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8 days to go should i stay or should I go im in Kent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anyone help ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone help ??"

8 days to go where?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

?????? Anyone else from Kent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On here lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello hello hello lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

There's only you that can make this decision. There are about 12 threads like this a month at the least and they seldom lead to anything positive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh right thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Become a silver site supporter for a fiver, who knows the future

Nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats happening in 8 days to mean you cant be on here anymore?

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By *erbMan
over a year ago

SHEFFIELD

Careful, the vultures circle threads like this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been a silver member but had no luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of fluck why have we gotta leave Kent in 8 days??

What's happening in 8 days?

Ppsstt do I need to spread the word?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No no my membership is up and Im not sure if to stay or go lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of fluck why have we gotta leave Kent in 8 days??

What's happening in 8 days?

Ppsstt do I need to spread the word? "

that mean you can come back home? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Careful, the vultures circle threads like this!"

Hahaha don't they just lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choose hop picking then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it matters one iota what kind of member you are. Let your membership elapse but stay on the site and concentrate on looking around, seeing how it all works and how best to maximise your profile if you feel its not working for you.

Tina said it best above, these threads don't usually end well as the vast majority of people don't know you. To be brutally frank, unless you've been a long-time contributor to the forums, they don't really care either way and why should they?

Give it another wee while as it's definitely worth it once you make that break through but bear in mind that as a single guy, like it or not, you'll have to work a fuck-sight harder to get make a success of Fab.

Good luck though with whatever you decide to do fella!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide your profile and take a break for a bit, see how you feel then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh right thanks for all your reply s and take care x

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

nottinghamshire

in 8 days does Kent vanish for 100 years brigadoon style?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Night all

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Right, let's have a look at your profile:

Hi there well I'm Steve from Canterbury im just a regular fella who is new to all this in fact I'm a swinging virgin looking for couples and single females for fun and regular friendship lol x I travel to Cheltenham every 2/3 Sundays to see my children so would like to see if there is anyone who lives there as well xx

First off, don't say that you are a swinging virgin, as not many people want to hold someone's hand. They'd rather meet someone who knows the score and is confident. Fun and regular friendship, to me, imply you are looking for a relationship. Not everyone on here is. The majority aren't.

You say you can't accommodate, that is fine, but to many people, this means wife, mum and dad, 3 bodies in the fridge etc. Try and say why you can't accommodate. In fact try to sell yourself. Give a few reasons why you are fun to meet. Why SHOULD couple pick you over 94,000 other guys?

Photos - you have a face pic, that should be used as your avatar, as there are unreal numbers of cock pic avatars. It's not a bad pic, either in that you don't look like you are on a wanted poster or know why 17 people in Kent are unaccounted for. Lost the cock pics. It is a nice cock, but nothing spectacular; we can take it as read that you have a cock and that nothing green is seeping out the end. Replace it with pics of you in clothes, some out of clothes, some outdoors, a token funny one, one dressed up as if you were going on a date. AVOID sky remotes, toilets and socks (Popeye has a licence for his socks) in your pics.

Participate in the forums. Get to know people here. Go to clubs and socials. Think long term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The end of the world is nigh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right, let's have a look at your profile:

Hi there well I'm Steve from Canterbury im just a regular fella who is new to all this in fact I'm a swinging virgin looking for couples and single females for fun and regular friendship lol x I travel to Cheltenham every 2/3 Sundays to see my children so would like to see if there is anyone who lives there as well xx

First off, don't say that you are a swinging virgin, as not many people want to hold someone's hand. They'd rather meet someone who knows the score and is confident. Fun and regular friendship, to me, imply you are looking for a relationship. Not everyone on here is. The majority aren't.

You say you can't accommodate, that is fine, but to many people, this means wife, mum and dad, 3 bodies in the fridge etc. Try and say why you can't accommodate. In fact try to sell yourself. Give a few reasons why you are fun to meet. Why SHOULD couple pick you over 94,000 other guys?

Photos - you have a face pic, that should be used as your avatar, as there are unreal numbers of cock pic avatars. It's not a bad pic, either in that you don't look like you are on a wanted poster or know why 17 people in Kent are unaccounted for. Lost the cock pics. It is a nice cock, but nothing spectacular; we can take it as read that you have a cock and that nothing green is seeping out the end. Replace it with pics of you in clothes, some out of clothes, some outdoors, a token funny one, one dressed up as if you were going on a date. AVOID sky remotes, toilets and socks (Popeye has a licence for his socks) in your pics.

Participate in the forums. Get to know people here. Go to clubs and socials. Think long term.

