Exactly. We are like ships in the night we are. She's always working some shift or other, seven 'til seven, nights or days, knackered the rest of the time, he works Mon to Fri, then the kids are around until late so we can't exactly talk about all this sort of stuff, then there is real life to live outside all this, shopping to be done etc. We don't msn or cam exactly for these reasons, as one or other is usually tied up elsewhere. How do we find the time to reply to messages? Well as the profile says, we will but it might take some time as we do things by concensus. We also only have about one opportunity a month to meet and that is in the day time. But does that mean we aren't genuine? No, we are enthusiastic and as verified as anyone else. So "she is out" in our view does not automatically mean someone is a scammer. We try to avoid these situations as I say, but it happens. It is life. |
