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By *ezebel OP   Woman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

We've had quite a few threads about timewasters.

To help everyone determine those people who are timewasters, please can all timewasters just put there names on this list so we can find you without having to spend ages worrying about you being out there....

Please feel free to identify your particular crime because that might save us some angst too..

Simples!

OK Ill go first.

Im _ezebel and Im a TW because Im not really looking to meet new people right now but my profile is still on display.

PS If any non-genuine people wish to out themselves at the same time, that would be really helpful. Thanks.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Thats naughty! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are timewasters because we cant drop everything for a meet with an hours notice

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By *ezebel OP   Woman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"we are timewasters because we cant drop everything for a meet with an hours notice"

tut tut but thanks for standing up and being counted

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By *ick_olasMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Im a timewaster because i cant drive

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I think we must also be timewasters as we don't agree to meet everyone that messages us! We also don't shag everyone that we do agree to meet with either! Or, are we just careful and selective? mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I'm Bimbo...time waster as I have a couple profile...but my man is abroad till july...I also spend way too much time on the forums to answer mails...

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By *ezebel OP   Woman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Thats naughty! Z"

Its working though...found two already!

730 to go by my reckoning...

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I confess I am a timewaster due to failing health

even tho my headline message CLEARLY states this

Why should I switch my profile off cos folk can't read?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a time waster cause i wont shag every sillouete that mails me xx

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By *ezebel OP   Woman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I think we must also be timewasters as we don't agree to meet everyone that messages us! We also don't shag everyone that we do agree to meet with either! Or, are we just careful and selective? mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Z"

Bad people. To the naughty step with the pair of you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a TW as I don't meet everybody or anybody, or do i do same day.

I have specific fun needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got a solution, see all these people that moan constantly about time wasters, why don’t they just meet each other?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I’ve got a solution, see all these people that moan constantly about time wasters, why don’t they just meet each other? "

lol - that is such a great solution! Then they will all stop whinging and we'll all be happy! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve got a solution, see all these people that moan constantly about time wasters, why don’t they just meet each other?

lol - that is such a great solution! Then they will all stop whinging and we'll all be happy! Z"

nah, they will be posting saying, so and so are more of a TW that we are etc.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I’ve got a solution, see all these people that moan constantly about time wasters, why don’t they just meet each other?

lol - that is such a great solution! Then they will all stop whinging and we'll all be happy! Z

nah, they will be posting saying, so and so are more of a TW that we are etc."

You have a point - I'm going to add to our profile 'Whingers need not apply!' Z

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By *ezebel OP   Woman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I’ve got a solution, see all these people that moan constantly about time wasters, why don’t they just meet each other? "

because the buggers wouldnt turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I'm Sassy and I'm a time waster because although I've said on my profile I'm not meeting as I have enough playmates I obviously should not be here and I'm rude in not changing my mind and meeting short, married, bi men from Scunthorpe staying in the local Travel Lodge for a quickie! I'm so sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are timewasters because we cant drop everything for a meet with an hours notice"

Same here, gosh arent we annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes and due to poor finances, i cant travel far, cant accommodate as my son lives with me, work full time and part time so im not available at the drop of a hat, if we meet one week, i dont want to meet you next week for sex cos you do , so stop being so pushy and desperate, im not interested in young people, im not here to help you cheat on your wife/husband, i want to meet socially first not shag first then social christ that dont leave many does it you maybe as horney as hell but i dont have a switch to turn mine on, oh yes and no picture, not really interested, i still have one so should you, no excuses

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By *ezebel OP   Woman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Wasters the lot of ya!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I'm a TW as I spend far too much time with family, friends and working to drop my knickers for the first person that asks.

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

We are timewasters. We wasted time travelling to a meet a couple offered, only to find out it was a false address when we got there!

