FabSwingers.com forum: question

By *lutandhubby OP Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

we are having trouble with a single guy (on this site) who knows us. he has shown my children our pics!!!!. our children have no idea who he is, so we can't block his profile. is there any way we can block all single males from seeing our profile until we know who he is so we can then block him?.

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath

What show them to your children.in person or ??

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By *lutandhubby OP Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

yes, he saw our children on a bus and showed them our pics, (very rude ones)!!!

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By *lutandhubby OP Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

"yes, he saw our children on a bus and showed them our pics, (very rude ones)!!!"

((( on his phone )))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes, he saw our children on a bus and showed them our pics, (very rude ones)!!!"

How old are your children?

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

even if you block him he still has your pics

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

First thing to say is how.

Has a randon man walked up to your kids and said here look at these pics? How does he know your kids?

You have full face pics in your main gallery which is very unsafe especially if you have kids.

So sorry to hear your problems.

This man would have to had local knowledge of you all? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Words fail me! How long have you known him?

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By *lutandhubby OP Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

our child is age 14. our son said the guy was logged in to a swinger site.

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By *lutandhubby OP Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

"Words fail me! How long have you known him?"

we don't know who the guy is ! ! !

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Ok.

How does je know they are your kids

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Unfortunately you can't block specific groups from viewing your profile. Best thing to do is to put all your pics into friends only or private and hide your profile.

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By *lutandhubby OP Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

"First thing to say is how.

Has a randon man walked up to your kids and said here look at these pics? How does he know your kids?

You have full face pics in your main gallery which is very unsafe especially if you have kids.

So sorry to hear your problems.

This man would have to had local knowledge of you all? ??"

seems he knows us and our children, but we don't know who he is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He cannot just have been a random guy...and you continue to have full face pics on your profile? Surely if this happened the first thing anyone would do would be to take them off at least?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"our child is age 14. our son said the guy was logged in to a swinger site."

Then you need to speak to the police surely?

I'm pretty sure approaching a random child on a bus and showing them porn on your phone is illegal.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Block all locals. Hide your pics and start thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes this is the bit I'm not understanding, if you don't know who he is, how does he know your child ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"our child is age 14. our son said the guy was logged in to a swinger site.

Then you need to speak to the police surely?

I'm pretty sure approaching a random child on a bus and showing them porn on your phone is illegal. "

Absolutely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"our child is age 14. our son said the guy was logged in to a swinger site.

Then you need to speak to the police surely?

I'm pretty sure approaching a random child on a bus and showing them porn on your phone is illegal. "

Exactly my thoughts on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem to have a stalker. Get the police involved or do your best to find out who he is and let the Mr give him a pasting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you sure that this is the truth? Could it be that your son has discovered that you are on here and he has created this story as his way of bringing it up with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...is why asking for a face pix or having them on your public gallery a dreadful risk to take. Especially when those who demand for one do not have any of themselves.

First, take your facial pictures off the public gallery, send it with your mails or make them available to your friends...

You can then sieve through your friends to know who shouldn't be there.

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By *lutandhubby OP Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

about to hide our face pics now. thanks for the advice guys. xxxxxxxx

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

A stranger approached your children and showed them pornographic images on a bus and you haven't contacted the police?

The fact that these images are of their parents ate beside the point. This is child abuse and possibly even assault. You have a duty of care to your children and in my opinion their safety should override any concerns about your embarrassment.

If he is thinks this is acceptable who know what else he thinks is ok. Paedophiles who groom children often use pornographic images as part of the process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A stranger approached your children and showed them pornographic images on a bus and you haven't contacted the police?

If he is thinks this is acceptable who know what else he thinks is ok. Paedophiles who groom children often use pornographic images as part of the process."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CALL THE POLICE! This is not good he has already approached your son x

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Your avatar is still your faces (at a distances) though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but I would be off here like a shot no kid needs to be in this.

