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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A guy has asked myself and a friend to meet him separately on the same day. He knows that we are friends and discuss who we meet. Don't get me wrong im certainly not adverse to myself and my friends meeting the same guy but on the same day?

What do you ladies think?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

cant see the issue really. you are here for NSA sex and so is he.

If its a rule between yo and your friend not to meet the same guy on the same day that's between you.

there is nothing to stop him from asking you both for meets really.

You may find some will reply saying your lack of discretion regarding meets is the bigger issue here.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

As long as I got to go first so he wasn't worn out I wouldn't care.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lack of discretion? Surely verifications kinda give the game away about who we've met?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If it conformed to how I meet and didn't impact on my quality, then I don't need to know, somehow though, I don't think it would meet my criteria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why not just meet him together ffs

this site needs less drama and more filth...crank it up please!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"why not just meet him together ffs

this site needs less drama and more filth...crank it up please! "

With photos...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy has asked myself and a friend to meet him separately on the same day. He knows that we are friends and discuss who we meet. Don't get me wrong im certainly not adverse to myself and my friends meeting the same guy but on the same day?

What do you ladies think? "

I think it doesn't sit too well with you or you probably wouldn't be asking.

Personally I prefer not to play with the same guys as my friends but it all comes down to what each individual is comfortable with at the end of the day.

Have you asked your friend what she feels about it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"why not just meet him together ffs

this site needs less drama and more filth...crank it up please! "

Well that would have been preferable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lack of discretion? Surely verifications kinda give the game away about who we've met? "

I dont speak to my male 'friends' about my meets, other than 'she's nice hot/theyre nice fem half is hot'

but would it be ok for two guys to talk about how each of them has been pumping ur pussy like a jackhammer and how many tiomes u gushed,not to mention during anal u shat on their cock

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Lack of discretion? Surely verifications kinda give the game away about who we've met? "

true, i was just putting it out there as people dont seem to like the idea of people discussing meets on here.

Depends on what you mean by discussing....reading a veri is different to comparing notes on performance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A guy has asked myself and a friend to meet him separately on the same day. He knows that we are friends and discuss who we meet. Don't get me wrong im certainly not adverse to myself and my friends meeting the same guy but on the same day?

What do you ladies think?

She's not meeting him either now

I think it doesn't sit too well with you or you probably wouldn't be asking.

Personally I prefer not to play with the same guys as my friends but it all comes down to what each individual is comfortable with at the end of the day.

Have you asked your friend what she feels about it? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why not just meet him together ffs

this site needs less drama and more filth...crank it up please! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why not just meet him together ffs

this site needs less drama and more filth...crank it up please!

Well that would have been preferable "

think fast die last!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if he managed 2 meets in the same day he'll be the envy of every guy on here, good for him

give him a treat and have a 3sum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lack of discretion? Surely verifications kinda give the game away about who we've met?

true, i was just putting it out there as people dont seem to like the idea of people discussing meets on here.

Depends on what you mean by discussing....reading a veri is different to comparing notes on performance"

I certainly don't ask the ins and outs but maybe just who and was a good time had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why not just meet him together ffs

this site needs less drama and more filth...crank it up please! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's none of my business who anyone else meets so this wouldn't come up in conversation. equally, my sex life is mine and nothing to do with anyone else.....except my husband. Yes I display verifications but not because I'm open to discussion about them and I would hope that anyone I meet shares the same discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy has asked myself and a friend to meet him separately on the same day. He knows that we are friends and discuss who we meet. Don't get me wrong im certainly not adverse to myself and my friends meeting the same guy but on the same day?

What do you ladies think? "

Absolutely no issue with a guy meeting another girl I know coz at the end of the day it's a swingers site.

However I'm not a fan of bed hopping, whether it be with someone I know or not, swinging doesn't mean there is no respect.

I don't think there are many guys who would like it if us ladies turned up to meet them and then disclosed we'd been fucked only 3 hours earlier so don't see why we should accept it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet who my mate meets

Does he really need two in one day ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"A guy has asked myself and a friend to meet him separately on the same day. He knows that we are friends and discuss who we meet. Don't get me wrong im certainly not adverse to myself and my friends meeting the same guy but on the same day?

What do you ladies think?

Absolutely no issue with a guy meeting another girl I know coz at the end of the day it's a swingers site.

However I'm not a fan of bed hopping, whether it be with someone I know or not, swinging doesn't mean there is no respect.

I don't think there are many guys who would like it if us ladies turned up to meet them and then disclosed we'd been fucked only 3 hours earlier so don't see why we should accept it. "

i once arranged to meet a guy while i was being fucked by another....both found it very horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck to the guy. C'mon girls dont spoil a once in a lifetime chance for this lad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A guy has asked myself and a friend to meet him separately on the same day. He knows that we are friends and discuss who we meet. Don't get me wrong im certainly not adverse to myself and my friends meeting the same guy but on the same day?