Mind you it was interesting trying to explain tot the lady who answered the door what we were after

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By *nlyme n JoCatMan
over a year ago

outside stoke on trent

i'm not a time waster, i travel miles n miles for meets and socials, as a single bloke i feel its down to me to make that extra effort. What does my head in, is i have a couple of local couples i swing with, I make time available when they ask and i end up getting let down 50% of the time, once the other week, i should have been going but me car broke down.. i got loads of grief. wtf

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By *ottongue49Man
over a year ago

BARNSLEY

yeh its working im a timewaster because i only log into fab every 2mins lol

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By *ezebel OP   Woman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


" i'm not a time waster, i travel miles n miles for meets and socials, as a single bloke i feel its down to me to make that extra effort. What does my head in, is i have a couple of local couples i swing with, I make time available when they ask and i end up getting let down 50% of the time, once the other week, i should have been going but me car broke down.. i got loads of grief. wtf "

Sorry this thread is for timewasters only. If you're not a timewaster you're in the wrong place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guess am a time waster as i only play with my friends and my list is closed.

but am sure those people have a good time with me

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


" i'm not a time waster, i travel miles n miles for meets and socials, as a single bloke i feel its down to me to make that extra effort. What does my head in, is i have a couple of local couples i swing with, I make time available when they ask and i end up getting let down 50% of the time, once the other week, i should have been going but me car broke down.. i got loads of grief. wtf "

I just wasted 20 seconds reading then when I could have been arranging a meet I had no intention of attending

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By *ezebel OP   Woman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


" i'm not a time waster, i travel miles n miles for meets and socials, as a single bloke i feel its down to me to make that extra effort. What does my head in, is i have a couple of local couples i swing with, I make time available when they ask and i end up getting let down 50% of the time, once the other week, i should have been going but me car broke down.. i got loads of grief. wtf

I just wasted 20 seconds reading then when I could have been arranging a meet I had no intention of attending "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are obviously TW's because we don't give written guarantees that we will play if we meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" i'm not a time waster, i travel miles n miles for meets and socials, as a single bloke i feel its down to me to make that extra effort. What does my head in, is i have a couple of local couples i swing with, I make time available when they ask and i end up getting let down 50% of the time, once the other week, i should have been going but me car broke down.. i got loads of grief. wtf

I just wasted 20 seconds reading then when I could have been arranging a meet I had no intention of attending

"

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think i must be a timewaster too cos between my family and full time job and my NON SWINGING FRIENDS and I meet first before play and dont play with just anyone if no chemistry i dont play i am a fussy cow as well lol xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Im a timewaster cos I ask for winks to save peoples time and then get messages instead that I mostly don't reply to

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By *ezebel OP   Woman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Im a timewaster cos I ask for winks to save peoples time and then get messages instead that I mostly don't reply to "

Bad girl. Winkers are the worst....

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago

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By *eadboysdontlieWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

im a timewaster cos my damned fone wont e-mail a pic to this laptop for my profile pic and i dont reply to half the msgs sent to me and i wont add you to my friends list unless i actually like you and talk to you in chat!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

cool... this is like a confessional...

ahem... my name is _abio... and I am a TW because I won't show my cock pics to all and sundry... even when they send me friends invites when I have never spoken to them.....

phew... thats I weight off my mind now...

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By *ezebel OP   Woman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

See they are all coming out of the woodwork now...

By my calculations there are another 667 out there to declare themselves and then we can all rest easy and stop worrying about them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" i'm not a time waster, i travel miles n miles for meets and socials, as a single bloke i feel its down to me to make that extra effort. What does my head in, is i have a couple of local couples i swing with, I make time available when they ask and i end up getting let down 50% of the time, once the other week, i should have been going but me car broke down.. i got loads of grief. wtf

Sorry this thread is for timewasters only. If you're not a timewaster you're in the wrong place! "

Yes stop wasting our time..having to read your post about not being a time waster...you time waster..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are timewasters because we wont MSN or cam every person that asks, and we are also so rude because we wont / cant accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a timewaster as I am not looking to meet anyone, yet my profile is still up for all to read.

It has been updated to let everyone know loud and clear of my current status (hooked up with a playmate on FAB, hence not lookng etc.).

Yet, I still get messages to meet/chat/have fun/whatever.

