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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is it irresponsible and dangerous ? what are the risks of stds on the unborn baby ? and would guys find it a turn on or off! also should the father of the unborn child have a right to know ? opinions please and experience if you have

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

is it irresponsible and dangerous ? YES what are the risks of stds on the unborn baby ? ONE IS TOO MANY

and would guys find it a turn on or off! OFF also should the father of the unborn child have a right to know ? YES opinions please and experience if you have NO

their choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as its safe sex or safe oral there is less risk, but its the womans choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huge no no in our books. Wouldn't entertain the idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife was late with our first baby, the women Doctor told us to go home and have some good sex

the baby was born that day and fine

my wife hates women who turn pregnancy into an illness

the only thing i didnt like was the longer it went on the less her pussy tasted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As long as its safe sex or safe oral there is less risk, but its the womans choice. "
it's the womans choice? if the the father disagrees and thinks it's not responsible or safe ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something I'd do personally, but as always, each to their own.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"My wife was late with our first baby, the women Doctor told us to go home and have some good sex

the baby was born that day and fine

my wife hates women who turn pregnancy into an illness

the only thing i didnt like was the longer it went on the less her pussy tasted"

Would you have been happy for your wife to have sex with a random bloke of a swinging site?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My wife was late with our first baby, the women Doctor told us to go home and have some good sex

the baby was born that day and fine

my wife hates women who turn pregnancy into an illness

the only thing i didnt like was the longer it went on the less her pussy tasted

Would you have been happy for your wife to have sex with a random bloke of a swinging site?"
well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like research for an article.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats down to her though not you, it depends on what terms there on with each other. whether their a couple or not, its not something i would get involved in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im due to give birth in 5 weeks, but I only soft swing with women only, never men. To me that's for my partner only, but with how big i am, we're only doing social meets till after the birth. But doctors do say that sex is good for pregnant women and promote it, my personal choice though I wouldnt have full sex with another man. But thats just me, if the woman is happy to continue all the way through then thats down to her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife was late with our first baby, the women Doctor told us to go home and have some good sex

the baby was born that day and fine

my wife hates women who turn pregnancy into an illness

the only thing i didnt like was the longer it went on the less her pussy tasted

Would you have been happy for your wife to have sex with a random bloke of a swinging site?"

Its an unfuluilled fantasy of mine to see a her have sex with another man, be it a mate or a stranger.

She carried on here everyday life whilst pregnant so why not sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"thats down to her though not you, it depends on what terms there on with each other. whether their a couple or not, its not something i would get involved in "
i'm not involved in any way! i'm just interested in what _iews are out there on the matter! personally I believe the father has a right to intervene if he fears for his Childs safety!! be it born or unborn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife was late with our first baby, the women Doctor told us to go home and have some good sex

the baby was born that day and fine

my wife hates women who turn pregnancy into an illness

the only thing i didnt like was the longer it went on the less her pussy tasted"

not really answering the question, noone said pregnant woman should not have sex, sex while pregnant is fine, but would you have wanted your wife shagging men off here while she was carrying your child? What if the condom came off and he had a STI, your child could be born blind or worse, not wanting to risk that does not mean you see your pregnancy as an illness

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"My wife was late with our first baby, the women Doctor told us to go home and have some good sex

the baby was born that day and fine

my wife hates women who turn pregnancy into an illness

the only thing i didnt like was the longer it went on the less her pussy tasted

Would you have been happy for your wife to have sex with a random bloke of a swinging site?

Its an unfuluilled fantasy of mine to see a her have sex with another man, be it a mate or a stranger.

She carried on here everyday life whilst pregnant so why not sex"

You're missing what I'm asking. Pregnancy isn't an illness and I continued having sex with my husband until it became uncomfortable. What I'm asking is would you want to see your pregnant wife being banged by some random man she met via a swinging site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thats down to her though not you, it depends on what terms there on with each other. whether their a couple or not, its not something i would get involved in i'm not involved in any way! i'm just interested in what _iews are out there on the matter! personally I believe the father has a right to intervene if he fears for his Childs safety!! be it born or unborn!"

but what about her choice though, she has just as much right to have sex with someone as he does, granted she has a responsibility to keep her child safe but also she has a right to enjoy her life as well. Like someone else said quite rightly its not an illness

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"My wife was late with our first baby, the women Doctor told us to go home and have some good sex

the baby was born that day and fine

my wife hates women who turn pregnancy into an illness

the only thing i didnt like was the longer it went on the less her pussy tasted

not really answering the question, noone said pregnant woman should not have sex, sex while pregnant is fine, but would you have wanted your wife shagging men off here while she was carrying your child? What if the condom came off and he had a STI, your child could be born blind or worse, not wanting to risk that does not mean you see your pregnancy as an illness "

