FabSwingers.com forum: whats wrong with bi guys?

By *ancmann OP Man
over a year ago

manchester / Liverpool

a lot of women and couples seem specify 'no bi guy's' on their profile ... im wondering why this is? .....it might be a shock but not all bi guys will come mincing to your door like a poor mans julian clary, a point proved by the fact many of the 'straight' guys they meet also message guys like me asking to suck my cock .... so just wondering why some people make a point of avoiding bi guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is my problem with man you ask?

No. I ask you what is mans problem with me.

First person to Name that opening lyric and gets 67pence off me.

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By *ancmann OP Man
over a year ago

manchester / Liverpool

yeah ok whatever. .. I think you know what you can do with your 67p

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By *arlock69Man
over a year ago

Batley... (near Leeds)

I find it ironically amusing that there's so many bi women on here weather single or in a couple who won't meet bi guys...hypocrites??

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

people will have their own reasons for not meeting others on here and they should never need to justify.

I will never justify my preferences to others.

rather than look for reasons why they don't want sexual contact with bi guys, use the time to actively seek the many who are looking for us.

there are lots.

all the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has preferences surely

nothing wrong with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preference.

It's a problem for us all.

Funnily enough not everyone likes middle aged chubby hobby women either. It's a cross I have to bear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Preference.

It's a problem for us all.

Funnily enough not everyone likes middle aged chubby hobby women either. It's a cross I have to bear

^ gobby not hobby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Preference.

It's a problem for us all.

Funnily enough not everyone likes middle aged chubby hobby women either. It's a cross I have to bear

^ gobby not hobby

Weird that, isn't it.i have the same problem. We should start a club

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By *ancmann OP Man
over a year ago

manchester / Liverpool

sure, everyone has a preference or a type ......if someone isnt in phone sex would they exclude anyone who has that on their profile as potential meets, or if they are not into role playing or spanking etc etc. ... im just wondering why people specially say they don't like bi guys

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By *latharerMan
over a year ago

Glasgow CC

"What is my problem with man you ask?

No. I ask you what is mans problem with me.

First person to Name that opening lyric and gets 67pence off me. "

It's sampled at the beginning of You don't knowme,armand van helden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it ironically amusing that there's so many bi women on here weather single or in a couple who won't meet bi guys...hypocrites??"

Why are they hypocrites... They may just not want to meet a guy that has been with a guy. It's actually a question asked on my routine checks.. as apparently puts me at higher risk... There words not mine.

We will meet bi guys but only as long as the gentleman understands that Lee is not even in the slightest bit bi or curious. X

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By *ancmann OP Man
over a year ago

manchester / Liverpool

"I find it ironically amusing that there's so many bi women on here weather single or in a couple who won't meet bi guys...hypocrites??

We will meet bi guys but only as long as the gentleman understands that Lee is not even in the slightest bit bi or curious. X"

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Oh I love bi guys and wheb I decide I want to be in a "Normal" relationship I would love it to be with a bi guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Preference.

It's a problem for us all.

Funnily enough not everyone likes middle aged chubby hobby women either. It's a cross I have to bear

^ gobby not hobby

i had a mental image of a middle aged chubby hobby woman lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Preference.

It's a problem for us all.

Funnily enough not everyone likes middle aged chubby hobby women either. It's a cross I have to bear

^ gobby not hobby

Weird that, isn't it.i have the same problem. We should start a club

That's would mean id have competition

Ah okay we can sit on the chubby gobby lady step together

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it ironically amusing that there's so many bi women on here weather single or in a couple who won't meet bi guys...hypocrites??"

Suggestion:

A bi woman wants to have sex with men and women but not necessarily wants to see two men going at it. One reason is some women MAY _iew a bi man as less totally "manly" than others and potentially not so interesting to her. I don't know; ask them.

In the end it it a No. 3 from the Fab list if clichés. Insulting them en mass by accusing them of hypocrisy will not inspire a rush of interest in a bi man.

Fab list of clichés:

No. 3 - "It is personal choice"

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By *udiguyMan
over a year ago

harrogate

Cos hes worried you might look at his cock!!!

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford

We're both straight, bi guys don't bother us, however known and met a few people, knowing full well hubby is straight, and they always try it on, cheeky buggers, going in for the quick cock suck, tut tut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it ironically amusing that there's so many bi women on here weather single or in a couple who won't meet bi guys...hypocrites??"

No sorry I completely disagree with this.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Cos hes worried you might look at his cock!!!

I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're both straight, bi guys don't bother us, however known and met a few people, knowing full well hubby is straight, and they always try it on, cheeky buggers, going in for the quick cock suck, tut tut "

As a bi couple that's a complete no no. We respect the people we play we and would NEVER do this. Really really not on

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By *udiguyMan
over a year ago

harrogate

"Cos hes worried you might look at his cock!!!

I would

Me n all if its nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's wrong with bi guys?

I for one have a ruptured cruciate ligament, I'm carrying an extra pound and I'm not a great driver, other than that, I think I'm ok.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

nottinghamshire

I guess some bi guys maybe tempted to touch a straight man's cock in a 3some but would not do it. Same as straight guys in a club wanting to touch all the women without asking.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

nottinghamshire

"Preference.

It's a problem for us all.

