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finding it hard to meet mature ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi all i am looking to to meet mature ladies but finding it hard can any one help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

HAVE YOU TRIED SAGA

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HAVE YOU TRIED SAGA"

Lol now that is just plain mean lol

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

GALA

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"HAVE YOU TRIED SAGA

Lol now that is just plain mean lol "

but funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi all i am looking to to meet mature ladies but finding it hard can any one help"

I don't understand how ANY mature woman couldn't find that pic of you - half cut with a beer bottle in your hand anything other than a tremendous attraction..... Sommat up with them surely xx

Or the fact that your profile doesn't mention ANYTHING about liking mature women ... how could that not help ? Odd .... you've pulled out all the stops and it's still not happening.

Good luck xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest NOT messaging them saying that you love older ladies... certainly gets my back up when younger guys say that, makes me feel about 90!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I would suggest NOT messaging them saying that you love older ladies... certainly gets my back up when younger guys say that, makes me feel about 90!"

Especially the ones who are only 2 years younger than you are .

Ive had a few of those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i also imagine mature women to be grown up and boring - so as i am not grown up i dont count myself as mature!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just taken one picture off and chaned message on profile

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"just taken one picture off and chaned message on profile"

well done... changed it for one line to two..... very impressed...

look at it like this.... there are thousand of people out there looking for meet

hand on heart.... you would you answer your own ad???? seriously????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

can u send me private message if u can help me write any one

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"can u send me private message if u can help me write any one "

no can do..... only you can do that, and that is personal to you... no short cuts with this one I am afraid.....I gave up helping people, went in one ear and out of the other so we all have to learn and so do you...

I will give you two words.... sell yourself.... do with those words what you will....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can u send me private message if u can help me write any one "

People can offer suggestions on how to improve your profile, but we don't know you so can't write it for you!

You are hoping to meet "mature" women. If you can't write a simple profile highlighting YOU how are you going to be able to please a mature woman without instuctions?!!

I don't mean to be unkind but I think you're punching above your weight!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

if u help me i will listen not just in one ear and out other

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By *ickedWWoman
over a year ago

Chester


"can u send me private message if u can help me write any one

no can do..... only you can do that, and that is personal to you... no short cuts with this one I am afraid.....I gave up helping people, went in one ear and out of the other so we all have to learn and so do you...

I will give you two words.... sell yourself.... do with those words what you will...."

Another couple of words come to mind

POST OFFICE

on a Thursday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if u help me i will listen not just in one ear and out other "

You're still not getting it!

Your profile has got to come from you so people know what YOU'RE looking for, what YOU like!

If you write a profile and ask for help in improving it that's one thing, asking someone else to write it? That's something else altogether!

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I believe when I replied to an ad such as this recently

I was asked

Why am I on a site like this and not meeting?

Um cos I can be

Be who you are

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok waat else should i put on profile then

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Get yourself down to the local bingo hall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok waat else should i put on profile then "

Tell 'em you've just had a new stairlift and a GT mobility scooter. Fook....they'll come in droves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

can no one be serious and help me

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Ok Ill be serious

I think you need to have a good think about how you're going to sell yourself on here,you are among 100s of other guys some of whom have fabulous profiles that show a lot of thought about what they are looking for and what they have to offer

If you can't keep up with the competition or even struggle to write more than 2 lines about yourself then you hav'nt given much thought to anything

People will wonder if you put the same amount of imagination into your meets...........and then run a mile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

can u help me

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"can u help me "

Ok Ill help you...........delete your account cos you just don't get it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just typed more any good now

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By *ickedWWoman
over a year ago

Chester


"just typed more any good now"

Its getting better...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What else should I put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get yourself down to the local bingo hall "

That's just plain naughty !!

Made me laugh tho ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok waat else should i put on profile then

Tell 'em you've just had a new stairlift and a GT mobility scooter. Fook....they'll come in droves "

A drove is a Russian car innit ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi all i am looking to to meet mature ladies but finding it hard can any one help"

which bits hard?

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By *ickedWWoman
over a year ago

Chester


"What else should I put "

OK...

Read back what people have suggested, write about YOU..

What YOU want..

What YOU are looking for..

If it all seems like to much hard work, I'd give up, Simplz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can u help me

Ok Ill help you...........delete your account cos you just don't get it "

Sadly not a clue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would suggest NOT messaging them saying that you love older ladies... certainly gets my back up when younger guys say that, makes me feel about 90!"

Me too as its smacks of youngsters my kids age then and i dont want to know even 30 aint mature enough for me now

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

If you need help to write your profile and sell yourself then it sounds like it you ever got to meet these older ladies they will be expecting you to step up to the mark in relation to sex too. If you need help with your profile as you dont know how to do it then it sounds like you will need help with satisfing the mature lady. Are you hoping someone will come help you with that too.

I suggest you try meet people ounger than you or your same age and also go for ones with a profile which is not well written. You need to be honest about your limits.

If one of the established guys on here with a well written profile helps you with your profile then when a lady meets you it will be quite possibly a big let down. She may expect a confident man who has the ability to say what he wants and express it well, if you cant do that in words then its very likely you wont do that in meeting.

Sorry but you need to really think and be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kev,

if you were applying for a job would you pester your prospective employer to help you write your C.V?

(just my tuppence worth as am wanting this thread to continue lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"kev,

if you were applying for a job would you pester your prospective employer to help you write your C.V?

(just my tuppence worth as am wanting this thread to continue lol) "

Tsk...tsk!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"kev,

if you were applying for a job would you pester your prospective employer to help you write your C.V?

(just my tuppence worth as am wanting this thread to continue lol)

Tsk...tsk!! "

lol well I'm at work on a Saturday morning, so need a bit of fun

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