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"i am a shy person. used to be Painfully shy. then got to the Point of Having a glass or Two of wine before meeting anyone. but Coming on here getting out to parties, clubs and meeting people plus all the Standard compliments on here and i can actually say my Confidence is rising and i feel happy enough to meet people and feel happy and with Myself has anyone else found this " | |||
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"Yes and No Yes there are some nice people on here who do give you the confidence boost that helps alot some times & No cause there are some nasty people on here who deliberately try to get you down cause you get on with others so their bitterness comes through " The trick is to grow your confidence from within. It's about accepting yourself warts and all. If people insult you and you get hurt then they are reinforcing a fear you have about yourself and you are owning it. Remove that fear and accept you for you then these nasty people do not have any ammunition. | |||
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"Your pics are lovely from what I can see so you certainly deserve to be comfortable in your own skin. " Ah thanks i work hard to Take good photos lol | |||
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"Yes and No Yes there are some nice people on here who do give you the confidence boost that helps alot some times & No cause there are some nasty people on here who deliberately try to get you down cause you get on with others so their bitterness comes through The trick is to grow your confidence from within. It's about accepting yourself warts and all. If people insult you and you get hurt then they are reinforcing a fear you have about yourself and you are owning it. Remove that fear and accept you for you then these nasty people do not have any ammunition." I accepted the way i looked ages ago hairy bum and all have grown a thicker skin since been on here tbh and don't really let the haters get me down | |||
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"i am a shy person. used to be Painfully shy. then got to the Point of Having a glass or Two of wine before meeting anyone. but Coming on here getting out to parties, clubs and meeting people plus all the Standard compliments on here and i can actually say my Confidence is rising and i feel happy enough to meet people and feel happy and with Myself has anyone else found this " Yes the site has that effect on a lot of men/women ....yes indeed! | |||
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"i dont see how men wanting to have sex with you would make you feel confident, of course they are going to compliment you, they say what they know you want to hear. " I know guys have a reputation on here but we aren't all dicks. We just have dicks | |||
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"i dont see how men wanting to have sex with you would make you feel confident, of course they are going to compliment you, they say what they know you want to hear. " People will say anything to get laid. | |||
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"i dont see how men wanting to have sex with you would make you feel confident, of course they are going to compliment you, they say what they know you want to hear. I know guys have a reputation on here but we aren't all dicks. We just have dicks " Im with you...if you ignore the few idiots that try and spoil it for the good ones and take the time to get to know them a bit it is all worthwile We have made some really great friends through this site.xx | |||
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"i dont see how men wanting to have sex with you would make you feel confident, of course they are going to compliment you, they say what they know you want to hear. People will say anything to get laid." Of course they will. | |||
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"i dont see how men wanting to have sex with you would make you feel confident, of course they are going to compliment you, they say what they know you want to hear. " always one to Comment. Its all a boost. If you are a Bit Naive and believe what rubbish a Lot of men say then it will Knock your Confidence but luckily i am not if you read my post its Supposed to be a positive one... | |||
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"i dont see how men wanting to have sex with you would make you feel confident, of course they are going to compliment you, they say what they know you want to hear. People will say anything to get laid." Hee hee oh yes Indeed | |||
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"i dont see how men wanting to have sex with you would make you feel confident, of course they are going to compliment you, they say what they know you want to hear. People will say anything to get laid." Steelheels, having read your prof, seen your pics, knowing you're looking for i have to say you're hot!!! Fancy meeting | |||
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"i dont see how men wanting to have sex with you would make you feel confident, of course they are going to compliment you, they say what they know you want to hear. People will say anything to get laid. Steelheels, having read your prof, seen your pics, knowing you're looking for i have to say you're hot!!! Fancy meeting " | |||
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"My time on this site has taught me a lot about myself and has improved my confidence over the years." super to Hear | |||
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"i am a shy person. used to be Painfully shy. then got to the Point of Having a glass or Two of wine before meeting anyone. but Coming on here getting out to parties, clubs and meeting people plus all the Standard compliments on here and i can actually say my Confidence is rising and i feel happy enough to meet people and feel happy and with Myself has anyone else found this " V has said as much this last couple of days. she loves that i think she is sexy in her outfits, and she loves that lots of people seem to think similarly. have to accept that with all the compliments there are always insults, and up til now i have managed to keep them from her, as there are some overtly nasty people that do the rounds on here. hopefully, now we have started doing the club thing, they will also stay hidden under their rocks and not say things t her face, as all you ladies know, no matter how many compliments you get, it tends to be the nasty comments that stick in your mind, and she has real issues with certain psrts of her body. | |||
