FabSwingers.com forum: define bisexuality

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have out on my profile as bi and was asked the other day how that is , now I explained that if I was having a threesome that as well as licking pussy I wouldn't object to licking the cock in front of me either

Now I was then called gay ? :s anyone define bisexuality ?

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath

I take it to mean.you like to have sexual contact with both men and women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something that said narrow minded individual can't get their head round ... Thought the title would be self explanatory? Or they suggesting that only women can go both ways?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I have out on my profile as bi and was asked the other day how that is , now I explained that if I was having a threesome that as well as licking pussy I wouldn't object to licking the cock in front of me either

Now I was then called gay ? :s anyone define bisexuality ?"

Some people don't like bisexuals. We're too gay for the straights, and too straight for the gays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define a few things. Bi playful, bi curious , bisexual.....there are some grey areas for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I was then called gay ? :s anyone define bisexuality ?"

To any half educated person the clue is in the word bisexuality lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I take it to mean.you like to have sexual contact with both men and women"

Yeah I like to dabble in both but much prefer women if faced with the choice

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Bisexuality is if you want to have a relationship with either a man or a woman and want to set up home with them and live happily ever after.

If you want to munch on minge or nosh a cock only, you're still straight

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By *uke2905Man
over a year ago

haverfordwest

"Bisexuality is if you want to have a relationship with either a man or a woman and want to set up home with them and live happily ever after.

If you want to munch on minge or nosh a cock only, you're still straight"

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath

"Bisexuality is if you want to have a relationship with either a man or a woman and want to set up home with them and live happily ever after.

If you want to munch on minge or nosh a cock only, you're still straight"

Yeh keep forgetting plenty of 'straight' guys on here love sucking cock

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Bisexuality is if you want to have a relationship with either a man or a woman and want to set up home with them and live happily ever after.

If you want to munch on minge or nosh a cock only, you're still straight"

You could have,

Straight

Bisexual and

A wee bit squigglysexual

Hmmmmmm it does really roll of the tongue.

Unlike the minge,and the cock.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It will take me years of sexual exploring before I can give a defining answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi playful: happy to play with a woman but have no interest in women. IE quite happy to have the physical feelings of the sexual act but no emotional connection there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm bi playful: happy to play with a woman but have no interest in women. IE quite happy to have the physical feelings of the sexual act but no emotional connection there."

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By *ndymanchester1Man
over a year ago

salford

"Define a few things. Bi playful, bi curious , bisexual.....there are some grey areas for sure"

Great fun terms, but why can't a guy who is genuinely horny open, at ease with his sexuality, is more than happy and comfortable playing with men just be bi sexual! Liking / preference to cock, pussy, oral, anal ...... Is no different to liking / preference in hetrosexualality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reiterate most of what has been said above apart from the piss taking post from _iew

yea you nearly got me there....

Then how does the person accusing you of being gay explain your preferred sexual interest in women

OP it's just as straight forward as you think. Both myself and mrnotts describe our liking for play as you do and we are happy and proud to be bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I define myself as Bisexual, which means that could fall in love and live with either a man or a woman (and I have done both). It's much wider than just the sexual side.

Incidentally, it doesn't mean that want to share both at the same - I like drinking tea, and I like an occasional glass of wine, but mixing them means just a yucky tasteless mess....!!!

I think that for the purpose of Fab etc, the term bi-playful is much better - there are lots of people who like to just dabble sexually, but don't want any emotional connection...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand it covers a broad spectrum of how we all feel but this is the oxford dictionary definition.

noun

a person who is sexually attracted to both men and women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want more info on bi sexuality google is your friend. Try searching for the bi sexual index.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bi is a huge spectrum! for the purpose of here though i would deem it as engaging in sexual activity with either men or women, but as said above truly it means finding both men and women attractive and able to have a relationship with either, basically bi is gay and straight together, but because bi play can be a vast thing here if you describe yourself as bi just write abit in your profile that explains how, no need for gory details but something like "orally bi when with a couple" would suffice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bisexuality is if you want to have a relationship with either a man or a woman and want to set up home with them and live happily ever after.

If you want to munch on minge or nosh a cock only, you're still straight"

Oh dear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its not gay, playful more like and caught up in the moment and not really bisexual unless you like to meet both, that's my opinion anyway

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Right I'm going to be controversial here but it is partly in jest so bare with me.

