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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering how people would feel if they found out a member of thier family was also swining?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be mortified lol. Its why i don't show my face on here in the public pictures, I can't believe people actually do that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Id be mortified lol. Its why i don't show my face on here in the public pictures, I can't believe people actually do that! "
Yeah we did it before and would'nt again, as we were recognised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would not mind unless it was me gran

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure my parents used to dabble in 'car key' parties back in the late 60's and early 70's......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sure my parents used to dabble in 'car key' parties back in the late 60's and early 70's...... "
Maybe swinging is genetic? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that could be kind of cool, knowing they werent as boring as i thought they were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if it was my gran or my uncles cousins non blood related super hot step daughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be surprised but wouldn't see it as an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how people would feel if they found out a member of thier family was also swining?

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. I have a family member that swings,, at the end of the day we all adults wanting and doing the same thing .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of my business. Same as what we do is none of theirs.

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there


"Just wondering how people would feel if they found out a member of thier family was also swining?

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It would be pretty hypocritical to think anything other than "fair enough".

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd be surprised but wouldn't see it as an issue. "
So you would'nt see it as an issue. If they are also using fab, going to same clubs at you etc?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'm sure my parents used to dabble in 'car key' parties back in the late 60's and early 70's...... "

I know mine did, and found my Dads old contact mags when I bought the house off him.

As my mother said when she found out I have sex with more than one man, 'the apple doesn't fall far from the tree'.

I don't think being on this site is anything to be ashamed of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be surprised but wouldn't see it as an issue. So you would'nt see it as an issue. If they are also using fab, going to same clubs at you etc?"

I'd try and play away from the area they were and if they frequented a club at the same time I'd probably leave. In fact I'd probably discuss and hope to agree on playing at either different clubs or on different nights. If that was possible ?

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I have family on here. I fell across their profile years ago. We don't live close; we discussed it briefly years ago & its not an issue.

We're all adults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be surprised but wouldn't see it as an issue. So you would'nt see it as an issue. If they are also using fab, going to same clubs at you etc?"

No I certainly wouldn't see it as an issue that they use fab. And it would be massively hypocritical to say otherwise.

So how would you feel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have a problem with it. That would make me a hypocrite.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd be surprised but wouldn't see it as an issue. So you would'nt see it as an issue. If they are also using fab, going to same clubs at you etc?

No I certainly wouldn't see it as an issue that they use fab. And it would be massively hypocritical to say otherwise.

So how would you feel?"
We would'nt have a problem with the fact they are swinging but it would be a problem to be using same site etc.

Also you might know their personaility very well and know the swinging experience might not be good for them. For example they get attached to people easily.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

if they found me on here it would mean they were here too but I keep my face pics on friends only but id block them to be safe

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I'd mind my business, block them and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be surprised but wouldn't see it as an issue. So you would'nt see it as an issue. If they are also using fab, going to same clubs at you etc?

No I certainly wouldn't see it as an issue that they use fab. And it would be massively hypocritical to say otherwise.

So how would you feel? We would'nt have a problem with the fact they are swinging but it would be a problem to be using same site etc.

Also you might know their personaility very well and know the swinging experience might not be good for them. For example they get attached to people easily."

If they're old enough to be on here then they are old enough to make their own decisions and live their life how they want to. Its none of your business and if you try and say any thing they'll probably tell you that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mean to be a pedant but before we get caught in hypocrisy wasn't the question 'how would you feel?' not 'what would you think?'. It is possible to have a feelings and thoughts on a subject without being judgmental.

I'll shut up now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't mean to be a pedant but before we get caught in hypocrisy wasn't the question 'how would you feel?' not 'what would you think?'. It is possible to have a feelings and thoughts on a subject without being judgmental.

I'll shut up now. "
exactly

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't mean to be a pedant but before we get caught in hypocrisy wasn't the question 'how would you feel?' not 'what would you think?'. It is possible to have a feelings and thoughts on a subject without being judgmental.

I'll shut up now. "

No don't shut up, you're right in a way but on subjects like this feelings and thoughts are often not too far removed from each other.

I would feel surprised but would think "blimey that's a surprise but fair dos"

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"None of my business. Same as what we do is none of theirs. "

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

As for how I would feel, it depends on their relationship to me. For some I would feel impressed, for others I would feel slightly squicked, and for the rest I would feel nothing at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came across my brother on here , thank fook my face isn't public

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None of my business. Same as what we do is none of theirs. "

This is how I feel. I've got a few family members on. Lucky for me I haven't got a relative within 80miles of me.

But I just block as I find them. But I'm pretty open about my lifestyle to the degree they know I live it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure my parents used to dabble in 'car key' parties back in the late 60's and early 70's......

I know mine did, and found my Dads old contact mags when I bought the house off him.

As my mother said when she found out I have sex with more than one man, 'the apple doesn't fall far from the tree'.

I don't think being on this site is anything to be ashamed of."

Whilst rooting round on top of cupboards (as you do as a kid, when everyones out) I found some polaroids and some slides...couldn't make out much but it wasn't my mum snogging my dad lol.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose I wouldnt at all be surprised with some members of my family...I already no one who is on this site..

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By *aisy100Woman
over a year ago

wakefield

For me it would be an issue that we could sleep with the same people.

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By *aisy100Woman
over a year ago

wakefield

And to be honest it would feel weired if I saw a close relatives genitals especially if in play mode!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would feel slightly squicked,"

Now that IS worth feeling, er I think ()

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd be surprised/amused but wouldn't let it bother us.

We're all adults with the same feelings, emotions and needs.

So as long as no meets are arranged with them we can't see the problem lol.

XXXX

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It depends how I found out.

If I just came across their profile on here, then that is fine. Obviously I'd hope they didn't use the forum, as whilst they wouldn't recognise me, they may recognise me from what I say and so on.

If I found them whilst dogging, then that could be awkward, depending on the circs.....

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

As long as it wasn't my god daughter it wouldbe reasonably ok.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I'd be very surprised, my parents haven't even shared a bed for 25 years lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I'd be a bit surprised, but would then block and move on...haven't got the biggest family so wouldn't need to block very many!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my family members is here,

Stupid woman visited our couples profile, blocked us straight away.

Shame she didn't check out Paula's single woman profile I just had to look at this woman that visited me and then blocked,

I recognised straight away her tattoos and body and a bit of face shot

She knows now if she reads the forum.

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how people would feel if they found out a member of thier family was also swining?

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I quite like bacon sarnies and roast pork. To be fair my family do too. Where's the problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wondering why people bother to block someone because they're related or because we know them. We're all adults aren't we and if someone does recognise us not like they can really say much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I quite like bacon sarnies and roast pork. To be fair my family do too. Where's the problem?

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It wouldn't make you squeal and want to trotter off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I quite like bacon sarnies and roast pork. To be fair my family do too. Where's the problem?

It wouldn't make you squeal and want to trotter off? "

That would be arachniding

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe


"Just wondering how people would feel if they found out a member of thier family was also swining?

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Who cares lol as long as we didn't end up in the same club lol xx

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