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"15 so far today is that a lot?? " Women get most, couples do well and guys get least. I might get 6-8 in a day max, unsolicited. | |||
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"Big fat 0...and thats been everyday since i joined." Yep! Same Here | |||
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"Big fat 0...and thats been everyday since i joined. Yep! Same Here " I think the best way is to expect nowt then your cant be dissapointed lol. | |||
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"I get a lot of messages, over 100 per day, more if I got a meet up, and a lot are off same people, same message,,, " What is it that makes you respond? Quality of message? Pictures on profile? | |||
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"I get a lot of messages, over 100 per day, more if I got a meet up, and a lot are off same people, same message,,, What is it that makes you respond? Quality of message? Pictures on profile?" Pictures on profile, if they have bothered to read the profile, normally I only reply if I'm looking for a meet, as I'm not into the whole chatting thing | |||
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"Under ten. Most are respectful of our preferences. The more interacting you do on here leads to a spike every so often. " I'm surprised, hot couple | |||
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"I get a lot of messages, over 100 per day, more if I got a meet up, and a lot are off same people, same message,,, What is it that makes you respond? Quality of message? Pictures on profile? Pictures on profile, if they have bothered to read the profile, normally I only reply if I'm looking for a meet, as I'm not into the whole chatting thing " Interesting thanks. I always read a profile, best get some more pics up! | |||
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"I get a lot of messages, over 100 per day, more if I got a meet up, and a lot are off same people, same message,,, What is it that makes you respond? Quality of message? Pictures on profile? Pictures on profile, if they have bothered to read the profile, normally I only reply if I'm looking for a meet, as I'm not into the whole chatting thing Interesting thanks. I always read a profile, best get some more pics up!" Lol good ones, a cock needs to show the size, not camera so close arm 3 miles away,,, nobody likes a surprise | |||
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"Under ten. Most are respectful of our preferences. The more interacting you do on here leads to a spike every so often. I'm surprised, hot couple " Thank you!! We don't put many meets up so I guess that may be it. And you get a fair few if you put new pics up we just need to get round to getting some more up. | |||
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"Not very many at all now, we did when we were newbies tho " Same here ! | |||
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"I get a lot of messages, over 100 per day, more if I got a meet up, and a lot are off same people, same message,,, What is it that makes you respond? Quality of message? Pictures on profile? Pictures on profile, if they have bothered to read the profile, normally I only reply if I'm looking for a meet, as I'm not into the whole chatting thing Interesting thanks. I always read a profile, best get some more pics up! Lol good ones, a cock needs to show the size, not camera so close arm 3 miles away,,, nobody likes a surprise " I'll do my best and then people can judge if they are good ones lol | |||
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"If you want 'unsolicited' messages from people on here who don't know you from Adam, then you either have to have a very enticing shop window e.g profile and pics or by generating interest from your forum posts / chat participation. With so many members to choose from, you only get out from the effort you put in. You can't appeal to everyone, but you can use the site tools and facilities to help and be yourself. " Sounds like wise words to me! | |||
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"Without looking to start the old man v woman debate on here, I'm curious as to how many messages people receive every day from people they haven't spoke to before..." None | |||
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"Today so far 3. Thats above average. I can go days without any. Proves that some people can read and that filters are great!" Filters being the key word. Those that claim 100's per day usually don't use them. I didn't when I first joined and had 165 one night (I got notification to my hotmail, not that I counted them) Now only verified single men between 34 and 44 can message me so it's reduced to a few a day. I'm not meeting at the moment either but I still get the mail from the one who's going to persuade me otherwise | |||
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"Under ten. Most are respectful of our preferences. The more interacting you do on here leads to a spike every so often. I'm surprised, hot couple Thank you!! We don't put many meets up so I guess that may be it. And you get a fair few if you put new pics up we just need to get round to getting some more up. " New pics are a drama for me, 400 and to just delete the bulk seems mean haha | |||
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"If I'm lucky I will get half a dozen.... most days 1 or 2 max x" You would have had one more but I am out of you range by 6 months :P | |||
