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My really really bad meet on Sat ! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sharing this with you guys so you can see any of us can have bad meets - despite a bunch of fantastic meets ) Lol

I met a guy aged about 28 on Sat night for drinks - when I got in his car I saw the guy was very good looking but had the personality and sexual attraction of a plank of wood ! No spark whatsoever - monotone voice going on about ex all the time and kid they had ! Tried for an hour to chat - he warmed up a bit " apparently" and started to smile - but all he kept doing was looking at watch - asking when we were going back to mine for sex and I kept saying it was too soon !! ( tbh I didnt fancy him as he was just so cold ) We had a couple of drinks then I bought a round ( who chose alcohol when it was my round !) and I popped to the loo - when I came back - he was no where to be seen !! he had fucked off and left me stranded in the pub !! Lol so I sat on my own in this packed bar with our drinks sitting there trying to act invisible till the OMG feeling of he's left me realisation came over!!! sooooo embarrassing in front of group of girls I had been talking to at the bar whilst waiting to be served and who had admired his good looks ! luckily these girls who saw it came up to me and invited me to stick with them and we went into OJs ( music bar ) next door and had a great time ! He's deleted Fab - whats app everything ! Total utter bastard lol x !

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By *estEndGentMan
over a year ago

London

Wow! What an absolute shithead. I'm sorry to hear that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh My God! What an absolute bellend!! :

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

He didn't deserve your time or energy anyway. It's probably best he did leave before you having to tell him to get lost at the end of the night. That could have been even more awkward for you.

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By *estEndGentMan
over a year ago

London

I was thinking of how you could get back at him but to be honest it doesn't sound like he's even worth the effort. Put it down as a bad experience and move on.

Then if he ever pops up on fab again......NAME AND SHAME!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sharing this with you guys so you can see any of us can have bad meets - despite a bunch of fantastic meets ) Lol

I met a guy aged about 28 on Sat night for drinks - when I got in his car I saw the guy was very good looking but had the personality and sexual attraction of a plank of wood ! No spark whatsoever - monotone voice going on about ex all the time and kid they had ! Tried for an hour to chat - he warmed up a bit " apparently" and started to smile - but all he kept doing was looking at watch - asking when we were going back to mine for sex and I kept saying it was too soon !! ( tbh I didnt fancy him as he was just so cold ) We had a couple of drinks then I bought a round ( who chose alcohol when it was my round !) and I popped to the loo - when I came back - he was no where to be seen !! he had fucked off and left me stranded in the pub !! Lol so I sat on my own in this packed bar with our drinks sitting there trying to act invisible till the OMG feeling of he's left me realisation came over!!! sooooo embarrassing in front of group of girls I had been talking to at the bar whilst waiting to be served and who had admired his good looks ! luckily these girls who saw it came up to me and invited me to stick with them and we went into OJs ( music bar ) next door and had a great time ! He's deleted Fab - whats app everything ! Total utter bastard lol x ! "

His Lost I say u got away just intime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lucky eascape seeing as you didn't fancy him anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His loss, you're a stunner misses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a similar experience a few years ago. Maybe it was past his bedtime and his mum was expecting him home lol. Totally his loss, tw*t!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think youve dodged a bullet.

you could ahve come off a LOT worse!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

That made me chuckle, but it sounds like you made a night out of it anyway. Good on those girls.

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By *PTO-YOUMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

He must have shot his load all over his jeans wen he saw you cause your one very sexy lady xx

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

Book yourself a nice break in the peak district to get over it. I know someone who's very reliable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(I... I just don't understand him!!)

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Hope you got home OK. What a meany!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He may have deleted whatsapp but his number should still work. Bell him and ask him WTF

sounds like he was on curfew, lol, so bell him around dinner time lol when he is sat with his wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think he sounded like he was very very unsure about the whole thing...not saying that what he did was right but doesnt make him a monster either, just sounds like someone who wasnt as up for it all as he thought he was. Obviously still hung up about his ex and child. Who knows what he's going through. Or maybe I'm just too nice?

Poor show on his part but ....glad you rescued your night and had a good time despite this happening to you, you must have felt awful. Hope you ended up having a brill night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably a hazard of meeting boys rather than men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol

That made me chuckle, but it sounds like you made a night out of it anyway. Good on those girls."

was gonna say, as bad as it sounds, in the cold light of day its quite funny to read lol

admittedly, would hate it to happen to either of us

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By *regboy49Man
over a year ago

Sandhurst

What a total tosser, glad you enjoyed the rest of the night next door. Definitely better off without him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a rotten sod but tbf you don't expect a lot of personality out of a twinky floppy haired ex boyband member do you? Especially since your just after a nsa meet.

