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COULD YOU STOP ?

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By *ufalo OP   Man
over a year ago

Fun town

Wondering if this life style could be put behind . If you have tried , how long did you lasted ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Wondering if this life style could be put behind . If you have tried , how long did you lasted ?"

Yes but sexy people make it difficult and so I don't want to.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Wondering if this life style could be put behind . If you have tried , how long did you lasted ?

Yes but sexy people make it difficult and so I don't want to. "

This

We will stop one day,it might be soon or it might be in 20 years. When it stops being fun and becomes more of a chore we will know it's time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only just started...but yes if I woke up one day and felt it was time to I could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We did. It's was over 5 years before we came here. We didn't miss it, didn't talk about it etc. it wasn't that we missed it that brought us here. We just decided we wanted to again.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Easily. Real life comes first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondering if this life style could be put behind . If you have tried , how long did you lasted ?"

Could stop very easily .... Am not addicted like some. Mind you I have never got going really

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By *W69Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Stop yes, whenever we choose to, today, tomorrow, next week, etc

...but at the moment we are both having fun and enjoying ourselves

If the day comes when either one of us isn't enjoying or has any doubts about it then we will hang up our "swinging boots".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think ill stop when no one fancies me or when the zimmer frame gets in the way

Its not a massive part of my life but even so id miss it at the moment so im not ready to stop yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been swinging for two and a half years now .

We have had two breaks so far , when it gets a bit stale .

However , could we stop altogether ?

Really don't know ... its a bit like having tasted the forbidden fruit .

What else would give us the buzz and thrill ?

I guess we could stop , but to be honest we would have to really want to , and at the moment we dont want to stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will stop when I feel it's not fun anymore.

Till then, enjoy the ride!

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We've been swinging regularly for over 10 years now, it's become a very natural and lovely part of our lives and we have no intention of stopping! We've made some lovely sexy friends and we still enjoy the casual side of it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I could give up being me.. having said that if by some miracle I met a guy that one on one was my match and I was all he wanted then maybe.. But I'd miss the social side and actually it would be sharing the man I'd have most issues giving up.

Odd thing that I am x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i ever met someone of importance, then yeah id give this up, at the end of the day its only sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took a four month break from here as I'd lost my mojo, but I would give it up completely if I met someone in the 'real' world and started dating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that I'd have to have someone that wanted to play. As not sure I could ever be monogamous.

I would miss the social side to much too... And sure a guy would be happy for me to let him have his cake and eat itx

However as I couldn't have a relationship even if I wanted one.. it's a mute point lol x

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

No....

I still want to be on here when im 72....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We found that when we first started swinging we were indulging a lot. We would go to clubs every weekend and sometimes in the week too. Its like any new hobby, its all fresh and exciting and decadent.

You can become complacent if you overdo it.

At the moment we are unable to attend parties, clubs, socials etc as work commitments take precedent. It becomes difficult to plan in advance. Life just moves on.

Whilst I admit I do miss swinging at times, the circus social sounded fantastic and I had intended to go, but it coincided with getting my new puppy and the OHs work commitments. I still enjoy the forums as much as ever.

Yes I suppose we could all give it up and probably many of us have gone mad in the early days but settled into a more realistic schedule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We could no problem. We have always said that if one of us is not comfortable anymore with it then it ends there and then and not a problem at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could. I've a nice circle of buddies who are not on here that I call upon for sex, but then luv meeting new people and social side on here too. And I've met some very good friends xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that I'd have to have someone that wanted to play. As not sure I could ever be monogamous.

I would miss the social side to much too... And sure a guy would be happy for me to let him have his cake and eat itx

However as I couldn't have a relationship even if I wanted one.. it's a mute point lol x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondering if this life style could be put behind . If you have tried , how long did you lasted ?"

I was wondering the very same thing when I was chatting to a very attractive padre yesterday!!!

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By *hameleons69Woman
over a year ago

good ship lollipop

Yes no problem, we've been swinging for 17 years and took a 36 hour break in 2013.... will power is all it took xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When nobody wants to fuck you, you've no choice but to pack it in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feels like I have taken the step towards leaving recently, i feel although I have had some quality meets and sexy times my enthusiasm is just taking a dip.

It's easy for me to get my hole on conventional.dating.sites so maybe i will just find a liberated partner in crime to create an.MF profile. ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no i wouldnt want to. i may wait weeks or months even before i find someone who is fairly suitable though.

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