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"i am a shy person. used to be Painfully shy. then got to the Point of Having a glass or Two of wine before meeting anyone. but Coming on here getting out to parties, clubs and meeting people plus all the Standard compliments on here and i can actually say my Confidence is rising and i feel happy enough to meet people and feel happy and with Myself has anyone else found this V has said as much this last couple of days. she loves that i think she is sexy in her outfits, and she loves that lots of people seem to think similarly. have to accept that with all the compliments there are always insults, and up til now i have managed to keep them from her, as there are some overtly nasty people that do the rounds on here. hopefully, now we have started doing the club thing, they will also stay hidden under their rocks and not say things t her face, as all you ladies know, no matter how many compliments you get, it tends to be the nasty comments that stick in your mind, and she has real issues with certain psrts of her body. " We all have. But the good out weigh the bad | |||
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"i am a shy person. used to be Painfully shy. then got to the Point of Having a glass or Two of wine before meeting anyone. but Coming on here getting out to parties, clubs and meeting people plus all the Standard compliments on here and i can actually say my Confidence is rising and i feel happy enough to meet people and feel happy and with Myself has anyone else found this V has said as much this last couple of days. she loves that i think she is sexy in her outfits, and she loves that lots of people seem to think similarly. have to accept that with all the compliments there are always insults, and up til now i have managed to keep them from her, as there are some overtly nasty people that do the rounds on here. hopefully, now we have started doing the club thing, they will also stay hidden under their rocks and not say things t her face, as all you ladies know, no matter how many compliments you get, it tends to be the nasty comments that stick in your mind, and she has real issues with certain psrts of her body. " Why does she need to be told shes sexy though? its only important if she herself thinks she looks sexy. | |||
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"i am a shy person. used to be Painfully shy. then got to the Point of Having a glass or Two of wine before meeting anyone. but Coming on here getting out to parties, clubs and meeting people plus all the Standard compliments on here and i can actually say my Confidence is rising and i feel happy enough to meet people and feel happy and with Myself has anyone else found this " You don't look too shy in them pics I'm also very shy and only plucked up the courage last year to actually meet anyone although been on another site for 5 years! Once I got round to it at a club and had some fun with a couple it felt great an boosted my confidence!! I suppose one you take the first step your confidence grows from there! | |||
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"i am a shy person. used to be Painfully shy. then got to the Point of Having a glass or Two of wine before meeting anyone. but Coming on here getting out to parties, clubs and meeting people plus all the Standard compliments on here and i can actually say my Confidence is rising and i feel happy enough to meet people and feel happy and with Myself has anyone else found this V has said as much this last couple of days. she loves that i think she is sexy in her outfits, and she loves that lots of people seem to think similarly. have to accept that with all the compliments there are always insults, and up til now i have managed to keep them from her, as there are some overtly nasty people that do the rounds on here. hopefully, now we have started doing the club thing, they will also stay hidden under their rocks and not say things t her face, as all you ladies know, no matter how many compliments you get, it tends to be the nasty comments that stick in your mind, and she has real issues with certain psrts of her body. Why does she need to be told shes sexy though? its only important if she herself thinks she looks sexy." because everyone sees in themselves what they dont like, otherwise there would be no one suffering with plastic surgery addiction or eating disorders, despite being perfectly lovely it really isnt rocket surgery | |||
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"i am a shy person. used to be Painfully shy. then got to the Point of Having a glass or Two of wine before meeting anyone. but Coming on here getting out to parties, clubs and meeting people plus all the Standard compliments on here and i can actually say my Confidence is rising and i feel happy enough to meet people and feel happy and with Myself has anyone else found this You don't look too shy in them pics I'm also very shy and only plucked up the courage last year to actually meet anyone although been on another site for 5 years! Once I got round to it at a club and had some fun with a couple it felt great an boosted my confidence!! I suppose one you take the first step your confidence grows from there!" Lol well thats great | |||
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"i am a shy person. used to be Painfully shy. then got to the Point of Having a glass or Two of wine before meeting anyone. but Coming on here getting out to parties, clubs and meeting people plus all the Standard compliments on here and i can actually say my Confidence is rising and i feel happy enough to meet people and feel happy and with Myself has anyone else found this V has said as much this last couple of days. she loves that i think she is sexy in her outfits, and she loves that lots of people seem to think similarly. have to accept that with all the compliments there are always insults, and up til now i have managed to keep them from her, as there are some overtly nasty people that do the rounds on here. hopefully, now we have started doing the club thing, they will also stay hidden under their rocks and not say things t her face, as all you ladies know, no matter how many compliments you get, it tends to be the nasty comments that stick in your mind, and she has real issues with certain psrts of her body. Why does she need to be told shes sexy though? its only important if she herself thinks she looks sexy. because everyone sees in themselves what they dont like, otherwise there would be no one suffering with plastic surgery addiction or eating disorders, despite being perfectly lovely it really isnt rocket surgery" Not that many people suffer with plastic surgery addiction or eating disorders though do they? | |||