Thank you, I thought I hadn't made it clear.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"thats down to her though not you, it depends on what terms there on with each other. whether their a couple or not, its not something i would get involved in i'm not involved in any way! i'm just interested in what _iews are out there on the matter! personally I believe the father has a right to intervene if he fears for his Childs safety!! be it born or unborn!

but what about her choice though, she has just as much right to have sex with someone as he does, granted she has a responsibility to keep her child safe but also she has a right to enjoy her life as well. Like someone else said quite rightly its not an illness "
your _iew is he can have an opinion but no right to protect his child?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife was late with our first baby, the women Doctor told us to go home and have some good sex

the baby was born that day and fine

my wife hates women who turn pregnancy into an illness

the only thing i didnt like was the longer it went on the less her pussy tasted

not really answering the question, noone said pregnant woman should not have sex, sex while pregnant is fine, but would you have wanted your wife shagging men off here while she was carrying your child? What if the condom came off and he had a STI, your child could be born blind or worse, not wanting to risk that does not mean you see your pregnancy as an illness "

Do apologise, tricky one, if you put it that way then no i wouldnt like my babbies to be harmed by illness. but if i could guarentee him being clean then yes i wouldnt mind at all if she had sex with another guy

I wouldnt want him at the birth tho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no way i would have swung while pregnant just as i didn't smoke or drink, its nothing to do with thinking i was ill its to do with not risking harming my child, if i had cought something and my child had been born with health issues i would have had to live with the fact i caused that for the sake of a shag and j don't think i could live knowing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

another point of _iew that came to me is of course that he know she swings before they decided to have a child! just like if she smoked or drank heavy! although I would expect her to give up all three if she was pregnant and would hope she would want to give up all three!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thats down to her though not you, it depends on what terms there on with each other. whether their a couple or not, its not something i would get involved in i'm not involved in any way! i'm just interested in what _iews are out there on the matter! personally I believe the father has a right to intervene if he fears for his Childs safety!! be it born or unborn!

if that was the case then, do we go back to cave times where women are not allowed to have a say in anything, not allowed to do anything, and only allowed to speak when spoken to. He does have the right to make his point to her, but would he stop having sex with other women in case he catches something. i dont think he would, but it is each to their own and there is no right or wrong answer.

but what about her choice though, she has just as much right to have sex with someone as he does, granted she has a responsibility to keep her child safe but also she has a right to enjoy her life as well. Like someone else said quite rightly its not an illness your _iew is he can have an opinion but no right to protect his child? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"thats down to her though not you, it depends on what terms there on with each other. whether their a couple or not, its not something i would get involved in i'm not involved in any way! i'm just interested in what _iews are out there on the matter! personally I believe the father has a right to intervene if he fears for his Childs safety!! be it born or unborn!

but what about her choice though, she has just as much right to have sex with someone as he does, granted she has a responsibility to keep her child safe but also she has a right to enjoy her life as well. Like someone else said quite rightly its not an illness "
take this scenario ! someone who you care about ! say your sister; daughter is pregnant and is smoking and drinking heavily ! would you suit back and say it's her choice or intervene and try help her have a safer pregnancy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

it's her choice to get pregnant! but it's not her choice to put a babies life at risk!!!

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"thats down to her though not you, it depends on what terms there on with each other. whether their a couple or not, its not something i would get involved in i'm not involved in any way! i'm just interested in what _iews are out there on the matter! personally I believe the father has a right to intervene if he fears for his Childs safety!! be it born or unborn!"

What if the mother was smoking, drank alcohol, or even continued to drive

All of these things have a risk to the live of the baby (small I know but not zero), would you discuss every activity that potentially carried an above zero mortality risk with the mother?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thats down to her though not you, it depends on what terms there on with each other. whether their a couple or not, its not something i would get involved in i'm not involved in any way! i'm just interested in what _iews are out there on the matter! personally I believe the father has a right to intervene if he fears for his Childs safety!! be it born or unborn!

but what about her choice though, she has just as much right to have sex with someone as he does, granted she has a responsibility to keep her child safe but also she has a right to enjoy her life as well. Like someone else said quite rightly its not an illness take this scenario ! someone who you care about ! say your sister; daughter is pregnant and is smoking and drinking heavily ! would you suit back and say it's her choice or intervene and try help her have a safer pregnancy!

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I would give them advice but its their choice so yes I wouldnt get involved, just the same as the fact i refuse to vaccinate my children, I dont expect anyone ramming it down my thought as that is my choice. Whether someone agrees or not we all have to make our own choices and live with them, its not a police state.

but lets spin this the woman and the babies father are together, he doesnt want to have sex with her just oral. so she turns to her toys but gives him oral when he wants it, but he gets an escort round, or gets a woman of a swinging site, what about then there is still a risk but I guess he wouldnt get slated but he is not pregnant. its 6 and 2 3's. if your not comfortable with having sex with a pregnant woman then dont. but end of the day everyone has the right to choose a path to take whether people agree or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thats down to her though not you, it depends on what terms there on with each other. whether their a couple or not, its not something i would get involved in i'm not involved in any way! i'm just interested in what _iews are out there on the matter! personally I believe the father has a right to intervene if he fears for his Childs safety!! be it born or unborn!