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex


"He may have deleted whatsapp but his number should still work. Bell him and ask him WTF

sounds like he was on curfew, lol, so bell him around dinner time lol when he is sat with his wife "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im thinking his ex isn't an ex and they just fell out and with him deleting everything

Any way theres lots of us genuine SINGLE guys out here just waiting for you to say yes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find it funny..Not so much the bad meet coz your a Romford girl so i know you will laugh it off but all the Knights in Shining Armour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i find it funny..Not so much the bad meet coz your a Romford girl so i know you will laugh it off but all the Knights in Shining Armour "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sharing this with you guys so you can see any of us can have bad meets - despite a bunch of fantastic meets ) Lol

I met a guy aged about 28 on Sat night for drinks - when I got in his car I saw the guy was very good looking but had the personality and sexual attraction of a plank of wood ! No spark whatsoever - monotone voice going on about ex all the time and kid they had ! Tried for an hour to chat - he warmed up a bit " apparently" and started to smile - but all he kept doing was looking at watch - asking when we were going back to mine for sex and I kept saying it was too soon !! ( tbh I didnt fancy him as he was just so cold ) We had a couple of drinks then I bought a round ( who chose alcohol when it was my round !) and I popped to the loo - when I came back - he was no where to be seen !! he had fucked off and left me stranded in the pub !! Lol so I sat on my own in this packed bar with our drinks sitting there trying to act invisible till the OMG feeling of he's left me realisation came over!!! sooooo embarrassing in front of group of girls I had been talking to at the bar whilst waiting to be served and who had admired his good looks ! luckily these girls who saw it came up to me and invited me to stick with them and we went into OJs ( music bar ) next door and had a great time ! He's deleted Fab - whats app everything ! Total utter bastard lol x ! "

Thanks for sharing this trouble! Guess some guys just think a meet meens guaranteed sex. Says loads about your character you turned it in to a night out with the girls

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i find it funny..Not so much the bad meet coz your a Romford girl so i know you will laugh it off but all the Knights in Shining Armour "

Totally true !! Ive dined out loads on this story already ! Ha ha .... It is funny - thats why I posted it) .... Its not a winge - cheers for the fab boosting comments x

Yeah I reckon maybe married, nervous - I dunno - Ive got no need to get revenge - its just an occupational hazard of the dating game I guess ! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ere while ive got ya whats a Twink ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually sounds like you had quite a decent night, well rescued.

Clearly the guy was an arse.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Ere while ive got ya whats a Twink ?"

Young, boyish looking gay man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing devils advocate - of course the guy in question could have an entirely different story!

But I guess we'll never know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ere while ive got ya whats a Twink ?

Young, boyish looking gay man."

Ooo thats me then

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Playing devils advocate - of course the guy in question could have an entirely different story!

But I guess we'll never know! "

He oviously didn't think he was getting on with the OP either or he wouldn't have left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't meet a stranger in a car... Jeez.

Could have been nasty. Meet in.public.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Playing devils advocate - of course the guy in question could have an entirely different story!

But I guess we'll never know! "

Lol x yeah he may not have liked me and thats fair enough - its rare to get 100% from everyone ..... But even waiting till I came back and saying he wanted to go or even a text saying sorry I want to leave is probs the decent thing to do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol I dont need to fancy the girl to shag her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Playing devils advocate - of course the guy in question could have an entirely different story!

But I guess we'll never know!

He oviously didn't think he was getting on with the OP either or he wouldn't have left.

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Good job he's apparently left Fab too - doubt he'd be too impressed if he'd read this thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only one whos thinking why on earth did you get a lift in his car? I would never have put myself in that situation to be honest!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who knows...maybe someone at the bar spied his good looks n stole him........

or he came in his knickers when u went to the loo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God help the poor guy if he ever rejoins fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...Densol. Remember your motorway story. You should have had that as a back up plan lol

End of the day...at least you had a girlie night out.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

maybe he thought he was turning up to meet a 39 year old

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Playing devils advocate - of course the guy in question could have an entirely different story!

But I guess we'll never know!

He oviously didn't think he was getting on with the OP either or he wouldn't have left.

Good job he's apparently left Fab too - doubt he'd be too impressed if he'd read this thread! "

The only reason it is still on is because of that comment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...Densol. Remember your motorway story. You should have had that as a back up plan lol

End of the day...at least you had a girlie night out.

