FabSwingers.com forum: Bi women

By *tressfree OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

There are good number of bi women in couples. I often wonder if many of the women take part in it just to please their men. any comments.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are good number of bi women in couples. I often wonder if many of the women take part in it just to please their men. any comments.? "

Why do you want to know?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I would say very little......

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

I've seen a lot of this in the club we visit.You can tell if a lady is really genuinely enjoying it or just doing it to please their man...

I personally love women and hadn't been with a lady until I started swinging. I realise now that I'd been missing out all those years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've played with women before I met my partner in crime, its just an added bonus on the males side for swinging

But I'd say the percentage would be higher than some first think? Maybe this post will answer it, who knows!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people assume that being bi means generally just ffm fun. Just because you swing both ways doesn't mean you always have to indulge in both at the same time....im bi but much prefer meeting women 1 on 1....im not good at sharing lol. I've had threesomes and enjoyed them very much but true bi ladies will play together without a guy...and you can tell a mile off if the woman is just pleasing her guy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are good number of bi women in couples. I often wonder if many of the women take part in it just to please their men. any comments.? "

Some will some won't you see some couples where the act of swinging at all to them is to please their partner which is all sad really but I would think the percentage of partners who are playing to please their partner is low.

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By *tressfree OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

That's interesting to see that the opinion seems to indicate women in general enjoy it for their own reasons. That's what I would hope

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By *tressfree OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"There are good number of bi women in couples. I often wonder if many of the women take part in it just to please their men. any comments.?

Why do you want to know?"

Why wouldn't i?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Some ladies pretend they are, some guys pretend they are not.

It's a funny old world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some people assume that being bi means generally just ffm fun. Just because you swing both ways doesn't mean you always have to indulge in both at the same time....im bi but much prefer meeting women 1 on 1....im not good at sharing lol. I've had threesomes and enjoyed them very much but true bi ladies will play together without a guy...and you can tell a mile off if the woman is just pleasing her guy xx"

What they said! Lol I like a ffm but my fav is f on f. I love it. A woman all to myself is my idea of heaven

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I had my first bi experienced aged 17 so a very long time before I met Mr Ch33ky.....I love playing with women and will happily do so on a 1-1 basis

There are some women who play bi just to put a show for there partner but I can tell fairly quickly if that's the case and I usually make my escape!

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bi woman , I alwaysed loved girls but equally love men

)) but you can tell when the girl only doing to please the feller , ( I don't think less of the women , but I want to be with girl a girl who freakin loves to eat me alive.

I had one such meet I asked her if she like girls she said she didn't mind !!! Meaning it's not really her thing we had a swap but Stayed away from playing with her !! X

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By *elshcouple91Couple
over a year ago

Llandudno

I do it because I like it

it's a bonus that hubby likes it too

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

My best bi experience was me and another 3 ladies. Our men wasn't allowed in the room with us. They could only watch from the door or make use of the glory holes into the room.

It was horny as hell. I can't wait to do it again....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not bi at all and have no interest in playing with a woman, my OH knows this and would never ask me to play bi, and it seems from other posts in this thread I would soon be found out if I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is no bigger turn off than a woman pretending to be bi - well maybe putting on a show just for yr guy is a joint first. Would have me running for the hills.

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over a year ago

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By *orn_To_PerformCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"As a bi woman , I alwaysed loved girls but equally love men

)) but you can tell when the girl only doing to please the feller , ( I don't think less of the women , but I want to be with girl a girl who freakin loves to eat me alive.

I had one such meet I asked her if she like girls she said she didn't mind !!! Meaning it's not really her thing we had a swap but Stayed away from playing with her !! X "

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By *orn_To_PerformCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I've seen a lot of this in the club we visit.You can tell if a lady is really genuinely enjoying it or just doing it to please their man...

I personally love women and hadn't been with a lady until I started swinging. I realise now that I'd been missing out all those years!

Ditto!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs R is deffo bi .she just loves the lady's .

She can tell if a woman's not really bi from the start

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By *awty bi coupleCouple
over a year ago

Wet Walsall

"I've seen a lot of this in the club we visit.You can tell if a lady is really genuinely enjoying it or just doing it to please their man...

I personally love women and hadn't been with a lady until I started swinging. I realise now that I'd been missing out all those years!

I'm in exactly the same position.

I am bi for MY pleasure, although I do like to have my partner watch, it turns ME on even more knowing that he's enjoying seeing me enjoying myself with another lady.

One-on-one ff is something I'm sure that I would enjoy but having the guys around does mean that we can mix it all up and have a whole bundle of fun.

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By *otebonydeluxeWoman
over a year ago

earls barton

Am genuinely bi and prefer to meet females only.if meeting couples female must be bi as I enjoy women to much.also like to put a show on for my hubby x

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I actually think its a high number.

Remember those that use the forums are in a minority.

