FabSwingers.com forum: WHY IS NOBODY INTERESTED?

By *aughtyyid69 OP Man
over a year ago

croydon

I really dont know what i am doing wrong! I am a 100% geniune ( and verified by webcam ) man. I am clean living and totally new to this scene, i am a good looking guy and i look after myself. So i am completely baffled aa to why 90% of my messages are getting ignored or when i do get a rare reply, its a one word answer and then hear nothing for days. Please help!! Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because this site is saturated with single guys, quit your moaning the women on here are real people and arent the fantasy you think they are and just want to fuck random people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says nothing and you have no pics, what do you expect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been here a week !!!

Give it time. It's not instant sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile says nothing and you have no pics, what do you expect?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because your thread title is in block capitals! I was gonna offer a quick hand job round the back of the shed but that put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have no pics available for people to see you, and the generic profile text might not excite anyone. Maybe a little more effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because this site is saturated with single guys, quit your moaning the women on here are real people and arent the fantasy you think they are and just want to fuck random people"

Welcome to the site

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Hun, you have a 2 line profile that says very little. All of your pics are hidden. There are 94,000 single guys on here. You aren't selling yourself. Your profile is hurting your chances of success. Look at the profiles of guys in the forum and see the difference on those who have had a lot of success.

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By *aughtyyid69 OP Man
over a year ago

croydon

i do have a profile pic!! and i have plenty more in my friends gallery. I am not looking for an instant fuck!! lol. Just some nice replies and some banter to start with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have no pics available for people to see you, and the generic profile text might not excite anyone. Maybe a little more effort

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Let me guess..... You heard swingers are all out having wild parties & group sex?

Well that's true

for lots of us but this site is a tool in swinging not insta shag.

Run off and joined your local swinging club yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really dont know what i am doing wrong! I am a 100% geniune ( and verified by webcam ) man. I am clean living and totally new to this scene, i am a good looking guy and i look after myself. So i am completely baffled aa to why 90% of my messages are getting ignored or when i do get a rare reply, its a one word answer and then hear nothing for days. Please help!! Thankyou"

I can see one big problem and one slightly smaller problem.

Big problem--- No picture, when someone gets a message or looks at profile, no picture on show they move onto the next, it takes 3 seconds..

Small problem --on a very short profile you mention clean twice, if someone was dirty you wouldn't say, I am dirty. people have high expectations to do with cleanliness so would be automatically expected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hear nothing for days?

You've been here a week.

It takes time. It's not instashag.

And there's as many words in this post as your profile!

Effort in = positive experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i do have a profile pic!! and i have plenty more in my friends gallery. I am not looking for an instant fuck!! lol. Just some nice replies and some banter to start with."

But your profile pic is just a thumbnail pic. You need to put SOME photos on your public profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because ppl have diff types. Stop giving single guys a bad name and spiting your dummy out just because you aint getting any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i do have a profile pic!! and i have plenty more in my friends gallery. I am not looking for an instant fuck!! lol. Just some nice replies and some banter to start with."

no you don't have a profile pic on view you have an avatar which is too small to be clear.

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By *aughtyyid69 OP Man
over a year ago

croydon

ok...i will put more pics on my public gallery and more words on my profile. Thanks for the info!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

You need to put a bit of effort in, if you want to be more successful. Pad your profile out with a bit more detail. Upload some public photos, and maybe review the content of the messages you are sending. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You probably need to re-assess your sense of expectation.

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By *ould be Tempted!Woman
over a year ago

southport

I think saying you are only after a female does limit the numbers that you could possibly meet.

Why not put couples as this would increase your chances a hundred fold.

Also, nice pic...but add more.

Have 4 or 5 and one showing your cock... as the feedback says it is good.

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By *aughtyyid69 OP Man
over a year ago

croydon

i hope everyone can see my pics now. I was a bit of a donut! i had my profile pic on friends only! my bad! i wasnt sure about cock pics, as although i know this is a swinging site...i thought alot of women dont respect guys with their cocks on display! but i will happily post it if thats what the public want! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You probably need to re-assess your sense of expectation. "

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Looking better, but work on your blurb. Why SHOULD someone choose you? What do you want? What do you offer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i hope everyone can see my pics now. I was a bit of a donut! i had my profile pic on friends only! my bad! i wasnt sure about cock pics, as although i know this is a swinging site...i thought alot of women dont respect guys with their cocks on display! but i will happily post it if thats what the public want! lol"

Great pics, they will help your cause x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pics are better.

profile really isnt, still says nothing that cant be said in a sentence

cant accomodate, at 31 there has to be a bloody good reason, otherwise most will suspect partner/wife stops you bringing people home, the cow!

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

All pics are the same

Who says ur good looking.leave that for ur verifications.

Nice Lady. .come on..who says that anymore.

Profile way to plain.

Hope this helps

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

A whole week and you are despondent already... Doesn't bode well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ratio is 400 men to 1 woman lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ratio is 400 men to 1 woman lol."

Gosh I best get some more condoms in, I'm going to be busy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ratio is 400 men to 1 woman lol.

Gosh I best get some more condoms in, I'm going to be busy

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Yes and I better put on a porno for tonight lol.

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Study MENS profiles, till you learn what looks good, and sounds great!

Then adjust your profile to suit.

You use the word "clean" in twice in rapid succession which is odd.

You cannot accommodate.

No face pic.

Keep polishing your profile, send out LOADS of messages......

Put in lots of effort.....

And you will succeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not all cock and balls mate

These are ladies treat them right and you'll get there in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best advice is visit clubs get to know other ppl in the swinging world.if your good at pleasuring others am sure you will get loads if interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop sobbing and crying and moaning .....if your impatient ....go back to the real world ....nothing is more annoying then "why aren't I getting meets " blah blah forum posts ...man up !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Putting posts up saying why doesn't anyone like me, whilst proclaiming you're good looking isn't gonna boost how attractive you appear in the eyes of the ladies

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