"

Oh ive missed out two further key bits of info that I should have mentioned

1. When I went to the loo first time and was a little while - he sent me a text asking did i want to go ... When I came back he said he thought I had done a runner ! I said I would never do that to anyone ! Lol

2. My back up plan ... In OJs I actually met a guy I had been chatting to on here later in the eve - so worked out ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg what a wally x so that was what ur updates were about,glad u had a good night after all with those girls,it is funny now but not at the time,shows u did good going to pub,no personality no sex

Hope u wernt too far from home,i was left at eureka hour and half from home in my early days of clubs,hence i drive to places meself now or my club buddy drives she would never leave me x

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By *r_Darcy40Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

Well some guys who think there all that have no personalities whats so ever. IM just an average conciderd looking guy but i know whats what and i would never leave a meet. Fair enough if no attraction is there say so during the meet, then part ways but you dont just leave em stranded. Alot of vain people on here and up their own arses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe he thought he was turning up to meet a 39 year old

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"maybe he thought he was turning up to meet a 39 year old

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Nah as my age is on my profile and I always tell guys as most dont believe it but thanks for the comment anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe he thought he was turning up to meet a 39 year old

Nah as my age is on my profile and I always tell guys as most dont believe it but thanks for the comment anyway"

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"maybe he thought he was turning up to meet a 39 year old

Nah as my age is on my profile and I always tell guys as most dont believe it but thanks for the comment anyway"

Why is it different to what it actually is then ? and we all know 90% of fab dont read a profile especially down to the bottom ;p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

although not the night you planned, not all bad

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By *stonMTMan
over a year ago

cleveland

Well he defo a mad one leaving a lovely lady like you,but by sounds of things bet you glad it went no further but its bad leaving a lady stranded.People should always be pleasent and polite even if its not going to happen,good manners cost nothing Andy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pity we can't get his side to the story. Oh well onwards and upwards, good job you had a backup meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys are just if not more crazy then girls! I was chatting to a guy for a few days and he was constantly messaging me, sending me pics and videos of him telling me how excited he was for us to meet!! So came to the big day and he text half an hour before we were due to meet and at this stage I had gone out as I assumed he was ignoring me earlier text. So we rescheduled for the next day, something came up, again the next day something came up, and then he just stopped messaging me! Fucking hell, men be men and just face up to it. If u are not interested just say, ur not all heartbreakers lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe he thought he was turning up to meet a 39 year old

Nah as my age is on my profile and I always tell guys as most dont believe it but thanks for the comment anyway"

I thought you were 39 till I read your profile. May I just say wow and he must have had a screw loose to walk out on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys are just if not more crazy then girls! I was chatting to a guy for a few days and he was constantly messaging me, sending me pics and videos of him telling me how excited he was for us to meet!! So came to the big day and he text half an hour before we were due to meet and at this stage I had gone out as I assumed he was ignoring me earlier text. So we rescheduled for the next day, something came up, again the next day something came up, and then he just stopped messaging me! Fucking hell, men be men and just face up to it. If u are not interested just say, ur not all heartbreakers lol! "

I ran outta credit ffs..calm doon!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oldest trick in the book to say a lady dont look her age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys are just if not more crazy then girls! I was chatting to a guy for a few days and he was constantly messaging me, sending me pics and videos of him telling me how excited he was for us to meet!! So came to the big day and he text half an hour before we were due to meet and at this stage I had gone out as I assumed he was ignoring me earlier text. So we rescheduled for the next day, something came up, again the next day something came up, and then he just stopped messaging me! Fucking hell, men be men and just face up to it. If u are not interested just say, ur not all heartbreakers lol!

I ran outta credit ffs..calm doon!! "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guys are just if not more crazy then girls! I was chatting to a guy for a few days and he was constantly messaging me, sending me pics and videos of him telling me how excited he was for us to meet!! So came to the big day and he text half an hour before we were due to meet and at this stage I had gone out as I assumed he was ignoring me earlier text. So we rescheduled for the next day, something came up, again the next day something came up, and then he just stopped messaging me! Fucking hell, men be men and just face up to it. If u are not interested just say, ur not all heartbreakers lol! "

Lol ! Oh no)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds to me like the lad wasn't truly over his ex and missing his child dreadfully, registered on here hoping to get over the split but wasn't ready at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He may have deleted whatsapp but his number should still work. Bell him and ask him WTF

sounds like he was on curfew, lol, so bell him around dinner time lol when he is sat with his wife

