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By *ingjay OP   Man
over a year ago

exeter

Just been rekindling an old 'friendship' she is georgous, she works out and takes care of herself, she nearly 34 had 2 kids but for a lot people would say 'ah she's got no meat on her' - what ever happened to liking a slim girl?? Its all about being 'fabulous' - and we all know what that means! I will always prefer a slim girl especially one that has earned it, yet they get slated all the time usually from jealous lazy unfit people that wish they were but can't be arsed to do anything about it. Anyone else agree slim is sexy??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy is a mind set and personal opinion... So one persons sexy is not the same..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love toned and slender women, there's a huge difference between 'skinny and underfed' and 'lean and athletic'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some curvy women are more attractive than slim ones and that can be before u talk facially

I dont consider 'overweight' people as lazy!- lazy are people who do not wish to do something that challenges them and requires effort

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By *ingjay OP   Man
over a year ago

exeter


"Sexy is a mind set and personal opinion... So one persons sexy is not the same..

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That was the whole point of the question to see see if anyone else had the same opinion as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy is a mind set and personal opinion... So one persons sexy is not the same..

That was the whole point of the question to see see if anyone else had the same opinion as me"

Your first post doesnt suggest that at all.. imho

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By *ingjay OP   Man
over a year ago

exeter


"some curvy women are more attractive than slim ones and that can be before u talk facially

I dont consider 'overweight' people as lazy!- lazy are people who do not wish to do something that challenges them and requires effort "

No it's usually the ones that are jealous that do the slating, come in you must have been there when a woman for no reason just bad mouths the slim athletic girl across the way with snidy bitchy comments, I have!!! But some people like my friend work hard and keep fit so there's no need for it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some curvy women are more attractive than slim ones and that can be before u talk facially

I dont consider 'overweight' people as lazy!- lazy are people who do not wish to do something that challenges them and requires effort

No it's usually the ones that are jealous that do the slating, come in you must have been there when a woman for no reason just bad mouths the slim athletic girl across the way with snidy bitchy comments, I have!!! But some people like my friend work hard and keep fit so there's no need for it!!"

By that anyone that slates the bigger women is jealous of them. And I've been Bitched at by girls enough in my life

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By *ingjay OP   Man
over a year ago

exeter

You dont all have to take the post in the wrong negative way, I've seen plenty off bbw post where all the men are 'oh ur fabulous' ' don't ever change' ' I love a bbw' what's wrong with liking slim?? To be fair a fair few of the bbw posts has made me feel uncomfortable because it feels like I have to like someone that I dint find attractive, and agreed plenty of guys do like/prefer the larger girl, but don't slate me and have a go because I dont and I asked if anyone else prefers slim, cause I wasn't ruse I wasn't offensive, I was staying facts on my experiences, and trust me they are true to life experiences,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been rekindling an old 'friendship' she is georgous, she works out and takes care of herself, she nearly 34 had 2 kids but for a lot people would say 'ah she's got no meat on her' - what ever happened to liking a slim girl?? Its all about being 'fabulous' - and we all know what that means! I will always prefer a slim girl especially one that has earned it, yet they get slated all the time usually from jealous lazy unfit people that wish they were but can't be arsed to do anything about it. Anyone else agree slim is sexy??"

I think everyone would find a toned girl attractive as long as she had the right face. As for slating girls saying she needs so meet on her bones I don't think this is as common as it is with larger shapely girls getting stick. There is a variance of women at my gym andcan find both body types tbh.

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By *ingjay OP   Man
over a year ago

exeter


"Just been rekindling an old 'friendship' she is georgous, she works out and takes care of herself, she nearly 34 had 2 kids but for a lot people would say 'ah she's got no meat on her' - what ever happened to liking a slim girl?? Its all about being 'fabulous' - and we all know what that means! I will always prefer a slim girl especially one that has earned it, yet they get slated all the time usually from jealous lazy unfit people that wish they were but can't be arsed to do anything about it. Anyone else agree slim is sexy??

