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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

younger people dont realise how hard it was to get your kicks with looking at porn!.. i always wonder, how do the ladies gt into it?... was it always because their other half introduced them to it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine was thru watching it with partners etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a kid of about 8 I was in the park one day and some friends saw a porn mag. The ladies looked so liberated and comfortable with their bodies. I knew when I grew up I wanted to really enjoy my sexuality. I still watch porn every day now (on my phone alone) x

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I never really have.

I have a gift for spotting fake orgasms, so porn is just a lot of sound and fury signifying nothing.

Then you add in the thoughts about camera angles and the contortions she's (and it generally is the woman) has had to do to get that shot and, well, you never want to watch porn with me if you want to keep enjoying it!

(see Amy in the Big Bang Theory Raiders Minimization)

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

oooh tempting devil!!!... i know what you mean.. i have to see through those aspects to bet the side i like...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy porn but only the amature/homemade don't really enjoy the studio porn star fake kind it gets boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy porn but only the amature/homemade don't really enjoy the studio porn star fake kind it gets boring "

love Amature porn

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

I was fed up watching porn starring only young people so i decided to make mature porn acceptable in the UK, i was told 16yrs ago at 38 i was to old for films so John made it his mission to change things by picking up a camera & shooting 40+ ladies...it worked lol!

Being in front of a lens made me enjoy porn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was fed up watching porn starring only young people so i decided to make mature porn acceptable in the UK, i was told 16yrs ago at 38 i was to old for films so John made it his mission to change things by picking up a camera & shooting 40+ ladies...it worked lol!

Being in front of a lens made me enjoy porn.

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Good on you Kim and John.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I prefer to read erotica than to watch porn. The professional work is so contrived, even down to the noises the women make which are all exactly the same - these days it is almost laughable and I don't find it in the least bit erotic to watch.

No offence intended to Kimjohn, I applaud you for your vision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seeing my brothers porn magazines, when i left home and got married used to buy magazines like fiesta and playgirl, then got bored with them and found some better ones that i used to send away for. used to rent and buy videos and dvds, now just look at it online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found a box of porn mags in my brother in laws attic when I was house sitting for my sister, I was about 16 and I loved the stories, I went through the whole box in a couple of days.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We are with you guys being fed up with the same noises & people finding religion up near orgasam with their "oh god, oh god" lol!

We thought real people porn was the answer with no scripts, no acting & 100% raw sex.

Mature people look at mainstream porn with pretty perfect people which even though sexy is not so real for most of us.

Mature ladies with stretch marks & baby bellies & guys not so trim etc can watch amateur home mades & imagine themselves in that situation as its real where the other is not to them, women don't ask their hubbys/boyfriends to switch off the film as they feel they can compete with the girls in Am films & guys don't have to look like Andonis.

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By *illxxMan
over a year ago

motherwell

The only porn I tend to watch is home made porn the studio made stuff is just so fake and does nothing for me at all. The home made porn is 100 times more realistic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" younger people dont realise how hard it was to get your kicks with looking at porn!.. i always wonder, how do the ladies gt into it?... was it always because their other half introduced them to it ?"

Always been around porn, as my parents rented their property out for films

Living on a farm and having a dungeon, started me being aware of porn, when the film crews arrived and the actors turned up at lunch time for their break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I watched my first porn films with my ex husband when he was still my boyfriend. Over the years we watched snippets of porn but he wasn't really into it. A couple of years ago I was directed to a bi mmf video and found I prefer watching men together than a man and a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are with you guys being fed up with the same noises & people finding religion up near orgasam with their "oh god, oh god" lol!

We thought real people porn was the answer with no scripts, no acting & 100% raw sex.

Mature people look at mainstream porn with pretty perfect people which even though sexy is not so real for most of us.

Mature ladies with stretch marks & baby bellies & guys not so trim etc can watch amateur home mades & imagine themselves in that situation as its real where the other is not to them, women don't ask their hubbys/boyfriends to switch off the film as they feel they can compete with the girls in Am films & guys don't have to look like Andonis.

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By *eedelightsWoman
over a year ago

London

Used to get all the new releases from a friend working in a distribution warehouse.

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

putting away the illusion of only lads reading the mags. I had a catholic mother... not the things i should read about was the general feeling.. didnt feel too good when she found my stash.. especially as i was a little .. ahem.. too young too have them..lol

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

" younger people dont realise how hard it was to get your kicks with looking at porn!.. i always wonder, how do the ladies gt into it?... was it always because their other half introduced them to it ?

Always been around porn, as my parents rented their property out for films

Living on a farm and having a dungeon, started me being aware of porn, when the film crews arrived and the actors turned up at lunch time for their break."

The social side of film shoots are great as you stop for cups of tea & sarnies talking about every day things.

