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The first time you watched him

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By *ewantithard OP   Couple
over a year ago

Scotland and SE England

This is for the lady part of a couple.

My biggest fantasy that hasn't yet come true is to see my husband have sex with another woman during a three some. We've have a couple of threesomes but he's never had sex with her. It turns me on so much during masterbation and the thought never fails to make me cum. I'm pretty sure I want to see it but sometimes when I'm not horny anymore I worry that I would regret it.

I think it needs to be with a woman who would let me be in control, a shy girl not a dominant girl so I can go at my pace.

Can you remember your first time seeing that? Were there any feelings of jealousy that went away after you felt how good it was? Or did you just know it would be fine?

I would love to be experienced enough to just relax and let what ever happens happen but I feel that next step needs to happen slowly with someone willing to ease us into it.

Any thoughts?

Thanks x

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By *ewantithard OP   Couple
over a year ago

Scotland and SE England

If there are any guys part of a couple who are willing to ask their other half about this and get back to me that would also be great thanks

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

I am the same. Its always been a fantasy of mine to see my fella having sex with another woman. And it usually leads to me having a good orgasm.

I had reservations at first that it might cause so much jealously on my part so was slow to let it happen. I've always been OK to have sex with men as my fella finds it a massive turn on.

As time went on and we soft swapped etc, I chilled out and our meets have left us wanting more opposed to doing too much and regretting it.

We reached the point a few months ago where we have relaxed to it and I've felt very comfortable. Enough for me to say "I really want to see you inside her now".

The first time, I was in a 69 with the lady with her on top while my fella had sex with her from behind. I was able to see the penetration very clearly and wow! What a turn on! Its as good as the fantasy. I'm all about seeing the penetration so that was a great first experience....

Since then Ive been very happy to see him with other women. Its horny as hell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your thinking seems to have switched Gender half way through, why and how would you be dominant when your other half is shagging another woman ? Once the old man is banging the arse off another bird HE is the one in control

Gary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am the same. Its always been a fantasy of mine to see my fella having sex with another woman. And it usually leads to me having a good orgasm.

I had reservations at first that it might cause so much jealously on my part so was slow to let it happen. I've always been OK to have sex with men as my fella finds it a massive turn on.

As time went on and we soft swapped etc, I chilled out and our meets have left us wanting more opposed to doing too much and regretting it.

We reached the point a few months ago where we have relaxed to it and I've felt very comfortable. Enough for me to say "I really want to see you inside her now".

The first time, I was in a 69 with the lady with her on top while my fella had sex with her from behind. I was able to see the penetration very clearly and wow! What a turn on! Its as good as the fantasy. I'm all about seeing the penetration so that was a great first experience....

Since then Ive been very happy to see him with other women. Its horny as hell! "

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"I am the same. Its always been a fantasy of mine to see my fella having sex with another woman. And it usually leads to me having a good orgasm.

I had reservations at first that it might cause so much jealously on my part so was slow to let it happen. I've always been OK to have sex with men as my fella finds it a massive turn on.

As time went on and we soft swapped etc, I chilled out and our meets have left us wanting more opposed to doing too much and regretting it.

We reached the point a few months ago where we have relaxed to it and I've felt very comfortable. Enough for me to say "I really want to see you inside her now".

The first time, I was in a 69 with the lady with her on top while my fella had sex with her from behind. I was able to see the penetration very clearly and wow! What a turn on! Its as good as the fantasy. I'm all about seeing the penetration so that was a great first experience....

Since then Ive been very happy to see him with other women. Its horny as hell! "

*waves*

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By *ewantithard OP   Couple
over a year ago

Scotland and SE England


"Your thinking seems to have switched Gender half way through, why and how would you be dominant when your other half is shagging another woman ? Once the old man is banging the arse off another bird HE is the one in control

Gary"

yes but up until that point I need to be the one to say right now i'm ready to put your cock inside her, I want to put the condom on and I want to use my hand to slide him inside, then i think i will be comfortable and turned on enough to let him bang away

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By *ewantithard OP   Couple
over a year ago

Scotland and SE England

Pleasures4 thanks for your reply, that makes me feel good as I feel it will happen like that too. after speaking to women on here i am getting to know what I want and what I'm comfortable with, if a woman is telling me she's going to beg for my husbands cock inside her i get turned off because i might not be ready for it at that point and would panic, but if the woman was all for respecting my boundaries and didn't say anything, didn't beg for it, I think i would be desperate for him to put it inside her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it's best to keep a fantasy a fantasy, what could happen if he enjoys sex with someone else more than you? could it be the first step to ending a relationship, jealousy, ego, chasing the perfect fuck????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to watch.

As long as there are no misunderstandings there must not be jelousy or it would be a sign, it is not for you.

Nette

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By *ewantithard OP   Couple
over a year ago

Scotland and SE England


"Sometimes it's best to keep a fantasy a fantasy, what could happen if he enjoys sex with someone else more than you? could it be the first step to ending a relationship, jealousy, ego, chasing the perfect fuck????"

I trust him 100%, we are a happily married couple and if it doesn't happen we will still be happy with our sex lives, we have a great sex life, just wanting to enhance it even further. Him having sex with another woman is more for me to live my fantasy than him to live his, of course he isn't opposed to the idea and is happy to oblige

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I was the same as you. Eventually we came to the understanding that we would try it once and if it didn't feel right we would put it behind us and carry on.

We were lucky enough to find a great couple that play as relaxed as we do. So when it happened it was as I thought it would be and soooo much fun. Not to mention horny!

Now I love to watch other women experience what I have!

D xx

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By *ewantithard OP   Couple
over a year ago

Scotland and SE England


"I would love to watch.

As long as there are no misunderstandings there must not be jelousy or it would be a sign, it is not for you.

Nette "

I look forward to the first time it happens, I'm nervous too, i think nerves and jealousy are different but you never know, i might absolutely hate it if it happened. But i don't think so. As long as he's protected I feel fine, i don't however like the idea of him riding bare back.

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By *ewantithard OP   Couple
over a year ago

Scotland and SE England


"I was the same as you. Eventually we came to the understanding that we would try it once and if it didn't feel right we would put it behind us and carry on.

We were lucky enough to find a great couple that play as relaxed as we do. So when it happened it was as I thought it would be and soooo much fun. Not to mention horny!

Now I love to watch other women experience what I have!

D xx"

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By *ewantithard OP   Couple
over a year ago

Scotland and SE England

Thanks for your replies

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By *unforfiCouple
over a year ago

CHELTENHAM

This is my fantasy too and we are very curious and keen to try. I have posted a couple of times on the forum about this, but with very little interest. Pleased to see there are some other ladies out there with the same desires/interest as us x

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By *ewantithard OP   Couple
over a year ago

Scotland and SE England


"This is my fantasy too and we are very curious and keen to try. I have posted a couple of times on the forum about this, but with very little interest. Pleased to see there are some other ladies out there with the same desires/interest as us x"

Shame you're not closer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah your not alone. This thought gets me every time. The honey part of me wants to try it, it would be really hot but then I'm not sure how I would feel after. Once it's done there's no going back but it's something I would love to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there are any nagging doubts "don't", until you are sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've held open my ladys pussy for another man to pleasure her with his tongue & cock. I'd like her to pleasure a lady ( which she likes), then to hold my cock & guide it into the lady to give & take pleasure until all are satisfied. Where's the problem ?xxx

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