I think everyone would find a toned girl attractive as long as she had the right face. As for slating girls saying she needs so meet on her bones I don't think this is as common as it is with larger shapely girls getting stick. There is a variance of women at my gym andcan find both body types tbh."

I've seen various implications of the purse in here quite a fair bit!!

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By *ingjay OP   Man
over a year ago

exeter

Not implications - I forgot the word it's too late in the day ..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your first post doesnt really say what your later saying you mean.

I won't play with many guys because i don't believe they like bigger girls... Oh they may say they do... But I have to believe it to feel wanted...

I cringe when slim girls are called things in bbw threads.. or bigger girls refered to as real women... I'm me, fat or thin and everything in between... I know most men prefer slimmer... Lucky for me my playmate genuinely loves bigger girls.. but I've seen how sone guys react when they have the choice....

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was slim once, now I'm fat again, I prefer the slim me but like cake etc too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been rekindling an old 'friendship' she is georgous, she works out and takes care of herself, she nearly 34 had 2 kids but for a lot people would say 'ah she's got no meat on her' - what ever happened to liking a slim girl?? Its all about being 'fabulous' - and we all know what that means! I will always prefer a slim girl especially one that has earned it, yet they get slated all the time usually from jealous lazy unfit people that wish they were but can't be arsed to do anything about it. Anyone else agree slim is sexy??

I think everyone would find a toned girl attractive as long as she had the right face. As for slating girls saying she needs so meet on her bones I don't think this is as common as it is with larger shapely girls getting stick. There is a variance of women at my gym andcan find both body types tbh.

I've seen various implications of the purse in here quite a fair bit!! "

Anyone can get criticised !!! Fat thin tall short old young the list goes on .... Its more about personality on both sides than anything else !!!

And of course there are men who like you are attracted to slim ladies ... That's what makes the world go round .... If we all liked the same it would never work !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some.need the opticians though.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jay, you like women you like, and dont ever change, same as i like women i like.

personally, i dont have a body type, because it really isnt that important to me (and lets be honest, i would rather someone take me as i am, so i have no room to demand someone else looks a certain way)

as long as she has a great soh, a wicked smile, kind eyes and a heart of gold, thats my perfect woman.

the rest is just packaging and bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been rekindling an old 'friendship' she is georgous, she works out and takes care of herself, she nearly 34 had 2 kids but for a lot people would say 'ah she's got no meat on her' - what ever happened to liking a slim girl?? Its all about being 'fabulous' - and we all know what that means! I will always prefer a slim girl especially one that has earned it, yet they get slated all the time usually from jealous lazy unfit people that wish they were but can't be arsed to do anything about it. Anyone else agree slim is sexy??"

Yet your slating fat girls in your post which kinda comes across as hypocritical?

Basically not everyone likes the same shape and size, you crack with what you like and let others crack on with what they like. If people feel the need to put others down then that's there problem, maybe they are insecure about their own body image or maybe someone else is getting the attention, whatever. There is no 'right way' to look and people should stop stressing over what he/she looks like and concentrate on having fun and enjoying themselves with people they find appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been rekindling an old 'friendship' she is georgous, she works out and takes care of herself, she nearly 34 had 2 kids but for a lot people would say 'ah she's got no meat on her' - what ever happened to liking a slim girl?? Its all about being 'fabulous' - and we all know what that means! I will always prefer a slim girl especially one that has earned it, yet they get slated all the time usually from jealous lazy unfit people that wish they were but can't be arsed to do anything about it. Anyone else agree slim is sexy??

Yet your slating fat girls in your post which kinda comes across as hypocritical?

Basically not everyone likes the same shape and size, you crack with what you like and let others crack on with what they like. If people feel the need to put others down then that's there problem, maybe they are insecure about their own body image or maybe someone else is getting the attention, whatever. There is no 'right way' to look and people should stop stressing over what he/she looks like and concentrate on having fun and enjoying themselves with people they find appealing."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps for me it's alot more important facially for me to be attracted to someone more than what the body is like, as in you could have a body like baywatch but if you have a face like crimewatch I aint gonna be attracted to you.

