FabSwingers.com forum: Do we wait to be asked or go ahead and invite couples?

By *incolnLovers2 OP Couple
over a year ago

lincoln

All we want is fun

6 couples...or more

A big pile up on our floor is a horny thought! But trying to achieve that can be a difficult thing so do we wait for couples to ask us if they can come or do we go ahead and hand pick couples and ask them? We've had a few parties in the past, bigger parties so a few couples and couple select single guys making it a smaller party could be fun :D xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All we want is fun

6 couples...or more

Hand pick because that way you must like what you seen already.

If folk cannot meet at least you know. Take charge of it or you could be waiting.

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Shame we are not closer as it would be something we might like to explore and join in with

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By *angerpointCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

If I were you I would say get inviting. At least that way you have already seen something interesting to you whether its their pics or profile. Often makes conversations easy that way too.

Good Luck xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup invite only talk to the people that you want and make it clear what your after that way you all know what is going on and theres no awkwardness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would say definitely invite.

also, some will insist on asking who is going.

this can be a troublesome part because you cant really say who will or wont go until the night

maybe put the names of those who have said they are coming on your profile, i dont know.

we never let anyone else know, we just said they were all couples that we liked the look of, and they liked us, so at least they all had that in common lol

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By *ubybabyCouple
over a year ago

lincoln ish

Deffo invites only that way your still in charge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invite the ones you want. Let them know who is invited. Sometimes one of the couples might have an issue with someone else, so it's better to know before the night. At least you'll know in advance that everyone likes each other. Also gives them chance to mail each other and chat beforehand.

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

"Invite the ones you want. Let them know who is invited. Sometimes one of the couples might have an issue with someone else, so it's better to know before the night. At least you'll know in advance that everyone likes each other. Also gives them chance to mail each other and chat beforehand. "

This is what we did a couple of years ago...we invited couples who we had met before plus some who we had been speaking to who we thought would fit in well....everyone turned up 5 couples...what a night!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shame we are not closer as it would be something we might like to explore and join in with

xx"

Ditto! Hope you fulfil your wish x

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

We have out a few meets up in the past and get nothing so you are probably better off hand picking your couples and inviting them. At least you will get a yes, no or maybe lol

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