And if I do not reply, peeps would get the hump for non-reply.

So I am a timewaster. Bite me!

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire

[Removed by poster at 05/04/10 10:45:36]

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By *ezebel OP   Woman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"

Um, do I sound bitter and twisted or what?

"

errrr....yup

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire


"

Um, do I sound bitter and twisted or what?

errrr....yup "

Phew, that's OK then, wouldn't want to give the wrong impression.

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By *ezebel OP   Woman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"

Um, do I sound bitter and twisted or what?

errrr....yup

Phew, that's OK then, wouldn't want to give the wrong impression. "

well def a impression...

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"

Um, do I sound bitter and twisted or what?

errrr....yup

Phew, that's OK then, wouldn't want to give the wrong impression. "

I think everyone will get the right impression from your earlier post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are timewasters. We wasted time travelling to a meet a couple offered, only to find out it was a false address when we got there!

Mind you it was interesting trying to explain tot the lady who answered the door what we were after "

no no no no please tell me this is a wind up xxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a timewaster because I look at the "Meet Today" ADVERTISEMENTS, decide whether I fit the criteria asked for, then compose a relevant, detailed, but not too long E-mail, and attach a face pic, only for the ignorant cunts who ADVERTISED to ignore my effort without having the decency to say "Thanks, but no thanks".

In future, I shall save time by simply sending a close-up of my cock and a 3 word message - "Fancy sucking this?"

Actually, I'm currently wasting my time creating a web page featuring all the aforementioned ignorant cunts (yes, Mr&MrsC***** and S***S******, I mean you, your fuck-witted ignorance has spurred me to this. You will have pride of place as the inaugural "Cunts of The Week" so people can hopefully avoid you like the plague that I wish upon your doors. After all, it will save you dicking other people around further down the line, as you inevitably will, if you can't be arsed to reply to an e-mail which YOU have solicited. What goes around comes around..... )

Um, do I sound bitter and twisted or what?

I'm also a timewaster for making double posts!

Ouch... Thats a bit harsh"

made me giggle though

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Hehehehehehe, love this thread!

Im a TW because :

i am no longer meeting as a single female

i wont meet people behind my partners back

i love northern men

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By *eadboysdontlieWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

im also i timewaster because i favour my fuckbuddy over guys ive just met online and i favour the really hot girl i met yesterday over couples that think because im bi and i like older guys that im gonna just love their 40+ wife! my taste in women is very different to what i look for in a guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a time waster because i dont just hand out my address to any tom, dick and Harry who wants to use my home as a free brothal

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By *eadboysdontlieWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"Im a time waster because i dont just hand out my address to any tom, dick and Harry who wants to use my home as a free brothal "

same as that!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im a time waster cause i get too pissed to shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a time waster cause i get too pissed to shag"

Unless its Gary Barlow lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Im a time waster cause i get too pissed to shag

Unless its Gary Barlow lol "

wasnt he fucking gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a time waster cause i get too pissed to shag

Unless its Gary Barlow lol

wasnt he fucking gorgeous"

Damn, thought I was in with a chance then, but realised I'm more Ken Barlow

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

Hm hm - I am Jane and I am a time waster because I really am only looking for a man with long hair and nobody believes me. When I write back asking which bit of LONGHAIRED they didn't understand, they get miffed!

I am also wasting a huge amount of time replying to these twerps who try it on . . .

I'll get my coat.

Jane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iam glad you have all admitted to your various 'time wasting' crimes, I will therefore block the lot of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are time wasters because when we use the chat room we don't agree to meet people whose cam we choose to have a look at. Maybe we should not look anymore ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a timewaster cause we not meeting at the min and have hidden the profile

(yes someone mailed me the other day and said why are you still on here when you have hidden your profile)xxxx

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By *arracks7Couple
over a year ago

Now in Warrington

we`re TW too as also stated on profile reason why so why do others think we cant chat and have a laugh without meets

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By *ottongue49Man
over a year ago

BARNSLEY

Because i changed all my plans for somebody and got three babysitters,got two people to cover my shifts and put four new tyres on my car and filled the tank up with fuel,im a complete timewaster lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Meet me at your peril

all electrical goods will break in my wake

You will wish id wasted your time

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By *ottongue49Man
over a year ago

BARNSLEY

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are timewasters because we have had the chance to meet but they were not for us.

