FabSwingers.com forum: Just here for sex?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This might sound like an odd question to ask on a swinging site but I ask it because of recent conversations I have had..which led me to question it.

So...do you frequent this site JUST for sex? Or is there more to it for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More , my profile explains all. Bit of a waste really seeing as how it hardly ever gets read

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

more to it for us too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it is not all about sex it is about getting to know others in an intimate way and having that little extra teasing on social nights out that only intimate friends can have .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if we were just here for sex, wouldnt have the avatar we do lol.

no, its for the social side too.

having a laugh in the forums.

finding people that, hopefully, and maybe, become friends in the vanilla world too

sex is way down the list and its why i cringe when i see people saying its a sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's the social side as well and Sex is a bonus

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"For us it is not all about sex it is about getting to know others in an intimate way and having that little extra teasing on social nights out that only intimate friends can have ."

Yes well put.

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By *issmekate xxxWoman
over a year ago

Non Vanilla Land

"This might sound like an odd question to ask on a swinging site but I ask it because of recent conversations I have had..which led me to question it.

So...do you frequent this site JUST for sex? Or is there more to it for you?"

It probably was initially but now I use it for ...

keeping in touch with friends

perving on new and old contacts

banter in the forums

searching out new conquests ... I'm looking so much more than just sex now !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This might sound like an odd question to ask on a swinging site but I ask it because of recent conversations I have had..which led me to question it.

So...do you frequent this site JUST for sex? Or is there more to it for you?"

Not even here for sex randomly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sex is way down the list and its why i cringe when i see people saying its a sex site"

Interesting that it makes you cringe. That doesn't come across as very tolerant of others just because they use the site a different way to you.

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By *iceguy25Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

Why cant we be here for friendship with the possibility of sex lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I must say I enjoy the social side very much too. There is a lot to be said for being able to relax in like minded company and be yourself completely. I am single (boo hoo! Lol) but if I were in a relationship I can see how close it could bring you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why cant we be here for friendship with the possibility of sex lol "

I didnt say you couldn't? I just asked a question!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally consider my meets as my friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why cant we be here for friendship with the possibility of sex lol "

Thats kind of why I'm here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social side is a must meeting others to chat and see if chemistry is there and getting naughty talking about sex and what you all love to do is a turn on in its self penetration don't even have to come into it really its a turn on just chatting and flirting too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More 4 me the sex gets better the more u knw them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can guarantee that most will say it's more...purely because they also use the forums, and some only use the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why cant we be here for friendship with the possibility of sex lol

Thats kind of why I'm here.

Sorry ..going slightly off topic here. ..but good god! Your body is hot! Have I ruined my own thread already ??????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can guarantee that most will say it's more...purely because they also use the forums, and some only use the forums."

Thats a good point to be fair. I suppose it is logical that people on the forums are more likely to be those into a good natter! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meet people sometimes, like to say hi to a few people who fab my pics, look at pictures and read the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not everyine is on here just for sex. we use the forums,have a laff with people,get to know people

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By *portyndNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Nearby Hinckley

Definitely more than sex. Swinging is a lifestylye and friendships are always nice to be made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we are here for a good laugh and making friends too.

If we do have a meet, its all about having a laugh, anything else can be a bonus

We are very big on no expectations

Nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can guarantee that most will say it's more...purely because they also use the forums, and some only use the forums."

I'm mostly here for the forum now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This might sound like an odd question to ask on a swinging site but I ask it because of recent conversations I have had..which led me to question it.

So...do you frequent this site JUST for sex? Or is there more to it for you?"

Is there a reason you just cut and pasted my opening thread again or were you intending to contribute?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It not just about sex.I would say a lot of it is social.A club or a night out getting to know each other and having fun.Then if the sex happens just go with it.Swinging has a lot to do with the social side for me aswell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a reason you just cut and pasted my opening thread again or were you intending to contribute? "

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"For us it is not all about sex it is about getting to know others in an intimate way and having that little extra teasing on social nights out that only intimate friends can have ."

This says it all for me

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By *ouncy BettyCouple
over a year ago

London

As we don't shag anything that moves it's more than just sex. But, and there is a but, we aren't here looking for close friendships. We have couples on here that we often see and bump in to at clubs and parties but wouldn't go on holiday with them etc. socials are great for getting to know people and generally we find nice couples know other nice couples..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if we were just here for sex, wouldnt have the avatar we do lol.

no, its for the social side too.

having a laugh in the forums.

finding people that, hopefully, and maybe, become friends in the vanilla world too

sex is way down the list and its why i cringe when i see people saying its a sex site"

same for me as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As we don't shag anything that moves it's more than just sex. But, and there is a but, we aren't here looking for close friendships. We have couples on here that we often see and bump in to at clubs and parties but wouldn't go on holiday with them etc. socials are great for getting to know people and generally we find nice couples know other nice couples.. "

I think this sums it up quite nicely for us too.....certainly not looking to make best friends with people as I like to keep our sex life separate from "normal" life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This might sound like an odd question to ask on a swinging site but I ask it because of recent conversations I have had..which led me to question it.

So...do you frequent this site JUST for sex? Or is there more to it for you?"

I am here to study human nature, sexuality, and adultery for Sydney university.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is there a reason you just cut and pasted my opening thread again or were you intending to contribute? "

Oh very funny! Lol..you are going over my knee!

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By *iceguy25Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

"Why cant we be here for friendship with the possibility of sex lol

I didnt say you couldn't? I just asked a question!"