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By *ingjay OP   Man
over a year ago

exeter


"Your first post doesnt really say what your later saying you mean.

I won't play with many guys because i don't believe they like bigger girls... Oh they may say they do... But I have to believe it to feel wanted...

I cringe when slim girls are called things in bbw threads.. or bigger girls refered to as real women... I'm me, fat or thin and everything in between... I know most men prefer slimmer... Lucky for me my playmate genuinely loves bigger girls.. but I've seen how sone guys react when they have the choice....

Cali "

Thanks first of all for not standing on my Bollokcks, first line.... I was just mearly asking if any guys also prefer slim girls - it's hard to tell on here, cause it doesn't matter about anything guys just creep to the females and tell them they're georgous all the time, that's another point I feel creeped out looking at the guys reply like lap dogs to women on the forums it comes across as immature, but that's another thread!!

Anyway thanks for the straight up reply, and if I'm honest I've had more than one meet thinking I'm gonna go go for it even thPugh she's a little bit bigger abd I ain't got it up .... But I've always garenteed fun!! My mo is sub Dom play so they're usually bound and gagged and it's nit just about intercourse.

I was really asking the men if they like slim girls, I'd 've a fool if I thought anyone would ruin thher forum reputation by admitting it publicaly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy is a mind set and personal opinion... So one persons sexy is not the same..

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I feel the same about any other compliment or insult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your first post doesnt really say what your later saying you mean.

I won't play with many guys because i don't believe they like bigger girls... Oh they may say they do... But I have to believe it to feel wanted...

I cringe when slim girls are called things in bbw threads.. or bigger girls refered to as real women... I'm me, fat or thin and everything in between... I know most men prefer slimmer... Lucky for me my playmate genuinely loves bigger girls.. but I've seen how sone guys react when they have the choice....

Cali

Thanks first of all for not standing on my Bollokcks, first line.... I was just mearly asking if any guys also prefer slim girls - it's hard to tell on here, cause it doesn't matter about anything guys just creep to the females and tell them they're georgous all the time, that's another point I feel creeped out looking at the guys reply like lap dogs to women on the forums it comes across as immature, but that's another thread!!

Anyway thanks for the straight up reply, and if I'm honest I've had more than one meet thinking I'm gonna go go for it even thPugh she's a little bit bigger abd I ain't got it up .... But I've always garenteed fun!! My mo is sub Dom play so they're usually bound and gagged and it's nit just about intercourse.

I was really asking the men if they like slim girls, I'd 've a fool if I thought anyone would ruin thher forum reputation by admitting it publicaly"

I think that's taking it a bit far! I did state I am attracted to a girl with a decent body. I think that was a bit of a sweeping statement to make about men on here.

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By *ingjay OP   Man
over a year ago

exeter

I noticed it's mainly women replying negatively to my post .........

Does that not just prove a point!!!! You slim haters!!!, I'm hoping this post gets closed by the moderators!! It's too funny and waaay to predictable!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think you need to be bound and gagged urself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I noticed it's mainly women replying negatively to my post .........

Does that not just prove a point!!!! You slim haters!!!, I'm hoping this post gets closed by the moderators!! It's too funny and waaay to predictable!! "

I've not replied negatively.. on this or my couples profile.. as I said I agree that most men will say they like big girls and suck up to them to get laid. I won't meet younger fit guys because of my experiences. Or people I dont believe are sincere

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I noticed it's mainly women replying negatively to my post .........

Does that not just prove a point!!!! You slim haters!!!, I'm hoping this post gets closed by the moderators!! It's too funny and waaay to predictable!! "

oh dear, people don't agree with you so your asking to have the thread closed? How old are you?

