FabSwingers.com forum: does being called babe mean fake profile?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been messaging with a girl over the last few weeks who keeps putting off our meeting that she's supposedly on for.a few times she calls me babe in the messages.i've read elsewhere,if you are called that then don't trust who is sending it as its likely to be a fake profile.i would totally believe her profile was fake,but she has verifications.could those in charge of the site be putting fake profiles on? maybe some of these woman you send messages to have a guy at the other end strining you along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds to me like a load of old codswallop as in certain parts of England, its perfectly acceptable to them to call someone babe, not something I like though nor would I call someone babe.

I do suspect however that there are guys stringing people along as there are also women and couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it's a conspiracy with the site admin and the government

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never heard the "babe" thing so can't comment but if I was chatting to someone who kept putting off meets and had chatted to them for a few weeks I'd move on.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I dont agree,I think calling someone babe is kinda intimate. I call most of men women babe,a few dont like the term though. Who knows which are fake or real till you meet. I get chatting to a few, things seem to be going good then they just stop chatting. I know take it with a pinch of salt,talks cheap. Some people play games

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a fake profile - it won't have been put on by admin!

Are the veri's visible? If so have you checked the profiles of those that left them?

Are there profile pictures? If so have you used google reverse image search to see if they're genuine or nicked from porn sites?

Have you spoken to her on the phone? It's hard for a gruff voiced 60something male to sound like a 20something woman!

There's plenty you can do to protect yourself from 'fakes' - and at the end of the day if you're suspicious - block and move on. If the conversation is going nowhere and you're getting strung along - what's the point in continuing to chat?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

There are ways to fake verifications. I'd look at them closely. Are they all worded the same? Do the people making the verifications stand up to scrutiny?

Above all, if it looks to good to be true, it probably is, babe.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

use of one word = fake

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

With 24,000 people online at times last week and Admin having to make technical changes to the site because of the demand I think its fairly safe to say they dont need to spend their time setting up fake profiles

Calling someone babe doesnt make someone a fake.

Now babycakes is a whole different ball-game....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell her you want to talk on cam! Why are there so many people being confued over whether someone's real or not when you have the technology to find out? And if they say "I don't have skype" it's free to download and if they ay "I don't have a cam" then don't believe them because EVERYONE has a cam and if they say "I don't like talking on cam" then you say goodbye. It's so easy to be sure, i don't get why people don't just confirm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Babe is ok. Its Babes you gotta watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just tell her you want to talk on cam! Why are there so many people being confued over whether someone's real or not when you have the technology to find out? And if they say "I don't have skype" it's free to download and if they ay "I don't have a cam" then don't believe them because EVERYONE has a cam and if they say "I don't like talking on cam" then you say goodbye. It's so easy to be sure, i don't get why people don't just confirm."

I dont have a cam........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol i personally think it's a bit cringey calling someone babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't Skype, I will not go on cam to talk... And rarely if ever give my number out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man to a women that is don't mind being called babe though

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By *rafty98Man
over a year ago

herts

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By *rafty98Man
over a year ago

herts

Are they photo verified also?

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By *istress v in yorksCouple
over a year ago

south Yorkshire

That made me chuckle, I'm pretty sure anyone who does admin have better things to do than put on fake profiles ..like...err....swinging?

Where I live it's 'love', where I swing sometimes in the West mids it's 'bab'...load of crap to think it's the sign of a fake profile. Maybe if someone who you've met at work or in the street calls you 'mate' they might be a SPY!!!!!!

Load of rubbish. Can't believe you even thought that could be true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What tosh! I had a meet with someone called babe......

Real pig though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

V often calls people love, although never babe, but have never heard that, and dont see how it would prove someone isnt real.

some just like being over friendly

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"With 24,000 people online at times last week and Admin having to make technical changes to the site because of the demand I think its fairly safe to say they dont need to spend their time setting up fake profiles

Calling someone babe doesnt make someone a fake.

Now babycakes is a whole different ball-game...."

But I like being called babycakes

Just take some of the sage advice already given here and if it doesn't work out, move on. Oh, and if you think it's a fake,

R B A M O

Report Block And Move On

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Babe is ok. Its Babes you gotta watch"
really I have a man call me Babes , lolol oo and Babe .. don't really like it as think of Babe that little pig.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That'll do pig, that'll do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think every message I get must be fake if that's the case as they always call me babe and I can't stand it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a srious post o p? If so you are seemingly naieve or gullible.

How can one word determine a fake oh my god I am amazed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't Skype, I will not go on cam to talk... And rarely if ever give my number out"

Yet you have cam verifications. And i never give out my number either, never claimed to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the odd cam veri from being on chat in the past. But I would tell someone to jog on if they asked me to go on cam to prove who I am.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Calling someone babe doesnt make someone a fake.

Now babycakes is a whole different ball-game...."

mmmmm ball games lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex called all her boyfriends "babe" including me.

Her explanation was that she had dated and shagged so many blokes it got confusing. After calling one by the wrong name whilst climaxing she decided it was safer to adopt the practice of calling them all babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry OP but this has really made me chuckle

If you were in Wales you might get called Bach or Butt depending which part. If you were a friend of mine I'd likely call you Blod, short for Blodyn meaning flower. I really don't think someone is fake just because she calls you babe. 'She's' more likely to be fake for other reasons if she keeps putting a meet off. Oce Blod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. Just sounds like you are paranoid babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wrong! Not everyone has cam as a thread highlighted last week. I don't and if I did why the hell should I go on it to prove I am genuine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes its serious.I was asking because,as I said,I read elsewhere that being called babe is from a fake profile.everybody here disagrees so that's fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wrong! Not everyone has cam as a thread highlighted last week. I don't and if I did why the hell should I go on it to prove I am genuine."