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"i am a shy person. used to be Painfully shy. then got to the Point of Having a glass or Two of wine before meeting anyone. but Coming on here getting out to parties, clubs and meeting people plus all the Standard compliments on here and i can actually say my Confidence is rising and i feel happy enough to meet people and feel happy and with Myself has anyone else found this " That's great | |||
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"i am a shy person. used to be Painfully shy. then got to the Point of Having a glass or Two of wine before meeting anyone. but Coming on here getting out to parties, clubs and meeting people plus all the Standard compliments on here and i can actually say my Confidence is rising and i feel happy enough to meet people and feel happy and with Myself has anyone else found this V has said as much this last couple of days. she loves that i think she is sexy in her outfits, and she loves that lots of people seem to think similarly. have to accept that with all the compliments there are always insults, and up til now i have managed to keep them from her, as there are some overtly nasty people that do the rounds on here. hopefully, now we have started doing the club thing, they will also stay hidden under their rocks and not say things t her face, as all you ladies know, no matter how many compliments you get, it tends to be the nasty comments that stick in your mind, and she has real issues with certain psrts of her body. Why does she need to be told shes sexy though? its only important if she herself thinks she looks sexy. because everyone sees in themselves what they dont like, otherwise there would be no one suffering with plastic surgery addiction or eating disorders, despite being perfectly lovely it really isnt rocket surgery Not that many people suffer with plastic surgery addiction or eating disorders though do they?" im sorry, didnt know figures needed to be quoted, and they are obviously the extremes of being unhappy with oneself, however positive reinforcement from others can help, otherwise people wouldnt ask opinions on how they look, and what clothes suit jesus, somedays its like the spanish inquisition on here, and nobody expects that spanish inquisition. you are completely happy with everything about yourself, good for you, personally, i wouldnt if i were you, but hey ho, others need reinforcement from people other than themselves | |||
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"Nope. Im stupidly shy. I have to push myself to go to clubs and out. I've raised my own confidence through sheer determination. Being on this site can destroy as well as boost confidence " thats so true! | |||
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"Of course I love you... I absolutely Adore you " I'm not surprised, I'm an adorable guy... But I REALLY love you!! | |||
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"i am a shy person. used to be Painfully shy. then got to the Point of Having a glass or Two of wine before meeting anyone. but Coming on here getting out to parties, clubs and meeting people plus all the Standard compliments on here and i can actually say my Confidence is rising and i feel happy enough to meet people and feel happy and with Myself has anyone else found this V has said as much this last couple of days. she loves that i think she is sexy in her outfits, and she loves that lots of people seem to think similarly. have to accept that with all the compliments there are always insults, and up til now i have managed to keep them from her, as there are some overtly nasty people that do the rounds on here. hopefully, now we have started doing the club thing, they will also stay hidden under their rocks and not say things t her face, as all you ladies know, no matter how many compliments you get, it tends to be the nasty comments that stick in your mind, and she has real issues with certain psrts of her body. Why does she need to be told shes sexy though? its only important if she herself thinks she looks sexy. because everyone sees in themselves what they dont like, otherwise there would be no one suffering with plastic surgery addiction or eating disorders, despite being perfectly lovely it really isnt rocket surgery Not that many people suffer with plastic surgery addiction or eating disorders though do they? im sorry, didnt know figures needed to be quoted, and they are obviously the extremes of being unhappy with oneself, however positive reinforcement from others can help, otherwise people wouldnt ask opinions on how they look, and what clothes suit jesus, somedays its like the spanish inquisition on here, and nobody expects that spanish inquisition. you are completely happy with everything about yourself, good for you, personally, i wouldnt if i were you, but hey ho, others need reinforcement from people other than themselves" Well, i dont suppose many people are completely happy with themselves no, and of course you are entitled to your opinion. | |||
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"Of course I love you... I absolutely Adore you I'm not surprised, I'm an adorable guy... But I REALLY love you!! " I have never seen a man like you. Honestly i not just Saying it. I have never told anyone that before | |||
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"Of course I love you... I absolutely Adore you I'm not surprised, I'm an adorable guy... But I REALLY love you!! I have never seen a man like you. Honestly i not just Saying it. I have never told anyone that before" And I've never told anyone I love them before, not my children, my parents, David Beckham's picture that hangs above my bed, no one, I don't know how to deal with these feelings.. I love you soooo much! | |||
