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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been noticing someone on this site who posts new pictures regularly & seems to set up a new profile almost every week as well.

Personally I would have thought your chances of attracting a meet would improve if you keep the same profile & get verified?

So I am a bit confused about why someone would so regularly set up a new profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a guy round here that did that too. Every friday afternoon, same 3 pics, same couple of words, gone on the Sunday. Never understood it. Why not just create one then hide it?

As far as im aware he never met anyone so why put youself through the effort every week?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i am looking to meet i wouldnt meet a yo yo offender as makes me suspicious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Identity crisis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been noticing someone on this site who posts new pictures regularly & seems to set up a new profile almost every week as well.

Personally I would have thought your chances of attracting a meet would improve if you keep the same profile & get verified?

So I am a bit confused about why someone would so regularly set up a new profile.

"

many reasons, one is because they have been banned. and another common reason is for safety and discretion, one guy I meet joins when he wants a meet, for that day only, then deletes profile till he wants another one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But why bother to do all that? As said - just go invisible until the next itch strikes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But why bother to do all that? As said - just go invisible until the next itch strikes."

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

as we have witnessed over the last couple of days, just drama... bloody attention seeking drama.

but if I am honest, they can do as they will... it really shouldn't bother us as they can use the site as they wish.

it is all just a bit silly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

many people don't trust the internet, much easier to delete, and hopefully leave no trace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just seems unnecessarily paranoid to me, and no wonder the admins are swamped!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"many people don't trust the internet, much easier to delete, and hopefully leave no trace"

that is a good point

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I use my filters to stop come n go profiles pm'ing me.

Im lucky that i don't even notice this

Those doing it as they don't trust the internet lol.

Once its online its forever online.

How sad to redo a new email account all the time.

Im so glad i actually have a life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I dont understand how you know its the same person? Unless you recognise his photos?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My theory is that they are actually more into exhibitionism than swinging.

By posting new photos & a new profile they will get a certain amount of interest which would not be the case if they left an old profile in place.

By then replacing the profile so often it suggests they are not really interested in an actual meet.

That is my least cynical interpretation on this type of behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But I dont understand how you know its the same person? Unless you recognise his photos? "

Yes. The person I am thinking of shows enough of themselves to recognisable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I dont understand how you know its the same person? Unless you recognise his photos? "

The guy I chat to and meet uses the same name, same email, same pic, he just wants to get laid, he isn't here for chat, friendship, forums, or anything else, when his wife is away for the day he joins, messages and we meet, no drama, and he hopes no comeback. He only has profile on for at most 8 hours. so in fact he can only use certain features.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I dont understand how you know its the same person? Unless you recognise his photos?

Yes. The person I am thinking of shows enough of themselves to recognisable."

I see! Wow..I dont think I could be bothered! As someone else said...fortunately I have a life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I dont understand how you know its the same person? Unless you recognise his photos?

Yes. The person I am thinking of shows enough of themselves to recognisable.

I see! Wow..I dont think I could be bothered! As someone else said...fortunately I have a life! "

I am worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I dont understand how you know its the same person? Unless you recognise his photos?

The guy I chat to and meet uses the same name, same email, same pic, he just wants to get laid, he isn't here for chat, friendship, forums, or anything else, when his wife is away for the day he joins, messages and we meet, no drama, and he hopes no comeback. He only has profile on for at most 8 hours. so in fact he can only use certain features."

Ah well...everyone to their own I guess!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"My theory is that they are actually more into exhibitionism than swinging.

By posting new photos & a new profile they will get a certain amount of interest which would not be the case if they left an old profile in place.

By then replacing the profile so often it suggests they are not really interested in an actual meet.

That is my least cynical interpretation on this type of behaviour.

"

Yes, I know one like that who is obviously not intending to meet - he changes the profile so he gets a new chance without getting reported too much, or may in fact have been banned because he did get reported so much, not sure.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Theres a guy that shows up on my locals does the same. It was every thursday his face pic shows up different name, now its tuesday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But why bother to do all that? As said - just go invisible until the next itch strikes."

Just got to say i love your profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously works for him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I dont understand how you know its the same person? Unless you recognise his photos?