How about replying to the valid points people made?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using my Psychology Degree and not the fact I am a "fat bird hatin on skinny birds" for the benefit of OP's understanding

OP is gambling that a woman is so used to positive attention that she blots out all compliments, but when she hears something negative like she is fat...that's when she sits up and listens to OP.

OP then swoops in with positive attention to the woman and then gets himself a shag. Clever really... anyone interested its Transactional Analysis and ego strokes.

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By *ingjay OP   Man
over a year ago

exeter


"Using my Psychology Degree and not the fact I am a "fat bird hatin on skinny birds" for the benefit of OP's understanding

OP is gambling that a woman is so used to positive attention that she blots out all compliments, but when she hears something negative like she is fat...that's when she sits up and listens to OP.

OP then swoops in with positive attention to the woman and then gets himself a shag. Clever really... anyone interested its Transactional Analysis and ego strokes.

"

I asked a question....... Physcoanalyse all you want....... I don't look for nor get shags from here!! I will summerise and it's blatantly obvious I hit a nerve with a few women in here, I'm sorry I will never mention slim again I will set up a shrine and worship the bbw like good fab member!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Using my Psychology Degree and not the fact I am a "fat bird hatin on skinny birds" for the benefit of OP's understanding

OP is gambling that a woman is so used to positive attention that she blots out all compliments, but when she hears something negative like she is fat...that's when she sits up and listens to OP.

OP then swoops in with positive attention to the woman and then gets himself a shag. Clever really... anyone interested its Transactional Analysis and ego strokes.

I asked a question....... Physcoanalyse all you want....... I don't look for nor get shags from here!! I will summerise and it's blatantly obvious I hit a nerve with a few women in here, I'm sorry I will never mention slim again I will set up a shrine and worship the bbw like good fab member!! "

Oh dear I think its your nerve that's been hit.. can't see any post that has denied your choice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

make sure it has cake

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By *ingjay OP   Man
over a year ago

exeter

Douche bags!!!!! - yes resorting to immature insults in disbelief mainly!!! I cannot actually believe (well I can really) the post went this way!! Nerves very much touched!!! Slim power!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Douche bags!!!!! - yes resorting to immature insults in disbelief mainly!!! I cannot actually believe (well I can really) the post went this way!! Nerves very much touched!!! Slim power!!!!!"

You must be reading a different set of replies to me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jay, as many slim women we know have been jealous of V's curves as big girls have been jealous of slim womens lack of them.

people will always want to be something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Using my Psychology Degree and not the fact I am a "fat bird hatin on skinny birds" for the benefit of OP's understanding

OP is gambling that a woman is so used to positive attention that she blots out all compliments, but when she hears something negative like she is fat...that's when she sits up and listens to OP.

OP then swoops in with positive attention to the woman and then gets himself a shag. Clever really... anyone interested its Transactional Analysis and ego strokes.

I asked a question....... Physcoanalyse all you want....... I don't look for nor get shags from here!! I will summerise and it's blatantly obvious I hit a nerve with a few women in here, I'm sorry I will never mention slim again I will set up a shrine and worship the bbw like good fab member!!

Oh dear I think its your nerve that's been hit.. can't see any post that has denied your choice... "

exactly, rather bizarre reaction to perfectly reasonable responses, like the op was spoiling for a fight.

No one said you have to like bbw op, but it's perfectly reasonable to call you up on calling fat people lazy etc, it's said all the time, why can't people state there preference without insulting other people in the process? It's not difficult!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slim power? Lol im actually pissing myself now, put your toys back in your pram love!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked a question....... Physcoanalyse all you want....... I don't look for nor get shags from here!! I will summerise and it's blatantly obvious I hit a nerve with a few women in here, I'm sorry I will never mention slim again I will set up a shrine and worship the bbw like good fab member!!

You don't have to sleep with someone you have no attraction for, but putting up a post stating that you do not like bigger women is like asking if there is a God? Its going to attract attention from many, many people.