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sharing this with you guys so you can see any of us can have bad meets - despite a bunch of fantastic meets ) Lol

I met a guy aged about 28 on Sat night for drinks - when I got in his car I saw the guy was very good looking but had the personality and sexual attraction of a plank of wood ! No spark whatsoever - monotone voice going on about ex all the time and kid they had ! Tried for an hour to chat - he warmed up a bit " apparently" and started to smile - but all he kept doing was looking at watch - asking when we were going back to mine for sex and I kept saying it was too soon !! ( tbh I didnt fancy him as he was just so cold ) We had a couple of drinks then I bought a round ( who chose alcohol when it was my round !) and I popped to the loo - when I came back - he was no where to be seen !! he had fucked off and left me stranded in the pub !! Lol so I sat on my own in this packed bar with our drinks sitting there trying to act invisible till the OMG feeling of he's left me realisation came over!!! sooooo embarrassing in front of group of girls I had been talking to at the bar whilst waiting to be served and who had admired his good looks ! luckily these girls who saw it came up to me and invited me to stick with them and we went into OJs ( music bar ) next door and had a great time ! He's deleted Fab - whats app everything ! Total utter bastard lol x ! "

He didn't happen to disappear around midnight did he ......was there a glass slipper left beside the table ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He turned up then made his escape for whatever reason... The poor sod has been pretty much vilified on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds to me like the lad wasn't truly over his ex and missing his child dreadfully, registered on here hoping to get over the split but wasn't ready at all"

I'd totally agree about him obviously not being over his ex. However he could have handled his departure in a better way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds to me like the lad wasn't truly over his ex and missing his child dreadfully, registered on here hoping to get over the split but wasn't ready at all

I'd totally agree about him obviously not being over his ex. However he could have handled his departure in a better way. "

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aaaaah......... so there's hope for us fat ugly blokes with nice personalities yet then on this website ?!

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By *yph00nMan
over a year ago

hagley

Totally agree with all the other posts... And your thoughts. Totally dick. Unfortunately, these kinda guys on here give all is single genuine men a bad name.

In my opinion, he was a fool to run away as your beautiful...!

But as you said you wernt all that keen anyway!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Guys are just if not more crazy then girls! I was chatting to a guy for a few days and he was constantly messaging me, sending me pics and videos of him telling me how excited he was for us to meet!! So came to the big day and he text half an hour before we were due to meet and at this stage I had gone out as I assumed he was ignoring me earlier text. So we rescheduled for the next day, something came up, again the next day something came up, and then he just stopped messaging me! Fucking hell, men be men and just face up to it. If u are not interested just say, ur not all heartbreakers lol! "

He wouldn't have got a second chance with me let alone a third.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He turned up then made his escape for whatever reason... The poor sod has been pretty much vilified on this thread."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes this guy could have told the OP that he wasn't interested but that would have probably meant a further discussion - lets face it, its easier to just get up and go and not have to face any uncomfortable questioning.

It is a shame that he provided the OP with transport and obviously left without her. Just ensure that you have back up plans to get home etc in future as strangers may not feel they are obligated in any way.

He didn't want to have sex with you and you've said you weren't keen either so no harm has been done, he just left that's all.

As a sidenote OP why do you state 39 years at the top of the profile and then stick your real age of 48 at the bottom of a very long text.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"He didn't happen to disappear around midnight did he ......was there a glass slipper left beside the table .... "

Or a pumpkin

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I see the white knights are out in force.

Not everyone on site is mentally ready to embark on a nsa adventure, that's why I never met those recently separated, divorced, widowed: we learn from experience. When I was meeting I always had a social meet first, no pressure.

That said, I've had someone run out on me. We met, had a lovely social meet, he kept adjusting himself as he had a hardon. We arranged a play meet and he turned up on time.

We got down to play but his cock didn't get home hard: he was mortified, bless him and I was running out of ideas...and patience. I thought I'd give him a moment to compose himself and pretended to need the loo. Next thing I hear is footsteps down the stairs. I open the door to see him running down the stairs getting dressed as he went. He hardly broke stride running and putting on his shoes.

I found it funny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Playing devils advocate - of course the guy in question could have an entirely different story!

But I guess we'll never know! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes this guy could have told the OP that he wasn't interested but that would have probably meant a further discussion - lets face it, its easier to just get up and go and not have to face any uncomfortable questioning.

