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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you women like a good fingering? my ex didn't like it much & only let me do it for a short while but I love doing it....

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

yep most definately all part of the fun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love doing it, but my wife prefers cock to fingers for some reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im all about penetration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love doing it, but my wife prefers cock to fingers for some reason!"

I enjoy it but prefer a cock too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it too

But what I don't like is the mission men get to make a woman squirt

Stop it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it too

But what I don't like is the mission men get to make a woman squirt

Stop it "

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By *illxxMan
over a year ago

motherwell

If you do it rite you can get a woman to squirt loads then you can have penetration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you do it rite you can get a woman to squirt loads then you can have penetration "

I rest my case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you do it rite you can get a woman to squirt loads then you can have penetration

I rest my case"

Pffft men

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By *illxxMan
over a year ago

motherwell

If a guy knows what he is doing he doesn't need to be fingering long to make a woman squirt there is no point it making her pussy to sensitive it just wastes the hole experience for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I finger fucked a ladys ass and pussy at the same time. And she squirted very hard it was very horny

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By *illxxMan
over a year ago

motherwell

I thought a guy couldn't multitask ?

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I like it but also agree that some men are on a mission to make women squirt - and that's not fun and is a total turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen guys, fingering is good, if.

You clip your nails first.

rince the chip fat and oil off with swarfega..first.

be gentle, your not trying to find a golf ball!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lady must be in the right mood to like fingering fun and if so it can be a real buzz for all

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By *illxxMan
over a year ago

motherwell

If a guy knows what he is doing and not fingering for ages then it's really horny watching the woman squirt but guys if your down there fingering for ages it's just going to make her pussy to sensitive and waste the full experience for her

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"If a guy knows what he is doing and not fingering for ages then it's really horny watching the woman squirt but guys if your down there fingering for ages it's just going to make her pussy to sensitive and waste the full experience for her "

Personally, I don't like squirting very much - even with some guys who can make me do it almost instantaneously and seemingly no effort. And making me squirt and fingering me well are not the same thing at all.

When will guys stop being so hung up on squirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit squirting is only a turn on for you

For us it's just a mess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea but not too rough, it turns me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen guys, fingering is good, if.

You clip your nails first.

rince the chip fat and oil off with swarfega..first.

be gentle, your not trying to find a golf ball!! "

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By *unseakersCouple
over a year ago

Tropical SW & frozen North


"I like it too

But what I don't like is the mission men get to make a woman squirt

Stop it "

But squirting is the ultimate hottest thing so why not try to achieve it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it too

But what I don't like is the mission men get to make a woman squirt

Stop it

But squirting is the ultimate hottest thing so why not try to achieve it?? "

For you maybe...not for everyone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it too

But what I don't like is the mission men get to make a woman squirt

Stop it "

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford


"I like it too

But what I don't like is the mission men get to make a woman squirt

Stop it

"

Agree with that!! What is the obsession??

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I like it too

But what I don't like is the mission men get to make a woman squirt

Stop it "

Or they finger you so badly that it's almost as if they are trying to stuff a Christmas turkey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it too

But what I don't like is the mission men get to make a woman squirt

Stop it

Or they finger you so badly that it's almost as if they are trying to stuff a Christmas turkey. "

Gobble Gobble

OH!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it too

But what I don't like is the mission men get to make a woman squirt

Stop it

But squirting is the ultimate hottest thing so why not try to achieve it?? "

what a lot of Bollox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it too

But what I don't like is the mission men get to make a woman squirt

Stop it "

this

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I like it too

But what I don't like is the mission men get to make a woman squirt

Stop it

this "

This is what puts a lot of women off fingering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy knows what he is doing and not fingering for ages then it's really horny watching the woman squirt but guys if your down there fingering for ages it's just going to make her pussy to sensitive and waste the full experience for her

Personally, I don't like squirting very much - even with some guys who can make me do it almost instantaneously and seemingly no effort. And making me squirt and fingering me well are not the same thing at all.

When will guys stop being so hung up on squirting "
I prefere it watching the woman fingering herself at least she knows what she's doing and then she can squirt into my mouth. I love the taste. Any offers girls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy knows what he is doing and not fingering for ages then it's really horny watching the woman squirt but guys if your down there fingering for ages it's just going to make her pussy to sensitive and waste the full experience for her "
nope sorry my gal loves a fingering for ages because i make sure the tease is there and baby oil too maybe for a hour while layed there 6 or 7 orgasms slippy fingers always and she goes on and on and on we love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really interested in her squirting at all i am very interested in her moaning and cumming over and over again thats what makes me so hard when she is cumming and wanting more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to receive oral and being fingered at the same time.