Wow! Really hit a nerve there! I refue to meet anyone who won't come on cam because it's the only way to prove for sure they aren't fake. I'm sure there are many people on here who have the time and patience to show up for a meet and hope for the best but i would rather not waste my time. I would never even consider a meet without having spoken to someone on cam. Plus it means i can have a conversation with them and decide if they're my type of person. But i've found that the people who say "i have no cam" or " i dont have skype" to me, delete their profiles within 24 hours of my reply. Because they're fake. Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wrong! Not everyone has cam as a thread highlighted last week. I don't and if I did why the hell should I go on it to prove I am genuine.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

If someone asked me to go on cam, I'd not be that interested. It takes me an hour to get ready from drab mode to glam and I only get to play once a week due to work. If I'm in glam mode, I'm off out doing something interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone asked me to go on cam, I'd not be that interested. It takes me an hour to get ready from drab mode to glam and I only get to play once a week due to work. If I'm in glam mode, I'm off out doing something interesting

I just want a chat with anyone i ask to come on cam so i don't bother getting gussied up for that and i don't expect them to either. If they don't like the look of me on a normal day then they aren't going to want to see me first thing in the morning

Plus it gives us both the chance to walk away from it without any awkwardness if we don't like each other. I can only meet at weekends so i like to know there's a good chance of us hitting it off before the meet instead of going in blind and having a crappy night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are fake profiles on every swinging/dating site they usually stand out, Trust your instincts, As for seeing someone on cam before a social/meet it can only help you make your mind up if you actually want to meet in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wrong! Not everyone has cam as a thread highlighted last week. I don't and if I did why the hell should I go on it to prove I am genuine.

I have no cam, don't facetime, skype or msn but I am far from fake. What I am saying is you don't have to cam etc to be genuine and saying that you are 'fake' if you don't is a sweeping generalisation. By all means use your own method for ing out the fakes but saying 'no cam =fake' is wrong.

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By *istress v in yorksCouple
over a year ago

south Yorkshire

Don't Skype, only go on cam when I feel like it and don't give my number ut either x

I won't Skype, I will not go on cam to talk... And rarely if ever give my number out"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, everyone doesn't use a cam so not sure where you get that idea from. I don't use one and I do okay and besides, if I set one up, I wouldn't want to put up with guys waving their cocks at me thinking its the greatest thing since sliced bread as it actually does nothing for me so I would rather not

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By *urvy_J3Woman
over a year ago

Bradford

I call people babe and I likw to be called babe I am genuine and had meets only ever cancelled in extreme circumstances but always rearranged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a few men that use the term babe.

It's just a friendly refferal to a woman.

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

My wife uses this all the time as well as others.

Words like - babe - baby - chick - hunny and sweet.

Or I've married a robot designed and built by the government to lure women and men into sexy times.

Perhaps I'm a beta tester?

Woohooo

Xxx

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By *r Mrs Tusty69Couple
over a year ago

derby

Omgsh I'm sorry to say but wot a load of crap. Your on here with a profile that's 7 months old only 3 pics that need to be a friend to see first. Not one verification. Nothing telling us really about yourself. And you come on the forum saying about FAKE profiles. I was shocked because i wasn't expecting a profile like yourselfs to look so FAKE. uninteresting.boring. I call lots of lovely people on here baby. Babe. Hunn. Mi-duck.Sweetheart. Darling. Like one of the ladies said. It depends which part of the country your from as to wot type of words you use.

I'm from Nottingham and everyday without fail. I use the words mi duck Babe Hunn. And we are far from fake!!. There's plenty of ways to prove your not fake. Like Lots of the lovely messages above. Don't try and make mountains out of mole hills.

enough said. GRRRRR! !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Omgsh I'm sorry to say but wot a load of crap. Your on here with a profile that's 7 months old only 3 pics that need to be a friend to see first. Not one verification. Nothing telling us really about yourself. And you come on the forum saying about FAKE profiles. I was shocked because i wasn't expecting a profile like yourselfs to look so FAKE. uninteresting.boring. I call lots of lovely people on here baby. Babe. Hunn. Mi-duck.Sweetheart. Darling. Like one of the ladies said. It depends which part of the country your from as to wot type of words you use.

enough said. GRRRRR! !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im reminded of the film Babe - when sheep dog asks the pig what his name is ? He replied I dont know our mum called us all babe !!

Same as Darling - cant get names confused ! Lol x

I call most guys babe in messages - force of habit and I defo aint fake ! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the term angel or hunny.

Thats makes me a flake not a fake.

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By *r Mrs Tusty69Couple
over a year ago

derby

"I use the term angel or hunny.

Thats makes me a flake not a fake.

Xx"

nice words babe. He he flake. Love Em. Xx

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

wrong! Not everyone has cam as a thread highlighted last week. I don't and if I did why the hell should I go on it to prove I am genuine.

I don't have a cam (tablet and phone) and I don't Skype - after having a stalker I'm not sharing my Skype details. I also don't do phone contact for the same reason. I keep all contact through the site till we've met and I feel comfortable.

I also have a host of female friends who use babe when talking to me and other friends both male and female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use the term angel or hunny.

Thats makes me a flake not a fake.

Xx"

See now I quite like hunny, makes me sound kinda sweet

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By *anemartinCouple
over a year ago

lochgelly

I did read once that some (not all) people call people babe because they have more than one on the go at the same time so saves getting names mixed up lol. That was out a magazine tho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't Skype, I will not go on cam to talk... And rarely if ever give my number out"

Snap! And I am most definitely not fake

oh and I call people babe as I have an awful memory and can't remember names

However anyone putting off meets is not good

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