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

i had neighbours who were allowed to see Mayfairs etc even at a young age... this gave me a flying start....lol

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

any more for any more ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a lover of porn.. would rather be doing it than watching but not on camera!

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

thats fine.. we all would i think.. but porn can be great spice as well while fucking...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy playing the porn game. Find something suitable and then you have to enact what is going on on the screen as it is happening. Makes for great sex in my eyes(can also be a great laugh).....

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

oh yes!!.. and seeing how close you can get to cumming with them!!..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple of girlfriends who liked me to take pictures as they had sex with other guys. Other porn just doesn't compare when you have that sort of porn with someone you love being a dirty slut! I still have the pictures now but I would never give a copy to anyone because I was trusted at the time & I will never abuse that trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a kid of about 8 I was in the park one day and some friends saw a porn mag. The ladies looked so liberated and comfortable with their bodies. I knew when I grew up I wanted to really enjoy my sexuality. I still watch porn every day now (on my phone alone) x"
and you knew this at 8 years old.

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By *ighlandballsMan
over a year ago

perth

Forum magazine was a favourite read for me yrs ago.

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By *oowootooCouple
over a year ago

sutton

First time I saw porn was when my grandad recorded over my Tom & Jerry video when I was about 9 years old. I then started stealing my dads collection to watch when I was about 14 and rewind it to where it had previously started so he wouldn't find out lol.

I personally love porn, gets me horny as hell and can make me come in minutes when I'm on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first watched porn when a male friend gave me a video and said it was good. The porn I like is the cheesy Hollywood over acted stuff. I like totally fake women. It's nice to be away from reality. My other half likes amateur stuff so we don't often watch it together .

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

wow!!.. i think this theory that lads are perves because they look at porn and females don't has gone right out of the window!!.. same things here.. getting a mg from someone.. finding my dads porn and rewinding it... almost mirror like !!...lol

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By *ewantithardCouple
over a year ago

Scotland and SE England

I found my mum's videos when I was 9. They weren't porn they were 'how to have better sex' videos. That was my sex ed lol I started early and I put it down to knowing about sex in such grafic details since then. I have always loved porn and since smart phones I watch when I'm masterbating. It's great fun checking out new positions you want to try in threesomes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I found my mum's videos when I was 9. They weren't porn they were 'how to have better sex' videos. That was my sex ed lol I started early and I put it down to knowing about sex in such grafic details since then. I have always loved porn and since smart phones I watch when I'm masterbating. It's great fun checking out new positions you want to try in threesomes

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I just seem to get a virus when I look at porn on my phone all the time. I gave up.

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By *entfootloverMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

"I found my mum's videos when I was 9. They weren't porn they were 'how to have better sex' videos. That was my sex ed lol I started early and I put it down to knowing about sex in such grafic details since then. I have always loved porn and since smart phones I watch when I'm masterbating. It's great fun checking out new positions you want to try in threesomes

I just seem to get a virus when I look at porn on my phone all the time. I gave up.

X"

Just stick to y_ouporn or x_hamster or get yourself a t_umblr account. If you get a popup window mentioning viruses, just ignore it...

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

I had to break him in slowly, poor dear led such a sheltered life. Started off with the silly soft porn on TV. Then bought him a few mags, before he was ready for my collection of gangbang dvds.

He is almost there now but he is a work in progress.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

SLightly off topic this post.

But I'm going to take on the thought about fake porn being rubbish.

I get that everyone will be into something different, so I would not expect all people to like all porn, but I also don't buy that porn has to be realistic.

Is the Wizard of Oz realistic, Mary Poppins, Aliens etc etc..

You get the drift. Sometimes fantasy can be unrealistic but still entertaining.

Also the perfect looking models etc. Whilst I am not against different body types ( lets face it if all porn was the same we would stop watching).

But there is a place for the model bodies. What turns me off far more than the fake orgasms, is boredom. Honestly I think some 'directors' if we can call them that, think that the bigger the difficulty for the actress the better the porn.

Honestly I like to see someone at least faking enjoyment.

I'm not against domination or other more out there porn experiences but I would like there to be that glint in the eye that the actors, actresses know what they are doing and can at least express how others who like that type of sex for real would feel about it.

But back on topic, I introduced Bunny to porn. She tends to like sensual girl on girl stuff, or something where the guys behave themselves. But mostly likes litererotica.

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By *aith boy OP Man
over a year ago

Worthing

going to bump this.. had some great stories ladies.. any more for any more ?

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We're both very 'visual' and enjoy porn. She was introduced to it by her ex, and both of us prefer real people - amateurs, either professional or amateur filmed.

Porn got us into swinging not long after we had first met. We were in bed one night, watching one of the "Swinger" DVD series filmed in La Chambre, which ended in an orgy in one of the big playrooms. He said "would you like to do that?" and she said "yes!" so the next Saturday we went to the club, and we've been swinging regularly ever since.

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