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Has this thread been hijacked by the squirt brigade?

I always thought fingering was about a little more than getting a woman to gush....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like fingering as a foreplay thing, teasey kind of thing, it should be the warm up act not the headline act

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I like it too

But what I don't like is the mission men get to make a woman squirt

Stop it

But squirting is the ultimate hottest thing so why not try to achieve it?? "

This is tongue in cheek right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has this thread been hijacked by the squirt brigade?

I always thought fingering was about a little more than getting a woman to gush.... "

Well said ....I cum and if that's not enough for the man I'm with tough. Thankfully they enjoy it when I cum so all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I for one dont like the idea dont even think about it when she cums she is amazing and moaning for more that is enough for us not interested at all in squirting !each to his own and all thet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think i get the squirting appeal tbh,

the main thing surely is her enjoyment if she doesn't enjoy the type of fingering that causes squirting/ doesn't enjoy squirting I don't think that's the road to go down.

Just go with the flow, if that causes flow and you're into it it's a bonus for you but surely fingering is for her enjoyment not yours

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't think i get the squirting appeal tbh,

the main thing surely is her enjoyment if she doesn't enjoy the type of fingering that causes squirting/ doesn't enjoy squirting I don't think that's the road to go down.

Just go with the flow, if that causes flow and you're into it it's a bonus for you but surely fingering is for her enjoyment not yours"

Sex is hopefully for mutual enjoyment but I think that a lot of people use these threads to advertise their skills rather than contribute to a discussion. That's useful because you can find people that match or otherwise and it tells you a great deal about a guys attitude to women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fingering is a delicate thing really because I cam imagine that some guys dive straight in before the woman is turned on and wet which I cant see it being nice for the woman, fore play is the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes if its done the way i like it.

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley


"Has this thread been hijacked by the squirt brigade?

I always thought fingering was about a little more than getting a woman to gush....

Well said ....I cum and if that's not enough for the man I'm with tough. Thankfully they enjoy it when I cum so all good "

May I......

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

i not like guys getting rough either and ive never figured what it is they do at times but it feels like they are clamping you open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find most guys haven't got a clue what to do xx x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find most guys haven't got a clue what to do xx x"

Hahaha you havnt had my magic fingers yet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny when men on here think they know a womans body better than thw woman and argue with her. You would think reading what the women are saying and taking notice would be a better idea..... Ego bigger than the brain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like men who play with and around my clit and outside my pussy, gently using lots of lube.

hate it when they put a finger or fingers inside of me.

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By *ice Thick CockkMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I love giving it a good rub and then using my tounge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Licking the clit and playing with it with the tongue as you rub the the womans thighs and body and the tits not pulling the nipples hard softly rubbing over them as u flicking the clit with ur tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it too

But what I don't like is the mission men get to make a woman squirt

Stop it

this

This is what puts a lot of women off fingering."

Exactly!!

If a guy says to me 'I'm going to make you squirt with my fingers' ....I'm like no thanks I'll do it myself,that way I know I'll enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find most guys haven't got a clue what to do xx x

Hahaha you havnt had my magic fingers yet lol"

If I had a quid for every time someone said that to me and I was then less than impressed I'd be very wealthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find most guys haven't got a clue what to do xx x

Hahaha you havnt had my magic fingers yet lol

If I had a quid for every time someone said that to me and I was then less than impressed I'd be very wealthy "

It like a woman saying im the best at bj lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think i get the squirting appeal tbh,

the main thing surely is her enjoyment if she doesn't enjoy the type of fingering that causes squirting/ doesn't enjoy squirting I don't think that's the road to go down.

Just go with the flow, if that causes flow and you're into it it's a bonus for you but surely fingering is for her enjoyment not yours

Sex is hopefully for mutual enjoyment but I think that a lot of people use these threads to advertise their skills rather than contribute to a discussion. That's useful because you can find people that match or otherwise and it tells you a great deal about a guys attitude to women."

Good sex should definitely be about mutual enjoyment. So many guys see making a woman squirt/gush as some kind of goal/trophy you have to wonder whether they are actually interested in her pleasure at all or whether its all about proving their own prowess?!