Bixesuality can be definex as having sexual attraction

to both men and women but could also be considered to include those who have had sexual interaction with both genders.

Now since the entire skin is sometimes classed as an erogenous zone then any skin contact becomes a sexual interact then everyone who has ever touched people of both sexes are bi, basically then everyone is.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

I prefer the term het

exible

i fancy men, want sexual & emotional relationships with men BUT can appreciate another female & have fun sexually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Psychologists say you can't define it (well, sort of)....it is a sliding scale, and everyone has their own likes and dislikes and limits. so there are are a lot of grey areas.

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I'm bi playful: happy to play with a woman but have no interest in women. IE quite happy to have the physical feelings of the sexual act but no emotional connection there."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember reading an article about bisexuality a few years back but can't find it now. Basically it said there were about 10 different sorts of bisexuality and not just the one. Can't remember all of them but they ranged from whether someone was emotionally or sexually attracted to both sexes, whether they could have relationships with either sex, pressure from cirumstances; so like somebody could only be bi in a certain environment e.g prison. It was an interesting read. Will continue my search. Though I just like to think I am just me without a fancy label on.

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Admin can we have a classification of 'Bi-Playful' or 'Bi-Friendly' It would we feel greatly define a lot of people that don't see themselves as bi-curious/sexual. Just enjoying the eroticism when all playing in more than a 1 to 1 scenerio

They might be surprised in the number that would redefine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I remember reading an article about bisexuality a few years back but can't find it now. Basically it said there were about 10 different sorts of bisexuality and not just the one. Can't remember all of them but they ranged from whether someone was emotionally or sexually attracted to both sexes, whether they could have relationships with either sex, pressure from cirumstances; so like somebody could only be bi in a certain environment e.g prison. It was an interesting read. Will continue my search. Though I just like to think I am just me without a fancy label on."

i remember reading something similar from a study in america, there was a 1-10 scale and a study of tens of thousands of hetrosexuals showed between 3-4 was the norm

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"I define myself as Bisexual, which means that could fall in love and live with either a man or a woman (and I have done both). It's much wider than just the sexual side.

Incidentally, it doesn't mean that want to share both at the same - I like drinking tea, and I like an occasional glass of wine, but mixing them means just a yucky tasteless mess....!!!

I think that for the purpose of Fab etc, the term bi-playful is much better - there are lots of people who like to just dabble sexually, but don't want any emotional connection...

Bi playful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I was then called gay ? :s anyone define bisexuality ?

To any half educated person the clue is in the word bisexuality lol"

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

We get this a lot because we like hot, all inclusive threesomes.

We don't hold back and so by definition there is intimate same sex contact but for us that is plain and simply hot and horny and part of the fun.

Labels.... Who needs them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being trisexual...

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By *uestandpinkCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bisexuality is if you want to have a relationship with either a man or a woman and want to set up home with them and live happily ever after.

If you want to munch on minge or nosh a cock only, you're still straight"

Now I really an confused

So I've misclassified myself?

I could never imagine falling in love with a guy. I don't like kissing guys. I don't fuck guys. I'm straight!

I love sucking guys. I love teasing guys. I love using my whole body to seduce guys. I love to be fucked in the ass by them and can't swallow enough cum. I'm gay!

I love a woman. I adore women. They make me horny and I want sex with them. I'm straight!

I'm confused...... Put me in a box quickly someone!

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Try being trisexual...

You mean trysexual.. As in try anything

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By *uestandpinkCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Nail on head...bi playful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I was then called gay ? :s anyone define bisexuality ?

Some people don't like bisexuals. We're too gay for the straights, and too straight for the gays.

One if my 'seriously camp' gay friends told me he doesn't like bi men as they want the best of both worlds and it's not fair to expect to have fun with both sexes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try being trisexual...

You mean trysexual.. As in try anything

Exactly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am down as bisexual, I've had sexual relationships with men and women, although I prefer males, I wouldn't have a 'relationship' with a woman apart from in the bedroom. Boobs rock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I was then called gay ? :s anyone define bisexuality ?

Some people don't like bisexuals. We're too gay for the straights, and too straight for the gays.

