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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Eeek! We have organised our first party for Saturday!!! Any tips or hints for making a successful party?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Some games to break the ice, not too much food, turn the heating off when enough people have arrived and make sure your house is easy to find. You don't want 5 people going to your neighbours asking if it is no 10 and announcing they are here for the swinging party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax. Don't worry about what may/may not happen - it probably will/won't!

Hide any breakables, put no entry signs on doors to rooms you don't want used. Buy disposable plates/glasses, tissues, wet wipes etc. - and put bins in any rooms where play may occur.

Other than that - have fun.

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford


"Eeek! We have organised our first party for Saturday!!! Any tips or hints for making a successful party? "

Invite us!

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By *ausage and sizzleCouple
over a year ago

Barnstaple

Make sure there's a good mix of people who all like similar things and that are likely to fancy each other. Nothing worse someone who feels left out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Eeek! We have organised our first party for Saturday!!! Any tips or hints for making a successful party?

Invite us! "

Cheap flights to Glasgow lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've booked an apartment in the city so don't have the worry of having it at home. Hopefully we have a good mix of people however still waiting on people getting back to us too.

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

We attended our first party at the weekend, it was amazing, no games were played no real need.

spent 1-2 hours just talking with each other, then 1 of the couples decided to go upstairs to a room, after a bit another couple, then the rest kinda followed.

Keep an area for no play, as it can be a long night and sometimes people will just want to talk. ideally the living room where people can still have a seat.

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford


"Eeek! We have organised our first party for Saturday!!! Any tips or hints for making a successful party?

Invite us!

Cheap flights to Glasgow lol"

Looking now when is it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We attended our first party at the weekend, it was amazing, no games were played no real need.

spent 1-2 hours just talking with each other, then 1 of the couples decided to go upstairs to a room, after a bit another couple, then the rest kinda followed.

Keep an area for no play, as it can be a long night and sometimes people will just want to talk. ideally the living room where people can still have a seat."

Thanks for the advice

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

Silly me!! Saturday! Don't I feel stupid!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I went to my first house party on NYE it was great. Everyone was very friendly and met some great people. When talking to some of the couples they said they like just the right amount of singles there to couples.

The hosts made sure everyone was introduced properly which was good didn't feel like it was just down to you to go round doing the honours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep everything crossed all your guest turn up.

The crypt keeper -|-

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Keep everything crossed all your guest turn up.

The crypt keeper -|-"

Here's hoping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep everything crossed all your guest turn up.

The crypt keeper -|-

Here's hoping "
Sounds like you've gone to a lot of trouble to make this work.

Hope it goes well

The crypt keeper -|-

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Keep everything crossed all your guest turn up.

The crypt keeper -|-

Here's hoping Sounds like you've gone to a lot of trouble to make this work.

Hope it goes well

The crypt keeper -|-"

Not a lot of trouble, just hoping to make it a success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inform all confirmed guests of strict arrival times, as an example between 8 & 9.... If you leave the arrival time open to abuse you won't be able to relax! Be specific on play areas!

If you not planning on taking small bins then place carrier bags discretely in the rooms and for how much they cost buy a few packs of wipes to place in the play rooms.

Inform all guests on arrival what you done in preperation....

Hope the party is a successful one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh not long now! Nerves are setting in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh not long now! Nerves are setting in "

Hope it goes well. It's something we are looking into doing.will look forward to hearing how it went

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will be brilliant fun I am sure

We have been to a couple & they have always been awesome.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The big day is here!!!! Eeeekk!

Already having problems with couples not mailing us back etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The big day is here!!!! Eeeekk!

Already having problems with couples not mailing us back etc "

Don't panic yet - it's Saturday. they may be busy!

Unless of course they're logged on at the moment!

Good luck and hope you have fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The big day is here!!!! Eeeekk!

Already having problems with couples not mailing us back etc

Don't panic yet - it's Saturday. they may be busy!

Unless of course they're logged on at the moment!

Good luck and hope you have fun! "

Logged in and read the message lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The big day is here!!!! Eeeekk!

Already having problems with couples not mailing us back etc

Don't panic yet - it's Saturday. they may be busy!

Unless of course they're logged on at the moment!

Good luck and hope you have fun!

Logged in and read the message lol. "

Ah. Not too late for some last minute invites I'm sure!

Fingers crossed for you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Feel like were forgetting to do or organise something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feel like were forgetting to do or organise something "

I experienced my first party a little while back. They had troubles too I found out people commuting and not turning up. I found out I was the tenth one they invited and was the only one who turned up lol. Persistance ! If they don't turn up try others too and see what happens. If all else fails invite me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feel like were forgetting to do or organise something

I experienced my first party a little while back. They had troubles too I found out people commuting and not turning up. I found out I was the tenth one they invited and was the only one who turned up lol. Persistance ! If they don't turn up try others too and see what happens. If all else fails invite me "

Errrr that's committing

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