Is it a coincidence that many (I'm not saying all!) of the guys who seem to "get it" when it comes to a woman's pleasure have long term partners?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fingering is a delicate thing really because I cam imagine that some guys dive straight in before the woman is turned on and wet which I cant see it being nice for the woman, fore play is the answer "

fingering is fore play. Kiss and gently stroke at the same time and see how wet a woman gets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find most guys haven't got a clue what to do xx x

Hahaha you havnt had my magic fingers yet lol

If I had a quid for every time someone said that to me and I was then less than impressed I'd be very wealthy

It like a woman saying im the best at bj lol "

I never say that ... Just that others seem to enjoy it x

But most guys just seem to have No clue x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find most guys haven't got a clue what to do xx x

Hahaha you havnt had my magic fingers yet lol

If I had a quid for every time someone said that to me and I was then less than impressed I'd be very wealthy

It like a woman saying im the best at bj lol "

we only go by what the man says to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it, I like it even more when a guy knows what he's doing!!!! That's so important and also just because I really enjoy being fingered and might even cum from it....I still want your cock after! please and thank you of course

Lol

And I also agree stop with the mission to make a us squirt... Sometimes I do sometimes I don't... It's that simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it too

But what I don't like is the mission men get to make a woman squirt

Stop it

this

This is what puts a lot of women off fingering.

Exactly!!

If a guy says to me 'I'm going to make you squirt with my fingers' ....I'm like no thanks I'll do it myself,that way I know I'll enjoy it "

My view is that the only goal should be enjoyment and pleasure and that comes from everything that you do together not something to strive to achieve. Getting it right with a woman requires good communication and noticing her responses especially if it is the first time. Every woman is different and learning how to please her is a challenge to the male ego.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it too

But what I don't like is the mission men get to make a woman squirt

Stop it

this

This is what puts a lot of women off fingering.

Exactly!!

If a guy says to me 'I'm going to make you squirt with my fingers' ....I'm like no thanks I'll do it myself,that way I know I'll enjoy it

My view is that the only goal should be enjoyment and pleasure and that comes from everything that you do together not something to strive to achieve. Getting it right with a woman requires good communication and noticing her responses especially if it is the first time. Every woman is different and learning how to please her is a challenge to the male ego. "

I totally agree with everything you've said (and the same should apply to women pleasuring men) - right up to the last line, good sex shouldn't be about ego at all but men being men ...............!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it too

But what I don't like is the mission men get to make a woman squirt

Stop it

this

This is what puts a lot of women off fingering.

Exactly!!

If a guy says to me 'I'm going to make you squirt with my fingers' ....I'm like no thanks I'll do it myself,that way I know I'll enjoy it

My view is that the only goal should be enjoyment and pleasure and that comes from everything that you do together not something to strive to achieve. Getting it right with a woman requires good communication and noticing her responses especially if it is the first time. Every woman is different and learning how to please her is a challenge to the male ego.

I totally agree with everything you've said (and the same should apply to women pleasuring men) - right up to the last line, good sex shouldn't be about ego at all but men being men ...............!!!"

The mutual exploration is the fun of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being fingered. Instant turn on for me :*

Prefer it to be licked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After 30 mins soft tounging it seems 2 fingers inside as the thumb slowey rubs above makes my girl quiver and quiver and quiver

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Do you women like a good fingering? my ex didn't like it much & only let me do it for a short while but I love doing it...."

as long as done properly and not as though your poking the fire lol

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By *atchadreamWoman
over a year ago

ST NEOTS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to do oral first for quite abit so the woman is relaxed and wet be fingering but its got to be slow and not tring to push every finger in at once lol

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By *atchadreamWoman
over a year ago

ST NEOTS

Im with you...

When I read the comments I make notes of who has the skill or approach I like....

So far has worked for me, no many disapointments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it !! Love being fingered pussy and ass. If he wants to make me squirt, bring it on, but any fingering is good!! I enjoy the different sensations to cock, and gives you a different orgasm, well for me it does.

Fingers welcome here

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By *ate_night_massageMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"But what I don't like is the mission men get to make a woman squirt"

I'm quite the opposite - I find it a turn off. A couple of times I've had women proudly tell me that they squirt, and I can't help thinking "yuck".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it and dare I say guys sometimes prefer it to cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my best trick. Its where I'm most confident.

Had a few girls bucking of the edge of the bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan of it, makes sex painful as they try and ram their fingers in too fast before any other foreplay! -)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like anything where a woman is involved, there will be no rushing

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