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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi to all you great sexy people .

I've jus a simple question my wife is not very much into sex , where as I'm into just about anything . How did you swingers out there persuade each other to start swinging . Cheers Dave

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Just be honest with her and accept her for how she is.... Communications the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you need to persuede that's not right in itself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi to all you great sexy people .

I've jus a simple question my wife is not very much into sex , where as I'm into just about anything . How did you swingers out there persuade each other to start swinging . Cheers Dave "

She obviously isn't into sex that much so she probably won't want to swing so you try to persuade her you already know the answer...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show her your profile on here and when she sees how much fun you are having she'll jump at the chance to join you.

In all seriousness swinging won't fix a broken relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you cant force anyone to do anything they dont want.

this comes up time and again with blokes, mainly, that start doing this then want to get the wife to join in, whether the noose is tightening around their necks and the missus may be close to finding out, or its too hard to keep it secret anymore, or indeed doing so stops the feelings of guilt, who knows why suddenly.

all i do know is, a married single that tries to get the partner to join in their playtime isnt doing it for the genuine reasons many that started it together have done.

if you are really insistant on getting your OH to join you, delete your profile, concentrate on her and plant the seed in her mind that it may be enjoyable.

ask her if she has any fantasies she would like you both to carry out together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think its a case of persuading, it's something you both have to want to do, just needs one of you to have the balls to suggest it first and hope your partner give you the reaction you hope for, if they do bingo!

But if your wife isn't into sex why would you think she would want to swing, and if she did agree to it would you really want her to do this just to shut up up cause you have persuaded her to do it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies . /venusandhercules . Might need to take your advice . Thank you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi to all you great sexy people .

I've jus a simple question my wife is not very much into sex , where as I'm into just about anything . How did you swingers out there persuade each other to start swinging . Cheers Dave "
if she ent into sex no more she won't be into swinging lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose there is always a possibility that she has just gone off sex with him, I don't mean that to be rude but its amazing how many people in sexless marriages turn into nymphs when they split up and have the freedom to play with who they want, so maybe swinging could be for her, now the question is to the OP, how would you feel if she did agree to swing with you and you watched her putting much more effort into sex with other people than she does with you? it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you try to persuade someone then its a good bet it will blow up in your face, fact. Sex is something you have to want to enjoy. Why dont you ask her why she doesnt enjoy it. But as someone has already said it might be a case of she doesn't like sex with you and you should prepare yourself for that. And of course she is going to be pretty pissed off if or when she finda out you are on a swingers site as a single guy..... talk and be honest, its pretty simple really

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By *kyhighstilettoCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I think you're either predisposed to it or not.

Fortunately we both are, and my better half knew all about my history before we got serious

Like others have said,persuasion is unlikely to work.Dont push it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe you sex life just needs a boost, lots of peeps loose their drive after years of mundane sex ,

tell her how you feel and ask her if she would like to rekindle your fun , try new things alone first get her excited , then maybe move on to nude beach and things may move on from there ,

most of all talk to her tell her you are bored with your sexlife and want more from it she can only say yes or no

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Hi to all you great sexy people .

I've jus a simple question my wife is not very much into sex , where as I'm into just about anything . How did you swingers out there persuade each other to start swinging . Cheers Dave "

Maybe she is into sex, just not with you. Maybe she has a profile on some site asking for discreet sexual liaisons. Just my thoughts......

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

Get a new wife. You only live once remember and wont get a 2nd chance. Some women are just afraid to let go and enjoy themselves and will hold you back. Get a new one who will enjoy what you will and live happyly ever after. The alternative is to stay with your wife and be miserable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That will work, advertise in your local paper..New wife wanted must be willing to shag all my friends

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