What if the mother was smoking, drank alcohol, or even continued to drive

All of these things have a risk to the live of the baby (small I know but not zero), would you discuss every activity that potentially carried an above zero mortality risk with the mother?"

driving? Have i missed something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"thats down to her though not you, it depends on what terms there on with each other. whether their a couple or not, its not something i would get involved in i'm not involved in any way! i'm just interested in what _iews are out there on the matter! personally I believe the father has a right to intervene if he fears for his Childs safety!! be it born or unborn!

What if the mother was smoking, drank alcohol, or even continued to drive

All of these things have a risk to the live of the baby (small I know but not zero), would you discuss every activity that potentially carried an above zero mortality risk with the mother?

driving? Have i missed something?"
no you have not

he has! lol

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


" i'm not involved in any way! i'm just interested in what _iews are out there on the matter! personally I believe the father has a right to intervene if he fears for his Childs safety!! be it born or unborn!"

what is the relevance of the father of the child not knowing..?

if you were interested in the primary issue why add that..?

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"thats down to her though not you, it depends on what terms there on with each other. whether their a couple or not, its not something i would get involved in i'm not involved in any way! i'm just interested in what _iews are out there on the matter! personally I believe the father has a right to intervene if he fears for his Childs safety!! be it born or unborn!

What if the mother was smoking, drank alcohol, or even continued to drive

All of these things have a risk to the live of the baby (small I know but not zero), would you discuss every activity that potentially carried an above zero mortality risk with the mother?

driving? Have i missed something?"

1754 people died on our roads last year, driving carries a mortality risk to the mother and child, small for an individual person, but still there

If the father has to speak to the mother about all potential risks to the live of the child then driving is in there

(I'm not advocating this but the logical extension of the original argument is that the father has the right to discuss all activities with a theoretical risk to the baby)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

do tit wear a helmet when driving?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

do you wear a helmet when driving?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"thats down to her though not you, it depends on what terms there on with each other. whether their a couple or not, its not something i would get involved in i'm not involved in any way! i'm just interested in what _iews are out there on the matter! personally I believe the father has a right to intervene if he fears for his Childs safety!! be it born or unborn!

What if the mother was smoking, drank alcohol, or even continued to drive

All of these things have a risk to the live of the baby (small I know but not zero), would you discuss every activity that potentially carried an above zero mortality risk with the mother?

driving? Have i missed something?

1754 people died on our roads last year, driving carries a mortality risk to the mother and child, small for an individual person, but still there

If the father has to speak to the mother about all potential risks to the live of the child then driving is in there

(I'm not advocating this but the logical extension of the original argument is that the father has the right to discuss all activities with a theoretical risk to the baby)"

Hardly an intellectual argument. Driving to work is one thing, banger racing is another. Sex with your partner one thing, promiscuous people something all together different.

Well it is to me with my simple brain!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thats down to her though not you, it depends on what terms there on with each other. whether their a couple or not, its not something i would get involved in i'm not involved in any way! i'm just interested in what _iews are out there on the matter! personally I believe the father has a right to intervene if he fears for his Childs safety!! be it born or unborn!

What if the mother was smoking, drank alcohol, or even continued to drive

All of these things have a risk to the live of the baby (small I know but not zero), would you discuss every activity that potentially carried an above zero mortality risk with the mother?

driving? Have i missed something?

1754 people died on our roads last year, driving carries a mortality risk to the mother and child, small for an individual person, but still there

If the father has to speak to the mother about all potential risks to the live of the child then driving is in there

(I'm not advocating this but the logical extension of the original argument is that the father has the right to discuss all activities with a theoretical risk to the baby)"

so pregnant women cant drive incase they have a crash, are they allowed out the house incase they are attacked or hit by a car, what if they do stay in the house and it burns down what if she does stop driving and he has a crash while she's in the car?

living day to day life and doing things like driving, working and going about your business cant possibly be classed the same as smoking and drinking when pregnant, I think your taking it to far now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that it's a special time for a woman to nuture her unborn child, she can make up for it when she has given birth

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I think its got fa to do with anyone.

Its her/their business & as an adult i respect its their choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its upto those involved not the judgemental fab folk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that it's a special time for a woman to nuture her unborn child, she can make up for it when she has given birth"

Yeah once babysitters are arranged etc........

Seriously ... its up to the individual .

We would and wouldnt care what others thought .

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