What do you ladies think?

Absolutely no issue with a guy meeting another girl I know coz at the end of the day it's a swingers site.

However I'm not a fan of bed hopping, whether it be with someone I know or not, swinging doesn't mean there is no respect.

I don't think there are many guys who would like it if us ladies turned up to meet them and then disclosed we'd been fucked only 3 hours earlier so don't see why we should accept it.

i once arranged to meet a guy while i was being fucked by another....both found it very horny "

Your naughty, but I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he wants you both but doesn't know if you'd be up for a 3sum. Turn up together and get it over and done with.

But it's up to you and your friend. no doubt you will compare notes.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Good luck to the guy. C'mon girls dont spoil a once in a lifetime chance for this lad "

I'm all for it....i can't see an issue with a guy wanting more than one meet in a day. If i went to a club i'd get more than one shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it's no different to being in a club. If you go with a friend or meet friends there, and you both happen to play with the same guy/gal at different times of the night?

I wouldn't have a problem with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy has asked myself and a friend to meet him separately on the same day. He knows that we are friends and discuss who we meet. Don't get me wrong im certainly not adverse to myself and my friends meeting the same guy but on the same day?

What do you ladies think?

Absolutely no issue with a guy meeting another girl I know coz at the end of the day it's a swingers site.

However I'm not a fan of bed hopping, whether it be with someone I know or not, swinging doesn't mean there is no respect.

I don't think there are many guys who would like it if us ladies turned up to meet them and then disclosed we'd been fucked only 3 hours earlier so don't see why we should accept it. "

If it was me I wouldn't meet him. He can meet whoever he likes but it's odd that he wants to meet you both the same day. Like he's trying to get a reaction from you. I don't like people that play games like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never ask my fwb who he is shagging apart from me and he never asks me. Though he knows that my friends are not in the equasion and neither are his. That was discussed years ago and we are ok with that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A guy has asked myself and a friend to meet him separately on the same day. He knows that we are friends and discuss who we meet. Don't get me wrong im certainly not adverse to myself and my friends meeting the same guy but on the same day?

What do you ladies think?

Absolutely no issue with a guy meeting another girl I know coz at the end of the day it's a swingers site.

However I'm not a fan of bed hopping, whether it be with someone I know or not, swinging doesn't mean there is no respect.

I don't think there are many guys who would like it if us ladies turned up to meet them and then disclosed we'd been fucked only 3 hours earlier so don't see why we should accept it.

If it was me I wouldn't meet him. He can meet whoever he likes but it's odd that he wants to meet you both the same day. Like he's trying to get a reaction from you. I don't like people that play games like that."

Exactly at last someone who thinks with their brains as well as their genitals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does ur friend think. ? Obviously a turn on for him lol lucky guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What does ur friend think. ? Obviously a turn on for him lol lucky guy "

Shes not meeting him either. Not like there's a shortage of guys anyhow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is he gonna shower inbetween

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why not just meet him together ffs

this site needs less drama and more filth...crank it up please! "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't discuss who I meet with anyone so I would never know if anyone had arranged another meet the same day as me. Then again I don't have any female friends on here either.

It sounds like he's trying to play you off against each other seeing as he knows you discuss your meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just Bang him...simples really

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happened to me & my friend only the guy lied to me cutting my meet short saying he had a 'job interview', he didn't cum in my meet & went immediately to her where he had a much better & longer time than my 40 minutes. We only found out after, needless to say he's blocked. Don't get me wrong I don't care much who meets who, but I do care about liars & players x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are one lucky lady

Nette

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This happened to me & my friend only the guy lied to me cutting my meet short saying he had a 'job interview', he didn't cum in my meet & went immediately to her where he had a much better & longer time than my 40 minutes. We only found out after, needless to say he's blocked. Don't get me wrong I don't care much who meets who, but I do care about liars & players x"

That is so out of order. Just because it's a swingers site doesn't mean us women shouldn't get the respect we deserve and should demand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This happened to me & my friend only the guy lied to me cutting my meet short saying he had a 'job interview', he didn't cum in my meet & went immediately to her where he had a much better & longer time than my 40 minutes. We only found out after, needless to say he's blocked. Don't get me wrong I don't care much who meets who, but I do care about liars & players x

That is so out of order. Just because it's a swingers site doesn't mean us women shouldn't get the respect we deserve and should demand"

*I liked the part that sounds like he didnt cum in ur meat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This happened to me & my friend only the guy lied to me cutting my meet short saying he had a 'job interview', he didn't cum in my meet & went immediately to her where he had a much better & longer time than my 40 minutes. We only found out after, needless to say he's blocked. Don't get me wrong I don't care much who meets who, but I do care about liars & players x