Nette

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By *lutandhubby OP Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

even if we report it to the police we have no idea who he is, so the police can't do anything about it. who ever this guy is has done it just to upset our children!

(we have now put our face pics private)

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"even if we report it to the police we have no idea who he is, so the police can't do anything about it. who ever this guy is has done it just to upset our children!

(we have now put our face pics private)"

He approached them on a bus? Buses have CCTV.

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By *lutandhubby OP Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

"Your avatar is still your faces (at a distances) though x"

(thank you i,ll change it now)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"even if we report it to the police we have no idea who he is, so the police can't do anything about it. who ever this guy is has done it just to upset our children!

(we have now put our face pics private)"

Thought most buses had CCTV now?

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By *lutandhubby OP Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

only a few, as we have a friend who works on the buses. xxxxxxxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I would also advise you to change your username and location, make it more difficult for him to find your profile again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"only a few, as we have a friend who works on the buses. xxxxxxxx"

That's odd, because 20 odd years ago when I lived in the Midlands most Centro buses had CCTV

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry nothing adds up, I wouldn't be on here to be honest, my child's harrasment and shame would come first

Nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry nothing adds up, I wouldn't be on here to be honest, my child's harrasment and shame would come first

Nette"

have to agree. If this really happened my profile would be gone. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeremy Kyle just phoned, he says somethings a bit weird, but you're welcome any time!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Sorry nothing adds up, I wouldn't be on here to be honest, my child's harrasment and shame would come first

Nette"

Children became child and even if the child or children did know who he was it wouldn't help out with finding his profile on here I doubt he goes by his user name in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"even if we report it to the police we have no idea who he is, so the police can't do anything about it. who ever this guy is has done it just to upset our children!

(we have now put our face pics private)"

all buses have cctv now, so the police can use it to find who it is.

they only need to know which bus it was

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"even if we report it to the police we have no idea who he is, so the police can't do anything about it. who ever this guy is has done it just to upset our children!

(we have now put our face pics private)"

Nearly all buses have CCTV, the Police can view these and identify the person approaching your child, all they need is the date time of journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry nothing adds up, I wouldn't be on here to be honest, my child's harrasment and shame would come first

Nette

Children became child and even if the child or children did know who he was it wouldn't help out with finding his profile on here I doubt he goes by his user name in real life.

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none of it makes sense, sorry if they think I'm being nasty, but don't believe a word of it, terrible using a kid

Nette

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By *amamanMan
over a year ago

Inverness and around. ...

"Sorry nothing adds up, I wouldn't be on here to be honest, my child's harrasment and shame would come first

Nette"

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I have to say this is very odd.

West brom well there buses are covered by cctv, and if someone showed my kids porn then I would have rung the police by now and wouldn't be posting it on this forum

I'd have done it in a heart beat to secure the cctv footage and secure if not a conviction but at the very least a warning.

My embarrassment comes no where; in, the keeping my little ones safe & if I thought I'd been outed or picked up a stalker my profile would go quicker than anything you've ever seen in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok heres my personal view on this,if i knew you or where you live i would be reporting YOU to the Police and social services for allowing your Child or Children to be abused by an adult and not reporting it, As a Parent you have a duty of care.

Gary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of it bolloxs read between the lines

Nette

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

"Are you sure that this is the truth? Could it be that your son has discovered that you are on here and he has created this story as his way of bringing it up with you?"

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

"Sorry nothing adds up, I wouldn't be on here to be honest, my child's harrasment and shame would come first

Nette

have to agree. If this really happened my profile would be gone. Simple. "

Agree fully with that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you sure that this is the truth? Could it be that your son has discovered that you are on here and he has created this story as his way of bringing it up with you?"

iam going with this one,or one of his mates has come across it

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Personally, protecting my kids would be far more important than protecting a profile on here.

If you believe that this has happened, it sounds like a matter for the Police as others have said.

Given its a very serious (and illegal) issue its not appropriate for the forums and so Im closing the thread now.

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