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"totally agree , since we started on here mildred is so much more confident with her body and showing it off to others at meets and clubs, despite the fact she has one abnormal body part which will not be mentioned, and hasn't been mentioned at all at meets and clubs, its as if she has totally forgot its there and loves the attention she gets from others too , its all good " Is the Abnormal body part her husband Joke | |||
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"Of course I love you... I absolutely Adore you I'm not surprised, I'm an adorable guy... But I REALLY love you!! I have never seen a man like you. Honestly i not just Saying it. I have never told anyone that before And I've never told anyone I love them before, not my children, my parents, David Beckham's picture that hangs above my bed, no one, I don't know how to deal with these feelings.. I love you soooo much! " Although i have never seen a face photo i just Know you are the one for me | |||
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"totally agree , since we started on here mildred is so much more confident with her body and showing it off to others at meets and clubs, despite the fact she has one abnormal body part which will not be mentioned, and hasn't been mentioned at all at meets and clubs, its as if she has totally forgot its there and loves the attention she gets from others too , its all good Is the Abnormal body part her husband Joke" yes you worked it out , but she wouldn't be without me, im the itch she loves to scratch | |||
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"totally agree , since we started on here mildred is so much more confident with her body and showing it off to others at meets and clubs, despite the fact she has one abnormal body part which will not be mentioned, and hasn't been mentioned at all at meets and clubs, its as if she has totally forgot its there and loves the attention she gets from others too , its all good Is the Abnormal body part her husband Joke yes you worked it out , but she wouldn't be without me, im the itch she loves to scratch " ahh, is that why that thread the other day said why are blokes crabs lol | |||
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"totally agree , since we started on here mildred is so much more confident with her body and showing it off to others at meets and clubs, despite the fact she has one abnormal body part which will not be mentioned, and hasn't been mentioned at all at meets and clubs, its as if she has totally forgot its there and loves the attention she gets from others too , its all good Is the Abnormal body part her husband Joke yes you worked it out , but she wouldn't be without me, im the itch she loves to scratch ahh, is that why that thread the other day said why are blokes crabs lol" ha ha could be , mildred prefers to scratch her pussy too | |||
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"i am a shy person. used to be Painfully shy. then got to the Point of Having a glass or Two of wine before meeting anyone. but Coming on here getting out to parties, clubs and meeting people plus all the Standard compliments on here and i can actually say my Confidence is rising and i feel happy enough to meet people and feel happy and with Myself has anyone else found this " Yes, but only confidence in my physical appearance, I was pretty confident in the rest of me before joining fab. Good to hear your positive experiences though | |||
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"i am a shy person. used to be Painfully shy. then got to the Point of Having a glass or Two of wine before meeting anyone. but Coming on here getting out to parties, clubs and meeting people plus all the Standard compliments on here and i can actually say my Confidence is rising and i feel happy enough to meet people and feel happy and with Myself has anyone else found this Yes, but only confidence in my physical appearance, I was pretty confident in the rest of me before joining fab. Good to hear your positive experiences though " Are you Having Stew for tea if so can i come | |||
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"i am a shy person. used to be Painfully shy. then got to the Point of Having a glass or Two of wine before meeting anyone. but Coming on here getting out to parties, clubs and meeting people plus all the Standard compliments on here and i can actually say my Confidence is rising and i feel happy enough to meet people and feel happy and with Myself has anyone else found this Yes, but only confidence in my physical appearance, I was pretty confident in the rest of me before joining fab. Good to hear your positive experiences though Are you Having Stew for tea if so can i come" I am, the flat smells lovely! Hmmmm chicken | |||
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"i am a shy person. used to be Painfully shy. then got to the Point of Having a glass or Two of wine before meeting anyone. but Coming on here getting out to parties, clubs and meeting people plus all the Standard compliments on here and i can actually say my Confidence is rising and i feel happy enough to meet people and feel happy and with Myself has anyone else found this Yes, but only confidence in my physical appearance, I was pretty confident in the rest of me before joining fab. Good to hear your positive experiences though Are you Having Stew for tea if so can i come I am, the flat smells lovely! Hmmmm chicken" On my way | |||
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" you are completely happy with everything about yourself, good for you, personally, i wouldnt if i were you, but hey ho, others need reinforcement from people other than themselves" | |||
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"i dont see how men wanting to have sex with you would make you feel confident, of course they are going to compliment you, they say what they know you want to hear. People will say anything to get laid. Steelheels, having read your prof, seen your pics, knowing you're looking for i have to say you're hot!!! Fancy meeting " . You know what they don't.... | |||
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