The guy I chat to and meet uses the same name, same email, same pic, he just wants to get laid, he isn't here for chat, friendship, forums, or anything else, when his wife is away for the day he joins, messages and we meet, no drama, and he hopes no comeback. He only has profile on for at most 8 hours. so in fact he can only use certain features."

And thats swinging is it ??

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Perhaps it is the Scarlet Pimpernel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I dont understand how you know its the same person? Unless you recognise his photos?

The guy I chat to and meet uses the same name, same email, same pic, he just wants to get laid, he isn't here for chat, friendship, forums, or anything else, when his wife is away for the day he joins, messages and we meet, no drama, and he hopes no comeback. He only has profile on for at most 8 hours. so in fact he can only use certain features.

And thats swinging is it ?? "

Swinging is different things to different people, I doubt everyone uses the same definition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I dont understand how you know its the same person? Unless you recognise his photos?

The guy I chat to and meet uses the same name, same email, same pic, he just wants to get laid, he isn't here for chat, friendship, forums, or anything else, when his wife is away for the day he joins, messages and we meet, no drama, and he hopes no comeback. He only has profile on for at most 8 hours. so in fact he can only use certain features.

And thats swinging is it ??

Swinging is different things to different people, I doubt everyone uses the same definition. "

Sorry in my world thats cheating on his wife simple and clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I dont understand how you know its the same person? Unless you recognise his photos?

The guy I chat to and meet uses the same name, same email, same pic, he just wants to get laid, he isn't here for chat, friendship, forums, or anything else, when his wife is away for the day he joins, messages and we meet, no drama, and he hopes no comeback. He only has profile on for at most 8 hours. so in fact he can only use certain features.

And thats swinging is it ??

Swinging is different things to different people, I doubt everyone uses the same definition.

Sorry in my world thats cheating on his wife simple and clear. "

I would never judge anyone...

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By *aughty-PeepsCouple
over a year ago

teesside

aye its blatently a tatic that only someone who was cheating would do , otherwise they would want to build their profile and verifications up i reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I dont understand how you know its the same person? Unless you recognise his photos?

The guy I chat to and meet uses the same name, same email, same pic, he just wants to get laid, he isn't here for chat, friendship, forums, or anything else, when his wife is away for the day he joins, messages and we meet, no drama, and he hopes no comeback. He only has profile on for at most 8 hours. so in fact he can only use certain features.

And thats swinging is it ??

Swinging is different things to different people, I doubt everyone uses the same definition.

Sorry in my world thats cheating on his wife simple and clear.

I would never judge anyone..."

You would never judge anyone yet you will sleep with a womens husband without her knowing ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"aye its blatently a tatic that only someone who was cheating would do , otherwise they would want to build their profile and verifications up i reckon "

not everyone shows or wants to show verifications, I imagine they serve a purpose for someone looking for the village bike. Discretion is important.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"But I dont understand how you know its the same person? Unless you recognise his photos?

The guy I chat to and meet uses the same name, same email, same pic, he just wants to get laid, he isn't here for chat, friendship, forums, or anything else, when his wife is away for the day he joins, messages and we meet, no drama, and he hopes no comeback. He only has profile on for at most 8 hours. so in fact he can only use certain features."

Guess Im unlucky then; as when i tried to rejoin with my email addy i got the message, this email is already recognised & yes i deleted my profile 6 months + previous to rejoining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I dont understand how you know its the same person? Unless you recognise his photos?

The guy I chat to and meet uses the same name, same email, same pic, he just wants to get laid, he isn't here for chat, friendship, forums, or anything else, when his wife is away for the day he joins, messages and we meet, no drama, and he hopes no comeback. He only has profile on for at most 8 hours. so in fact he can only use certain features.

And thats swinging is it ??

Swinging is different things to different people, I doubt everyone uses the same definition.

Sorry in my world thats cheating on his wife simple and clear.

I would never judge anyone...

You would never judge anyone yet you will sleep with a womens husband without her knowing ?? "

I can not, nor want to change anyone, The most important person in my world is me,The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own.

No apologies, no excuses,

No one lean on, rely on, or blame.

The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it.

This is the day your life really begins.

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