've reached my "sell by date"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks thought it was just me going through a bad phase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, definitely. I've been on and off a few times in the last three years. Take a break, get on with real life and come back if that's how you feel. Ive just changed my profile back to say I'm thinking of meeting again but it's a half hearted feeling so I'm in no rush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you feel like that, take a break for a while. The site will still be here when n if you want to return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone lost the buzz for swinging been on here 2 years and had an amazing ride and met some wonderful people and friends for life but lately I've lost that spark .... anyone else had this happen ??? "

We lose the spark all the time.

Mainly down to too much lifestyle BS, timewasters and dreamers.

If we could lose that, we have a much better time.

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks


"Has anyone lost the buzz for swinging been on here 2 years and had an amazing ride and met some wonderful people and friends for life but lately I've lost that spark .... anyone else had this happen ??? "
hide your profile for a while go off and do other things. You may find that after a while your buzz comez back and your profile will still be here. X

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By *stwoforfun2Couple
over a year ago

South Suffolk Area


"Has anyone lost the buzz for swinging been on here 2 years and had an amazing ride and met some wonderful people and friends for life but lately I've lost that spark .... anyone else had this happen ??? hide your profile for a while go off and do other things. You may find that after a while your buzz comez back and your profile will still be here. X"

Great advice that

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Yes, I have recently.

A spate of bad messages, and a fucked up social meet have left me taking a step back.

I still enjoy the forums, and in all honesty will never delete my profile, because I always come back. I've been doing this for 7 years now I think, so I'll always be a swinger, just in different guises as my life progresses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've got no intention of leaving the site. I like the forums and we still get the occaisional message or two.

Thought about hiding our profile but don't suppose it gets read too often anyway so what's the point?

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks


"Has anyone lost the buzz for swinging been on here 2 years and had an amazing ride and met some wonderful people and friends for life but lately I've lost that spark .... anyone else had this happen ??? hide your profile for a while go off and do other things. You may find that after a while your buzz comez back and your profile will still be here. X

Great advice that "
Thank you I think it's better than deleting your profile and then starting afresh as all your veris etc will still be there. Plus your friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Have had 5 good years but it's time to call it a day now.

Think I've reached my "sell by date""

you only have a sell by date when you die

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been swinging for about 5 years in all, we always lose the buzz in winter and tend to do social meets, come spring the buzz comes back and we are away again, we must be seasonal swingers if there's such a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone lost the buzz for swinging been on here 2 years and had an amazing ride and met some wonderful people and friends for life but lately I've lost that spark .... anyone else had this happen ??? "

yup

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Has anyone lost the buzz for swinging been on here 2 years and had an amazing ride and met some wonderful people and friends for life but lately I've lost that spark .... anyone else had this happen ??? "

Yes quite a few times, when it happens we tend to take an extended break.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the great advice guys ....hope to see you all soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few times I've taken a step back and thought what am I doing on here but it doesn't.last too long .

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Has anyone lost the buzz for swinging been on here 2 years and had an amazing ride and met some wonderful people and friends for life but lately I've lost that spark .... anyone else had this happen ??? "

Take up building, mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a break from here yes, give up having sex no

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