It is a shame that he provided the OP with transport and obviously left without her. Just ensure that you have back up plans to get home etc in future as strangers may not feel they are obligated in any way.

He didn't want to have sex with you and you've said you weren't keen either so no harm has been done, he just left that's all.

As a sidenote OP why do you state 39 years at the top of the profile and then stick your real age of 48 at the bottom of a very long text."

Sounds like someone needs to act her age and not her shoe size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sharing this with you guys so you can see any of us can have bad meets - despite a bunch of fantastic meets ) Lol

I met a guy aged about 28 on Sat night for drinks - when I got in his car I saw the guy was very good looking but had the personality and sexual attraction of a plank of wood ! No spark whatsoever - monotone voice going on about ex all the time and kid they had ! Tried for an hour to chat - he warmed up a bit " apparently" and started to smile - but all he kept doing was looking at watch - asking when we were going back to mine for sex and I kept saying it was too soon !! ( tbh I didnt fancy him as he was just so cold ) We had a couple of drinks then I bought a round ( who chose alcohol when it was my round !) and I popped to the loo - when I came back - he was no where to be seen !! he had fucked off and left me stranded in the pub !! Lol so I sat on my own in this packed bar with our drinks sitting there trying to act invisible till the OMG feeling of he's left me realisation came over!!! sooooo embarrassing in front of group of girls I had been talking to at the bar whilst waiting to be served and who had admired his good looks ! luckily these girls who saw it came up to me and invited me to stick with them and we went into OJs ( music bar ) next door and had a great time ! He's deleted Fab - whats app everything ! Total utter bastard lol x ! "

MARRIED! Had to get home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His loss. Your stunning!

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Great story.........meets can be hell or heaven. Rarely average.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oldest trick in the book to say a lady dont look her age "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perhaps he just nipped out for some milk , or took the dog for a walk ??

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By *stwo80Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Look at it positively, saved you the taxi fare in and so long as you got home safely and you enjoyed the night out with the girls its mr spineless that lost out .

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By *stwo80Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sharing this with you guys so you can see any of us can have bad meets - despite a bunch of fantastic meets ) Lol

I met a guy aged about 28 on Sat night for drinks - when I got in his car I saw the guy was very good looking but had the personality and sexual attraction of a plank of wood ! No spark whatsoever - monotone voice going on about ex all the time and kid they had ! Tried for an hour to chat - he warmed up a bit " apparently" and started to smile - but all he kept doing was looking at watch - asking when we were going back to mine for sex and I kept saying it was too soon !! ( tbh I didnt fancy him as he was just so cold ) We had a couple of drinks then I bought a round ( who chose alcohol when it was my round !) and I popped to the loo - when I came back - he was no where to be seen !! he had fucked off and left me stranded in the pub !! Lol so I sat on my own in this packed bar with our drinks sitting there trying to act invisible till the OMG feeling of he's left me realisation came over!!! sooooo embarrassing in front of group of girls I had been talking to at the bar whilst waiting to be served and who had admired his good looks ! luckily these girls who saw it came up to me and invited me to stick with them and we went into OJs ( music bar ) next door and had a great time ! He's deleted Fab - whats app everything ! Total utter bastard lol x ! "

Perhaps he didn't fancy you

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over a year ago


"Sharing this with you guys so you can see any of us can have bad meets - despite a bunch of fantastic meets ) Lol

I met a guy aged about 28 on Sat night for drinks - when I got in his car I saw the guy was very good looking but had the personality and sexual attraction of a plank of wood ! No spark whatsoever - monotone voice going on about ex all the time and kid they had ! Tried for an hour to chat - he warmed up a bit " apparently" and started to smile - but all he kept doing was looking at watch - asking when we were going back to mine for sex and I kept saying it was too soon !! ( tbh I didnt fancy him as he was just so cold ) We had a couple of drinks then I bought a round ( who chose alcohol when it was my round !) and I popped to the loo - when I came back - he was no where to be seen !! he had fucked off and left me stranded in the pub !! Lol so I sat on my own in this packed bar with our drinks sitting there trying to act invisible till the OMG feeling of he's left me realisation came over!!! sooooo embarrassing in front of group of girls I had been talking to at the bar whilst waiting to be served and who had admired his good looks ! luckily these girls who saw it came up to me and invited me to stick with them and we went into OJs ( music bar ) next door and had a great time ! He's deleted Fab - whats app everything ! Total utter bastard lol x !

