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What have you learnt about yourself since you joined Fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was thinking about this last night how many new things I have discovered and experienced since I joined nearly 4 yrs ago. Watersports,Fisting,Shibari,Dom/sub,CBT, Toys,Gushing,Pleasure pain,Clamps.To name a few. So share with us yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biggest lesson, always take a pair of pumps to wear home, 5 inch heels are a killer to walk in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That just because I'm meeting a man I do not have to pack my handbag with lube, condoms and toys. Some men actually just want to have coffee

That the scottish education system is rubbish, men seem to think that everywhere in scotland can be classed as local to me

That I use the word fab way to often

That it's all about me and it's my body to do as I wish with

That when it's not fun to walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That the more men I fuck the more highly I think of my husband!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That the more men I fuck the more highly I think of my husband! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of what I've fantasized about wasn't so bad to never have done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That i don't have a type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that straight sex is good enough for me,

that some men are good at foreplay and giving oral mostly older ones.

that mmf or group sex can be fun.

that being good looking doesnt make sex better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That the more men I fuck the more highly I think of my husband! "

That I'm not as adventurous in bed as I thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am most definitely not a relationship person and I enjoy meeting a variety of people. x

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

Ive learnt that good friends are worth their weight in gold and through this new lifestyle it looks like I/we will make plenty of good friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think having sex with the same man would ever be enough, variety is the spice of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't check our messages on fab when I'm supposed to be working, I don't then look at the forums and find the end of the day is approaching and I've hardly got anything done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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that being good looking doesnt make sex better.

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Yes and this too.

So many ripped Adonis that either could not get it up or lasted little more than 30 seconds...

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By *entaur 9Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Patience......

amongst a few other things.

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By *ayTVTV/TS
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

That the friends that I have met on Fab are true, genuine, honest friends.

You know who you are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt to pick and choose more carefully!!

I'm not as tough as I like to think I am. I sometimes wonder if I'm too soft for Fab but I'm too old to change now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I should have more confidence in myself because some men find me sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that am a kinky bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I've learnt about myself...hm.

I can really let myself down when I'm horny.

(Now how's that for an oxymoron!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I need to strike a balance.....

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By *arabeefWoman
over a year ago

otley

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By *arabeefWoman
over a year ago

otley

that it is up to me

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"That just because I'm meeting a man I do not have to pack my handbag with lube, condoms and toys. Some men actually just want to have coffee

That the scottish education system is rubbish, men seem to think that everywhere in scotland can be classed as local to me

That I use the word fab way to often

That it's all about me and it's my body to do as I wish with

That when it's not fun to walk away"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I have a few kinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I must not be that bad because quite a few men want me Mistress x

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Iv learnt that I miss my ex so much

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By *tephenb001Man
over a year ago

stapleton

After 5/6 years.

That there is an endless amount of knobs on here pretending to be people there not and the doughnuts that mess others about, clearly here for a quick wank.

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By *ammyTV/TS
over a year ago

manchester

Learned that you have more fun as femme tv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I have extreme patience

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By *tephenb001Man
over a year ago

stapleton


"After 5/6 years.

That there is an endless amount of knobs on here pretending to be people there not and the doughnuts that mess others about, clearly here for a quick wank."

Which still pisses me off. ( I forgot to add this bit)

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After 5/6 years.

That there is an endless amount of knobs on here pretending to be people there not and the doughnuts that mess others about, clearly here for a quick wank.

Which still pisses me off. ( I forgot to add this bit)

Lol

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so you have actually learned nothing about YOURSELF in 5/6 years?

have found im not a jealous person and infact embrace someone else sexuality (V's)

being 'involved' with others doesnt HAVE to diminish the feelings for each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned that many people say they're open-minded and but still get catty, petty, or show signs of jealousy (no, not just women). Have also learned that everyone's your best friend till you say no, many just fade into the darkness like Flo in that Progressive ad. Lastly, on the negative aspects, I've pretty much accepted that I have pretty much ruined my chances at finding a real relationship as I have discovered so many kind, loving men are actually cheaters.

Enough negative. I've also found that while I have submissive fantasies, they're just fantasies. I find that I like to rim rather than be rimmed. I also love a woman's body as much as a man's and prefer-just a little-meat on the bones over a hardbody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've learned that it's better not to play than to compromise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have learnt there is a lot of manipulators, catty people and a lot less tolerance than we expected. On the positive side there are some very chilled out people who are lots of fun to be around. To sum up swingers are very much chalk and cheese.

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By *uteguy06Man
over a year ago

Swindon

That I am not that good looking, I used to think I was & used to get attention from ladies when I was on nights out but now nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That my cock is classified as being VVWE and that apparently I'm a great snog and an outstanding fuck....

Also been told I'm a fucking liar too .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have learnt that not everyone is as broad minded as i thought they would be.

that there are quite a few judgemental people on here and that you have to be careful because some men expect to do things they like all the time and dont care if they hurt you, so you have to tell them straight what you will and wont do. There are a few men who wont use condoms and dont know what safe sex means.

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

That i'm a bigger slut than i thought i was lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This has been really interesting reading and I will add this site is also addictive. There are some truly wonderful people on here in amongst the chaff, but I have also learned to go with my instinct. I had a relationship as a result of meeting a man on here. Neither of us were looking. But I ended it.I try to see the good in people but as in life,you get let down, but learn from it and move on. Keep it coming.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"We've learned that it's better not to play than to compromise."

This

Have also learned that we are more open minded that we first thought...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive learned I'm a right kinky old twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have learnt that i dont fancy women as much as men, that i do fancy quite a few of cross dressers on here.

some men have cheesy cocks and smelly bums. oh and i must remember not to believe everything men put on their profiles, its not always true.

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

That I am much better looking and not such an ugly fat arsed cow before I say no thank you.

That hubby is very obedient and loves it when I am a naughty girl and enjoy lots of nice big cock.

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