FabSwingers.com forum: is swinging normal?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When does all this get boring for couples? We as a couple got bored of it all and realised that we just like to be intimate with each other. Now my bloke is just swinging alone for a couple of months then leaving this place. Any other couples in same boat whose got disalusaned with this place

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

What's "normal"?

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Guess you just went out to fuck others and didn't enjoy the Attraction of the people and the enjoyment of the thrill of seeing your partner loving eyes as another had sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not at all we never swapped or did anything. Too busy with life and grew up

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Not at all we never swapped or did anything. Too busy with life and grew up"

Well guess that answer it all, probably were never comfortable in playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not at all we never swapped or did anything. Too busy with life and grew up"

Well it sounds like it clearly wasn't for you to start with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it ain't your cuppa tea, no point in still stirring the sugar. You've dipped your tea bag, and now it's time to chuck it in the bin.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wrong we held a party in jan last yr 40 couples came we were too busy making sure that everyone was enjoying themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not at all we never swapped or did anything. Too busy with life and grew up"

You got a lot of veris. Did you meet all those people as a single guy and not do anything. Just wondering

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"When does all this get boring for couples? We as a couple got bored of it all and realised that we just like to be intimate with each other. Now my bloke is just swinging alone for a couple of months then leaving this place. Any other couples in same boat whose got disalusaned with this place

great profile!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think saying u grew up is a little bit low to be honest.People of all walks of life, holding down jobs(some in very high places)enjoy this lifestyle...they certainly dont need to 'grow up'-perhaps they have done all that growing up,wore the Tshirt,and now just like fun?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on and off here 6yrs as a couple and single so seen both sides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Growing old is compulsory... Growing up is optional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So your a woman posting from a single males profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not at all we never swapped or did anything. Too busy with life and grew up"

So the rest of us on here aren't grown up? What an insulting comment!

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Looking at your other thread, I think you are just out to wind people up tonight.

If you grew up maybe you should act like it.

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I think saying u grew up is a little bit low to be honest.People of all walks of life, holding down jobs(some in very high places)enjoy this lifestyle...they certainly dont need to 'grow up'-perhaps they have done all that growing up,wore the Tshirt,and now just like fun?"

Totally agree, We have met some great couples, really grown up and like us have work life separate but very responsible.

See he is still playing, wonder if its just him wanting to fuck females but wife not.

sounds like a recipe for something wrong in their relationship.

Just more acceptable to her than him in an affair

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Been on and off here 6yrs as a couple and single so seen both sides"

And now comes all the regrets when you're shagless.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Been on and off here 6yrs as a couple and single so seen both sides

And now comes all the regrets when you're shagless.

(heh)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose he has a couple months to grow up eh............................

cant believe i missed that bit.....

tell him no?

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

another troll bites the dust!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"another troll bites the dust!

might still be shagging lots fat birds in the next few months....

*NB other thread lol

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I heard the wooooosh from here. Pfff does my head in when people come on and bark shite like this, knowing they are leaving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"another troll bites the dust!

Was it something we said ?!

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I heard the wooooosh from here. Pfff does my head in when people come on and bark shite like this, knowing they are leaving.

Well it at least takes another time waster off the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"another troll bites the dust!

might still be shagging lots fat birds in the next few months....

*NB other thread lol"

Think his mate has taken over on that one

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"I heard the wooooosh from here. Pfff does my head in when people come on and bark shite like this, knowing they are leaving.

Well it at least takes another time waster off the site"

and not to mention the ambience he fills a room with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he has a valid point?

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

hes back with his other profile!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Maybe he has a valid point?"

well seen as his profile said "this sit is shite!" and nothing else..... you might be mistaken

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

*site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he has a valid point?"

maybe he was an arsehole?-thats MUCH more valid, and thats not me pandering to any group.Comments like that are just fucking ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he has a valid point?"

What point? Didn't think he made one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he has a valid point?"

be interesting how u view ur meet verification..after all...she is a bit older...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he has a valid point?

be interesting how u view ur meet verification..after all...she is a bit older..."

But she's only met 'one half' of the MM profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he has a valid point?

be interesting how u view ur meet verification..after all...she is a bit older...

But she's only met 'one half' of the MM profile! "

the other cant get away from the bird

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Missed something? ?

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

When i was little i wouldnt eat brussel sprouts , now i do, Am i normal ??

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Swinging just allows natural urges to want to have erotic pleasures with different people acceptable without the constraints of imposed attitudes of society. If more people accepted it a normal there would be less heart ache of people having affairs. Its not the act of an affair that hurts but the deceit.

We don't see playing with others as cheating as we are both there enjoying the erotic atmosphere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he has a valid point?"

The point being that we are not grown up...that would include you two also...are you not grown up either then?

Perhaps you should think before you speak on here...the people that you are slating are the very people you are here to meet, and as you've already wound many up on the fat women thread then your chances of having further meets with any of the people on here are narrowing every day, just like your attitude

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By *orflondonerMan
over a year ago

Wood Green

Is Swinging normal?

For me yes and for many others.

For a lot of people, no.

You have to remember there are still people about that wont have sex with the light on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no its not normal which attracts people to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its not the norm, but neither is Sky diving...its bloody enjoyable though !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No its not the norm, but neither is Sky diving...its bloody enjoyable though !

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For some who have been at it over 15 years it can be , As done most things seen most things so maybe if only been in it year or two or five years its still feels new .All things are boring if you do too much as it stops being special.

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