One if my 'seriously camp' gay friends told me he doesn't like bi men as they want the best of both worlds and it's not fair to expect to have fun with both sexes"

A gay colleague ( not even remotely camp) looked surprised at something I said in reply and said 'but you're not gay... Are you?' When I said I was Bi he said the above; that I was just greedy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm bi playful: happy to play with a woman but have no interest in women. IE quite happy to have the physical feelings of the sexual act but no emotional connection there."

Oh I like this definition. I can relate ti that. I think many people are bi playful but not bisexual too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm bi playful: happy to play with a woman but have no interest in women. IE quite happy to have the physical feelings of the sexual act but no emotional connection there.

Oh I like this definition. I can relate ti that. I think many people are bi playful but not bisexual too

I never thought of it like that.. I wouldn't want a relationship with a man but have relationships with women so I guess I'm biplayful

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Bisexuality is if you want to have a relationship with either a man or a woman and want to set up home with them and live happily ever after.

If you want to munch on minge or nosh a cock only, you're still straight

Oh dear.

more like pmsl, that's View..

as usual his posts are succinct and guess what written with irony and satire..

he would probably say so hi,self but is too cool..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

OP, its a label..

would worry not a jot about how others deem one to be..

there are many like minded folks to play with and enjoy the company of rather than those who bandy about what they believe are derogatory terminology..

hey ho..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi all Plymouth bi couple here often asked if wouid go with another female from Helen yes if big tits shaven dressed in nice stockings and clothing most woman don't make any effort nude and guys often shy about other guys here on just a meet also getting undressed infrount of other guys like to meet couples and singles no preasure also nick and Helen can play straight too don't have any rules freetodo or not do anything if not for them no problem have had some fun times repect others wishes at all times nick and Helen layed back and put people at ease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about bi for now? Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I was then called gay ? :s anyone define bisexuality ?

To any half educated person the cluye is in the word bisexuality lol"

Splendidly concise and with only a hint of a sneer towards the narrow mindedness that manifests a strong correlation to a dull mind! Bravo!

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By *ealfunCouple
over a year ago

darleston

We too think the term "bi playful" is very appropriate for us and probably many others........maybe Fab could consider adding this description.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I was then called gay ? :s anyone define bisexuality ?

Some people don't like bisexuals. We're too gay for the straights, and too straight for the gays.

We're in a sexual "no (wo)man's land".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been called a "dirty little cock sucker" at a club by a straight couple with an overbearing husband who wouldn't let his wife form her own opinion, I deduce straight men cannot respect a man who would put himself in that subservient position of sucking another mans toilet parts. While when he had other men's wives sucking him he had a smug look that reminded me of Henry viii. Vile.

I appreciate I can't tar all straight guys with the same brush, but it's good to let go of stuff that makes you angry isn't it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And no I hadn't tried it on with him, I had been talking to his wife at the bar.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Now I was then called gay ? :s anyone define bisexuality ?

To any half educated person the clue is in the word bisexuality lol"

...hold on, I'm peeing my panties

...this is Fab! Look at the trillion of bi threads and you'll see the enlightened on here claim you can be buried balls deep in another man's arse, the first eleven of the local rugby team lined up behind you to give you a good rogering but because you don't want to go to Ikea to pick out soft furnishings you're straighter than a Roman road!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Bisexuality is if you want to have a relationship with either a man or a woman and want to set up home with them and live happily ever after.

If you want to munch on minge or nosh a cock only, you're still straight"

There ya go! I love you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I was then called gay ? :s anyone define bisexuality ?"

bisexuality doesn't exist, sexuality isn't set in stone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just hoping swinging and being bi will be enough to ensure I go straight to hell; I'm pretty sure I won't know anybody if I end up going to heaven

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Bisexuality is if you want to have a relationship with either a man or a woman and want to set up home with them and live happily ever after.

If you want to munch on minge or nosh a cock only, you're still straight

Now I really an confused

So I've misclassified myself?

I could never imagine falling in love with a guy. I don't like kissing guys. I don't fuck guys. I'm straight!

I love sucking guys. I love teasing guys. I love using my whole body to seduce guys. I love to be fucked in the ass by them and can't swallow enough cum. I'm gay!