So not sleeping with everyone and being fussy makes us timewasters xxx

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Hi, this is hard for me to admit to so please bear with me. I'm a TW because:

1) I get friends invites from unknown randoms with no prior contact, and can't be bothered to delete them as I know they'll just send again, but this way I only get new invites.

2) I get one-liner emails from couple of the form "MAYBE YOU", "TEXT US" or "COME FUCK MY WIFE" with no pics, or if I'm really lucky, one pick which is just a fanny shot and practically nothing on profile.

3) When I do meet.. hours later the contact wonders where the time has gone and I think they feel they want it (the time) back all over again.

I'm sorry for the people who's time I've wasted - I've let the side down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm a DOUBLE time waster as i dont want to meet everyone who asks and i can only meet when i dont have my 7 year old son xx

shame on me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago

OMG!!! a double timewaster???

I bow down to your greatness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a baw bag

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By *reakchicCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

im a TW because i waste my own time replying with a polite 'no thanks' to all the immature, rude single guys that i dont 'fancy a fuck' with just to get abusive messages back

might just start ignoring them.

must say tho not all the chaps are like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my name is Heather and I am a timewaster...

-I can't drive

-I don't meet in the week because of 3 little kiddiewinks at home with me...

-I don't meet every guy who messages me even though I am a woman of the larger variety so OBVIOUSLY desperate and wanting to shag anything with a pulse that shows me some interest

-I don't want to go on cam at anytime of the day

-and my biggest offense putting my family first

phew I feel so much better now!!!

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"my name is Heather and I am a timewaster...

-I can't drive

-I don't meet in the week because of 3 little kiddiewinks at home with me...

-I don't meet every guy who messages me even though I am a woman of the larger variety so OBVIOUSLY desperate and wanting to shag anything with a pulse that shows me some interest

-I don't want to go on cam at anytime of the day

-and my biggest offense putting my family first

phew I feel so much better now!!!"

Really?? mmmmmmm

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"my name is Heather and I am a timewaster...

-I can't drive

-I don't meet in the week because of 3 little kiddiewinks at home with me...

-I don't meet every guy who messages me even though I am a woman of the larger variety so OBVIOUSLY desperate and wanting to shag anything with a pulse that shows me some interest

-I don't want to go on cam at anytime of the day

-and my biggest offense putting my family first

phew I feel so much better now!!!"

oh yes, points 3 and 4 makes me a big time waster to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a time waster as I refuse to publicise naked pictures of myself,I refuse to allow men to come to my house at 4am in the morning (inconsiderate huh) and refuse to stay at home and wait for someone who doesnt appear at the alloted time....and I dont let men who text me at the last minute and say "can I bring a couple of friends with me" bring said friends...I know, I could be helping the wider community here, but I'm such a timewaster, I can't be bothered.

there, I admit it, so spank me!

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By *ave29Man
over a year ago

Holyhead

i am new to this site ,and to be honest i am very positive about it . but the only thing i have found is that people just do not respond to e mails.i am very dissapointed in the amount of people deleting e mails without having the courtesy to reply in which ever way ,, so i agree that timewasters really ruin this site

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"i am new to this site ,and to be honest i am very positive about it . but the only thing i have found is that people just do not respond to e mails.i am very dissapointed in the amount of people deleting e mails without having the courtesy to reply in which ever way ,, so i agree that timewasters really ruin this site "

There is no requirement in the site rules for people to reply to e mails, I delete them without reading them if for example they live outside my chosen area.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I'm a time waster as I refuse to publicise naked pictures of myself,I refuse to allow men to come to my house at 4am in the morning (inconsiderate huh) and refuse to stay at home and wait for someone who doesnt appear at the alloted time....and I dont let men who text me at the last minute and say "can I bring a couple of friends with me" bring said friends...I know, I could be helping the wider community here, but I'm such a timewaster, I can't be bothered.

there, I admit it, so spank me!"