Perhaps he didn't fancy you "

That's what I thought,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sharing this with you guys so you can see any of us can have bad meets - despite a bunch of fantastic meets ) Lol

I met a guy aged about 28 on Sat night for drinks - when I got in his car I saw the guy was very good looking but had the personality and sexual attraction of a plank of wood ! No spark whatsoever - monotone voice going on about ex all the time and kid they had ! Tried for an hour to chat - he warmed up a bit " apparently" and started to smile - but all he kept doing was looking at watch - asking when we were going back to mine for sex and I kept saying it was too soon !! ( tbh I didnt fancy him as he was just so cold ) We had a couple of drinks then I bought a round ( who chose alcohol when it was my round !) and I popped to the loo - when I came back - he was no where to be seen !! he had fucked off and left me stranded in the pub !! Lol so I sat on my own in this packed bar with our drinks sitting there trying to act invisible till the OMG feeling of he's left me realisation came over!!! sooooo embarrassing in front of group of girls I had been talking to at the bar whilst waiting to be served and who had admired his good looks ! luckily these girls who saw it came up to me and invited me to stick with them and we went into OJs ( music bar ) next door and had a great time ! He's deleted Fab - whats app everything ! Total utter bastard lol x !

Perhaps he didn't fancy you

That's what I thought, "

Whaaaaat?.

I guess it's a bit rubbish when it's not all in one parties favour...no need to share this aborted meet, I'm sure there will be more to massage the mortally wounded ego.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like he just wanted a shoulder to cry on, a cuddle and maybe a little more.Seperations are difficult..."I wonder if he left his ex and baby the same way....

Sounds like a troubled young guy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You live and lean .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps it wasn't working for him either and he just didn't have the balls to be up front that he wasn't attracted. Odd way of doing it but I guess you won't get a clearer message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol quality.

It all adds to the life experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He wouldn't have got a second chance with me let alone a third."

Believe me I feel like a fool. He seemed so genuine! And everything he said checked out! And it was really him cos he was sending me videos of him and saying me name in it etc. felt very foolish and annoyed lol! Dick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people can be very convincing. My first ever meet (well, non meet!) nearly 4 years ago was very convincing, chatted on the phone, had e-mail and seemed totally genuine so booked a hotel room. He said was totally up for it, so came the day to meet. We spoke that morning and I said please let me know if you can't make it so I can get a refund, I won't be at all offended but no, he was adamant he was up for it. Cut a long story short, no showed, me all horny waiting in a hotel room for him. Maybe my offer to open the door in stockings and suspenders and drop to my knees to suck his cock was a little forward?! Or maybe he was just a total twat lol.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

cant help but think that if the OP had been a male and showing the same lack of discretion about a meet then they would have been slaughtered..

if the story is true that is..

double standards seems to be the norm with some..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only person who gets annoyed when gender is brought into it?

To be fair, yes the OP has had nauseating white knights in her thread, but she's also had the opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cant help but think that if the OP had been a male and showing the same lack of discretion about a meet then they would have been slaughtered..

if the story is true that is..

double standards seems to be the norm with some..

I think this is a very fair comment from what I've seen on the forums .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh my !! Admin kindly sent me a link to change my age which I have ! To say I've since received a load of messages from exceptionally gorgeous young guys is an understatement ) so worth posting this thread !! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a complete cock he is! No wonder blokes get a bad name!

Apologise on behalf our all decent men out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my !! Admin kindly sent me a link to change my age which I have ! To say I've since received a load of messages from exceptionally gorgeous young guys is an understatement ) so worth posting this thread !! Lol x "

Lets just hope you can keep them there next time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh my !! Admin kindly sent me a link to change my age which I have ! To say I've since received a load of messages from exceptionally gorgeous young guys is an understatement ) so worth posting this thread !! Lol x

Lets just hope you can keep them there next time "

Ive got 60 odd very happy veri's sweetie so there is a sporting chance I will

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over a year ago


"cant help but think that if the OP had been a male and showing the same lack of discretion about a meet then they would have been slaughtered..

if the story is true that is..

double standards seems to be the norm with some..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my !! Admin kindly sent me a link to change my age which I have ! To say I've since received a load of messages from exceptionally gorgeous young guys is an understatement ) so worth posting this thread !! Lol x

Lets just hope you can keep them there next time

Ive got 60 odd very happy veri's sweetie so there is a sporting chance I will "

like how your quick to put up a thread knocking a guy that cant defend hinself but as soon as someone gives you advice about lying about your age lol you get all defensive..if you cant take it dont give it hunnie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was expecting a side splitting yarn,some people are easily amused I guess. All I see is a cougar getting abandoned for whatever reason,hilarious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh my !! Admin kindly sent me a link to change my age which I have ! To say I've since received a load of messages from exceptionally gorgeous young guys is an understatement ) so worth posting this thread !! Lol x

