FabSwingers.com forum: fakes

By *eallynaughty81 OP Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

we have only came onto this site and this lifestyle 2 weeks ago and already have found so many fake couple/ single fem profiles albeit after exchanging messages. we have no problem chatting to single men if they accept there is no chance of a meet... is there any advice how to avoid them.

sorry if that seems a naive question but we are quite green.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but what I do is send huundreds of emails and soon one genuine will bite no daubt lol.

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By *nsert user name hereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are quiet a few here unfortunately and there are also many thread on the forum covering this which will help you both out in the long term.

Suggest an early phone call / cam veri if they have one so you can move forward quicker in stopping the fakes. Good Luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're looking for couples, ask to speak to the female on the phone early on. If she's always 'in the bath'... it's probably just a bloke.

If a single fem wants to talk dirty early on... it's probably a bloke.

Trust your inner voice. If it seems dodgy it probably is.

Have a cheap PAYG phone to use so you don't have to give out your normal number.

And most importantly.... have fun!

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By *eallynaughty81 OP Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

worst we have encountered upto now, a couple we talk to regular received a pic privately saying it was the female of the couple, they contacted us straight away as they had been sent a pic of Claire

the cheek. the profile they used was soon removed

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"we have only came onto this site and this lifestyle 2 weeks ago and already have found so many fake couple/ single fem profiles albeit after exchanging messages. we have no problem chatting to single men if they accept there is no chance of a meet... is there any advice how to avoid them.

sorry if that seems a naive question but we are quite green.

sadly fakes are a fact of life just out the obvious ones thats about all you can do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're looking for couples, ask to speak to the female on the phone early on. If she's always 'in the bath'... it's probably just a bloke.

If a single fem wants to talk dirty early on... it's probably a bloke.

Trust your inner voice. If it seems dodgy it probably is.

Have a cheap PAYG phone to use so you don't have to give out your normal number.

And most importantly.... have fun!

Agree with all the above advice, thats how we do things and have caught our fair share of fakes out but also have met some fantastic people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's something that you learn over time. You need to be cynical and suspicious of anything that looks too good to be true.

Find what works for you. We never bother with phone or cam chat, others insist that this is the only way to prove people are genuine.

We trust our instincts, we dismiss people for the smallest of things. A typical example is where a couple totally change the nature of a conversation when they realise that it is crystal and not me replying to their messages. Or if status updates are male dominated.

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By *eallynaughty81 OP Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

thank you all for the advice,

having fun upto now besides the saddos, I suppose there is a downside to everything

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