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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I keep getting messages from chaps who think I'm domme. Is this because I'm older I wonder, or do ladies of whatever age get asked the same?

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Nope most assume (almost correctly) I'm submissive

But sub men looking for dommes are huge in number, as is male d's looking for f subs (or in some cases doormats)

so it could just be stats

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting. I even had one fella I was just chatting to say, "I assume you're the mistress in the bedroom".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep getting messages from chaps who think I'm domme. Is this because I'm older I wonder, or do ladies of whatever age get asked the same? "

You have a very dominant profile, you don't come across as easy going, its as if you need to be in control, just a thought.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

The pic of a black corset.... are they assuming it's leather?

Sorry hon, I'm obviously out of the loop so cant see a code word or anything

I'm sure come tomorrow lots of male subs will have posted and will hopefully give you the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it maybe what they like to see in you.

We have written master and sub on ours.

Mind you we have written a fair bit on ours, just a case of read the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be they like someone who is authoritarian and knows what they want. See if they would buy you some shoes and get me some sneakily as well.

...a few socks wouldn't go a miss either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd never looked at it like that. Good points. The funny thing is the opposite is true. I only want to be told what to do. Can't be assed to be bossy in the bedroom. I do it all day in the Other World.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It could be they like someone who is authoritarian and knows what they want. See if they would buy you some shoes and get me some sneakily as well.

...a few socks wouldn't go a miss either.

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I do need some socks actually.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I keep getting messages from chaps who think I'm domme. Is this because I'm older I wonder, or do ladies of whatever age get asked the same? "

Constantly. I just say no thanks.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

My profile used to say Im sub so i guess it filtered the sub men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as i put handcuff photos up we had guys asking if I was looking for a 'Master'!

We were taking photos just for fun and didn't realise that some men actually took photos literally.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Stunning pictures actually. I think mine need freshening up. You might think they would be better assuming that you already had a master! One does quite nicely I think.

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