Lets just hope you can keep them there next time

Ive got 60 odd very happy veri's sweetie so there is a sporting chance I will

like how your quick to put up a thread knocking a guy that cant defend hinself but as soon as someone gives you advice about lying about your age lol you get all defensive..if you cant take it dont give it hunnie "

Defensive ? Moi ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my !! Admin kindly sent me a link to change my age which I have ! To say I've since received a load of messages from exceptionally gorgeous young guys is an understatement ) so worth posting this thread !! Lol x

Lets just hope you can keep them there next time

Ive got 60 odd very happy veri's sweetie so there is a sporting chance I will

like how your quick to put up a thread knocking a guy that cant defend hinself but as soon as someone gives you advice about lying about your age lol you get all defensive..if you cant take it dont give it hunnie

Defensive ? Moi ? "

I guess it was just another look at me thread that single guys get abuse for. Well done wouldnt think you need it with all the attention you get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sharing this with you guys so you can see any of us can have bad meets - despite a bunch of fantastic meets ) Lol

I met a guy aged about 28 on Sat night for drinks - when I got in his car I saw the guy was very good looking but had the personality and sexual attraction of a plank of wood ! No spark whatsoever - monotone voice going on about ex all the time and kid they had ! Tried for an hour to chat - he warmed up a bit " apparently" and started to smile - but all he kept doing was looking at watch - asking when we were going back to mine for sex and I kept saying it was too soon !! ( tbh I didnt fancy him as he was just so cold ) We had a couple of drinks then I bought a round ( who chose alcohol when it was my round !) and I popped to the loo - when I came back - he was no where to be seen !! he had fucked off and left me stranded in the pub !! Lol so I sat on my own in this packed bar with our drinks sitting there trying to act invisible till the OMG feeling of he's left me realisation came over!!! sooooo embarrassing in front of group of girls I had been talking to at the bar whilst waiting to be served and who had admired his good looks ! luckily these girls who saw it came up to me and invited me to stick with them and we went into OJs ( music bar ) next door and had a great time ! He's deleted Fab - whats app everything ! Total utter bastard lol x ! "

wow!!!! the guy wasnt just cold and dull!!! must of been blind and stupid too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe he left you there ! What an absolute shit !! Even if you decide not to go any further have the bloody decency to see the lady home safe. Some people are seriously shocking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The puddle of male drool just slid off my laptop. Pete sake, guys...

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"He wouldn't have got a second chance with me let alone a third.

Believe me I feel like a fool. He seemed so genuine! And everything he said checked out! And it was really him cos he was sending me videos of him and saying me name in it etc. felt very foolish and annoyed lol! Dick! "

I learnt a long time ago that the only genuine ones are those who deliver the goods. That's why it is clear on my profile that I give no second chances. They may seem genuine and have a plausible excuse but one chance is all they get. It works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he was just really shattered after reading your profile.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And 'round 2' of the 'OMG!! I'd never do that. His loss' posts begins!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wondering....

you took ages going to the toilet the 1st time,so much so he sent you a text asking if you'd gone.

maybe the 2nd time you disappeared he thought you were doing a runner and so he got up and left.

I'm not saying he was right to do so but no rational together person leaves someone stranded ~ I feel kinda sorry for him he obviously wasn't ready.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shall we have a game of scrabble, Obi?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh my !! Admin kindly sent me a link to change my age which I have ! To say I've since received a load of messages from exceptionally gorgeous young guys is an understatement ) so worth posting this thread !! Lol x

Lets just hope you can keep them there next time

Ive got 60 odd very happy veri's sweetie so there is a sporting chance I will

like how your quick to put up a thread knocking a guy that cant defend hinself but as soon as someone gives you advice about lying about your age lol you get all defensive..if you cant take it dont give it hunnie

Defensive ? Moi ?