It's people like you who give single girl swingers a bad name!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have so many filters on my mail I'm surprised anyone can mail me......I'm a time waster as those who spent nanoseconds composing a wanna fuck u now mail cannot now get it through to me.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I have so many filters on my mail I'm surprised anyone can mail me......I'm a time waster as those who spent nanoseconds composing a wanna fuck u now mail cannot now get it through to me. "

And we're finding that VERY frustrating!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am new to this site ,and to be honest i am very positive about it . but the only thing i have found is that people just do not respond to e mails.i am very dissapointed in the amount of people deleting e mails without having the courtesy to reply in which ever way ,, so i agree that timewasters really ruin this site "

A timewaster isnt someone who doesnt reply to an email,and to be honest if you emailed us we wouldnt reply as we dont meet anyone without pics on profile.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"i am new to this site ,and to be honest i am very positive about it . but the only thing i have found is that people just do not respond to e mails.i am very dissapointed in the amount of people deleting e mails without having the courtesy to reply in which ever way ,, so i agree that timewasters really ruin this site "

You've been here two weeks - and you've got a verification from Granny - i would say you were doing VERY well, Granny aint no fool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have so many filters on my mail I'm surprised anyone can mail me......I'm a time waster as those who spent nanoseconds composing a wanna fuck u now mail cannot now get it through to me.

And we're finding that VERY frustrating!"

Mail me about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a TW as I spend far too much time with family, friends and working to drop my knickers for the first person that asks. "

Same here!And my profile does state that i'm not meeting at the moment because of these reasons! I should be hung out to dry!!

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I have so many filters on my mail I'm surprised anyone can mail me......I'm a time waster as those who spent nanoseconds composing a wanna fuck u now mail cannot now get it through to me.

And we're finding that VERY frustrating!

Mail me about it! "

Ha ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Timewasters are on all UK premier sites, we even had 1 cple (single guy lol) contact us on three different sites after he hunted us down, now thats timewasting.

Hang in there ,genuine folk on here just takes patience and stamina to find them.

Tips, what time of the day is this fem contacting you asa CPLE, DAYTIME , unlikely people work, pics old, check verifications do they match, was it a meet or are they all phone calls etc,and cut to the chase forget emailing forever ,talk to people properly and i dont mean MSN

Good luck its worth it in the long run but I can fully understand the frustration especially if your new to sites

Jackie C xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont think everyone can drop things at a hat, we have spoke to a few, but taking months b4 we have eventually met them, we all have busy lives, kids work etc etc, those that have freedom can meet, but many have other things in there life, if folk want to meet you they will, and make the effort to sought out a meet,

no profile pics we dont meet, not in our age we dont meet, not our physical type we dont meet, to far we dont meet,

simple really,

good things come those who wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definition of timewaster by people who aint been in it long

Someone that wont meet or fuck cause they dont want too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definition of timewaster by people who aint been in it long

Someone that wont meet or fuck cause they dont want too lol "

That so true! I think its sometimes the pushy people who make people have second thoughts. Then they get labelled wasters for making a negative decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a time waster as I refuse to publicise naked pictures of myself,I refuse to allow men to come to my house at 4am in the morning (inconsiderate huh) and refuse to stay at home and wait for someone who doesnt appear at the alloted time....and I dont let men who text me at the last minute and say "can I bring a couple of friends with me" bring said friends...I know, I could be helping the wider community here, but I'm such a timewaster, I can't be bothered.

there, I admit it, so spank me!"

you dont allow men to come to your house at 4am!!!

Good god woman whats the point in you being here if a man cant even get a d*unken shag off you after a night out with the lads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are timewasters because we keep saying to the single females we will meet but at the last moment we dont let them in our house lol

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

Jeez this place is so wrong, does that mean that we are not see any "No Timewasters" notices on profiles since they have all outed themselves?