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"Filters being the key word. Those that claim 100's per day usually don't use them. I didn't when I first joined and had 165 one night (I got notification to my hotmail, not that I counted them) Now only verified single men between 34 and 44 can message me so it's reduced to a few a day. I'm not meeting at the moment either but I still get the mail from the one who's going to persuade me otherwise " Yeh, it took me a few days to find the message filters. I still get a ton of new people messaging me each day. If only there was a distance filter, that would reduce messages a lot | |||
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"Filters being the key word. Those that claim 100's per day usually don't use them. I didn't when I first joined and had 165 one night (I got notification to my hotmail, not that I counted them) Now only verified single men between 34 and 44 can message me so it's reduced to a few a day. I'm not meeting at the moment either but I still get the mail from the one who's going to persuade me otherwise Yeh, it took me a few days to find the message filters. I still get a ton of new people messaging me each day. If only there was a distance filter, that would reduce messages a lot " oh a distance filter would be great! Then I wouldn't have to explain where Aberaeron is and that it really is 5/6/7 hours away | |||
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"Without looking to start the old man v woman debate on here, I'm curious as to how many messages people receive every day from people they haven't spoke to before..." i get more mail than i used to get. so happy days. | |||
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"We used to get 70 plus per day - mostly from guys who met absolutely none of the requirements politely explained on our profile. Many were quite rude when we declined their offer!! A much more blunt profile plus mass blocking of those who completely ignored it has reduced it to manageable proportions. " Loving all the shouty block capitals! If that's does not make it clear nothing will. Do you still get chancers trying it though? | |||
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"We used to get 70 plus per day - mostly from guys who met absolutely none of the requirements politely explained on our profile. Many were quite rude when we declined their offer!! A much more blunt profile plus mass blocking of those who completely ignored it has reduced it to manageable proportions. Loving all the shouty block capitals! If that's does not make it clear nothing will. Do you still get chancers trying it though? " We were getting messages from Turkey, Middle East, Nigeria, USA & the length & breadth of the UK from guys passing thru. Various drafts (becoming ever more forceful) had little effect. In answer to your question - Yes, every day!! The block button works better. | |||
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"On a usual day over 100, if new pic has been put on, or meet flag up, or i put new verification up, considerably alot more, can go into 200-300. Also depends on the day, Friday is usually the quietest where as sunday seems everyone is mega horny. " I find Sundays to be quite quiet on here. Monday is my busiest day!! I get about 20 newbie contacts a day | |||
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"What makes a woman want to message? I feel I'm respectful and only message a lady once, does bombardment work and does it go against those of us respectful guys?" copy and paste the same message 10 times a day to the same people and they usually give in the end lol | |||
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"I got *a* message today. I nearly fell off my chair. " Ahhh you won the Nigerian lotto too? | |||
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"If I'm lucky I will get half a dozen.... most days 1 or 2 max x You would have had one more but I am out of you range by 6 months :P" | |||
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"I got *a* message today. I nearly fell off my chair. Ahhh you won the Nigerian lotto too? " Today I had a personal email from the Secretary of the US treasury, I'm owed half a million USD. That should help quite a lot in getting meets | |||
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"134 so far. It's the first day I've counted. Yes, I know. I'm also gobsmacked. Not speechless, though, as not much shuts me up. " Hmmmm....it could have been 135 but having read your post, I'll send it to someone else more deserving... | |||
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"15 so far today is that a lot?? Women get most, couples do well and guys get least. I might get 6-8 in a day max, unsolicited." I will quietly walk to the back of the queue! I know my place | |||
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"Big fat 0...and thats been everyday since i joined. Yep! Same Here " same for me nothing | |||
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"Since I 'amended' my profile? 0 *but then that was the purpose of amending it! " Do you want my standard 'sympathy and commiserations' message? | |||
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"134 so far. It's the first day I've counted. Yes, I know. I'm also gobsmacked. Not speechless, though, as not much shuts me up. Hmmmm....it could have been 135 but having read your post, I'll send it to someone else more deserving... " lol thanks. It's a ridiculous amount. A fair few are ongoing conversations, but a surprising amount aren't. Part of it is to do with being logged in so much. | |||
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"Since I 'amended' my profile? 0 *but then that was the purpose of amending it! Do you want my standard 'sympathy and commiserations' message? " I'm truly disappointed I haven't been swamped with messages begging me to reconsider!!! *not really - send away Steve! | |||
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