But by doing this you have shot yourself in the foot, you have to realise to you a BBW might be someone the size of a cow. But I have seen women from size 12 up to size 30 state that they are a BBW. That is a lot of women to call fat.

My advice would be to state on your profile you do not want a woman over a certain size and live by the motto my ideas of sexy are different from yours, but that is ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slim power? Lol im actually pissing myself now, put your toys back in your pram love! "

Did you imagine the stampy feet at the realisation that women on here can read between the lines lol x

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over a year ago


"Slim power? Lol im actually pissing myself now, put your toys back in your pram love!

Did you imagine the stampy feet at the realisation that women on here can read between the lines lol x"

Lol I know right? Ah well that made me chuckle before bedtime best take my fat arse off to bed....fat power!!! (Tounge firmly in cheek)

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over a year ago


"Slim power? Lol im actually pissing myself now, put your toys back in your pram love!

Did you imagine the stampy feet at the realisation that women on here can read between the lines lol x

Lol I know right? Ah well that made me chuckle before bedtime best take my fat arse off to bed....fat power!!! (Tounge firmly in cheek)"

Sorry did I miss anything? Was eating my 1st breakfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Douche bags!!!!! - yes resorting to immature insults in disbelief mainly!!! I cannot actually believe (well I can really) the post went this way!! Nerves very much touched!!! Slim power!!!!!"

Wow I didn't see anyone bashing slim women. I think that you will find many of these "jealous bbw" actually agree that bashing slim women because of their size or lack thereof it's just as insulting to slim women as bashing big girls for their size. I hate it when people do this as well. in one off your post you said reading all the bbw praise makes you uncomfortable like if you should be attracted to them too. It is perfectly ok that you aren't.just like it is perfectly ok that others are attracted to them. Sure some of them are just feeding lines but we can she right through it. Desperation is not a good look. You know perfectly well that many men find thin girls attractive so what is really bothering you? Seems that you wish everyone should think like you and you can't accept that it's just not that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dang typos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your first post doesnt really say what your later saying you mean.

I won't play with many guys because i don't believe they like bigger girls... Oh they may say they do... But I have to believe it to feel wanted...

I cringe when slim girls are called things in bbw threads.. or bigger girls refered to as real women... I'm me, fat or thin and everything in between... I know most men prefer slimmer... Lucky for me my playmate genuinely loves bigger girls.. but I've seen how sone guys react when they have the choice....

Cali "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Douche bags!!!!! - yes resorting to immature insults in disbelief mainly!!! I cannot actually believe (well I can really) the post went this way!! Nerves very much touched!!! Slim power!!!!!"

The only insults I've read on this thread are from you!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I will always prefer a slim girl especially one that has earned it, yet they get slated all the time usually from jealous lazy unfit people that wish they were but can't be arsed to do anything about it. Anyone else agree slim is sexy??"

Sorry, your OP contained the above words and you thought people would be happy to discuss it with you? If you want to debate something, then don't start off insulting one of the sides you wish to debate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you will find it is not your preferences on your post.

More to the point people are lazy and can't be bothered,if they have a few lumps and bumps.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

No OP, you're the only person on fabswingers that likes slim girls

And the only person that insulted anyone was you!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been rekindling an old 'friendship' she is georgous, she works out and takes care of herself, she nearly 34 had 2 kids but for a lot people would say 'ah she's got no meat on her' - what ever happened to liking a slim girl?? Its all about being 'fabulous' - and we all know what that means! I will always prefer a slim girl especially one that has earned it, yet they get slated all the time usually from jealous lazy unfit people that wish they were but can't be arsed to do anything about it. Anyone else agree slim is sexy??"

In many cultures being heavier is looked on as very attractive, wealth, health, and nurturing, a slim woman is looked on as selfish, poor, and the last resort, if you cant get a bigger woman, maybe the stigma of being thin and bony has carried over, the media are always telling us, anorexic looking models cant be healthy. Maybe there is something in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Douche bags!!!!! - yes resorting to immature insults in disbelief mainly!!! I cannot actually believe (well I can really) the post went this way!! Nerves very much touched!!! Slim power!!!!!"

