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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I pride myself on being an honest genuine bloke. I'm polite and if I message someone I take time to read their profile and like to let them see that in my words to them. And if I arrange a meet I meet.

I've spent more than a few weeks texting a single girl - some just chat, some fabulously sexy. We've swapped pics and she's sent me some pretty amazing self play videos. Now. When we talk about meeting she gets enthusiastic then there's some excuse. Now I know the single male bashers are gonna give me the usual 'maybe she has work/family issues' - which I'd accept readily. However. Those excuses ALWAYS coincide with her putting meet requests and veris of meets on here.

Now. I've always been a bit wary of the overuse of the word 'timewaster' here but hmmmm. Guess I'm too trusting. Or too bloody soft.

Rant over. Now where's me stab vest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she has a boyfriend and enjoy the chase.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

she is likely to have been having conversations with other chaps at the same time as speaking with you and she has chosen to meet with them.

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As frustrating as that may be, I would suggest you do the same, widen your contacts and if your diaries at some point in the future coincide: happy days.

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leave it to her to sort out a time/date ( just let her know nicely that you will leave it to her to make contact for a play meet ).

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody on here is exclusive

Sometimes people don't like to say no and keep putting off continually.

Move on if you feel like it is a waste of energy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You ve obviously enjoyed the chats widen your search the next girl may drag you to her bed its all fun take it as that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like she's stringing you along I'm afraid. Chat to other women and let her get in touch with you next time. Good luck with the next

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like she's stringing you along I'm afraid. Chat to other women and let her get in touch with you next time. Good luck with the next "

Thank you. this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like she's stringing you along I'm afraid. Chat to other women and let her get in touch with you next time. Good luck with the next "

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By *emon tart Double creamCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Just keep being the way you are and things will happen.

Go back and water the seeds you've planted now and again and before you know it you'll have a meadow full

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I quite like sending saucy messages to and fro with no immediate intention of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she obviously enjoys flirting with you in the virtual world but at the moment has her sights set on others in reality.

widen your circle of contacts & let her make the next move.

sometimes a veri by someone else is all it takes!

good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite like sending saucy messages to and fro with no immediate intention of meeting. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of many cock teasers on here. all mouth and no action by the sounds of it. move on mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your comments. Widening the circle isn't easy when you live in the arse crack of England but hey ho! Onward and upward!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can chat with more than one at a time

Widen your net

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all your comments. Widening the circle isn't easy when you live in the arse crack of England but hey ho! Onward and upward! "

surely being long and thick, widening the circle should be easy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pride myself on being an honest genuine bloke. I'm polite and if I message someone I take time to read their profile and like to let them see that in my words to them. And if I arrange a meet I meet.

I've spent more than a few weeks texting a single girl - some just chat, some fabulously sexy. We've swapped pics and she's sent me some pretty amazing self play videos. Now. When we talk about meeting she gets enthusiastic then there's some excuse. Now I know the single male bashers are gonna give me the usual 'maybe she has work/family issues' - which I'd accept readily. However. Those excuses ALWAYS coincide with her putting meet requests and veris of meets on here.

Now. I've always been a bit wary of the overuse of the word 'timewaster' here but hmmmm. Guess I'm too trusting. Or too bloody soft.

Rant over. Now where's me stab vest?"

Yep sound like 'timewaster' to me just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds to me you have moved from the man she might fuck to the sweet friend that always answers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of many cock teasers on here. all mouth and no action by the sounds of it. move on mate"

He said she had verifications.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I pride myself on being an honest genuine bloke. I'm polite and if I message someone I take time to read their profile and like to let them see that in my words to them. And if I arrange a meet I meet.

I've spent more than a few weeks texting a single girl - some just chat, some fabulously sexy. We've swapped pics and she's sent me some pretty amazing self play videos. Now. When we talk about meeting she gets enthusiastic then there's some excuse. Now I know the single male bashers are gonna give me the usual 'maybe she has work/family issues' - which I'd accept readily. However. Those excuses ALWAYS coincide with her putting meet requests and veris of meets on here.

Now. I've always been a bit wary of the overuse of the word 'timewaster' here but hmmmm. Guess I'm too trusting. Or too bloody soft.

Rant over. Now where's me stab vest?"

firstly are you sure she is female???? you say texted etc have you spoken??? pics are easy to send and font have to be of the sender lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking Catfish!

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