I love a woman. I adore women. They make me horny and I want sex with them. I'm straight!

I'm confused...... Put me in a box quickly someone!"

View is taking the piss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Admin can we have a classification of 'Bi-Playful' or 'Bi-Friendly' It would we feel greatly define a lot of people that don't see themselves as bi-curious/sexual. Just enjoying the eroticism when all playing in more than a 1 to 1 scenerio

They might be surprised in the number that would redefine"

Yes I agree and throw in Hete

exible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Bi curious' is for women that only pretend to be bi to get male attention. And for men that want to fuck the wives of bi men but have no intention of touching another guy's bits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Define a few things. Bi playful, bi curious , bisexual.....there are some grey areas for sure"

I would disagree, being straight does not automatically make you wish to carry out ANY sexual act a n other straight person enjoys. for example I know many straight people who have no interest in anal sex giving or receiving also know some who are obsessed with it.

The definition of Bi is easy:-

There are a percentage of people who only desire sex with those of the opposite gender, we call them straight.

There are a percentage of people who only desire sex with those of the same gender, we call them gay.

Then there are people who desire sex with people of either gender, we call them Bi.

The specific sexual activity they enjoy is still an open book for any of the above categories, that's for profile and meeting discussion, can't really be covered by a tick box.

As for bi-curious v bi-sexual.

There was one occasion where we played with custard and chocolate sauce. Only ever done it with my partner and only ever the once. Didn't not enjoy it, but it was only OK.. would certainly do it again but not often, in my book that makes me sploshing-curious, if I really wanted to repeat the experience quite a lot then I would have to reclassify as sploshing-sexual.

Life is simple in my world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm bi playful: happy to play with a woman but have no interest in women. IE quite happy to have the physical feelings of the sexual act but no emotional connection there.

Oh I like this definition. I can relate ti that. I think many people are bi playful but not bisexual too

There are already 100% more classifications for those who are bi. More would only add to the confusion

As far as only bi if you want a relationship with either gender, does that mean that all the singles on here who are not looking for relationships just NSA sex have to reclassify as A-sexual ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm bi playful: happy to play with a woman but have no interest in women. IE quite happy to have the physical feelings of the sexual act but no emotional connection there.

Oh I like this definition. I can relate ti that. I think many people are bi playful but not bisexual too

There are already 100% more classifications for those who are bi. More would only add to the confusion

As far as only bi if you want a relationship with either gender, does that mean that all the singles on here who are not looking for relationships just NSA sex have to reclassify as A-sexual ?

Yup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or straight-curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I was then called gay ? :s anyone define bisexuality ?"

Sounds like you were having a conversation with a twelve year old who logged in on their parents profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or straight-curious.

straight-playful?

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

From a straight male's point of _iew, any sexual interaction with two males is gay, even if there is a lady involved.

From a gay male's point of _iew, any sexual interaction between to males is gay, but if said males also enjoy sexual encounters with either women on their own or in an mmf scenario then that is Bi.

It would seem that straight men treat bisexuals as gay and don't want to play with with them.

It's up to every individual what there boundaries are and what they are happy to do and not do.

It is also nobody else's business to criticize other peoples choices.

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By *ngelbiTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Dyserth, North Wales

bisexual is someone who plays with both men and women.

Simples

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"Bisexuality is if you want to have a relationship with either a man or a woman and want to set up home with them and live happily ever after.

If you want to munch on minge or nosh a cock only, you're still straight"

Really?? I love to be with men and ladies sexually but would only want a relationship with man. But that would make me straight in your eyes! I think while I am being intimate with a lady that makes me very bi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I define myself as Bisexual, which means that could fall in love and live with either a man or a woman (and I have done both). It's much wider than just the sexual side.

Incidentally, it doesn't mean that want to share both at the same - I like drinking tea, and I like an occasional glass of wine, but mixing them means just a yucky tasteless mess....!!!

I think that for the purpose of Fab etc, the term bi-playful is much better - there are lots of people who like to just dabble sexually, but don't want any emotional connection...

Best so far

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *mo-amas-amatMan
over a year ago

brighton

A bisexual person, defined:

When eating a breakfast, you'll find

That they butter their toast

With more vigour than most

And they eat both the bacon AND rind.....

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By *enny PR9TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport

It quite simple...