How very weird. Everyone else was having a normal discussion. You're the only one that got irate. Slim power? You're just trying to get people's backs up and start an argument. Immature indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats fine that you find slim girls more to your desire.

Thats your preference! ..

As for the insult to women that are much larger or even curvy.saying there lazy is harsh dont you think & Ignorant?

Im not surprised you had some slate back!..

Bambi..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to speak my mind, but last time I did that, I got a time out! So I shall merely express my opinion

Big Up The Big Birds...!!!

(And yes, I'm fat...!!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I noticed it's mainly women replying negatively to my post .........

Does that not just prove a point!!!! You slim haters!!!, I'm hoping this post gets closed by the moderators!! It's too funny and waaay to predictable!! "

I'm a large girl, I have no problem with slim fit girls at all. What I do have issues with are sweeping statements about being large.

I dance twice a week, run my own home, look after my mentally disabled son and do everything else a mum does. I eat a healthy diet and occasionally spend the day at the gym swimming and doing a couple of classes.

Hmmmm lazy not got time to be lazy, however all this still doesn't make me any slimmer. But that's Ok cos that way I stick to meeting guys who like how I am.

Enjoy fab hun and there are plenty of guys who like you enjoy slim girls, but there's plenty who don't too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy is a mind set and personal opinion... So one persons sexy is not the same..

That was the whole point of the question to see see if anyone else had the same opinion as me"

And clearly anyone who doesn't have the same opinion is a douche bag irrespective of their own preferences and opinions?!?!?!?!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Personality first....I don't want even NSA sex with the best looking woman I've ever seen if she has the personality of a rotting cabbage. Odd, maybe but it's me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy is a mind set and personal opinion... So one persons sexy is not the same..

That was the whole point of the question to see see if anyone else had the same opinion as me

And clearly anyone who doesn't have the same opinion is a douche bag irrespective of their own preferences and opinions?!?!?!?! "

But what would I know, I'm one of the lazy fat birds that men will say anything to just to get a shag?!!

What I DO know is that for every guy that GENUINELY likes my size there will be others who don't - do I stress about it, no I don't - why? Because I'm way to busy having fun with the guys who appeal to me, some of whom are packing extra weight and some who have perfectly toned and muscular bodies ...... go figure!!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

im not sizeist .. i cant really see the point of denying yourself fun with any sexy lady because of size .. its attitude that attracts me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I think I can understand where this all went wrong and what the op is saying.

I myself was married to a man for 17 years who like the op found slim women attractive, he was however an extreme case as for him anybody over a size 10 was grossly overweight, I'm sure the op is not that radical.

I spent most of my marriage as a size 12 and occasionally a 14, I did diet down to a 10 but for him I still was not thin enough, I suffered statements such as 'I love you I just don't fancy you'&'you look nice if you lost some weight you would look better'.

I don't hate him for it, he cannot help his preference and we have had many discussion about it since our divorce, to him he thought he was helping and can still not see where he may have caused me pain, I had to get out for my own mental health.

I'm sure the op is not saying bbw women are gross, far from it he is just saying that his preference is for a slim girl who works out to keep herself in the shape she is comfortable with, beauty comes from inner confidence.

I can also say that yes women can be very bitchy, but it can go both ways, I have a friend who cannot for the love of it put on weight and would kill for my curves, lots of us are lusting after someone else's something in some kind of way be it male or female.

This site is all about preferences after all, mine are for tall well built guys with hairy chests, I do fancy other men but just prefer the above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a bbw, fabulous size 20, who enjoys food and doesn't enjoy working hard to b slim.

But I agree that being slim can be sexy. If the person (male or female)is a healthy weight for their height (bmi etc)

However I also think that people who are very skinny (underweight and therefore quite unhealthy) do need to put some meat on their bones, I don't find the emaciated look very sexy.