That is so out of order. Just because it's a swingers site doesn't mean us women shouldn't get the respect we deserve and should demand

*I liked the part that sounds like he didnt cum in ur meat "

It was a question for ladies only, and

that's the reason why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This happened to me & my friend only the guy lied to me cutting my meet short saying he had a 'job interview', he didn't cum in my meet & went immediately to her where he had a much better & longer time than my 40 minutes. We only found out after, needless to say he's blocked. Don't get me wrong I don't care much who meets who, but I do care about liars & players x

That is so out of order. Just because it's a swingers site doesn't mean us women shouldn't get the respect we deserve and should demand

*I liked the part that sounds like he didnt cum in ur meat "

I was so knobbed lol, cheeky bugger x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This happened to me & my friend only the guy lied to me cutting my meet short saying he had a 'job interview', he didn't cum in my meet & went immediately to her where he had a much better & longer time than my 40 minutes. We only found out after, needless to say he's blocked. Don't get me wrong I don't care much who meets who, but I do care about liars & players x

That is so out of order. Just because it's a swingers site doesn't mean us women shouldn't get the respect we deserve and should demand

*I liked the part that sounds like he didnt cum in ur meat

It was a question for ladies only, and

that's the reason why "

lol well I'm allowed to join in...so there lol!

anyway, as its been made out that its only guys that lie/players... theres myriads of couples that do the same...and sometime dont even tell u they are cancelling a meet, then u discover they took a better offer... trust me, single males can be treated like utter shit- its auto-assumed we have no responsibilities its auto-assumed that if we cant meet on certain days,times we must be married/timewasters...in a guys thread last week he stated he was blocked because he couldnt meet on 3 occasions(this is arranging, not not showing up),- so he was blocked, some on the forums thought it was right to block him..of course turn that onto a female or couple..and interestingly they have much more responsibility of stuff.Aye, of course.

anyway thats my rant

I dont see why this guys getting a hard time either, if both female friends dont mind being with eachother naked etc..then its a win win for all.Making out this guys some devious mind game player is a bit unfair ffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It was a question for ladies only, and

that's the reason why

lol well I'm allowed to join in...so there lol!

anyway, as its been made out that its only guys that lie/players... theres myriads of couples that do the same...and sometime dont even tell u they are cancelling a meet, then u discover they took a better offer... trust me, single males can be treated like utter shit- its auto-assumed we have no responsibilities its auto-assumed that if we cant meet on certain days,times we must be married/timewasters...in a guys thread last week he stated he was blocked because he couldnt meet on 3 occasions(this is arranging, not not showing up),- so he was blocked, some on the forums thought it was right to block him..of course turn that onto a female or couple..and interestingly they have much more responsibility of stuff.Aye, of course.

anyway thats my rant

I dont see why this guys getting a hard time either, if both female friends dont mind being with eachother naked etc..then its a win win for all.Making out this guys some devious mind game player is a bit unfair ffs "

We weren't asked to do a ffm as you can see from my verifications and profile I enjoy ffm. Anyway im happy to listen to other people's opinions and I'm grateful for people taking the time out to reply.

Im sure there are many genuine males, females and couples as well as the opposite in every category. Ive met some great single men and had some very memorable times.

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"A guy has asked myself and a friend to meet him separately on the same day. He knows that we are friends and discuss who we meet. Don't get me wrong im certainly not adverse to myself and my friends meeting the same guy but on the same day?

What do you ladies think?

Absolutely no issue with a guy meeting another girl I know coz at the end of the day it's a swingers site.

However I'm not a fan of bed hopping, whether it be with someone I know or not, swinging doesn't mean there is no respect.

I don't think there are many guys who would like it if us ladies turned up to meet them and then disclosed we'd been fucked only 3 hours earlier so don't see why we should accept it.

If it was me I wouldn't meet him. He can meet whoever he likes but it's odd that he wants to meet you both the same day. Like he's trying to get a reaction from you. I don't like people that play games like that."

I'm with the beautiful Steels.

I've never been to a club so couldn't compare it, but I wouldn't be too keen on shagging the same fella my mate had shagged the same day, or any other male/female/couple/trans etc.

I don't know what it is that bothers me so much about it. Maybe it's the thought of them comparing me to the other, I really don't know.