I know though there are those on here that have the "this aint Facebook " attitude

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This might sound like an odd question to ask on a swinging site but I ask it because of recent conversations I have had..which led me to question it.

So...do you frequent this site JUST for sex? Or is there more to it for you?

I am here to study human nature, sexuality, and adultery for Sydney university."

Lol!!!!!!!!! That research has been going for years!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why cant we be here for friendship with the possibility of sex lol

I didnt say you couldn't? I just asked a question!

I know though there are those on here that have the "this aint Facebook " attitude "

And many other attitudes....this isnt facebook, match.com, POF, womansweekly, DIY UK.......

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By *ustyBrunette35Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

"So...do you frequent this site JUST for sex? Or is there more to it for you?"

Just sex for me.

Sex is why I joined the site and sex is the reason I'm still on here.

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By *iceguy25Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

"Why cant we be here for friendship with the possibility of sex lol

I didnt say you couldn't? I just asked a question!

I know though there are those on here that have the "this aint Facebook " attitude

And many other attitudes....this isnt facebook, match.com, POF, womansweekly, DIY UK.......

Nope its Facebook on spanish fly lol

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I have many real life friends on here so i can't say i use the forums or site 'just for sex'

I meet at events & clubs for socials too, which again isn't strictly for sex. I have however been lucky & met with some diamonds for sex

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By *agicman2010Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Guess everyone is drawn here in the first instance to find sex with a stranger. But ideally Id love to find a partner/ girlfriend/ lover. So, if any females looking for much more than just a shag, please inbox me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sex is way down the list and its why i cringe when i see people saying its a sex site

Interesting that it makes you cringe. That doesn't come across as very tolerant of others just because they use the site a different way to you."

just because it makes me cringe doesnt mean im intolerant of how others choose to sue the site.

people screaming and swearing at kids in pubs makes me cringe too, but it doesnt mean i tell them how to raise their kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why cant we be here for friendship with the possibility of sex lol

I didnt say you couldn't? I just asked a question!

I know though there are those on here that have the "this aint Facebook " attitude

And many other attitudes....this isnt facebook, match.com, POF, womansweekly, DIY UK.......

If it was POF I'd be too busy shagging to comment on this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why cant we be here for friendship with the possibility of sex lol

I didnt say you couldn't? I just asked a question!

I know though there are those on here that have the "this aint Facebook " attitude

And many other attitudes....this isnt facebook, match.com, POF, womansweekly, DIY UK.......

If it was POF I'd be too busy shagging to comment on this.

Lol!!! So I hear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the last four years after my marriage breakup I withdrew and kept myself to myself but I have said that in 2014 I want a social and a sex life, even if I'm still not ready for a relationship in the traditional sense so this seemed the perfect place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex and social are not mutually exclusive. I joined for sex but have met people who are now friends.

I have however also met people who I would not want as a friend. It reflects life.

I wonder sometimes if some folk join Fab because it is free and not because they actually want to have fun with others?

Oh. To save anyone else having to say it:-

Fab cliché no. 3. "Personal preferencs"

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sex, no real intimacy just sex... NSA sex.

and the forums for banter.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Why cant we be here for friendship with the possibility of sex lol "

Or even sex with the possibility of friendship....

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I started off as "just sex", but later found that bonds can be formed and friends can be made.

Given my vanilla friends and swinging friends may not mix as well as ideal world may hope if both groups ever met (picture the "How did you meet?" questions being asked by vanilla friends, lol).

I've embraced all the aspects of swinging, the social as well as the play side,.. I wouldn't go so far as to say sex is down the priority (as it is actively high, the randy bastid I am) but other aspects have come up the priority to match.

Can I have one without the other? Hell no, and wouldn't want to. I am what I am - take it or leave it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why cant we be here for friendship with the possibility of sex lol

Thats kind of why I'm here.

me too, when I'm ready to meet again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can guarantee that most will say it's more...purely because they also use the forums, and some only use the forums."

indeed !

So allow us to buck the trend lol

Yes , we are here for just the sex .

Friendship , banter on the forums etc.... We can take or leave . Let's face it , there are other sites for all that !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it's ultimately about sex but we love the social side of swinging just as much x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can guarantee that most will say it's more...purely because they also use the forums, and some only use the forums.

indeed !

So allow us to buck the trend lol

Yes , we are here for just the sex .

Friendship , banter on the forums etc.... We can take or leave . Let's face it , there are other sites for all that !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why cant we be here for friendship with the possibility of sex lol

Thats kind of why I'm here.

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just sex for us, but done in a friendly way

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

"Why cant we be here for friendship with the possibility of sex lol

I didnt say you couldn't? I just asked a question!

I know though there are those on here that have the "this aint Facebook " attitude

And many other attitudes....this isnt facebook, match.com, POF, womansweekly, DIY UK.......

If it was POF I'd be too busy shagging to comment on this.

Very true. When I was on POF I was inundated with offers of sex. And most times I swopped numbers I received an instant cock picture. Lol! I had quite an album...

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

We are here to have fun. Meet new friends in the lifestyle, and have a good time.

Sex is always a bonus. If we don't have it then it really doesn't matter. We have had the best nights when sex has and hasn't been involved.

We have met some amazing people from this. Some we play with and others we never will but class them all as great friends regardless...

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Pillow talk can make for some interesting conversations and banter with friends in clubs is always a good laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

primarily for sex,it is a swinging site after all,though we do enjoy the social aspect as well.

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