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By *tuartb1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells

just a quick one

but I get quite a few couples looking at my profile or winking at me

yet when I look at their profile it states that they will not meet single guys

so why look at singles profiles in the first place????

just to look at pics probably

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Or simply they don't want to deal with all the messages, so they go looking themselves.

A wink means the message filters are removed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or both of them may like looking at the Male Body

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By *tuartb1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells


"Or simply they don't want to deal with all the messages, so they go looking themselves.

A wink means the message filters are removed "

does it? didn't know that

you learn something new every day

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I agree with Puddin.

We do not want single guys messaging us as there are too many who fill our inbox with copy and paste messages every other day and it was tiresome. However when one takes our fancy we will get in touch with either a wink or message.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Or simply they don't want to deal with all the messages, so they go looking themselves.

A wink means the message filters are removed "

If they send you a wink I doubt if they will mind if you message them

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By *tuartb1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells


"I agree with Puddin.

We do not want single guys messaging us as there are too many who fill our inbox with copy and paste messages every other day and it was tiresome. However when one takes our fancy we will get in touch with either a wink or message.

"

I understand that, I don't go out of my way to message every single person that looks at my profile

and I don't copy and paste messages really not my style

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I agree with Puddin.

We do not want single guys messaging us as there are too many who fill our inbox with copy and paste messages every other day and it was tiresome. However when one takes our fancy we will get in touch with either a wink or message.

I understand that, I don't go out of my way to message every single person that looks at my profile

and I don't copy and paste messages really not my style"

Many people are like you, however the only defence against the large number of message bombers is to stop seeking single men as a rule.

It is unfortunate as there are a lot of nice guys out there. But there are a lot of feral animals too who really need to ask themselves why they have to resort to a swingers site to get their Nat King.

It is because they see Women as a commodity and a conquest and think that a guy's worth is measured in how many women he has slept with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree we stopped accepting single guys. We pout on profile no married men unless partner involved,pics with message and want to chat before anything else. We got so many messages asking to Fuck J or just 3 words like "You like fisting?" we got fed up. Its sad there is a lot of great single guys on here we would love to meet and have met a few that we meet now and again. But sadly there is a lot of guys with no respect or dont read your profile and just send a friend request for pics. Or expect us to drop everything and drive 25 miles to meet someone we dont know or even know what they look like to drop J off to get screwed and fisted and come home. If we were into that would at least charge 200 pound lol!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just a quick one

but I get quite a few couples looking at my profile or winking at me

yet when I look at their profile it states that they will not meet single guys

so why look at singles profiles in the first place????

just to look at pics probably "
..What people say and Do on this site is two different things..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many reasons

Stealth perving

Window shopping

And may be looking to meet a single guy at their own pace and not be overloaded by messages from singles.

That's how we operate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would suggest, to stop any confusion, if couples that are not looking for single guys on their profile, see one that pricks and interest, dont wink, but send a message stating such.

that way, the poor OP will be in no confusion as to what your intentions are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many reasons

Stealth perving

Window shopping

And may be looking to meet a single guy at their own pace and not be overloaded by messages from singles.

That's how we operate.

"

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