I'm gay, straight or bisexual.....

It all depends on who I'm having sex with at the time as to which group I want to slip into.

Jenny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having been called a "dirty little cock sucker" at a club by a straight couple with an overbearing husband who wouldn't let his wife form her own opinion, I deduce straight men cannot respect a man who would put himself in that subservient position of sucking another mans toilet parts. While when he had other men's wives sucking him he had a smug look that reminded me of Henry viii. Vile.

I appreciate I can't tar all straight guys with the same brush, but it's good to let go of stuff that makes you angry isn't it!"

if only for your use of the word vile.

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

Now I was then called gay ? :s anyone define bisexuality ?"

I just don't know why U need to know you are what you are

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Why define yourself? Just be who you are. One word cannot define any person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I was then called gay ? :s anyone define bisexuality ?"

Pure sexual Greed ....lol

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"Why define yourself? Just be who you are. One word cannot define any person."

.....but you define yourself as a man and a woman. I don't suppose you had much worry ticking that box. Its a fact.

I dislike it when people don't like to put a word to it. When its perfectly easy to and people normally do.

When it comes to sexuality you either sre straight where you have no interest in the same sex, so no touching sexually. ... or you like to touch and be sexual with the same sex. Yes people wish to call it straight bi gay or then the bi playful stuff and bi god knows what else they call it. I just don't see what the problem is putting a name to it. I never quite understand why people can't be honest with who they are and wjat they want.

Sorry. Having a rant lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why define yourself? Just be who you are. One word cannot define any person.

.....but you define yourself as a man and a woman. I don't suppose you had much worry ticking that box. Its a fact.

I dislike it when people don't like to put a word to it. When its perfectly easy to and people normally do.

Sorry. Having a rant lol"

And I would add that unless you're only here to chat and have the odd perv at other profiles, then you need to state what you're into and a good bit of information is your sexuality. If you're a man and you like sex with men, putting straight isn't going to work.

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By *honda19TV/TS
over a year ago

WIRRAL

i prefer a term i read on another site....metrosexual...it covers a multitude of sins!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i prefer a term i read on another site....metrosexual...it covers a multitude of sins!

But that word has already been accepted into the dictionary and refers to hetrosexual males, so how does that describe someone who enjoys sex with both genders from time to time? I am quite fond of the word Constantinople, but if J was to describe her self as Constantinople doesn't really let on that she likes licking pussy almost as much as sucking cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I was then called gay ? :s anyone define bisexuality ?

Some people don't like bisexuals. We're too gay for the straights, and too straight for the gays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fuck me,how many times does this really need 'debating'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"fuck me,how many times does this really need 'debating'?"

Officially all swingers sites must have an average of two debates running until 18 years after the universe explodes again, dating sites have to have a minimum of 4. however website forums dedicated to car mechanics fishing or rat catching only have to have 2 per year until the year before the universe explodes.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

To me it simply means a sexual attraction to both sexes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bisexuality is if you want to have a relationship with either a man or a woman and want to set up home with them and live happily ever after.

If you want to munch on minge or nosh a cock only, you're still straight

Yeh keep forgetting plenty of 'straight' guys on here love sucking cock

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Why define yourself? Just be who you are. One word cannot define any person.

.....but you define yourself as a man and a woman. I don't suppose you had much worry ticking that box. Its a fact.

I dislike it when people don't like to put a word to it. When its perfectly easy to and people normally do.

Sorry. Having a rant lol"

My point was not that you should not attempt to describe it, it was a wider point that these individual aspects do not singularly define who we are. Being male is insufficient to describe me. Or any other male.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"fuck me,how many times does this really need 'debating'?"

New people come and go and want to take part in the debate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't actively seek cock and an not pro-actively bi.

I just don't mind who plays with mine and, in the heat of the moment have been known to return the favour.

I am not bi, no longer curious, i guess I am just flexible.