Am I a timewaster posting this?

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By *ezebel OP   Woman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Jeez this place is so wrong, does that mean that we are not see any "No Timewasters" notices on profiles since they have all outed themselves?

Am I a timewaster posting this? "

Shhhhh Ive made a list of all the names in my little black book....

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Stands in front of Jez waving a huge "im a timewaster banner"

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"Jeez this place is so wrong, does that mean that we are not see any "No Timewasters" notices on profiles since they have all outed themselves?

Am I a timewaster posting this?

Shhhhh Ive made a list of all the names in my little black book...."

My lips are sealed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a time waster as I refuse to publicise naked pictures of myself,I refuse to allow men to come to my house at 4am in the morning (inconsiderate huh) and refuse to stay at home and wait for someone who doesnt appear at the alloted time....and I dont let men who text me at the last minute and say "can I bring a couple of friends with me" bring said friends...I know, I could be helping the wider community here, but I'm such a timewaster, I can't be bothered.

there, I admit it, so spank me!

It's people like you who give single girl swingers a bad name! "

Frankly,I'm surprised I've got away with such abhorrent behaviour for so long!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a time waster as I refuse to publicise naked pictures of myself,I refuse to allow men to come to my house at 4am in the morning (inconsiderate huh) and refuse to stay at home and wait for someone who doesnt appear at the alloted time....and I dont let men who text me at the last minute and say "can I bring a couple of friends with me" bring said friends...I know, I could be helping the wider community here, but I'm such a timewaster, I can't be bothered.

there, I admit it, so spank me!

you dont allow men to come to your house at 4am!!!

Good god woman whats the point in you being here if a man cant even get a d*unken shag off you after a night out with the lads "

its the kebabs! i hate the kebabs they want to bring along...so hard to clean up once they've regurgitated them. I know I should be honoured and lick that crap up, but, as I said before, i'm a timewaster...there, I said it again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i,m a timewaster because i don't have a face pic on my profile and it,s also makes me not a "real swinger"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my name is Heather and I am a timewaster...

-I can't drive

-I don't meet in the week because of 3 little kiddiewinks at home with me...

-I don't meet every guy who messages me even though I am a woman of the larger variety so OBVIOUSLY desperate and wanting to shag anything with a pulse that shows me some interest

-I don't want to go on cam at anytime of the day

-and my biggest offense putting my family first

phew I feel so much better now!!!"

Im a TW cause of point 3, since im a 'fat slag' and I 'should take what I can get'! How dare I turn down the chance to shag those muppets, i wasted their time, all of 5 seconds that it took them to write the message.

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By *ezebel OP   Woman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Bugger!

Thought we'd got rid of them all but they are still coming out of the woodwork...

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Yay!! I love this thread

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

I'm a TW because I wink people I find interesting and not send a long winded message... Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"I'm a TW because I wink people I find interesting and not send a long winded message... Sorry"

You lie

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By *ezebel OP   Woman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I'm a TW because I wink people I find interesting and not send a long winded message... Sorry"

Ahhhh the Wink Wardens will be round for you mate....run, run for the hills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be a timewaster because I have standards and a teeny bit of self respect therefore won't just meet anything that messages me because it has a cock and balls stuck to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be a timewaster because I have standards and a teeny bit of self respect therefore won't just meet anything that messages me because it has a cock and balls stuck to it "

Ditto...... well put.... funny how many men think they are doing us single females a favour!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think we may be tw's because we dont demand or expect sex with every couple we meet, i mean we had sex with each other this weekend and we have the nerve to call ourselves swingers!

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By *usterMan
over a year ago

worthing

I'm a TW 'coz I'm so old that people waste hours reading my profile and then find I might die of old age if they don't die of boredom first. Imagine explaining my body away to the in-laws when they pop in for a cuppa!

