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Is FF cheating?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We differ on opinion..... M would not mind or consider it cheating once he was told, but MM or MF he considers cheating....

I think all are cheating unless it is done together.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's still cheating in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought cheating is about the act of deception rather than the gender of who it's done with?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If the partner doesn't know, it's cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would say that 'Cheating' occurs when one partner goes behind anthers back. If you discuss and accept your seeing another F then I'd call that acceptance on partners behalf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have thought cheating is about the act of deception rather than the gender of who it's done with?"

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By *inxanddappaCouple
over a year ago

Darlington

yeah its all cheating tbf, but us guys are hypocrites when it comes to sex, if we can see some benefit and the potential to become involved.. then 'nah' we can bemd the rules haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would say that 'Cheating' occurs when one partner goes behind anthers back. If you discuss and accept your seeing another F then I'd call that acceptance on partners behalf "

That sounds about right....

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Of course it's cheating but where I'd never share a partner with another man I'd happily let another woman join us. Typical hypocritical bloke, eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes doing it with male or female behind ones back is cheating but saying that I always think men can forgive very easily if it's with another women as the thought turns them on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have thought cheating is about the act of deception rather than the gender of who it's done with?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the partner doesn't know, it's cheating. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd define cheating in a swinging relationship as meeting without partners knowledge (unless thats one of the agreed things you do) or doing anything behind your partners back

a relationship isnt a test so why cheat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We differ on opinion..... M would not mind or consider it cheating once he was told, but MM or MF he considers cheating....

I think all are cheating unless it is done together....."

It depends surely on the mutually agreed boundaries of your relationship doesn't it? Anything done with the full knowledge and agreement of a partner couldn't be considered cheating in our relationship...

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By *ymrocruMan
over a year ago

penygroes

If im not allowed to watch then its cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, if the partner doesn't give consent, it's cheating.

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

Cheating is pulling the go to jail card out of the community chest and putting it straight to the bottom of the pile and taking £100 out of the bank...... Or so I'm told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us cheaters are unforgivable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not cheating if the other partner doesn't know.

it's just sex.

Having two different partners that know nothing about each other is cheating.

That's my take.

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By *enny the lip lickerMan
over a year ago

bath bristol


"I would have thought cheating is about the act of deception rather than the gender of who it's done with?"

Very true

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