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess, if you like both, then you are bi.

it just depends on the individual exactly how bi you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you like cock and cock exclusively and are not a woman you are gay

If you like cock and pussy and are a man or a woman you are bi

If you are a man who likes pussy but sometimes strays into the cock dept you are bi

If you like pussy and pussy exclusively and are a man you are straight

If you like pussy and pussy exclusively and are a man but don't run away screaming if there is an accidental cock to cock moment during DP you are still straight

Think that covers it lol

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you like cock and cock exclusively and are not a woman you are gay

If you like cock and pussy and are a man or a woman you are bi

If you are a man who likes pussy but sometimes strays into the cock dept you are bi

If you like pussy and pussy exclusively and are a man you are straight

If you like pussy and pussy exclusively and are a man but don't run away screaming if there is an accidental cock to cock moment during DP you are still straight

If you're someone who doesn't quite fit any of the above, then you're an individual free-spirit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're someone who doesn't quite fit any of the above, then you're an individual free-spirit

A person who doesn't like either cock or pussy would possibly be a monk or a nun, or more likely a non English speaker who will have different words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're someone who doesn't quite fit any of the above, then you're an individual free-spirit

A person who doesn't like either cock or pussy would possibly be a monk or a nun, or more likely a non English speaker who will have different words

wouldnt that be asexual, rather than having to be religious?

although i would question the sense of someone that has no interest in either being on a swinging site lol

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"Officially all swingers sites must have an average of two debates running until 18 years after the universe explodes again, dating sites have to have a minimum of 4. however website forums dedicated to car mechanics fishing or rat catching only have to have 2 per year until the year before the universe explodes.

Another UNLOS who gave me a chuckle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bisexuality is if you want to have a relationship with either a man or a woman and want to set up home with them and live happily ever after.

If you want to munch on minge or nosh a cock only, you're still straight"

I agree with this and define myself as straight but have and would play with a woman in a group situation. I asked thE same question a few weeks back and got told 'your not straight your bisexual'

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"Bisexuality is if you want to have a relationship with either a man or a woman and want to set up home with them and live happily ever after.

If you want to munch on minge or nosh a cock only, you're still straight

I agree with this and define myself as straight but have and would play with a woman in a group situation. I asked thE same question a few weeks back and got told 'your not straight your bisexual' "

I'd say that wasn't straight, but hetero-flexible...

But within the fab confines, Bi curious.

I've zero interest in a relationship with a guy - But I'm very much Bisexual.

Bi-Sex-ual... But hetero-emotional.

Although, I am more than happy to get TS-sex-ual too... So... yeah... Slippery slope

Flames

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

Andover

Now I was then called gay ? :s anyone define bisexuality ?

Some people don't like bisexuals. We're too gay for the straights, and too straight for the gays.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

Andover

Defining a precise point on a very long line is quite tricky.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bisexuality is if you want to have a relationship with either a man or a woman and want to set up home with them and live happily ever after.

If you want to munch on minge or nosh a cock only, you're still straight

I agree with this and define myself as straight but have and would play with a woman in a group situation. I asked thE same question a few weeks back and got told 'your not straight your bisexual'

I'd say that wasn't straight, but hetero-flexible...

But within the fab confines, Bi curious.

I've zero interest in a relationship with a guy - But I'm very much Bisexual.

Bi-Sex-ual... But hetero-emotional.

Although, I am more than happy to get TS-sex-ual too... So... yeah... Slippery slope

Flames

I have a kink for hot masculine/athletic men either straight or bisexual curios playfully etc, that cross dresses in beautiful underwear so what would that be defined as? Most TV/TS that I come across are only wanting men I've found one on here and he is sexy as hell in boy mode and beautiful in girl mode.

I get myself all confused sometimes, (dosent take much)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take it to mean.you like to have sexual contact with both men and women"

Yes, I don't think it is over-complicated, or open to interpretation.

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

I did laugh at a Radio 4 comedy thing the other day, about a woman on there making a joke about being Bisexual.

In that, lazily, she defines outwardly as gay, as it means the women will know she's interested, and that men will try harder.

It did make me laugh in it's slightly painful trueism.

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"I have a kink for hot masculine/athletic men either straight or bisexual curios playfully etc, that cross dresses in beautiful underwear so what would that be defined as? Most TV/TS that I come across are only wanting men I've found one on here and he is sexy as hell in boy mode and beautiful in girl mode.

I get myself all confused sometimes, (dosent take much)

Yeah, we've got a friend like that in terms of boy / girl mode....

And sounds like a great kink

But I guess it's a "Happy Go Lucky Sexual"

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