I guess it was just another look at me thread that single guys get abuse for. Well done wouldnt think you need it with all the attention you get "

It wasnt a look at me thread - I thought it was posted in a light hearted manner telling what happened and not a winge - maybe I should have realised some on here would turn on me as often happens on these forums - such a shame really

Thanks though to all those for your sympathetic and boosting posts much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sharing this with you guys so you can see any of us can have bad meets - despite a bunch of fantastic meets ) Lol

I met a guy aged about 28 on Sat night for drinks - when I got in his car I saw the guy was very good looking but had the personality and sexual attraction of a plank of wood ! No spark whatsoever - monotone voice going on about ex all the time and kid they had ! Tried for an hour to chat - he warmed up a bit " apparently" and started to smile - but all he kept doing was looking at watch - asking when we were going back to mine for sex and I kept saying it was too soon !! ( tbh I didnt fancy him as he was just so cold ) We had a couple of drinks then I bought a round ( who chose alcohol when it was my round !) and I popped to the loo - when I came back - he was no where to be seen !! he had fucked off and left me stranded in the pub !! Lol so I sat on my own in this packed bar with our drinks sitting there trying to act invisible till the OMG feeling of he's left me realisation came over!!! sooooo embarrassing in front of group of girls I had been talking to at the bar whilst waiting to be served and who had admired his good looks ! luckily these girls who saw it came up to me and invited me to stick with them and we went into OJs ( music bar ) next door and had a great time ! He's deleted Fab - whats app everything ! Total utter bastard lol x ! "
We've actually met this gorgeous woman and in both looks and personality it's definitely HIS loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And 'round 2' of the 'OMG!! I'd never do that. His loss' posts begins!! "

Oh I've never noticed that little face before!

I'm going to try it out

Cool!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shall we have a game of scrabble, Obi? "

Make in jenga and I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my !! Admin kindly sent me a link to change my age which I have ! To say I've since received a load of messages from exceptionally gorgeous young guys is an understatement ) so worth posting this thread !! Lol x

Lets just hope you can keep them there next time

Ive got 60 odd very happy veri's sweetie so there is a sporting chance I will

like how your quick to put up a thread knocking a guy that cant defend hinself but as soon as someone gives you advice about lying about your age lol you get all defensive..if you cant take it dont give it hunnie

Defensive ? Moi ?

I guess it was just another look at me thread that single guys get abuse for. Well done wouldnt think you need it with all the attention you get

It wasnt a look at me thread - I thought it was posted in a light hearted manner telling what happened and not a winge - maybe I should have realised some on here would turn on me as often happens on these forums - such a shame really

Thanks though to all those for your sympathetic and boosting posts much appreciated "

There's always two sides to any 'story'!

We've heard one.

The guy in question if he was still on site may have told a totally different version.

But then as the OP is no different really to naming and shaming (without the naming!) - the thread would have been pulled pretty sharpish.

I guess 'discretion' goes out the window at times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shall we have a game of scrabble, Obi?

Make in jenga and I'm in "

Oooh i love Jenga!! I have it out in front of me right now...the kids haven't tidied up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is 'sharpish' allowed with scrabble?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my !! Admin kindly sent me a link to change my age which I have ! To say I've since received a load of messages from exceptionally gorgeous young guys is an understatement ) so worth posting this thread !! Lol x

Lets just hope you can keep them there next time

Ive got 60 odd very happy veri's sweetie so there is a sporting chance I will

like how your quick to put up a thread knocking a guy that cant defend hinself but as soon as someone gives you advice about lying about your age lol you get all defensive..if you cant take it dont give it hunnie

Defensive ? Moi ?

I guess it was just another look at me thread that single guys get abuse for. Well done wouldnt think you need it with all the attention you get

It wasnt a look at me thread - I thought it was posted in a light hearted manner telling what happened and not a winge - maybe I should have realised some on here would turn on me as often happens on these forums - such a shame really

Thanks though to all those for your sympathetic and boosting posts much appreciated

There's always two sides to any 'story'!

We've heard one.

The guy in question if he was still on site may have told a totally different version.

But then as the OP is no different really to naming and shaming (without the naming!) - the thread would have been pulled pretty sharpish.

I guess 'discretion' goes out the window at times! "

If this was a single guy rant admin would have stopped it straight away. How do they know the guy aint on here anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some may turn on you but i think what is stomach churning is the men metaphorically sticking their tongue down your bum crack when they would not have a cat in hells chance real world.

Not a pop at you. A pop at falseness.

Strap a pair on guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know why he left you he was intimated by your good looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a Ba****d

Glad you had a good time in the end.

If it makes you feel any better...

I don't even get that far

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"

If this was a single guy rant admin would have stopped it straight away. How do they know the guy aint on here anymore"

Only the OP would know but I am guessing if a mod had pulled it there would have been many people who would complain at that as it was pointed out he wasn't on the site anymore.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I think this has run it's course now anyway.

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