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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been seening a lady for a few weeks now and things are going well. So do I - A. delete my Fab profile and concentrate soley on my lady friend or - B. risk mentioning the site and seeing if she would be interested in the swinging scene.

P.s I haven't had any meets on fab since seeing this lady before the finger pointing and tutting starts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think a few weeks is long enough really. hide your profile for now until you have had more time to develop any potential relationship.

once you know shes a keeper then discuss fantasies and see how she reacts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide your profile, you can always come back to it if you later decide to introduce her to the scene but concentrate on real life first and foremost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont think a few weeks is long enough really. hide your profile for now until you have had more time to develop any potential relationship.

once you know shes a keeper then discuss fantasies and see how she reacts."

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

give fab a break focus on getting to know each other . Maybe you might decide to stop swinging or with time you gain trust and confidence in each other then bring up fab.if.u want to continue. good luck mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

delete, you're only losing an old verification.

If it doesn't work out then it's easy to return.

Alternatively hide your profile.

As for telling the lady about swinging, choose your moment carefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts too. A few weeks isn't long enough to know if this is going anywhere and also a bit quick to say, 'hey, fancy swinging with me'

Well it would be for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you answered your own question if you think about it

I would say get off here establish your relationship with her, let it grow and see where it goes you will soon find out if your open and honest with each other if you want to share yourselves with others, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would either hide your profile if you used it only for meets. If you use it socially, I personally do not see the need to hide or delete, just mention on your profile your change in circumstances and that you are no longer meeting etc.

It's your profile and your relationshio, do what you feel is right xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers for the advice folks. I think I will take that break and see where things go. Although I do like having a good old read of the Forums lol.

Enjoy and stay safe people x

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire


"I've been seening a lady for a few weeks now and things are going well. So do I - A. delete my Fab profile and concentrate soley on my lady friend or - B. risk mentioning the site and seeing if she would be interested in the swinging scene.

P.s I haven't had any meets on fab since seeing this lady before the finger pointing and tutting starts

"

Oh wow what a hunk mmmmmmmmmm, sorry my mind was wandering then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this same problem... started seeing a guy and told him straight off.... the main reason for this is because if you wait longer do you really think they will believe you that you haven't met anyone from the site or have been faithful... Tell her... or delete the profile and if you do decide to talk to her about it further down the line and you want to join together you create a new couples profile. xx

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Cheers for the advice folks. I think I will take that break and see where things go. Although I do like having a good old read of the Forums lol.

Enjoy and stay safe people x "

Hiding doesn't stop you using the forums!

Just remember to put all filters on to stop messages and put all your pics in private!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers for the advice folks. I think I will take that break and see where things go. Although I do like having a good old read of the Forums lol.

Enjoy and stay safe people x "

I'm not meeting at present so have hidden my profile but like you, love the forums so still browse them with profile safely hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see any dilemma!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been seening a lady for a few weeks now and things are going well. So do I - A. delete my Fab profile and concentrate soley on my lady friend or - B. risk mentioning the site and seeing if she would be interested in the swinging scene.

P.s I haven't had any meets on fab since seeing this lady before the finger pointing and tutting starts

"

Fab isn't going anywhere, your friend could do a runner, make a go of your friendship and work on it becoming a relationship, if that's what you are after. Swinging seems to be for people in a relationship, looking for sex to keep a boring relationship going.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I've been seening a lady for a few weeks now and things are going well. So do I - A. delete my Fab profile and concentrate soley on my lady friend or - B. risk mentioning the site and seeing if she would be interested in the swinging scene.

P.s I haven't had any meets on fab since seeing this lady before the finger pointing and tutting starts

Fab isn't going anywhere, your friend could do a runner, make a go of your friendship and work on it becoming a relationship, if that's what you are after. Swinging seems to be for people in a relationship, looking for sex to keep a boring relationship going."

Wowwww!!!!!Hellooooo!!! Assumption time - both of us speak zulu and can neither understand this statement nor feel the humour bellied within it!!! Ohhh my my my!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

. Swinging seems to be for people in a relationship, looking for sex to keep a boring relationship going.

Totally disagree with this statement. we have a very good satisfying sex life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete m8, as said before it's only losing an old verie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not a couple who are bored with each other at all. We have been into this sort of thing from the beginning of our relationship. We spoke about it on one of our first dates together. Then done it a few years later.we have been a couple for almost 15 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hide your profile, you can always come back to it if you later decide to introduce her to the scene but concentrate on real life first and foremost "

I would say this

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn


"I've been seening a lady for a few weeks now and things are going well. So do I - A. delete my Fab profile and concentrate soley on my lady friend or - B. risk mentioning the site and seeing if she would be interested in the swinging scene.

P.s I haven't had any meets on fab since seeing this lady before the finger pointing and tutting starts

"

I have to be honest and say if I was this woman I would be furious if you mentioned swinging so soon. I would wonder if you are looking for a partner or a swing partner so you no longer have single guy status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging seems to be for people in a relationship, looking for sex to keep a boring relationship going."

Poppycock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been seening a lady for a few weeks now and things are going well. So do I - A. delete my Fab profile and concentrate soley on my lady friend or - B. risk mentioning the site and seeing if she would be interested in the swinging scene.

P.s I haven't had any meets on fab since seeing this lady before the finger pointing and tutting starts

"

Hide your profile and put all your attention into her at this stage. If you feel someone is that important to you that you may be considering packing the scene in then more than likley they are and so deserve 100% of your attention. So good luck and hope it works out if thats what you want.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"I've been seening a lady for a few weeks now and things are going well. So do I - A. delete my Fab profile and concentrate soley on my lady friend or - B. risk mentioning the site and seeing if she would be interested in the swinging scene.

P.s I haven't had any meets on fab since seeing this lady before the finger pointing and tutting starts

"

Mention at somepoint 'online dating' and see how that floats, is she questions you be honest and say 'I'm on a few sex sites as I'm single'. As you dont know how serious a relationship it is with her tell her you'll delete them - if not it may gain interest or discussion of how she has met people

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"i dont think a few weeks is long enough really. hide your profile for now until you have had more time to develop any potential relationship.

once you know shes a keeper then discuss fantasies and see how she reacts.

This! "

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