I've come across a lot of 'pillow princesses' & 'situational bi ladies'

So of the forumites i think it will be low

Within swinging i think its up over 60%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone is doing any of this just to please their OH, alarm bells should be ringing and it should stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bi aswell.....I can assure you that it is not about putting on a show for Andy in the slightest....... its about me being able to sexually engage with a female.

It doesn't do an awful lot for Andy anyway but he will always consider my wishes and desires if we arrange to meet people or go to a club

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

"I've seen a lot of this in the club we visit.You can tell if a lady is really genuinely enjoying it or just doing it to please their man...

I personally love women and hadn't been with a lady until I started swinging. I realise now that I'd been missing out all those years!

Ditto!

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

"I've seen a lot of this in the club we visit.You can tell if a lady is really genuinely enjoying it or just doing it to please their man...

I personally love women and hadn't been with a lady until I started swinging. I realise now that I'd been missing out all those years!

I'm in exactly the same position.

I am bi for MY pleasure, although I do like to have my partner watch, it turns ME on even more knowing that he's enjoying seeing me enjoying myself with another lady.

One-on-one ff is something I'm sure that I would enjoy but having the guys around does mean that we can mix it all up and have a whole bundle of fun.

I couldn't have put it better myself. Without sounding selfish, its for ME!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have watched and its not really a turn on for me, so why would she be doing it for my benefit?

would much rather either be involved, or using a camera cuz watching it is, well meh

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

There is doing it for him and doing it for him.....

There is a BIG difference....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

75% do it for the other half well that's my guesstermite

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Susie does it cos it's horny.......not to please me.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it happens a lot, i have come across a few women who will receive oral from a woman but not give

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By *tressfree OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Lots of mixed _iews...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If anyone is doing any of this just to please their OH, alarm bells should be ringing and it should stop.

Can only agree. One of the horniest things I have done is go down on a fem with another fem working the "area"with me. However if you are playing bi just to please your OH I would say you have issues to discuss......

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By *tressfree OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I think women are far more happy to do things for their man. Not just sex

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I think women are far more happy to do things for their man. Not just sex "

I wouldn't count on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im bi and couldnt pretend to do what i do - its all real here

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

"I think women are far more happy to do things for their man. Not just sex

I wouldn't count on it.

Actually i agree.

The thrill of giving him the ffm so they play bi.

The amount of times I've seen it with my own eyes.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I think women are far more happy to do things for their man. Not just sex

I wouldn't count on it.

Actually i agree.

The thrill of giving him the ffm so they play bi.

The amount of times I've seen it with

my own eyes."

Sorry, my post was a very specific example

personal _iew, not a general _iew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it for me, and only me! I couldn't pretend

what an uncomfortable situation for all involved!!

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

"I think women are far more happy to do things for their man. Not just sex

I wouldn't count on it.

Actually i agree.

The thrill of giving him the ffm so they play bi.

The amount of times I've seen it with

my own eyes.

Sorry, my post was a very specific example

personal _iew, not a general _iew"

Mines a personal _iew also. I get invited to a fair number of ffm by couples & singles. I've also had a fair few

ffm.

Whilst those that use the forums are a section of the swinging community; its a small section only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it because I enjoy it, I wouldn't expect Bo to do anything he didn't want to or really enjoy for my benefit & I know he feels the same way.

It's about pleasure and fun for all. Real life has enough "obligations & duties" without bringing that into fab land

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By *orn_To_PerformCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I've seen a lot of this in the club we visit.You can tell if a lady is really genuinely enjoying it or just doing it to please their man...

I personally love women and hadn't been with a lady until I started swinging. I realise now that I'd been missing out all those years!

Ditto!

Looking at your location I presume the club we frequent is also one you do??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the female in this couple, I generally class myself as straight because I don't usually desire the touch of another woman. That said, I have, and probably will again, enjoyed bi play when it's been in a FMF with my man. Do I do it for my man? Sure. But I also do it because it's horny for me and, hopefully, the other woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is doing it for him and doing it for him.....

There is a BIG difference...."

Is this the same when a woman says she is going out and the male says you mean out out

Female replies no not out out but just out

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

"I've seen a lot of this in the club we visit.You can tell if a lady is really genuinely enjoying it or just doing it to please their man...

I personally love women and hadn't been with a lady until I started swinging. I realise now that I'd been missing out all those years!

Ditto!

Looking at your location I presume the club we frequent is also one you do??

That's the one. 10 mins drive away. Too handy really...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I slutwife am bi have been since I was about 16 and boy have I had some fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Susie does it cos it's horny.......not to please me.......

if V wants to do something to please me, she would put some bacon on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Susie does it cos it's horny.......not to please me.......

if V wants to do something to please me, she would put some bacon on lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi because I enjoy it... I don't do anything just to please someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want a 1:1 with a lady, but finding the unicorn is impossible!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it happens a lot, i have come across a few women who will receive oral from a woman but not give"

Me too , but oddly I don't mind because with ladies I'm not bothered about receiving ....i like to wear the trousers

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