Ps If you read this I have wasted your time

pps - my first post - I could get to enjoy wasting all your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a timewaster because i delete all friends requests from people i havent talked to instead of accepting them

I dont reply to all messages from those that dont fit/read my profile

I dont reply to the short one line messages

I dont have msn set to log automatically on the minute i log on my pc

When i'm on msn, i wont block all my friends that are online just to show you sexy pictures

I'm too scared of upsetting people i dont want to meet again by telling them i dont want to meet for sex

I wont give anyone my home address so they can come round whenever they have a hard on

I wont log onto msn at some unearthly hour in the morning for sex chat cos someone ive got a message from, that ive not chatted to before, is horney

I prefer to meet socially first

I dont save everyone's mobile number to my contacts

I dont do car sex

I only book annual leave for my special friends

I'm not available during the day because i am at work

I cant accommodate as ive a son living with me

I wont meet people in a hotel because they are in gloucester for a couple of days and want some fun

Christ i wonder how i manage to meet anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

WOW I think we have a winner

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By *adDutchCouple
over a year ago

hastings

I have organized parties for 34 years and have had about a thousand time wasters. They really are pathetic.

We solved the problem several years ago. We insist on woman to woman phone talk and do not waste any time until it has happened.

Problem solved!

MadDutch

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By *usterMan
over a year ago

worthing

Congratulations on solving the problem. I only wish I had a female with whom I could put myself forward to join you in your parties. (not trying to be pushy, but I have read your profile - you seem like the sort of people I like to be with.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a timewaster because i delete all friends requests from people i havent talked to instead of accepting them

I dont reply to all messages from those that dont fit/read my profile

I dont reply to the short one line messages

I dont have msn set to log automatically on the minute i log on my pc

When i'm on msn, i wont block all my friends that are online just to show you sexy pictures

I'm too scared of upsetting people i dont want to meet again by telling them i dont want to meet for sex

I wont give anyone my home address so they can come round whenever they have a hard on

I wont log onto msn at some unearthly hour in the morning for sex chat cos someone ive got a message from, that ive not chatted to before, is horney

I prefer to meet socially first

I dont save everyone's mobile number to my contacts

I dont do car sex

I only book annual leave for my special friends

I'm not available during the day because i am at work

I cant accommodate as ive a son living with me

I wont meet people in a hotel because they are in gloucester for a couple of days and want some fun

Christ i wonder how i manage to meet anyone "

Well a lot of people will be blocking you...you shameless time waster you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i must be a timewaster as people see that a "no" means carry on messaging me trying to change my mind

and i am fussy who i meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a timewaster, all those golfers who come to St Andrews are well miffed that I don't run a B&B so they have room and board with extras for The Open/Dunhill, or will tell my kids to fend for themselves while I pop round to their Hotel and drop my knickers for a quick crap shag between rounds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a timewaster because i cant drive "
i,m a timewaster cos i mainly only play at my place ,,, oh and i turned a couple down on saturday cos i was watching the footy ,,, i do appologise for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jeez this place is so wrong, does that mean that we are not see any "No Timewasters" notices on profiles since they have all outed themselves?

Am I a timewaster posting this? "

Not with a stunning gorgeous ass like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a timewaster because i delete all friends requests from people i havent talked to instead of accepting them

I dont reply to all messages from those that dont fit/read my profile

I dont reply to the short one line messages

I dont have msn set to log automatically on the minute i log on my pc

When i'm on msn, i wont block all my friends that are online just to show you sexy pictures

I'm too scared of upsetting people i dont want to meet again by telling them i dont want to meet for sex

I wont give anyone my home address so they can come round whenever they have a hard on

I wont log onto msn at some unearthly hour in the morning for sex chat cos someone ive got a message from, that ive not chatted to before, is horney

I prefer to meet socially first

I dont save everyone's mobile number to my contacts

I dont do car sex

I only book annual leave for my special friends

I'm not available during the day because i am at work

I cant accommodate as ive a son living with me

I wont meet people in a hotel because they are in gloucester for a couple of days and want some fun

Christ i wonder how i manage to meet anyone

Well a lot of people will be blocking you...you shameless time waster you lol "

Yeeeaaaaaa!!! We need a clap hands above the air smiley

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