Do what is right for you OP xx

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"This happened to me & my friend only the guy lied to me cutting my meet short saying he had a 'job interview', he didn't cum in my meet & went immediately to her where he had a much better & longer time than my 40 minutes. We only found out after, needless to say he's blocked. Don't get me wrong I don't care much who meets who, but I do care about liars & players x

That is so out of order. Just because it's a swingers site doesn't mean us women shouldn't get the respect we deserve and should demand

*I liked the part that sounds like he didnt cum in ur meat

It was a question for ladies only, and

that's the reason why

lol well I'm allowed to join in...so there lol!

anyway, as its been made out that its only guys that lie/players... theres myriads of couples that do the same...and sometime dont even tell u they are cancelling a meet, then u discover they took a better offer... trust me, single males can be treated like utter shit- its auto-assumed we have no responsibilities its auto-assumed that if we cant meet on certain days,times we must be married/timewasters...in a guys thread last week he stated he was blocked because he couldnt meet on 3 occasions(this is arranging, not not showing up),- so he was blocked, some on the forums thought it was right to block him..of course turn that onto a female or couple..and interestingly they have much more responsibility of stuff.Aye, of course.

anyway thats my rant

I dont see why this guys getting a hard time either, if both female friends dont mind being with eachother naked etc..then its a win win for all.Making out this guys some devious mind game player is a bit unfair ffs "

Ahh shurrup Paddy and go down on me ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy has asked myself and a friend to meet him separately on the same day. He knows that we are friends and discuss who we meet. Don't get me wrong im certainly not adverse to myself and my friends meeting the same guy but on the same day?

What do you ladies think? "

you lucky girls, juggle the times and have a threesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This happened to me & my friend only the guy lied to me cutting my meet short saying he had a 'job interview', he didn't cum in my meet & went immediately to her where he had a much better & longer time than my 40 minutes. We only found out after, needless to say he's blocked. Don't get me wrong I don't care much who meets who, but I do care about liars & players x

That is so out of order. Just because it's a swingers site doesn't mean us women shouldn't get the respect we deserve and should demand

*I liked the part that sounds like he didnt cum in ur meat

It was a question for ladies only, and

that's the reason why

lol well I'm allowed to join in...so there lol!

anyway, as its been made out that its only guys that lie/players... theres myriads of couples that do the same...and sometime dont even tell u they are cancelling a meet, then u discover they took a better offer... trust me, single males can be treated like utter shit- its auto-assumed we have no responsibilities its auto-assumed that if we cant meet on certain days,times we must be married/timewasters...in a guys thread last week he stated he was blocked because he couldnt meet on 3 occasions(this is arranging, not not showing up),- so he was blocked, some on the forums thought it was right to block him..of course turn that onto a female or couple..and interestingly they have much more responsibility of stuff.Aye, of course.

anyway thats my rant

I dont see why this guys getting a hard time either, if both female friends dont mind being with eachother naked etc..then its a win win for all.Making out this guys some devious mind game player is a bit unfair ffs

Ahh shurrup Paddy and go down on me ffs

"

I cant lickout two women at once..even with my super fork shaped tongue x

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"This happened to me & my friend only the guy lied to me cutting my meet short saying he had a 'job interview', he didn't cum in my meet & went immediately to her where he had a much better & longer time than my 40 minutes. We only found out after, needless to say he's blocked. Don't get me wrong I don't care much who meets who, but I do care about liars & players x

That is so out of order. Just because it's a swingers site doesn't mean us women shouldn't get the respect we deserve and should demand

*I liked the part that sounds like he didnt cum in ur meat

It was a question for ladies only, and

that's the reason why

lol well I'm allowed to join in...so there lol!

anyway, as its been made out that its only guys that lie/players... theres myriads of couples that do the same...and sometime dont even tell u they are cancelling a meet, then u discover they took a better offer... trust me, single males can be treated like utter shit- its auto-assumed we have no responsibilities its auto-assumed that if we cant meet on certain days,times we must be married/timewasters...in a guys thread last week he stated he was blocked because he couldnt meet on 3 occasions(this is arranging, not not showing up),- so he was blocked, some on the forums thought it was right to block him..of course turn that onto a female or couple..and interestingly they have much more responsibility of stuff.Aye, of course.

anyway thats my rant

I dont see why this guys getting a hard time either, if both female friends dont mind being with eachother naked etc..then its a win win for all.Making out this guys some devious mind game player is a bit unfair ffs

Ahh shurrup Paddy and go down on me ffs

I cant lickout two women at once..even with my super fork shaped tongue x"
yadda yadda. Still chatting shit! On your knees and lick it

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"A guy has asked myself and a friend to meet him separately on the same day. He knows that we are friends and discuss who we meet. Don't get me wrong im certainly not adverse to myself and my friends meeting the same guy but on the same day?

What do you ladies think? "

I wouldn't put up with that for a second!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IMO it's obvious what he's doing - by asking you both to meet on the same day he's hoping that you will suggest a ffm meet. That way he doesn't run the risk of getting blocked for coming straight out and asking, just for being a fool and not realising that he may be causing offence!

S xx

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