Funnily enough not everyone likes middle aged chubby hobby women either. It's a cross I have to bear

you are so nite chubby curvy ye but not chubby. Gobby I take the 5th on that. As the answer may result in a slap. X

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By *ancmann OP Man
over a year ago

manchester / Liverpool

thats naughty! .... on behalf of bi men I apologise

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

I will never justify my preferences to others.

hi all, why bother even asking the question, most of the couples we have met say straight,

but as soon as we are all on the bed or beach , hands and mouths everywhere , if you do not want a male sucking your cock just say no,

strange how both men will watch both lady's,

it only sex if you don't like it don't do it.. like meeting smokers.. connie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Preference.

It's a problem for us all.

Funnily enough not everyone likes middle aged chubby hobby women either. It's a cross I have to bear

^ gobby not hobby

Weird that, isn't it.i have the same problem. We should start a club

That's would mean id have competition

Ah okay we can sit on the chubby gobby lady step together

lol"

As long as it's the naughty step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a lot of women and couples seem specify 'no bi guy's' on their profile ... im wondering why this is? .....it might be a shock but not all bi guys will come mincing to your door like a poor mans julian clary, a point proved by the fact many of the 'straight' guys they meet also message guys like me asking to suck my cock .... so just wondering why some people make a point of avoiding bi guys?"
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Perception! you will find many guys don't want their partner to play with a bi guy who they see as less safe to play with. But there are many reasons besides its just a common one that bi guys are more at risk of contacting sti's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you read just as many that want bi guys

seems people just love complaining about those whose preferences they dont fit on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you read just as many that want bi guys

seems people just love complaining about those whose preferences they dont fit on here"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Sigh...really?!! People have to justify their reasons for choosing who they have sex with?!!

*****REALITY CHECK...REALITY CHECK...***** We won't appeal to everyone. Shocker for some I'm sure!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"people will have their own reasons for not meeting others on here and they should never need to justify.

I will never justify my preferences to others.

rather than look for reasons why they don't want sexual contact with bi guys, use the time to actively seek the many who are looking for us.

there are lots.

all the best

...there you go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sure, everyone has a preference or a type ......if someone isnt in phone sex would they exclude anyone who has that on their profile as potential meets, or if they are not into role playing or spanking etc etc. ... im just wondering why people specially say they don't like bi guys"

How you can equate phone sex with sexuality, I don't know.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

whats wrong with bi guys?

some have shocking dress sense and are an fucking embaressment to the benderclan.

get a grip ladies.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"you read just as many that want bi guys

seems people just love complaining about those whose preferences they dont fit on here"

In a nutshell! Sense of entitlement and arrogance at being excluded yet have preferences of their own.

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By *r Mrs Tusty69Couple
over a year ago

derby

"yeah ok whatever. .. I think you know what you can do with your 67p"

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London

"you read just as many that want bi guys "

You're kidding right? It's not even vaguely close from what I've seen.

But yeah, doesn't matter whether the reasons for their preference are justified, right, wrong or whatever. You're not going to change them so you just have to move on.

If you're excluded by their preferences chances are you might not want to meet them anyway.

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By *ancmann OP Man
over a year ago

manchester / Liverpool

Sigh...really?!! People have to justify their reasons for choosing who they have sex with?!!

*****REALITY CHECK...REALITY CHECK...***** We won't appeal to everyone. Shocker for some I'm sure!

no one has to justify anything, I was asking a question

I know that someone tall, well educated, in his early 30s, in good shape, fairly good looking and sexually liberated is not going to appeal to everyones taste.... its just a cross I have to bear... sigh

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"I find it ironically amusing that there's so many bi women on here weather single or in a couple who won't meet bi guys...hypocrites??"

No it is called their own choice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it ironically amusing that there's so many bi women on here weather single or in a couple who won't meet bi guys...hypocrites??"

Large mallet on a six inch nail.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it ironically amusing that there's so many bi women on here weather single or in a couple who won't meet bi guys...hypocrites??

No sorry I completely disagree with this. "

There have been a number of these types of posts recently.

If people are not interested in playing with bi guys it does not mean they are either homophobic, repressed or narrow minded.

There are heaps of other reasons & as a married heterosexual guy I could give a list but here is the thing:-

I don't need to justify my preferences to anyone except my wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lurve bi guys. In fact if there are any near to me up for a MMF do get in touch

Just means more possibilities and fun for all concerned in my opinion xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am bi myself I know what you mean. Been chatting to a few couple but a soon as you mention it. Message deleted!!

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

A meet with 2 bi guys is right at the top of my fantasies list. Maybe this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The heading for this topic is "What is wrong with bi guys?"

My answer would be absolutely nothing but I am not interested in a meet with them.

There is no conspiracy against bi guys but the reality seems to be that couples/females interested in meeting bi guys on fab is something of a minority interest.

I am short & fat. That is also a minority interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A meet with 2 bi guys is right at the top of my fantasies list. Maybe this year

Shame your so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A meet with 2 bi guys is right at the top of my fantasies list. Maybe this year

And mine

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Preference.

It's a problem for us all.

Funnily enough not everyone likes middle aged chubby hobby women either. It's a cross I have to bear

^ gobby not hobby

Aww, I so wanted you to list your pastimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think, its because they either don't feel comfortable to be with a bi man because he may or not not touch him or they aren't comfortable with their own sexuality.

this isnt everyone but it is some couples.

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