P.s

Not all of us fat women are jealous.

Not all of us women need worshipping by every guy on here

Some of us are just happy to like what we like n leave others to what they like

No dummy spitting needed

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By *ingjay OP   Man
over a year ago

exeter

I only asked one question...... I didn't ask anyone to come on here spouting crap about preferences, how everyone is different blah blah,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only asked one question...... I didn't ask anyone to come on here spouting crap about preferences, how everyone is different blah blah, "

your problem was it was a loaded question, bound to get replies you didn't want to hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only asked one question...... I didn't ask anyone to come on here spouting crap about preferences, how everyone is different blah blah, "

You suggested you preferred slim ladies so you're expressing a preference as we all have so others have expressed theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only asked one question...... I didn't ask anyone to come on here spouting crap about preferences, how everyone is different blah blah, "

What the hell did you want? Oh, sorry, you wanted people to come on and agree with you that fat people are lazy.

You tried to start a size bashing thread and failed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only asked one question...... I didn't ask anyone to come on here spouting crap about preferences, how everyone is different blah blah, "

FORUM: place to express yourself: a medium in which the public may debate an issue or express opinions

The only person who appears to be "spouting crap" as far as I can see is the OP, everyone else appears to understand and be abiding by the above definition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People come in all shapes and sizes.

However the OP implies that if women aren't slim they see lazy.

Thin isn't better than chunky, tall isnt better thank petite.

The OP would love a site called thin swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love toned and slender women, there's a huge difference between 'skinny and underfed' and 'lean and athletic'."

Strong is the new skinny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only asked one question...... I didn't ask anyone to come on here spouting crap about preferences, how everyone is different blah blah, "

In answer to your question, as special as you were hoping maybe to be, I'm afraid to break it to you....

"You're not the only man in the universe who finds only slim women attractive"

Now there's a shocker...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been rekindling an old 'friendship' she is georgous, she works out and takes care of herself, she nearly 34 had 2 kids but for a lot people would say 'ah she's got no meat on her' - what ever happened to liking a slim girl?? Its all about being 'fabulous' - and we all know what that means! I will always prefer a slim girl especially one that has earned it, yet they get slated all the time usually from jealous lazy unfit people that wish they were but can't be arsed to do anything about it. Anyone else agree slim is sexy??"

I haven't read the whole thread, but I bet this went well...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't mind but I'm attracted to personality first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been rekindling an old 'friendship' she is georgous, she works out and takes care of herself, she nearly 34 had 2 kids but for a lot people would say 'ah she's got no meat on her' - what ever happened to liking a slim girl?? Its all about being 'fabulous' - and we all know what that means! I will always prefer a slim girl especially one that has earned it, yet they get slated all the time usually from jealous lazy unfit people that wish they were but can't be arsed to do anything about it. Anyone else agree slim is sexy??

I haven't read the whole thread, but I bet this went well...

"

Oh yes! its been nominated for a Pullitzer prize

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only asked one question...... I didn't ask anyone to come on here spouting crap about preferences, how everyone is different blah blah, "

I can't believe everyone has kept this singularly obnoxious troll fed for the last x hours. I don't care for the opinions, implications, abusive comments or the imaginary playmate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only asked one question...... I didn't ask anyone to come on here spouting crap about preferences, how everyone is different blah blah,

I can't believe everyone has kept this singularly obnoxious troll fed for the last x hours. I don't care for the opinions, implications, abusive comments or the imaginary playmate. "

Dont read it then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe some just like to have candy on there arm as a prize possession me I love the person in the skin no matter how thick it is ??

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Douche bags!!!!! - yes resorting to immature insults in disbelief mainly!!! I cannot actually believe (well I can really) the post went this way!! Nerves very much touched!!! Slim power!!!!!"

It looks like the reaction you wanted didn't happen as happily no one rose to the bait

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