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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Sometimes good people(including myself) organize parties/mini parties/ fuckfests etc. If you happen to be invited or you express interest in attending, is it nice to demand a roll call of who and who is attending? Or does that make you as a SNOB? Will a mere summary of the list( example 16 fems, 27 guys, 6 couples etc) be enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a reasonable request, but equally think that only providing a summary is not an unreasonable response

I fail to see how asking who is attending is in anyway linked to being a snob?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I would want to know who was attending a private party as I wouldn't

Really want to go if I knew there was no one there I was interested in playing with at all.

But then I do state on my profile I'll

Only accept party invites if someone I know will be there.

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth

Interesting question! I suspect the answer is 'it depends'

You mention 'demanding a roll call' which sounds a bit much. Obviously some people attending might not want their details shared with someone they (presumably) haven't met yet.

On the other hand, I can understand a potential attendee wondering who else is going - that in itself doesn't make them a snob, just that they might want to decide if it's 'the sort of people they want to meet'.

On the other hand (yes, I have three hands!) someone might ask because they want to make sure a particular person is or isn't going to be there, if it's maybe someone they have met and hope to meet again (or conversely never meet again!).

Confused? Me too. I suggest you check with the other attendees, and only share the info they're happy to have shared. Hope it goes well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think I'd want to go to a party if I didn't know who would be there. If that makes me a snob I'm fine with that. My happiness is more important to me than what other people think.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I wouldn't go without having seen a guest list.

Whether that makes me a snob or not.... I dont care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like the not knowing, wondering what kind of people will be there..then again im weird, allegedly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it as it comes, I'm sure there is plenty of surprises

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"I quite like the not knowing, wondering what kind of people will be there..then again im weird, allegedly "

See if I had a man in tow I might not feel a need to screen the guest list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite like the not knowing, wondering what kind of people will be there..then again im weird, allegedly

See if I had a man in tow I might not feel a need to screen the guest list "

A man should be Towing not in Tow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope doesn't make you a snob. I think most people would want to know who was attending and I don't think it's unreasonable to want to know.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"I quite like the not knowing, wondering what kind of people will be there..then again im weird, allegedly

See if I had a man in tow I might not feel a need to screen the guest list

A man should be Towing not in Tow "

Finding a decent man..... Possible.

Finding a decent dominant, single man LOL

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

I sort of take the view that a party is an opportunity to meet new people and not knowing is part of the fun. I would assume that if I was being invited the organisers would have decent taste so wouldnt be worried who else was going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite like the not knowing, wondering what kind of people will be there..then again im weird, allegedly

See if I had a man in tow I might not feel a need to screen the guest list

A man should be Towing not in Tow

Finding a decent man..... Possible.

Finding a decent dominant, single man LOL "

Jeeez your so Picky woman

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"I quite like the not knowing, wondering what kind of people will be there..then again im weird, allegedly

See if I had a man in tow I might not feel a need to screen the guest list

A man should be Towing not in Tow

Finding a decent man..... Possible.

Finding a decent dominant, single man LOL

Jeeez your so Picky woman "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite like the not knowing, wondering what kind of people will be there..then again im weird, allegedly

See if I had a man in tow I might not feel a need to screen the guest list

A man should be Towing not in Tow

Finding a decent man..... Possible.

Finding a decent dominant, single man LOL

Jeeez your so Picky woman

Thank you "

Ever the Gentleman me

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"I quite like the not knowing, wondering what kind of people will be there..then again im weird, allegedly

See if I had a man in tow I might not feel a need to screen the guest list

A man should be Towing not in Tow

Finding a decent man..... Possible.

Finding a decent dominant, single man LOL

Jeeez your so Picky woman

Thank you

Ever the Gentleman me "

Useful....

Apart from when you want your ass sorting runs to hide now

sorry op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite like the not knowing, wondering what kind of people will be there..then again im weird, allegedly

See if I had a man in tow I might not feel a need to screen the guest list

A man should be Towing not in Tow

Finding a decent man..... Possible.

Finding a decent dominant, single man LOL

Jeeez your so Picky woman

Thank you

Ever the Gentleman me

Useful....

Apart from when you want your ass sorting runs to hide now

sorry op "

Lol saucy Mare, we will see who's gets sorted when your the Meet in the Muffins famous Sandwich ;-p

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