"

Where would we be without your wit and wisdom?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right, let's have a look at your profile:

Hi there well I'm Steve from Canterbury im just a regular fella who is new to all this in fact I'm a swinging virgin looking for couples and single females for fun and regular friendship lol x I travel to Cheltenham every 2/3 Sundays to see my children so would like to see if there is anyone who lives there as well xx

First off, don't say that you are a swinging virgin, as not many people want to hold someone's hand. They'd rather meet someone who knows the score and is confident. Fun and regular friendship, to me, imply you are looking for a relationship. Not everyone on here is. The majority aren't.

You say you can't accommodate, that is fine, but to many people, this means wife, mum and dad, 3 bodies in the fridge etc. Try and say why you can't accommodate. In fact try to sell yourself. Give a few reasons why you are fun to meet. Why SHOULD couple pick you over 94,000 other guys?

Photos - you have a face pic, that should be used as your avatar, as there are unreal numbers of cock pic avatars. It's not a bad pic, either in that you don't look like you are on a wanted poster or know why 17 people in Kent are unaccounted for. Lost the cock pics. It is a nice cock, but nothing spectacular; we can take it as read that you have a cock and that nothing green is seeping out the end. Replace it with pics of you in clothes, some out of clothes, some outdoors, a token funny one, one dressed up as if you were going on a date. AVOID sky remotes, toilets and socks (Popeye has a licence for his socks) in your pics.

Participate in the forums. Get to know people here. Go to clubs and socials. Think long term.

"

How do you fit 3 bodies in a fridge? I struggle to get my weekly shop in mine lol

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By *fyouinsistMan
over a year ago

bury st edmunds

Oh no, shall I cancel my visit to Kent next week. I'm not going there if it's going to disappear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


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How do you fit 3 bodies in a fridge? I struggle to get my weekly shop in mine lol"

Serial killers are notoriously creative with dismembered bodies.... think Tesco Lasagne.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just need to know if Kent's going to disappear of the planet and leave a tiny black hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've paid my £5, now where's my shag, is that it in a nutshell?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No not at all I wanted to get some advice on what to do and how was best to get to meet people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should leave, the less single guys on here the better (for me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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How do you fit 3 bodies in a fridge? I struggle to get my weekly shop in mine lol

Serial killers are notoriously creative with dismembered bodies.... think Tesco Lasagne. "

I was thinking more Tetris rather than lasagne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure there's a social coming up in Kent soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To all ditherers. Just go, gives us stayers a better chance.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bloody fiver, splash out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What with all the Scotland stay/go bollox nobody noticed that Kent held a referendum and decided to declare itself independent of Suffolk, the bridges are now patrolled by the Kings Kent southeast Highlanders...9-5 weekday half day Saturday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not at all I wanted to get some advice on what to do and how was best to get to meet people"

theres a social at eureaka 21st, go spread yourself about meet and chat.

kent social eureakas you will need to put your name down soon tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not at all I wanted to get some advice on what to do and how was best to get to meet people

theres a social at eureaka 21st, go spread yourself about meet and chat.

kent social eureakas you will need to put your name down soon tho"

ooops typo its 25th not 21st

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all ditherers. Just go, gives us stayers a better chance....."

dont think, him being in kent, will eat into your potential meets there fella lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just need to know if Kent's going to disappear of the planet and leave a tiny black hole

"

The Thames is going to disappear and you are going to integrate with Essex and become Kentsex Ruby (Hotruby)

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

if you leave you will never know

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Alright, you've amended the pics; it's an improvement. What about the blurb? Are you keeping it, or contemplating developing it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously:

1, Do a search on the forums for profile advice, nothing inherently wrong with yours... but nothing right either.

2, Drag your arse into a social or three get known.

3, Get involved in the forums, stop posting "anyone in Kent" and start chatting.

Your decision on stay or go, not seen the quality or quantity of the messages you may have sent, but there is a low success rate for single guys messaging which is boosted massively by an entertaining profile.

Good luck whatever you decide.

UnSeriously

Don't let the door hit your arse on the way out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone help ??"

GO, plenty of men, so you wouldn't be missed

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Can anyone help ??"

My advice is to take TinaTitz advice. I bet you stay even when the 8 days are up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't care less.......dull dull dull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't care less.......dull dull dull"

and yet you commented.

aww, you will miss him wont you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't care less.......dull dull dull

and yet you commented.

aww, you will miss him wont you"

miss who?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Evening tina I've changed some of it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the title was a remix of a clash song !!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Evening tina I've changed some of it lol"

It's better, but could still stand improvement and punctuation, but see how it goes xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks again Tina for the advice

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