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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am all in favour of the wink facility on here, i think it is a great and fun way of displaying mutual attraction.

What does everyone else think?

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"I am all in favour of the wink facility on here, i think it is a great and fun way of displaying mutual attraction.

What does everyone else think?"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't respond to a wink...i do check out their profile when I have one, but even if they match my criteria, i dismiss them for the sheer laziness of not having messaged me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a wink is good.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

A nod's as good as a wink.

So where is our nod button?!?

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By *kblokenorthMan
over a year ago

Any


"A nod's as good as a wink.

So where is our nod button?!?"

"Nod"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really look at the winks folder at all !! Sometimes when I am reading someones veri's or see a post on here - I'll click on the profile and see the persons winked at me - that sometimes encourages me to message.

I must say I use it to wink at guys - I think guys check their winks more ? I usually get a response !! X

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We use winks as an indication that we like someones profile and would like to get to know them better, the cyber equivalent of the "smile across a crowded room".

I think its actually better to wink than to clutter up their inbox, they can check us out, if there's a mutual interest then the messages can start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We use winks as an indication that we like someones profile and would like to get to know them better, the cyber equivalent of the "smile across a crowded room".

That's so true

I think its actually better to wink than to clutter up their inbox, they can check us out, if there's a mutual interest then the messages can start. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We use winks as an indication that we like someones profile and would like to get to know them better, the cyber equivalent of the "smile across a crowded room".

I think its actually better to wink than to clutter up their inbox, they can check us out, if there's a mutual interest then the messages can start. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink is the same as a smile in a social setting. If you get a smile back the you could go over and say hello, or in this case a wink back means they could be interested, so send a message and see if you have grounds to take it further.

If you see it anyother way, then that's your issue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I wouldn't respond to a wink...i do check out their profile when I have one, but even if they match my criteria, i dismiss them for the sheer laziness of not having messaged me "

I don't think it is laziness, its just like smiling at someone to signify interest. if there is mutual attraction then the messaging can start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I wouldn't respond to a wink...i do check out their profile when I have one, but even if they match my criteria, i dismiss them for the sheer laziness of not having messaged me "

So why not just wink back. Some people use the wink to see if your interested without u having to read mail. Then if u show an interest back will send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its lazy...its my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am all in favour of the wink facility on here, i think it is a great and fun way of displaying mutual attraction.

What does everyone else think?"

I wink because non paying members wouldn't know I have viewed their profile, its the only way to see if and who has looked at you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always flattering to receive a wink across a crowded room

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire


"I am all in favour of the wink facility on here, i think it is a great and fun way of displaying mutual attraction.

What does everyone else think?"

Hate the damn things, i prefer a guy to message me, winks are sheer lazy, in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are just way too many winkers here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we often send a wink to someones profile if we like what we see

often get a wink back, so then start messaging them, and see where it goes

think its a good thing

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

I agree. I winked at someone last night and it looks like I've scored!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the winks... when I receive one if I dont like the persons profile ill ignore the wink.... I think its much easier that way than reading a message and replying with a no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone uses this site and its features in a way that suits them...if we were all the same we'd be a utopian society like the people of Logans Run and and executed when we reached that age...hear hear for difference, variety, and the spice of life!

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"I think a wink is good. "

+1

Saves me having to do a polite thanks but no message

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